5 Signs It's Silent Abuse, Not Just Incompatibility
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Date: 2024-04-24
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seemugurjar0419
I'm in relationship since 3 yrs and after 6 months of my relation there was a change in his behaviour like whenever I really tried to reach him out but he just ignore ( I was in hostel though ) when I completed my high studies and came to home I messeged him and he was like ohh u came back, I missed u so much and all after that he started ignoring me and when I tried to find out I told my bestie to ask him that what happened ( I told my bestie cuz i have no social media and I just use yt. ) I don't know but he told my bestie that he can't talk with me more than 15 min in a day and then I agreed on this. but after all these he just stop to talking with me. And he just messaged me once in a week hardly . I don't know he does nothing all day. There is nothing like that he is busy or doing some imp work. But whenever he talk with me he just feel sorry and bombard so much love and affection that I always forgive him
I'm really mentally destroyed. i told him many times but he just like ignoring. plz suggest me what should I do
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I'm in relationship since 3 yrs and after 6 months of my relation there was a change in his behaviour like whenever I really tried to reach him out but he just ignore ( I was in hostel though ) when I completed my high studies and came to home I messeged him and he was like ohh u came back, I missed u so much and all after that he started ignoring me and when I tried to find out I told my bestie to ask him that what happened ( I told my bestie cuz i have no social media and I just use yt. ) I don't know but he told my bestie that he can't talk with me more than 15 min in a day and then I agreed on this. but after all these he just stop to talking with me. And he just messaged me once in a week hardly . I don't know he does nothing all day. There is nothing like that he is busy or doing some imp work. But whenever he talk with me he just feel sorry and bombard so much love and affection that I always forgive him
I'm really mentally destroyed. i told him many times but he just like ignoring. plz suggest me what should I do
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seemugurjar0419
I'm in relationship since 3 yrs and after 6 months of my relation there was a change in his behaviour like whenever I really tried to reach him out but he just ignore ( I was in hostel though ) when I completed my high studies and came to home I messeged him and he was like ohh u came back, I missed u so much and all after that he started ignoring me and when I tried to find out I told my bestie to ask him that what happened ( I told my bestie cuz i have no social media and I just use yt. ) I don't know but he told my bestie that he can't talk with me more than 15 min in a day and then I agreed on this. but after all these he just stop to talking with me. And he just messaged me once in a week hardly . I don't know he does nothing all day. There is nothing like that he is busy or doing some imp work. But whenever he talk with me he just feel sorry and bombard so much love and affection that I always forgive him
I'm really mentally destroyed. i told him many times but he just like ignoring. plz suggest me what should I do
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I'm in relationship since 3 yrs and after 6 months of my relation there was a change in his behaviour like whenever I really tried to reach him out but he just ignore ( I was in hostel though ) when I completed my high studies and came to home I messeged him and he was like ohh u came back, I missed u so much and all after that he started ignoring me and when I tried to find out I told my bestie to ask him that what happened ( I told my bestie cuz i have no social media and I just use yt. ) I don't know but he told my bestie that he can't talk with me more than 15 min in a day and then I agreed on this. but after all these he just stop to talking with me. And he just messaged me once in a week hardly . I don't know he does nothing all day. There is nothing like that he is busy or doing some imp work. But whenever he talk with me he just feel sorry and bombard so much love and affection that I always forgive him
I'm really mentally destroyed. i told him many times but he just like ignoring. plz suggest me what should I do
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Kodibobodi
As someone who is now realizing why some people have taken up so much space in my mind, I think I understand why now. They have taken these actions and I’ve been feeling it for a while but every time I discuss it with either of them, it’s brushed off. I said that I might finally quit replying to one of them, and was told you’re reading too far into it, it’s not that deep and ofc I agreed. I thought I was overthinking and I wondered why seeing them out anywhere I was scared me so much, and why I felt so ignored. I don’t need their attention, but I don’t wanna live in fear. I don’t want to leave because of the issues I think it would cause, but I’m clearly not valued to begin with. Idk maybe I just thought too hard on this video
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As someone who is now realizing why some people have taken up so much space in my mind, I think I understand why now. They have taken these actions and I’ve been feeling it for a while but every time I discuss it with either of them, it’s brushed off. I said that I might finally quit replying to one of them, and was told you’re reading too far into it, it’s not that deep and ofc I agreed. I thought I was overthinking and I wondered why seeing them out anywhere I was scared me so much, and why I felt so ignored. I don’t need their attention, but I don’t wanna live in fear. I don’t want to leave because of the issues I think it would cause, but I’m clearly not valued to begin with. Idk maybe I just thought too hard on this video
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aaravkumar6108
Can anyone help me like please or suggest me something
Few months ago I was at my relatives house and it was pretty ok but after sometime a strange feeling in my head came and small pain my chest came and because of those things I'm like walking dead whenever I try to focus the pain comes out and I thought chest pain was normal but I noticed that whenever I was busy like playing soccer or talking to classmates it wouldn't hurt but as soon as I get alone or silence the pain starts again and for the past 2 years I've been alone like house, no friends etc but this never happened to me can anyone help me: )
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Can anyone help me like please or suggest me something
Few months ago I was at my relatives house and it was pretty ok but after sometime a strange feeling in my head came and small pain my chest came and because of those things I'm like walking dead whenever I try to focus the pain comes out and I thought chest pain was normal but I noticed that whenever I was busy like playing soccer or talking to classmates it wouldn't hurt but as soon as I get alone or silence the pain starts again and for the past 2 years I've been alone like house, no friends etc but this never happened to me can anyone help me: )
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Sageofhearts
This explains most of my grandmas behavior. I'm an autistic man that is having trouble finding work, and my grandma has been guilt tripping and shaming me every time I look like I'm making progress in my life. This can be pursuing my passion, getting a job, going on walks, working out, eating healthy, and almost everything I do. I've found out by now that she's a covert narcissist, and she has often tried to gaslight me in the past. Due to some loans, I'm stuck with no way out from living with her. It's rough, but I'm doing what I can to make it day by day.
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This explains most of my grandmas behavior. I'm an autistic man that is having trouble finding work, and my grandma has been guilt tripping and shaming me every time I look like I'm making progress in my life. This can be pursuing my passion, getting a job, going on walks, working out, eating healthy, and almost everything I do. I've found out by now that she's a covert narcissist, and she has often tried to gaslight me in the past. Due to some loans, I'm stuck with no way out from living with her. It's rough, but I'm doing what I can to make it day by day.
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luvqraft6024
Consider this: The language used to describe individuals with BPD can come across to sufferers as cold, detached, and uncaring. But the language is often reflective of individuals who have been hurt, manipulated, or controlled by someone with BPD.
To make matters worse, it is often easy to misinterpret the behaviors of those diagnosed with BPD which can lead to incorrect expectations within relationships causing miscommunication and frequent conflict.
So basically, bpd and bpd makes for an inherently difficult time.
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Consider this: The language used to describe individuals with BPD can come across to sufferers as cold, detached, and uncaring. But the language is often reflective of individuals who have been hurt, manipulated, or controlled by someone with BPD.
To make matters worse, it is often easy to misinterpret the behaviors of those diagnosed with BPD which can lead to incorrect expectations within relationships causing miscommunication and frequent conflict.
So basically, bpd and bpd makes for an inherently difficult time.
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peppapig3761
Divorced now thankfully. But my ex husband would silent abuse me while married. Told the doctor she said just ignore him do the same back. So I did for 14 days. He was not bothered about it. Try hat was 10 years ago. But there was also domestic. Silent abuse is and was so harmful it’s mental torture that never goes away. It’s what did I do what did I say all the whys but the abuser knows what they’re doing. They are narcissistic and cruel. Mental cruelty. NOW I SHALL WATCH THE VIDEO
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Divorced now thankfully. But my ex husband would silent abuse me while married. Told the doctor she said just ignore him do the same back. So I did for 14 days. He was not bothered about it. Try hat was 10 years ago. But there was also domestic. Silent abuse is and was so harmful it’s mental torture that never goes away. It’s what did I do what did I say all the whys but the abuser knows what they’re doing. They are narcissistic and cruel. Mental cruelty. NOW I SHALL WATCH THE VIDEO
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ryanricks318
.. .. Idfk if actual silence phenomenon is observable it's so unheard o wits the atmospheric conditionings as theys existence ugh bouts pulses fluctuations vibrations notes tones in the forest whom listening as lone tree felled sucha sensation tension dat err o mine eq skills issues in environment go unnoticed dat forestry furs sakes the trees shakes breeze bys crazy critter meh o ood idea generation tysm furs shares musings o whom gives a hoot nya sojourneys
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.. .. Idfk if actual silence phenomenon is observable it's so unheard o wits the atmospheric conditionings as theys existence ugh bouts pulses fluctuations vibrations notes tones in the forest whom listening as lone tree felled sucha sensation tension dat err o mine eq skills issues in environment go unnoticed dat forestry furs sakes the trees shakes breeze bys crazy critter meh o ood idea generation tysm furs shares musings o whom gives a hoot nya sojourneys
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mot2296
I think that my relationship did break down from mild incompatibilities to silent ignorance and either unintended abuse or unintended gas lighting
They got a job and are now just busy 24/7 cus they work in health care. I don't envy them and understand them. But I am getting ignored and put aside all the time.
It is not getting better, no matter what bordered I draw or which compromises I ask for. the relationship is practicly dead.
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I think that my relationship did break down from mild incompatibilities to silent ignorance and either unintended abuse or unintended gas lighting
They got a job and are now just busy 24/7 cus they work in health care. I don't envy them and understand them. But I am getting ignored and put aside all the time.
It is not getting better, no matter what bordered I draw or which compromises I ask for. the relationship is practicly dead.
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elaisalaisaag4344
And it happens in relationships that aren't necessarily couples or friendships
Like family for example.
Because this might be a way to describe me and ny mom's relationship. She's all into guilt-tripping and giving silent treatment whenever she sees fit, despite having talked a lot about it, she doesn't play her part to change the slightest.
I'm really so done trying to fix our broken plate.
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And it happens in relationships that aren't necessarily couples or friendships
Like family for example.
Because this might be a way to describe me and ny mom's relationship. She's all into guilt-tripping and giving silent treatment whenever she sees fit, despite having talked a lot about it, she doesn't play her part to change the slightest.
I'm really so done trying to fix our broken plate.
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tsnightmare7097
I am pretty sure many people don't relise when they hurt someone, and even if they hurt others.
i think since they saw it from others and it was fine for them then they think why wouldn't i be allowed to do that too I just think mental health and psychology should be thought in schools because then so many stuff i know now I could of avoided.
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I am pretty sure many people don't relise when they hurt someone, and even if they hurt others.
i think since they saw it from others and it was fine for them then they think why wouldn't i be allowed to do that too I just think mental health and psychology should be thought in schools because then so many stuff i know now I could of avoided.
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psych2go
My wife has been doing this stuff for years. I always figured it was part of the give and take of the relationship. I give everything I have, and she takes it and demands more. It's not a happy or prosperous life, but what can I do I'm stuck where I am untill sweet death comes to rumble with me one last time and releases me from my shell to the universe.
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My wife has been doing this stuff for years. I always figured it was part of the give and take of the relationship. I give everything I have, and she takes it and demands more. It's not a happy or prosperous life, but what can I do I'm stuck where I am untill sweet death comes to rumble with me one last time and releases me from my shell to the universe.
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psych2go
I used to like your previous videos since they were great! Although I really wish to have some more videos on Schizophrenia, OCD, Trauma-related issues - psychological explanations such as what to do if we've escaped them and now what Whether someone is becoming sadistic and what to do before completely loosing the mind.
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I used to like your previous videos since they were great! Although I really wish to have some more videos on Schizophrenia, OCD, Trauma-related issues - psychological explanations such as what to do if we've escaped them and now what Whether someone is becoming sadistic and what to do before completely loosing the mind.
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MorgueInTheVoid
If it's incompatibility, the breakup will be done with mutual understanding and little to no drama. If it's abuse, the breakup will be close to impossible because you will be made to feel like it's your fault that the two of you aren't compatible. You'll also be made to feel guilty for wanting to leave.
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If it's incompatibility, the breakup will be done with mutual understanding and little to no drama. If it's abuse, the breakup will be close to impossible because you will be made to feel like it's your fault that the two of you aren't compatible. You'll also be made to feel guilty for wanting to leave.
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luvqraft6024
My intense need for space from the world at times, combined with the vast quantity of info that I have to read and interpret, is often discerned to mean that I’m a callous asshole. Being anything but, at least the callous part, is an unfortunate part of my existence.
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My intense need for space from the world at times, combined with the vast quantity of info that I have to read and interpret, is often discerned to mean that I’m a callous asshole. Being anything but, at least the callous part, is an unfortunate part of my existence.
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A55a551n
Timestamps
1. Nature of behaviour 0: 51
2. Intent of the behaviour 1: 32
3. Emotional/psychological impact 2: 12
4. Recognising the issue 3: 00
5. Addressing the issue 3: 37
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late.
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Timestamps
1. Nature of behaviour 0: 51
2. Intent of the behaviour 1: 32
3. Emotional/psychological impact 2: 12
4. Recognising the issue 3: 00
5. Addressing the issue 3: 37
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late.
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pastarzzoto
Silent abuse is like going through a psychological minefield where you never knowing when the next explosion of self-doubt or anxiety might happen. It’s like the feeling where it’s the calm before the storm everytime.
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Silent abuse is like going through a psychological minefield where you never knowing when the next explosion of self-doubt or anxiety might happen. It’s like the feeling where it’s the calm before the storm everytime.
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psych2go
I have a question, how is it that your subjects uploaded are comveniently timed with the events of my life From depression, to dating, to. this. which just happened. Maybe it's coincidence but I swear it's not
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I have a question, how is it that your subjects uploaded are comveniently timed with the events of my life From depression, to dating, to. this. which just happened. Maybe it's coincidence but I swear it's not
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DiscordOfDave
I remember my ex and I had perfect compatibility at first. And then slowly I noticed she became somebody I didn’t recognize. I suspect the person I fell in love with never even existed.
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I remember my ex and I had perfect compatibility at first. And then slowly I noticed she became somebody I didn’t recognize. I suspect the person I fell in love with never even existed.
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H. EMPRESS
Time stamps
1. 0: 52 Nature of behaviour
2. 1: 33 Intent of behaviour
3. 2: 13 Emotional/ Psychological impact
4. 3: 02 Recognizing the issue
5. 3: 39 Addressing the issue
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Time stamps
1. 0: 52 Nature of behaviour
2. 1: 33 Intent of behaviour
3. 2: 13 Emotional/ Psychological impact
4. 3: 02 Recognizing the issue
5. 3: 39 Addressing the issue
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