When You Feel Like an Imposter. ( Dub Available)
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Date: 2024-10-15
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psych2go
Yeah, I'm definitely the perfectionist type. I don't acknowledge what accomplishments I have achived because I was frustrated that I didn't get a job after trying to find one for 5 years. My family tells me that I've accomplished so much and that getting a Bachelor's Degree in Accounting is really impressive. I'm not saying that getting a Bachelor's Degree in that field was easy, I know I had to work hard to get the 150 credits just to qualify for getting a Certified Public Accounting license, I just thought that no one cared that I got a Bachelor's Degree because all it seems like they care about is what job I have. If I answer that I don't have a job and that I never had one because I was busy with my studies, I thought they would say that there was something wrong with me since I didn't get a job out of college right away.
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Yeah, I'm definitely the perfectionist type. I don't acknowledge what accomplishments I have achived because I was frustrated that I didn't get a job after trying to find one for 5 years. My family tells me that I've accomplished so much and that getting a Bachelor's Degree in Accounting is really impressive. I'm not saying that getting a Bachelor's Degree in that field was easy, I know I had to work hard to get the 150 credits just to qualify for getting a Certified Public Accounting license, I just thought that no one cared that I got a Bachelor's Degree because all it seems like they care about is what job I have. If I answer that I don't have a job and that I never had one because I was busy with my studies, I thought they would say that there was something wrong with me since I didn't get a job out of college right away.
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rodrigokrek
Never felts so related to a video than this one. Ah yes the sensation of being somewhat a fraude ready to be discovered an have life turned upside down and to be a forever dumber than others, even with positive inputs from people, even helping people out, even getting scolded by a mentor who is a great friend that helped, and still helps, my career. It's like a ghost sitting on the shoulder ready to tell me how much of a failure i am. I try my best to keep it away but it always come back. Put that and anxiety together and and the fear os starting something new and fail kicks in. Still trying to overcome all of this.
PS: sorry for any gramatical errors, english is not my first language
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Never felts so related to a video than this one. Ah yes the sensation of being somewhat a fraude ready to be discovered an have life turned upside down and to be a forever dumber than others, even with positive inputs from people, even helping people out, even getting scolded by a mentor who is a great friend that helped, and still helps, my career. It's like a ghost sitting on the shoulder ready to tell me how much of a failure i am. I try my best to keep it away but it always come back. Put that and anxiety together and and the fear os starting something new and fail kicks in. Still trying to overcome all of this.
PS: sorry for any gramatical errors, english is not my first language
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mangalover7449
Do you know what is my situation
I mostly feel nothing for others
My grandparents died and i haven't shed any tears
First: when i was 5 i thought i was too clueless about death in that age so i didn't think it through
Now: 15 and i still haven't shed when someone pass in my family
Also when our family gets in an emotional talk, i dont feel anything even though they already crying so much that their cry is one full glass.
When im hurt someone and I didn't know it and when they ask why i did it or when the i saw damage i made, i was calm and i feel like it's nothing there's nothing to be worried about something like those
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Do you know what is my situation
I mostly feel nothing for others
My grandparents died and i haven't shed any tears
First: when i was 5 i thought i was too clueless about death in that age so i didn't think it through
Now: 15 and i still haven't shed when someone pass in my family
Also when our family gets in an emotional talk, i dont feel anything even though they already crying so much that their cry is one full glass.
When im hurt someone and I didn't know it and when they ask why i did it or when the i saw damage i made, i was calm and i feel like it's nothing there's nothing to be worried about something like those
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charlesjones9858
I think I may have the perfectionist, naturally gifted, and the soloist types of imposter syndrome. I’m always thinking I could do better in my artwork. I do have a natural talent for drawing and writing/storytelling, but I have a hard time getting back to these things. I hardly ever ask for help because when I tried asking for help before no one would either help me or they were too busy with their own things. I mean I would ask a store clerk or a customer service representative for something, but that’s only when I can’t find what I’m looking for.
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I think I may have the perfectionist, naturally gifted, and the soloist types of imposter syndrome. I’m always thinking I could do better in my artwork. I do have a natural talent for drawing and writing/storytelling, but I have a hard time getting back to these things. I hardly ever ask for help because when I tried asking for help before no one would either help me or they were too busy with their own things. I mean I would ask a store clerk or a customer service representative for something, but that’s only when I can’t find what I’m looking for.
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JasmineHaskins-q2y
Well I think that I really do have imposter syndrome. I always wanted to be perfect, successful, and just simply unstoppable in life. I keep beating myself up by taking scolding hot showers and letting the water run down my back, just to toughen myself up. Back then, when I was a kid, my family always push me to be the most successful person in the world. And now, I always feel like a failure in life in general. And yet I still feel like that right now. And I hated myself for that all the time. So thank you, Psych2Go. The video really hits home to me.
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Well I think that I really do have imposter syndrome. I always wanted to be perfect, successful, and just simply unstoppable in life. I keep beating myself up by taking scolding hot showers and letting the water run down my back, just to toughen myself up. Back then, when I was a kid, my family always push me to be the most successful person in the world. And now, I always feel like a failure in life in general. And yet I still feel like that right now. And I hated myself for that all the time. So thank you, Psych2Go. The video really hits home to me.
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le0sk5
What a timing! 3 months back until now I wanted to change jobs bc I feel like I'm not learning here as I used to, after doing 3 assesments I failed every single one of those and I feel horrible for failing those. Although they were objectively hard (meant for higher position than I am at the moment) I still feel like I can't find fit for a new job and wondering if I should know more by now.
Anyway wanted to share with you, I won't give up and thanks for the video!
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What a timing! 3 months back until now I wanted to change jobs bc I feel like I'm not learning here as I used to, after doing 3 assesments I failed every single one of those and I feel horrible for failing those. Although they were objectively hard (meant for higher position than I am at the moment) I still feel like I can't find fit for a new job and wondering if I should know more by now.
Anyway wanted to share with you, I won't give up and thanks for the video!
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damnablethief
I am a perfectionist when it comes to land surveying, like damn right that shot is tight. The thing is so many people couldn't fathom that I am intelligent enough to do this work, and they had alot to say qhen I started. It created alot of insecurity for me, to the point a friend even pointed out that I am struggling with imposter syndrome, because I can't believe I am intelligent enough to do this work.
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I am a perfectionist when it comes to land surveying, like damn right that shot is tight. The thing is so many people couldn't fathom that I am intelligent enough to do this work, and they had alot to say qhen I started. It created alot of insecurity for me, to the point a friend even pointed out that I am struggling with imposter syndrome, because I can't believe I am intelligent enough to do this work.
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kattikakes
I believe I fit in more than one of these categories. First, I am a perfectionist and I can rarely finish a project to my own standards of perfection. I also believe I fit into the category of soloist. This could possibly be brought on by being an only child. Either way, I’m not sure I feel like an imposter. I actually feel like a solo perfectionist.
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I believe I fit in more than one of these categories. First, I am a perfectionist and I can rarely finish a project to my own standards of perfection. I also believe I fit into the category of soloist. This could possibly be brought on by being an only child. Either way, I’m not sure I feel like an imposter. I actually feel like a solo perfectionist.
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tristanbolton3208
Imposter Syndrome: The imposter is you. : You might’ve wanted more than one thing. : So this victory doesn’t feel whole. : It is still a victory though. : Don’t call it anything else. : More importantly, what doesn’t make you feel whole In this victory
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Imposter Syndrome: The imposter is you. : You might’ve wanted more than one thing. : So this victory doesn’t feel whole. : It is still a victory though. : Don’t call it anything else. : More importantly, what doesn’t make you feel whole In this victory
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maxave7448
Is there a separate type of impostor syndrome where you feel like you don't deserve all the achievements and the progress you made because you got lucky in, for example, getting to know the right people who gave you opportunities you would have never had otherwise
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Is there a separate type of impostor syndrome where you feel like you don't deserve all the achievements and the progress you made because you got lucky in, for example, getting to know the right people who gave you opportunities you would have never had otherwise
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selcukalpdai5962
Yeah, yeah I guess, I have the perfectionist imposter syndrome. I always tried my best, but couldn't be able to be satisfied or happy. Thanks for the video. I realized, I actually feel like a fraud even though others don't say it directly to me.
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Yeah, yeah I guess, I have the perfectionist imposter syndrome. I always tried my best, but couldn't be able to be satisfied or happy. Thanks for the video. I realized, I actually feel like a fraud even though others don't say it directly to me.
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Asealiea
When you relate to 4 of the 5. _. Getting better with time but still hits me at time, I guess the people at work being super amazed at what I can/have done and super accepting of the things I can't/ don't know how to do really helps.
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When you relate to 4 of the 5. _. Getting better with time but still hits me at time, I guess the people at work being super amazed at what I can/have done and super accepting of the things I can't/ don't know how to do really helps.
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Peoplerweird
I feel like thanks to your videos (including this one) Ive found myself to be a soloist imposter and depressed, yet I feel I’m still too young to go to therapy to help with these. Thank you for this amazing information anyway.
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I feel like thanks to your videos (including this one) Ive found myself to be a soloist imposter and depressed, yet I feel I’m still too young to go to therapy to help with these. Thank you for this amazing information anyway.
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flamebrindger3984
I'm a little confused. How does someone pretending to be something else think they don't belong with their peers Isn't that contradictory to both statements Also, isn't that just an inferiority complex
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I'm a little confused. How does someone pretending to be something else think they don't belong with their peers Isn't that contradictory to both statements Also, isn't that just an inferiority complex
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erviatangerine5108
Probably the perfectionist, but I don't want my work to be perfect. I just want it to be good. But it's never good. No matter how I try, it's never good. It's a different shades of moderately bad.
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Probably the perfectionist, but I don't want my work to be perfect. I just want it to be good. But it's never good. No matter how I try, it's never good. It's a different shades of moderately bad.
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richardferrara
Sounds like the effect I get from most of my providers when presented with accountability. They lose track and stumble over their words. Bullt artist is a more accurate description.
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Sounds like the effect I get from most of my providers when presented with accountability. They lose track and stumble over their words. Bullt artist is a more accurate description.
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NarcSurvivor
Most people in this world are fake. They’re just wearing a mask. Going along with whatever is trending or popular. Anything to get themselves the attention that they do not deserve.
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Most people in this world are fake. They’re just wearing a mask. Going along with whatever is trending or popular. Anything to get themselves the attention that they do not deserve.
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Malaikamuskan-v5z
Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.
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Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.
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Nik0_07
The impostor syndrome, interesting. Luckily I'm not that person, I mean I don't feel about competing with people, I just want to get my own success
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The impostor syndrome, interesting. Luckily I'm not that person, I mean I don't feel about competing with people, I just want to get my own success
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camzanmez4445
Sometimes I resonate with the 3rd one when im at work, but im definitely the 4th one I thought the 4th one was just me being stubborn
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Sometimes I resonate with the 3rd one when im at work, but im definitely the 4th one I thought the 4th one was just me being stubborn
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