Self-Presentation. What is it?
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Rka
Well. My Problem is, that a lot of people in my school (for example my classmates) think that I am a shy and sad (someone says depressed) person. Also my family thinks that for example my father. That I am closed to other people. But that's not true. I just can't be the same person with my classmates who hurt me a lot, my parents who are always judging me and critizing me and with my friends who know who I really am, and like being with me. Others think that I am boring. My friends want to always be with me.
And. I just want to be the same person with the people around me as with my friends.
I hate being trapped inside my own comfort zone because I want to show the people around me, that I am worth something. I can't break out of my zone. That's my biggest problem.
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Well. My Problem is, that a lot of people in my school (for example my classmates) think that I am a shy and sad (someone says depressed) person. Also my family thinks that for example my father. That I am closed to other people. But that's not true. I just can't be the same person with my classmates who hurt me a lot, my parents who are always judging me and critizing me and with my friends who know who I really am, and like being with me. Others think that I am boring. My friends want to always be with me.
And. I just want to be the same person with the people around me as with my friends.
I hate being trapped inside my own comfort zone because I want to show the people around me, that I am worth something. I can't break out of my zone. That's my biggest problem.
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Some
My whole entire school is based on getting out of your comfort zone and its hard for me to do that and makes me have more anxiety as well with how I look so I'm always anxious and I don't get out till 4: 15 and their goal is to have everybody go to college but I have other plans to live my life in the future and I am also having divorce problems with my parents and my other school that I went to in elementary is like 3 years behind on the education system because it was more on the country side so I moved to the city and its hard for me to keep up in middle school honestly its frickin hell
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My whole entire school is based on getting out of your comfort zone and its hard for me to do that and makes me have more anxiety as well with how I look so I'm always anxious and I don't get out till 4: 15 and their goal is to have everybody go to college but I have other plans to live my life in the future and I am also having divorce problems with my parents and my other school that I went to in elementary is like 3 years behind on the education system because it was more on the country side so I moved to the city and its hard for me to keep up in middle school honestly its frickin hell
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Professor
What about when we present ourselves differently to different friends? I feel extremely comfortable around my friends, but I behave differently around each of them because they each have different relationships with me. For example, with one friend I might be very childish and with another I might be more solemn. I am comfortable with both, but my behaviours are different. (In case you might think I am not comfortable when I am solemn, I am comfortable enough around them to not need to express more emotion than I want to)
Can you go into the psychology behind that?
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What about when we present ourselves differently to different friends? I feel extremely comfortable around my friends, but I behave differently around each of them because they each have different relationships with me. For example, with one friend I might be very childish and with another I might be more solemn. I am comfortable with both, but my behaviours are different. (In case you might think I am not comfortable when I am solemn, I am comfortable enough around them to not need to express more emotion than I want to)
Can you go into the psychology behind that?
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Paulo
OMG This is so true. I always change my personality when in a crowded place OR interacting people as if I would act normal and be silent. Trying to be the one not to create a commotion or mess things up. Though I'm very shameful for hiding my true-self but I'm tired of people judging me. My anxiety is high I can't risk to be myself all the time. Being alone is hard, If I have my own special someone in my love life. Then with him there is no place I'd rather be
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OMG This is so true. I always change my personality when in a crowded place OR interacting people as if I would act normal and be silent. Trying to be the one not to create a commotion or mess things up. Though I'm very shameful for hiding my true-self but I'm tired of people judging me. My anxiety is high I can't risk to be myself all the time. Being alone is hard, If I have my own special someone in my love life. Then with him there is no place I'd rather be
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jack
I hate the comfort zone u cant live in the comfort zone but it is hard outside of it thats for sure
Im one of those people who doesn't really care what someone else thanks of me and if they have a problem with me or the way i am then its their problem not mine
Even being like this i still where many masks because I don't want people to see who I really am i don't think i will ever be able to show my true personality to the people I care about
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I hate the comfort zone u cant live in the comfort zone but it is hard outside of it thats for sure
Im one of those people who doesn't really care what someone else thanks of me and if they have a problem with me or the way i am then its their problem not mine
Even being like this i still where many masks because I don't want people to see who I really am i don't think i will ever be able to show my true personality to the people I care about
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chips
I will ebalm my job permanently in the lake of fire my company facility as well from budget cuts layoffs this will be a full and total complete embalming. So as the souls in the lake of fire suffer so will those who even have the thoughts of causing economic hardships. Funding will be secured increased for homeless services strengthen for our company I will permanently completely seal these words.
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I will ebalm my job permanently in the lake of fire my company facility as well from budget cuts layoffs this will be a full and total complete embalming. So as the souls in the lake of fire suffer so will those who even have the thoughts of causing economic hardships. Funding will be secured increased for homeless services strengthen for our company I will permanently completely seal these words.
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Psych2Go
Why do we behave differently when we are by ourselves vs when we are with other people? It has a lot to do with different comfort zones and our self presentation. Let us know what you think of these mini psychology lesson videos from us. Would you like to see more? Which topics do you want us to cover next? Free gift attached to previous video on introvert dating tips. Be sure to check it out.
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Why do we behave differently when we are by ourselves vs when we are with other people? It has a lot to do with different comfort zones and our self presentation. Let us know what you think of these mini psychology lesson videos from us. Would you like to see more? Which topics do you want us to cover next? Free gift attached to previous video on introvert dating tips. Be sure to check it out.
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um
So, i've got a question here:
I've noticed that, even at the simplest tasks, i seem to be not consistent.
Really, there were times i was even better than the best of the best at everything, then, like, a month after, even if i did that same thing everyday, it looked like i didn't even know what i was doing.
Do you guys have any idea of what it might be?
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So, i've got a question here:
I've noticed that, even at the simplest tasks, i seem to be not consistent.
Really, there were times i was even better than the best of the best at everything, then, like, a month after, even if i did that same thing everyday, it looked like i didn't even know what i was doing.
Do you guys have any idea of what it might be?
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RainbowOcean
I am fine out in public and smile and feel so happy. until I go home to my parents picking at how I act or what I look like I know they have good intentions. but it leaves me feeling gilt, anxiety, tired and other negative emotions. it is a negative atmosphere in my house when everyone is home. I have tried to speak up. but it was taken the wrong way.
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I am fine out in public and smile and feel so happy. until I go home to my parents picking at how I act or what I look like I know they have good intentions. but it leaves me feeling gilt, anxiety, tired and other negative emotions. it is a negative atmosphere in my house when everyone is home. I have tried to speak up. but it was taken the wrong way.
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Chrissy
So if someone tells you to get out of your comfort zone they're telling you that you should do things you don't want to do at the risk of getting embarrassed. Real nice.
I think that term should only be used when you want to do something but are uncertain so you can expand your comfort zone.
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So if someone tells you to get out of your comfort zone they're telling you that you should do things you don't want to do at the risk of getting embarrassed. Real nice.
I think that term should only be used when you want to do something but are uncertain so you can expand your comfort zone.
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Mango5484
i act weird and do what i want around my family because theyre stuck with me but in school with temporary people im scared to do stuff but it should be the opposite shouldnt it?
i feel like im not comfortable around anyone maybe sibling hmm i really am the backup backup backup friend
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i act weird and do what i want around my family because theyre stuck with me but in school with temporary people im scared to do stuff but it should be the opposite shouldnt it?
i feel like im not comfortable around anyone maybe sibling hmm i really am the backup backup backup friend
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Dorothea
Uhm, is it bad if I literally created myself another personality than I originally have, and I became the person only after everyone thought that it is who I really am?
Because
I'm really strategic.
And sometimes I feel like I'm an actual asshole for being like this.
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Uhm, is it bad if I literally created myself another personality than I originally have, and I became the person only after everyone thought that it is who I really am?
Because
I'm really strategic.
And sometimes I feel like I'm an actual asshole for being like this.
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Spartan
I noticed that when i talk to someone, i change myself a little bit in one way or another and/or behave differently than i usually would
Like how someone's brother can also be called someone's son, Although i think that may be something else, probably called false projecting.
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I noticed that when i talk to someone, i change myself a little bit in one way or another and/or behave differently than i usually would
Like how someone's brother can also be called someone's son, Although i think that may be something else, probably called false projecting.
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Fear
We care too much what other people think likely due to social cohesion and harmony being so important to early man who needed to cooperate and be in a group to survive. Being outcast was often a death sentence.
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We care too much what other people think likely due to social cohesion and harmony being so important to early man who needed to cooperate and be in a group to survive. Being outcast was often a death sentence.
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mattig89ch
What about when we're never truly comfortable? Or don't think we are? Btw, this announcers voice is incredible. Seriously, is he already a pro and just throwing in some of his free time?
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What about when we're never truly comfortable? Or don't think we are? Btw, this announcers voice is incredible. Seriously, is he already a pro and just throwing in some of his free time?
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Dreee2
the narrator's voice sometimes reminds me of cryaotic idk why. either way its very soothing and pleasant to listen to! and the illustrations are amazing as usual. Great video!
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the narrator's voice sometimes reminds me of cryaotic idk why. either way its very soothing and pleasant to listen to! and the illustrations are amazing as usual. Great video!
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Caso
This may sound strange. But my family is not in my familiarity zone. In fact, they are the polar opposite. I don't trust them at all and they make me really uncomfortable.
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This may sound strange. But my family is not in my familiarity zone. In fact, they are the polar opposite. I don't trust them at all and they make me really uncomfortable.
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jacksepticeye
my mom keeps walking in my room whenever she pleases, like, at least send a message or smth. Hpw do i make her understand that i dont like when she does that?
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my mom keeps walking in my room whenever she pleases, like, at least send a message or smth. Hpw do i make her understand that i dont like when she does that?
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Ceri
I wish I could just call this all garbage since literally the exact opposite happens where I am.
What kind of fcked up world I live in I don't even know anymore
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I wish I could just call this all garbage since literally the exact opposite happens where I am.
What kind of fcked up world I live in I don't even know anymore
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Danny
This video made me realize I'm not in my comfort zone even around my closest friends or family. I'm only truly comfortable when I'm completely alone in my room
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This video made me realize I'm not in my comfort zone even around my closest friends or family. I'm only truly comfortable when I'm completely alone in my room
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Ra
Someone told me that she sees me as a very serious person. Actually I'm childish and open with my friends and family and shy and reserved person with the others.
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Someone told me that she sees me as a very serious person. Actually I'm childish and open with my friends and family and shy and reserved person with the others.
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Redicent
I just realized I am always in my comfort zone lol.
I can stand in front of 30 people in a class and be loud and not afraid to make any mistakes heh
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I just realized I am always in my comfort zone lol.
I can stand in front of 30 people in a class and be loud and not afraid to make any mistakes heh
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LeonSnake
Im actually. becoming just as weird in public as in private
H a
Just I dont talk when Im alone cuz I aint crazeh
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Im actually. becoming just as weird in public as in private
H a
Just I dont talk when Im alone cuz I aint crazeh
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the
I honestly don't give a damn how others perceive me. You get one life, so don't let it be dictated by other's opinions.
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I honestly don't give a damn how others perceive me. You get one life, so don't let it be dictated by other's opinions.
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knight
these animations are so addicting to watch and your topics are so well presented: ) thanks for another great video.
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these animations are so addicting to watch and your topics are so well presented: ) thanks for another great video.
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