10 Ways to Deal with Unrequited Love
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Tom
I met a girl at my first job. She's my teammate. This is our both first job. She's kinda boyish, but she's so uniquely beautiful in her own way, and I find that really cool. I see her everyday, and we always ate together every lunch and dinner because that's what teammates do, right? I eventually developed feelings for her as time goes by, in which I'm trying my best to suppress it because I know it's wrong. I started to protect her, take care of her and sending gifts or special souvenirs for her whenever I am on vacation. Eventually, I asked her out and she said yes. I got to know her more and there are some things that made me fall in love with her more and there are some things that really made me uncomfortable when she talked about her past. But I tried to ignore it and focus on the present. After hanging out with her, I realized that I really do love her. I don't care about her past anymore. One day, when we're in a call, she started talking about her ex and she said she's still not moved on. The pain that I felt when I heard that is too deep. It is deeper than jealousy. I always that our hangout is considered a date. But for her, it's just a normal hangout. I feel like I broke my rules by showing my vulnerable side, in which I am hiding it to people because I have trust issues. I feel like I invested so many emotions for nothing. After 1 year, of being teammates, I finally confessed to her yesterday, and she said she never developed any feelings for me. I feel so heartbroken and in pain because this love that I am feeling for her is 1 year in the making. Building something precious takes time, right? I feel like I wasted my time thinking, considering and if this is really love or not. I never experienced this kind of feeling. I feel like I wasted so much time just to know that I am the only one who developed feelings for her. When I asked why, she said yes to hang out with me, because for her, it's nothing. It's normal for her because like I said, she's boyish, and she has many boy friends. I am really in pain. I feel like our values, differences and personality really conflicted here. I regret asking her out. I regret buying her gifts and souvenirs, I regret having a late night video game with her after work, I regret eating lunch and dinner with her. I regret every time I spent with her that I could have prevented it because It's already imprinted in my memory. Memories that I can't help but to cherish, but for her, it's Normal. I feel so pathetic.
I still love her, but after 1 year of being teammates and knowing that I am the only one who developed feelings for her, I can't make her love me.
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I met a girl at my first job. She's my teammate. This is our both first job. She's kinda boyish, but she's so uniquely beautiful in her own way, and I find that really cool. I see her everyday, and we always ate together every lunch and dinner because that's what teammates do, right? I eventually developed feelings for her as time goes by, in which I'm trying my best to suppress it because I know it's wrong. I started to protect her, take care of her and sending gifts or special souvenirs for her whenever I am on vacation. Eventually, I asked her out and she said yes. I got to know her more and there are some things that made me fall in love with her more and there are some things that really made me uncomfortable when she talked about her past. But I tried to ignore it and focus on the present. After hanging out with her, I realized that I really do love her. I don't care about her past anymore. One day, when we're in a call, she started talking about her ex and she said she's still not moved on. The pain that I felt when I heard that is too deep. It is deeper than jealousy. I always that our hangout is considered a date. But for her, it's just a normal hangout. I feel like I broke my rules by showing my vulnerable side, in which I am hiding it to people because I have trust issues. I feel like I invested so many emotions for nothing. After 1 year, of being teammates, I finally confessed to her yesterday, and she said she never developed any feelings for me. I feel so heartbroken and in pain because this love that I am feeling for her is 1 year in the making. Building something precious takes time, right? I feel like I wasted my time thinking, considering and if this is really love or not. I never experienced this kind of feeling. I feel like I wasted so much time just to know that I am the only one who developed feelings for her. When I asked why, she said yes to hang out with me, because for her, it's nothing. It's normal for her because like I said, she's boyish, and she has many boy friends. I am really in pain. I feel like our values, differences and personality really conflicted here. I regret asking her out. I regret buying her gifts and souvenirs, I regret having a late night video game with her after work, I regret eating lunch and dinner with her. I regret every time I spent with her that I could have prevented it because It's already imprinted in my memory. Memories that I can't help but to cherish, but for her, it's Normal. I feel so pathetic.
I still love her, but after 1 year of being teammates and knowing that I am the only one who developed feelings for her, I can't make her love me.
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somebody
Ey, primero: 1. ten amor PROPIO, tu nacistes sin el o ella en este mundo y mucho Antes de conocerlo o conocerla vivias de lo Maximo. Asi que no minimizes tu vida por alguien que solo aporto un decimal al grande enorme valor de tu vida 2. Nadie se muere de amor, la gente que se quita la vida por amor en realidad no supieron Amar bien porque se enfocaron 100% en Idolatrar a esa persona como si fuise su Dios o Diosa, se vive se aprende y se supera para poder enamorarse de nuevo pero con alguien aun mas compatible en todas las areas, emocional. mental. fisico. psicologico 3. nada en esta vida es para siempre, todo viene y va, viene y va, como las estaciones climaticas, a veces frio/sol/lluvia/tempestad/calor etc, solo hay que aprender adaptarse y estar preparado o preparada cuand la vida te da un choque. saber como pararse. y seguir adelante. palante palante patras ni para agarrar impulso.
Lo pasado ya expiro, el presente es la calma para tu respiro, y el Futuro la esperanza que Guarda tu suspiro.
Hey, first: 1. Have SELF-love, you were born without him or her in this world and long before you met him or her, you lived life to the fullest extent, to a maximum degree. So please, do not minimize your life over someone who only added a decimal to the great enormous value of your life as whole, placing that person as if they were your God or Goddess above everything and all. You live, learn, and overcome (c'Est la Vie) to be able to fall in love again, only next time round when new opportunity is announced it's with someone even more compatible with you, covering all areas with which you need for a synchronous relationship; which ever area you fancy to be your most favorite cup of tea to its highest level in emotional, mental, physical, intellectually or psychological degree 3. nothing in life will last forever, man, everything comes and goes, comes and goes, just like in the course of change and season. sometimes cold / sun / rain / storm / heat etc, you just have to learn to adapt and be mentally and emotionally equipped, fully prepared when life throws you a cataclysmic shock. know how to get up. and move forward. always marching on and on never retreat.
The past has already expired, done. deal. GONE, the present is your calm relief of breath, and your future is your sigh of hope.
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Ey, primero: 1. ten amor PROPIO, tu nacistes sin el o ella en este mundo y mucho Antes de conocerlo o conocerla vivias de lo Maximo. Asi que no minimizes tu vida por alguien que solo aporto un decimal al grande enorme valor de tu vida 2. Nadie se muere de amor, la gente que se quita la vida por amor en realidad no supieron Amar bien porque se enfocaron 100% en Idolatrar a esa persona como si fuise su Dios o Diosa, se vive se aprende y se supera para poder enamorarse de nuevo pero con alguien aun mas compatible en todas las areas, emocional. mental. fisico. psicologico 3. nada en esta vida es para siempre, todo viene y va, viene y va, como las estaciones climaticas, a veces frio/sol/lluvia/tempestad/calor etc, solo hay que aprender adaptarse y estar preparado o preparada cuand la vida te da un choque. saber como pararse. y seguir adelante. palante palante patras ni para agarrar impulso.
Lo pasado ya expiro, el presente es la calma para tu respiro, y el Futuro la esperanza que Guarda tu suspiro.
Hey, first: 1. Have SELF-love, you were born without him or her in this world and long before you met him or her, you lived life to the fullest extent, to a maximum degree. So please, do not minimize your life over someone who only added a decimal to the great enormous value of your life as whole, placing that person as if they were your God or Goddess above everything and all. You live, learn, and overcome (c'Est la Vie) to be able to fall in love again, only next time round when new opportunity is announced it's with someone even more compatible with you, covering all areas with which you need for a synchronous relationship; which ever area you fancy to be your most favorite cup of tea to its highest level in emotional, mental, physical, intellectually or psychological degree 3. nothing in life will last forever, man, everything comes and goes, comes and goes, just like in the course of change and season. sometimes cold / sun / rain / storm / heat etc, you just have to learn to adapt and be mentally and emotionally equipped, fully prepared when life throws you a cataclysmic shock. know how to get up. and move forward. always marching on and on never retreat.
The past has already expired, done. deal. GONE, the present is your calm relief of breath, and your future is your sigh of hope.
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u_u
this might sound like cliche but please hear me out:
i've liked this person for a while now, and i thought that we were friends for a few years.
they were among the only friends i had my first year of high school, but ended up drifting away.
i still have had 5/6 of my classes with them every year since 6th grade somehow.
bummer.
i once heard something about them liking me, they once heard about me liking them but both of us never really said anything about it.
we have a lot of friends in common, and we have to see each other often (awkwardly.
they have a partner now though.
more specifically a girlfriend.
she's been so nice to me, and he seems to be happier now that they're together.
there's a part of me that's somehow disappointed about this because i have never seen him this happy all through the years i've known him.
almost 5 years.
maybe?
actually, yes, i've even kept a mental note because i thought i had a chance.
i didn't really ever have one though.
it'll be 5 years since we've known each other coming up in a few months.
i know i shouldn't be and i don't even want to feel this way.
she's actually such a nice person it makes me feel awful to feel so jealous.
there's a part of me that wants, or wanted to make him feel that way, too.
i still have feelings for them, even though i wish i could get rid of how i feel.
i wish we were still friends.
i wish you still talked to me.
and i wish you could be as nice to me as before.
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this might sound like cliche but please hear me out:
i've liked this person for a while now, and i thought that we were friends for a few years.
they were among the only friends i had my first year of high school, but ended up drifting away.
i still have had 5/6 of my classes with them every year since 6th grade somehow.
bummer.
i once heard something about them liking me, they once heard about me liking them but both of us never really said anything about it.
we have a lot of friends in common, and we have to see each other often (awkwardly.
they have a partner now though.
more specifically a girlfriend.
she's been so nice to me, and he seems to be happier now that they're together.
there's a part of me that's somehow disappointed about this because i have never seen him this happy all through the years i've known him.
almost 5 years.
maybe?
actually, yes, i've even kept a mental note because i thought i had a chance.
i didn't really ever have one though.
it'll be 5 years since we've known each other coming up in a few months.
i know i shouldn't be and i don't even want to feel this way.
she's actually such a nice person it makes me feel awful to feel so jealous.
there's a part of me that wants, or wanted to make him feel that way, too.
i still have feelings for them, even though i wish i could get rid of how i feel.
i wish we were still friends.
i wish you still talked to me.
and i wish you could be as nice to me as before.
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Aria
#3 was a big one for me. I had begun to do that over a year ago. Then I went through another crush only to be rejected AGAIN during that time. It really motivated me to fully focus on what patterns in me lead up to it and past ones. I came to see that I was exhibiting insecure attachment. I allowed myself to grieve. & confessed my struggles to someone I thought was just a casual friend. only to learn that this casual friend actually sees me as more! He made me realize that I am loved and cared for! I was just looking in all the wrong places, instead of seeing it in my friends! Now that I realize this? I am fully focused on self-love, self-improvement, and being a far better friend. In focusing on the people who already want me in their lives instead of chasing those who are unavailable? I finally feel fully secure for the first time in my life! O_O! & in writing this comment? I've had another epiphany! Chasing those who are unavailable is what I've done all my life but only NOW do I understand WHY! MY PARENTS WERE EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE TO ME ALMOST ALL MY LIFE! mind-blown
This is why I write blogs, books, comments, posts. everything! Writing helps me work things out far better than simply thinking or talking THANK YOU, PSYCH2GO!
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#3 was a big one for me. I had begun to do that over a year ago. Then I went through another crush only to be rejected AGAIN during that time. It really motivated me to fully focus on what patterns in me lead up to it and past ones. I came to see that I was exhibiting insecure attachment. I allowed myself to grieve. & confessed my struggles to someone I thought was just a casual friend. only to learn that this casual friend actually sees me as more! He made me realize that I am loved and cared for! I was just looking in all the wrong places, instead of seeing it in my friends! Now that I realize this? I am fully focused on self-love, self-improvement, and being a far better friend. In focusing on the people who already want me in their lives instead of chasing those who are unavailable? I finally feel fully secure for the first time in my life! O_O! & in writing this comment? I've had another epiphany! Chasing those who are unavailable is what I've done all my life but only NOW do I understand WHY! MY PARENTS WERE EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE TO ME ALMOST ALL MY LIFE! mind-blown
This is why I write blogs, books, comments, posts. everything! Writing helps me work things out far better than simply thinking or talking THANK YOU, PSYCH2GO!
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Mina
He is my childhood friend I fall in love with him since my teenage days we spent our childhood together watching films, anime listening to music. never had the courage to tell him and I spent my life with that feeling. until one day our parents had a fight which made us not seeing each other for about 6 years in that years I learned to overcome his love get to college building my life and forgetting him even heard that he was in love with someone I didnt care that much I felt sad but it was fine. until that day when my life turns out to be a living hell my mom had cancer (she is fine now) but when his family heard about that they connected with us again and in one day his family decided to visit our house and I know that he will come with them I thought that I have the courage to meet him after all that years and I met him again I thought that I overcome everything l forget him but in the moment that I saw him again my heart felt like burning every thing I thought that I had forgotten came back in the most painful way and here iam now falling in love with him again and spending the last three years suffering in that pain over and over again I spent like 10 years of suffering and l cant even confess to him its a cycle of pain.
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He is my childhood friend I fall in love with him since my teenage days we spent our childhood together watching films, anime listening to music. never had the courage to tell him and I spent my life with that feeling. until one day our parents had a fight which made us not seeing each other for about 6 years in that years I learned to overcome his love get to college building my life and forgetting him even heard that he was in love with someone I didnt care that much I felt sad but it was fine. until that day when my life turns out to be a living hell my mom had cancer (she is fine now) but when his family heard about that they connected with us again and in one day his family decided to visit our house and I know that he will come with them I thought that I have the courage to meet him after all that years and I met him again I thought that I overcome everything l forget him but in the moment that I saw him again my heart felt like burning every thing I thought that I had forgotten came back in the most painful way and here iam now falling in love with him again and spending the last three years suffering in that pain over and over again I spent like 10 years of suffering and l cant even confess to him its a cycle of pain.
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Epic
I got rejected back in October after months of building up the courage to confess and it still hurts today. But Ive been trying the stuff in this video to see if itll help. This person was really special to me and was the first time I really felt like I met someone I could see myself spending the rest of my life with them. So it hurt like hell when I confessed to her and she said no. Even more so it hurt when she started dating someone else. I really wanted to just give up on love. Its never worked for me before and I doubt it ever will. But watching this and seeing how I shouldnt give up on love makes me feel kinda better. That I shouldnt give up and while it hurts now, I shouldnt let it control how future relationships are gonna go. Ive also just recently been learning to let my emotions out instead of holding them in. Ive been letting myself cry about this whenever I think about it. Ive also been trying to distance myself from her on social media. It still hurts and its probably gonna hurt for a while more, but these are really helpful tips and Ill keep trying to live by them. Thank you.
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I got rejected back in October after months of building up the courage to confess and it still hurts today. But Ive been trying the stuff in this video to see if itll help. This person was really special to me and was the first time I really felt like I met someone I could see myself spending the rest of my life with them. So it hurt like hell when I confessed to her and she said no. Even more so it hurt when she started dating someone else. I really wanted to just give up on love. Its never worked for me before and I doubt it ever will. But watching this and seeing how I shouldnt give up on love makes me feel kinda better. That I shouldnt give up and while it hurts now, I shouldnt let it control how future relationships are gonna go. Ive also just recently been learning to let my emotions out instead of holding them in. Ive been letting myself cry about this whenever I think about it. Ive also been trying to distance myself from her on social media. It still hurts and its probably gonna hurt for a while more, but these are really helpful tips and Ill keep trying to live by them. Thank you.
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ConPhilo
I have been in love with my classmate who was once my friend for 5 years now. Social distance does help a lot. The social distance from him for one and half year as help me a lot to move on. That is the time when I could love myself and not be insecure about what I am. But now that things have got normal and our classes have resumed of line it's really difficult to see him everyday and not talk to him and see him ghost me. When I was at home during the quarantine I indulged myself into social issues and politics. All this helped me alot to move on it got a big difficult now. Because I'm seeing him everyday but 21st may 2022 will be the last day I might be seeing him in my entire life I don't know I feel really existential thinking about that day but I have no choice and I guess it is better for me to move away from him but it's really painful to imagine of that day when I will be seen for the last f time.
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I have been in love with my classmate who was once my friend for 5 years now. Social distance does help a lot. The social distance from him for one and half year as help me a lot to move on. That is the time when I could love myself and not be insecure about what I am. But now that things have got normal and our classes have resumed of line it's really difficult to see him everyday and not talk to him and see him ghost me. When I was at home during the quarantine I indulged myself into social issues and politics. All this helped me alot to move on it got a big difficult now. Because I'm seeing him everyday but 21st may 2022 will be the last day I might be seeing him in my entire life I don't know I feel really existential thinking about that day but I have no choice and I guess it is better for me to move away from him but it's really painful to imagine of that day when I will be seen for the last f time.
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Ogre
My Hell, Limbo, or Purgatory, whichever is applicable, contains an additional twist: I am a 56 y/o man with Asperger's Syndrome (or Autism Spectrum Disorder Type One. I am the survivor of a 30+ year failed marriage. The person of my affection is a 56 y/o recently widowed woman (six weeks older than me. Unfortunately, she sees me as a little brother, and not as a potential partner. We share a home together, with separate bedding locations (her in the bedroom and me on the living room couch, for economic reasons. I have extreme difficulty revealing to her my feelings towards her, and I even showed her a Wikipedia article about Unrequited Love. She missed the implication entirely. I have a grave fear of rejection by her, and I have no other friends to rely upon for empathy, for the foreseeable future. To whit, this sucks.
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My Hell, Limbo, or Purgatory, whichever is applicable, contains an additional twist: I am a 56 y/o man with Asperger's Syndrome (or Autism Spectrum Disorder Type One. I am the survivor of a 30+ year failed marriage. The person of my affection is a 56 y/o recently widowed woman (six weeks older than me. Unfortunately, she sees me as a little brother, and not as a potential partner. We share a home together, with separate bedding locations (her in the bedroom and me on the living room couch, for economic reasons. I have extreme difficulty revealing to her my feelings towards her, and I even showed her a Wikipedia article about Unrequited Love. She missed the implication entirely. I have a grave fear of rejection by her, and I have no other friends to rely upon for empathy, for the foreseeable future. To whit, this sucks.
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Marie
If i love someone that i can't be with for Example, yes from the very start i already knew that it's impossible, that we will never be meant to be? I'm the typed of person that i know where to put myself, i know where my place is to him? And that's zero. I'll just say to myself that, hey, I'm just here, i will love you from afar take care will you? I will never push myself to a man, yes it hurts but this is me i don't fight for my love unless he shows first. It takes two people to work it out, it takes two people to make it possible. It takes two people to make it happen. The lessons is, you'll feel the heartbreak at first, it's okay to cry you can make it, you are strong. Remember that Pain in the heart is curable maybe? I don't know for some what i meant is as the time goes by you will be able to forget about him
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If i love someone that i can't be with for Example, yes from the very start i already knew that it's impossible, that we will never be meant to be? I'm the typed of person that i know where to put myself, i know where my place is to him? And that's zero. I'll just say to myself that, hey, I'm just here, i will love you from afar take care will you? I will never push myself to a man, yes it hurts but this is me i don't fight for my love unless he shows first. It takes two people to work it out, it takes two people to make it possible. It takes two people to make it happen. The lessons is, you'll feel the heartbreak at first, it's okay to cry you can make it, you are strong. Remember that Pain in the heart is curable maybe? I don't know for some what i meant is as the time goes by you will be able to forget about him
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Blacklynx14
In a situation where someone turned me down three times then said to be patient and give it time. It's been five years. Currently no contact for a good period of time. But I still miss him, hate that I've loved him this long unreciprocated, but know I can't make someone love me yet can't will myself to move on. And can't stop wishing one day he'd come around
I feel like my only answer is to stop all together cause moving on seems futile. I don't want a friend; and I feel like if he randomly confessed now, I would feel it's a ploy, like I can't/don't trust his love if he offered it. I just want some advice on how to move on without aching just about every day or time I think of him.
I hope for his happiness, but I want to move on to my own now, without feelings of spite or longing, but don't know how.
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In a situation where someone turned me down three times then said to be patient and give it time. It's been five years. Currently no contact for a good period of time. But I still miss him, hate that I've loved him this long unreciprocated, but know I can't make someone love me yet can't will myself to move on. And can't stop wishing one day he'd come around
I feel like my only answer is to stop all together cause moving on seems futile. I don't want a friend; and I feel like if he randomly confessed now, I would feel it's a ploy, like I can't/don't trust his love if he offered it. I just want some advice on how to move on without aching just about every day or time I think of him.
I hope for his happiness, but I want to move on to my own now, without feelings of spite or longing, but don't know how.
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Jewel
To be honest, this is the first time I've ever cried about my unrequited love for my coworker because I assumed we shared the same feelings because we care for each other in times of need and share some common interests in old music, being family-oriented, and being vulnerable to the trustworthy people who surround us.
But now I realize I misinterpreted it because when my colleagues started teasing both of us about the chemistry or my feelings for him, he responded that don't give it any meaning because he is just friendly and he doesn't want any romantic relationship with women yet.
Perhaps I should thank this video for leading to healing process tactics in my most tragic unrequited love.
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To be honest, this is the first time I've ever cried about my unrequited love for my coworker because I assumed we shared the same feelings because we care for each other in times of need and share some common interests in old music, being family-oriented, and being vulnerable to the trustworthy people who surround us.
But now I realize I misinterpreted it because when my colleagues started teasing both of us about the chemistry or my feelings for him, he responded that don't give it any meaning because he is just friendly and he doesn't want any romantic relationship with women yet.
Perhaps I should thank this video for leading to healing process tactics in my most tragic unrequited love.
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Sven
I am 30 year old guy, she is 32, been wasting time for almost a year. Was a very hot phase at the first 3 months, cold phase after that where she was getting annoyed and fight with me for trivial stuff, insulted me so bad that I just ignored her we worked together for 3 months, during christmas i stopped ignoring her and said we're childish we can atleast say hi to eachother, when very hot phase started again, lasted 3 weeks, cold phase again, only when confronted her about confusing behaviour in the end she said she sees me more as a friend. Of course I did not say anything to that, just acknowledged, and it's hard but in my mind, i've walked away. Don't need inconsistency in life
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I am 30 year old guy, she is 32, been wasting time for almost a year. Was a very hot phase at the first 3 months, cold phase after that where she was getting annoyed and fight with me for trivial stuff, insulted me so bad that I just ignored her we worked together for 3 months, during christmas i stopped ignoring her and said we're childish we can atleast say hi to eachother, when very hot phase started again, lasted 3 weeks, cold phase again, only when confronted her about confusing behaviour in the end she said she sees me more as a friend. Of course I did not say anything to that, just acknowledged, and it's hard but in my mind, i've walked away. Don't need inconsistency in life
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Trevor
Look i never told my only (best)friend that i love her. She was beautifull at a party today of graduation. And she says some jokes and me to we can laugh about it a lot but a annoying little sht classmate asks if we our a couple. We both say no of course cause she is the class clown. On the way home we had talked a lot when she came up with: Yeah she is very annoying and she knows it that i don't even like you. No offense tho 5 seconds were silent on my side. I known she had said it before but. Still it hurts. I think she knows that i like her but i ain't sure. She is special to me and she decides what she wants: )
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Look i never told my only (best)friend that i love her. She was beautifull at a party today of graduation. And she says some jokes and me to we can laugh about it a lot but a annoying little sht classmate asks if we our a couple. We both say no of course cause she is the class clown. On the way home we had talked a lot when she came up with: Yeah she is very annoying and she knows it that i don't even like you. No offense tho 5 seconds were silent on my side. I known she had said it before but. Still it hurts. I think she knows that i like her but i ain't sure. She is special to me and she decides what she wants: )
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Daniel
I agree with all the points except 4. It's only hard for the person rejected, the other one doesn't care nor should they be blamed for not sharing the same feelings. I've been rejected and also done a lot of rejecting and never once did I feel bad about it. Awkward, slightly embarrassed, perhaps even uncomfortable? Yes. But if you asked me later on during the same day about it, I would've forgotten all about it. For the people who reject, it's not that serious.
The only time the other person should feel bad is if they lead someone on despite not reciprocating the same feelings.
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I agree with all the points except 4. It's only hard for the person rejected, the other one doesn't care nor should they be blamed for not sharing the same feelings. I've been rejected and also done a lot of rejecting and never once did I feel bad about it. Awkward, slightly embarrassed, perhaps even uncomfortable? Yes. But if you asked me later on during the same day about it, I would've forgotten all about it. For the people who reject, it's not that serious.
The only time the other person should feel bad is if they lead someone on despite not reciprocating the same feelings.
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Vivek
This person I like is very strange. We get along so well and it's mostly when I make the effort. We have such a deep connection but I feel like she's holding herself back or being very careful with expressing her interest in me. I have love for her but haven't expressed it explicitly. I'm treading a fine line of unrequited love and good friends. Idk if I should express myself or keep it to me and try not to obsess over her until I know how she feels some more. Why is this so hard lol. I'm a literal astrophysicist and this is the hardest situation for me to get a hold of.
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This person I like is very strange. We get along so well and it's mostly when I make the effort. We have such a deep connection but I feel like she's holding herself back or being very careful with expressing her interest in me. I have love for her but haven't expressed it explicitly. I'm treading a fine line of unrequited love and good friends. Idk if I should express myself or keep it to me and try not to obsess over her until I know how she feels some more. Why is this so hard lol. I'm a literal astrophysicist and this is the hardest situation for me to get a hold of.
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Ike
Last year I had figured out that someone I had known since 4th grade had supposedly liked me. I liked them back, but when I finally asked her how she felt a few months later, she responded with the words I think just friends right now sorry. And I was convinced that she was not even a friend to me because the only time she'd talk to me was when she needed help with smthn so I stopped texting her or talking to her in person. To make it even worse she has a bf now. We had nothing in common anyways so meh it's fine.
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Last year I had figured out that someone I had known since 4th grade had supposedly liked me. I liked them back, but when I finally asked her how she felt a few months later, she responded with the words I think just friends right now sorry. And I was convinced that she was not even a friend to me because the only time she'd talk to me was when she needed help with smthn so I stopped texting her or talking to her in person. To make it even worse she has a bf now. We had nothing in common anyways so meh it's fine.
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SHWET
If someone breaks us. It's become hard to trust again another person. Might all not be same. But didn't have enough strength to face the same again.
Distancing from that person and have some time might feel better but as I personally experienced the distancing that should be for a short period of time unfortunately it becomes distancing forever. I meet her regularly but now things are not same as earlier.
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If someone breaks us. It's become hard to trust again another person. Might all not be same. But didn't have enough strength to face the same again.
Distancing from that person and have some time might feel better but as I personally experienced the distancing that should be for a short period of time unfortunately it becomes distancing forever. I meet her regularly but now things are not same as earlier.
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Wondering
It takes alot of strength to distant yourself. I just did it, been 5 months we haven't talk to one another. But I did break the rules once, I text her to apologize and ask for another last chance to talk(closure. But no reply. Thanks God, she just went silent dead. Heartbreaking, but that's the reality of someone who is not interested in you. Learned the hard way!
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It takes alot of strength to distant yourself. I just did it, been 5 months we haven't talk to one another. But I did break the rules once, I text her to apologize and ask for another last chance to talk(closure. But no reply. Thanks God, she just went silent dead. Heartbreaking, but that's the reality of someone who is not interested in you. Learned the hard way!
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Anders
I needed this. It's been less than two weeks since I was rejected and I feel I did some of the steps but everything helps. The worst part wasn't the no though, it was that she said yes first and then said no because she didn't realise it was a date at first. The yes gave me such bliss only to be shot down by the no. It's noone's fault but it still hurt.
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I needed this. It's been less than two weeks since I was rejected and I feel I did some of the steps but everything helps. The worst part wasn't the no though, it was that she said yes first and then said no because she didn't realise it was a date at first. The yes gave me such bliss only to be shot down by the no. It's noone's fault but it still hurt.
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Nicole
Had a crush on him straight away. So much fun, great energy, good singing voice. A little cocky but very kind to all. The type you think where have you been? So of course he is gay. I was the first to know and I helped him come out. Now he is excited about dating and thanks me from time to time. Nobody knows my feelings except my bff. ouch
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Had a crush on him straight away. So much fun, great energy, good singing voice. A little cocky but very kind to all. The type you think where have you been? So of course he is gay. I was the first to know and I helped him come out. Now he is excited about dating and thanks me from time to time. Nobody knows my feelings except my bff. ouch
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Low
Fact that they saytehy loved you at first and thry want space. ? Thats fake thyre busy no theyre doing something else or they have someone else your just a time waster for the person she loves you? Shes just entertaining you she likes you the opposite word ofthat is reality coudnt breathe? Stop hugging a cactus whos the cactus she is
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Fact that they saytehy loved you at first and thry want space. ? Thats fake thyre busy no theyre doing something else or they have someone else your just a time waster for the person she loves you? Shes just entertaining you she likes you the opposite word ofthat is reality coudnt breathe? Stop hugging a cactus whos the cactus she is
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vgaur
About the distancing yourself thing. I think it also means mentally distancing yourself. Stop stalking their social media, stop re-reading their chats, and def try stopping fantasising about a future with them. Catch yourself every time youre doing that and then little by little try to overcome that urge. It works, give it time
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About the distancing yourself thing. I think it also means mentally distancing yourself. Stop stalking their social media, stop re-reading their chats, and def try stopping fantasising about a future with them. Catch yourself every time youre doing that and then little by little try to overcome that urge. It works, give it time
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July
I felt secure everytlme he would hug me, I loved that then suddenly it wasnt there anymore, he was gone and I hoped he would me again but never did. He said he didnt love. How many times men will say that to me? Now I just wanna be okay and love myself enough to not beg for love
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I felt secure everytlme he would hug me, I loved that then suddenly it wasnt there anymore, he was gone and I hoped he would me again but never did. He said he didnt love. How many times men will say that to me? Now I just wanna be okay and love myself enough to not beg for love
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Meiou
I had a HUGE crush on my friend of almost a yr and a couple weeks ago they told me they didn't like me back and that they were dating my enemy- Double whamy lmao so i had to stop being friends with them and they keep bugging me about it but i know i made the right decision
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I had a HUGE crush on my friend of almost a yr and a couple weeks ago they told me they didn't like me back and that they were dating my enemy- Double whamy lmao so i had to stop being friends with them and they keep bugging me about it but i know i made the right decision
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UNBROKEN
Hmmmm I've been single my whole life jst watching frns enjoy their life for me its never gonna happen for God sake mannnnn atleast let me also experienced how it feels to be loved. ,The problem is that! ahhh Never mind nobody ever caresleme jst say m fine
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Hmmmm I've been single my whole life jst watching frns enjoy their life for me its never gonna happen for God sake mannnnn atleast let me also experienced how it feels to be loved. ,The problem is that! ahhh Never mind nobody ever caresleme jst say m fine
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