7 Stages of Falling In Love With Your Best Friend
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Mj.
I met my bestfriend a little over a year ago during my senior year of high school. I had just moved 400 miles north before the start of my senior year, away from the town I had lived in for almost ten years, the school I had gone to for the last 3, of which I was the starting qb for, and away from the great friends I had. I had muddled through the first semester making a name for myself in the new area and making some new friends, and in my 2nd semester I got my first part time job. One day she was there, working as a cashier. I didnt talk to her much at first, but once I did, pretty soon we would just go to each other and talk when the store calmed down a bit. Our chemistry was undeniable, so much so that one of my other work friends told me that every one thought we were dating. I refused the notion immediately, cuz at that point she was just my good work friend. But then, I found out she was a total nerd like me. So I added her on discord and we started playing a lot of games together. Fast forward a few months and leaving for my dream College on the other side of the country, but that didnt stop us from talking almost every day. Throughout last semester, I started checking every one of these boxes. Its to the point now that shes the biggest thing on my mind, and weve only been talking more and more, especially after I returned home and hung out with her over my winter break. Now we have an mc server together were on almost everyday and were talking through discord while we play. We even have all these plans for this summer. The point Im getting at is the pain of falling for someone so hard but not being sure how they feel and not being able to do anything about it for external reasons is one of the worst feelings someone of my age can have.
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I met my bestfriend a little over a year ago during my senior year of high school. I had just moved 400 miles north before the start of my senior year, away from the town I had lived in for almost ten years, the school I had gone to for the last 3, of which I was the starting qb for, and away from the great friends I had. I had muddled through the first semester making a name for myself in the new area and making some new friends, and in my 2nd semester I got my first part time job. One day she was there, working as a cashier. I didnt talk to her much at first, but once I did, pretty soon we would just go to each other and talk when the store calmed down a bit. Our chemistry was undeniable, so much so that one of my other work friends told me that every one thought we were dating. I refused the notion immediately, cuz at that point she was just my good work friend. But then, I found out she was a total nerd like me. So I added her on discord and we started playing a lot of games together. Fast forward a few months and leaving for my dream College on the other side of the country, but that didnt stop us from talking almost every day. Throughout last semester, I started checking every one of these boxes. Its to the point now that shes the biggest thing on my mind, and weve only been talking more and more, especially after I returned home and hung out with her over my winter break. Now we have an mc server together were on almost everyday and were talking through discord while we play. We even have all these plans for this summer. The point Im getting at is the pain of falling for someone so hard but not being sure how they feel and not being able to do anything about it for external reasons is one of the worst feelings someone of my age can have.
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AxcLyn
He came into my life and changed it right away, As if I was a doll thrown away in the dirt and he picked me up, stitched up the torn pieces and made brand new. We were best friends, would even de for eachother if needed. I don't know when this feeling of gratefulness turned into love but, I thought he'd never love me back and would want someone better as his life partner. I concealed my feelings for years and then, finally forced myself to move on.
Suddenly, after one particular incident, I found out he feels the same way, but both of us were scared, the thought of losing this sweet bond if things didn't work out would scare us. But, looking at eachother We knew we were written to be together. We took the risk and it's the best thing that happened to us.
He's such a precious soul, my most precious treasure.
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He came into my life and changed it right away, As if I was a doll thrown away in the dirt and he picked me up, stitched up the torn pieces and made brand new. We were best friends, would even de for eachother if needed. I don't know when this feeling of gratefulness turned into love but, I thought he'd never love me back and would want someone better as his life partner. I concealed my feelings for years and then, finally forced myself to move on.
Suddenly, after one particular incident, I found out he feels the same way, but both of us were scared, the thought of losing this sweet bond if things didn't work out would scare us. But, looking at eachother We knew we were written to be together. We took the risk and it's the best thing that happened to us.
He's such a precious soul, my most precious treasure.
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Ippiki
I've had someone tease me for being kind to her, one bully me because of jealousy, and one who maybe sees it but knows I'll respect it and give her time to decide, as I don't want to damage our relationship as friends, and after going gym I've been feeling like trying to put things right even though I was the victim of the bullying, and my emotions was made feel invalid so as I had more valuable commitments I chose that over the danger close, protecting my relationship with her and taking the time to grow as a person, and unintentionally she had done something that made me feel a deeper love for her as friends, as it assisted in my growth, and today I've been doing my best to get her seen or letting her know I will support her growth unconditionally and just giving her thanks for being herself and honest
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I've had someone tease me for being kind to her, one bully me because of jealousy, and one who maybe sees it but knows I'll respect it and give her time to decide, as I don't want to damage our relationship as friends, and after going gym I've been feeling like trying to put things right even though I was the victim of the bullying, and my emotions was made feel invalid so as I had more valuable commitments I chose that over the danger close, protecting my relationship with her and taking the time to grow as a person, and unintentionally she had done something that made me feel a deeper love for her as friends, as it assisted in my growth, and today I've been doing my best to get her seen or letting her know I will support her growth unconditionally and just giving her thanks for being herself and honest
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Jalen
I never thought that I would be in love someday with my childhood best friend for 5 years exact, for real at first we treated each other only just friends or siblings, we just simply tease or bully each other, and we help each other in times of need but now we are not expecting one of us would fall for the other, and now I'm here it's really painful to watch my best friend being in love with someone else, he talks a lot about his type, for now, I wanted to confess but I know I would never be his type, watching this somehow made me tears that it's just so wrong I feel like I'm overstepping our friendship. I wanted to let him know but the fear of getting rejected by him is pulling me to not do it.
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I never thought that I would be in love someday with my childhood best friend for 5 years exact, for real at first we treated each other only just friends or siblings, we just simply tease or bully each other, and we help each other in times of need but now we are not expecting one of us would fall for the other, and now I'm here it's really painful to watch my best friend being in love with someone else, he talks a lot about his type, for now, I wanted to confess but I know I would never be his type, watching this somehow made me tears that it's just so wrong I feel like I'm overstepping our friendship. I wanted to let him know but the fear of getting rejected by him is pulling me to not do it.
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The_Black_Hawk13
Well im in a same situation im good friends with a female friend for 4 years now there was nothing romantic, but then when it started up my friends think we would be a good couple and what i noticed a few weeks ago we hold our hands intertwined had happened 3 times already didn't think anything romantic about it but over the years ive built an emotional wall, its is painful, and it's very difficult for me to get involved in love again. Well i get along with women platonicly very well but interlocking holding hands ive never encountered it in a friendship for me.
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Well im in a same situation im good friends with a female friend for 4 years now there was nothing romantic, but then when it started up my friends think we would be a good couple and what i noticed a few weeks ago we hold our hands intertwined had happened 3 times already didn't think anything romantic about it but over the years ive built an emotional wall, its is painful, and it's very difficult for me to get involved in love again. Well i get along with women platonicly very well but interlocking holding hands ive never encountered it in a friendship for me.
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rose
I just don't know what to do guysss, we're not rlly best friends yet but she's come over a few times and sleptover but I'm so scared to like make any moves cuz if she doesn't like me back it would just be weird on her part. I'm shy around people at first so I can't even fully be myself around her yet and I'm scared that if I keep trying to hang out with her just cuz I like being with her, she will think I just like her a lot and I wanna get with her. All I rlly want is just to become better friends. But I'm nervous to try and hug her sometimes, stuff like that. :/
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I just don't know what to do guysss, we're not rlly best friends yet but she's come over a few times and sleptover but I'm so scared to like make any moves cuz if she doesn't like me back it would just be weird on her part. I'm shy around people at first so I can't even fully be myself around her yet and I'm scared that if I keep trying to hang out with her just cuz I like being with her, she will think I just like her a lot and I wanna get with her. All I rlly want is just to become better friends. But I'm nervous to try and hug her sometimes, stuff like that. :/
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starrysystem
I need help. So here are things they do:
-Ask if my new friends are treating me right
-Gets protective over me when I was talking about this person in my class
-I feel like shes worried shes being replaced by my new friends
-We text almost every day
-Called me the Platonic love of my life in her phone so I named her my Platonic soulmate
- We both use heart emojis
-She admitted she gets jealous when I get new friends but shes never made me not be friends with them (aka shes not toxic)
WHAT DO I DOOO SNSNCNWHDHS
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I need help. So here are things they do:
-Ask if my new friends are treating me right
-Gets protective over me when I was talking about this person in my class
-I feel like shes worried shes being replaced by my new friends
-We text almost every day
-Called me the Platonic love of my life in her phone so I named her my Platonic soulmate
- We both use heart emojis
-She admitted she gets jealous when I get new friends but shes never made me not be friends with them (aka shes not toxic)
WHAT DO I DOOO SNSNCNWHDHS
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corey
They're just so perfect! I love their smile, their laugh, their sense of humour, their hobbies, their flaws, the way they dress, the way they are so caring about their friends, family and pets, they would put everything aside for anyone, I love their big brown eyes and green hair, they way we can talk for hours, they are just so perfect!
Hah. It seems I'm too far gone. :')
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They're just so perfect! I love their smile, their laugh, their sense of humour, their hobbies, their flaws, the way they dress, the way they are so caring about their friends, family and pets, they would put everything aside for anyone, I love their big brown eyes and green hair, they way we can talk for hours, they are just so perfect!
Hah. It seems I'm too far gone. :')
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poison. phoneix
He has a damn girlfriend but I can sense he's also starting to feel something for me but I seriously don't wanna ruin it, he and his girlfriend are cute and I won't be able to love him like his girlfriend does, she's so committed and she loves him so much. I hate that I'm being so selfish I don't wanna love him, silently loving hurts bad man
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He has a damn girlfriend but I can sense he's also starting to feel something for me but I seriously don't wanna ruin it, he and his girlfriend are cute and I won't be able to love him like his girlfriend does, she's so committed and she loves him so much. I hate that I'm being so selfish I don't wanna love him, silently loving hurts bad man
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psych2go
I've done this twice. one for my guy bestfriend who turned out to be aromatic and then for my girl bestfriend. And I am so confused, because I don't know if I'm actually bi. And it hurts so much because I care about them, but I can't do anything about my feelings for them. And my girl best friend is straight. So yeah.
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I've done this twice. one for my guy bestfriend who turned out to be aromatic and then for my girl bestfriend. And I am so confused, because I don't know if I'm actually bi. And it hurts so much because I care about them, but I can't do anything about my feelings for them. And my girl best friend is straight. So yeah.
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Sova
I am not sue If I am in love with my best friend or not. I desperately want to know if this feeling I have is platonic or Romantic. The things is whenever she is around I am the happiest person and I love being with her. Need help if anyone can answer?
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I am not sue If I am in love with my best friend or not. I desperately want to know if this feeling I have is platonic or Romantic. The things is whenever she is around I am the happiest person and I love being with her. Need help if anyone can answer?
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emotionalnoodle
I hate this. I hate that i cant move past my feelings. I hate that when we call he talks about her and asks for advice and i give it gladly not showing an ounce if how much it hurts. I love him so much and i know it is different for him.
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I hate this. I hate that i cant move past my feelings. I hate that when we call he talks about her and asks for advice and i give it gladly not showing an ounce if how much it hurts. I love him so much and i know it is different for him.
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Jason
I'm crazy in love with my bestfriend (an African woman) but she only sees me as a friend. The way she looks at me, talks to me and touchs me sometimes seems like she feels the same. I told her how I feel but I'm the only one that feels this way.
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I'm crazy in love with my bestfriend (an African woman) but she only sees me as a friend. The way she looks at me, talks to me and touchs me sometimes seems like she feels the same. I told her how I feel but I'm the only one that feels this way.
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TheGreatPickle
I have a big crush on my best friend caden but it hurts so much but the problem is I have a girlfriend but I dont feel the same way I do with her like I do with caden he got a girl friend and I didnt know why but I was jealous
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I have a big crush on my best friend caden but it hurts so much but the problem is I have a girlfriend but I dont feel the same way I do with her like I do with caden he got a girl friend and I didnt know why but I was jealous
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mega77CHAVEZ
20 years. My very best friend. We've never even had an argument. We laugh till we cry EVERY time we are together. I'm just now starting to feel more. I'm pretty sure she is feeling the same way. I've never been more terrified.
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20 years. My very best friend. We've never even had an argument. We laugh till we cry EVERY time we are together. I'm just now starting to feel more. I'm pretty sure she is feeling the same way. I've never been more terrified.
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Frau
I got trough all of this stages with my best friend, but without the fact, that he datet other people. I just stopped at the point where I know about my feelings, but I'm not sure about his feelings and he doesn't know about it.
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I got trough all of this stages with my best friend, but without the fact, that he datet other people. I just stopped at the point where I know about my feelings, but I'm not sure about his feelings and he doesn't know about it.
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Chris
Im in love with my best friend and she knows it but shes not into me that way. Its torture. I dont sleep eat or be without her on my mind. Shes everything to me. I dont know howto let go without letting go completely.
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Im in love with my best friend and she knows it but shes not into me that way. Its torture. I dont sleep eat or be without her on my mind. Shes everything to me. I dont know howto let go without letting go completely.
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Undiscovered
im a girl who likes girls, and the worst pain is falling in love with your straight best friend, i dont even like her im pretty sure i love her and she's not even attracted to the same gender let alone me.
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im a girl who likes girls, and the worst pain is falling in love with your straight best friend, i dont even like her im pretty sure i love her and she's not even attracted to the same gender let alone me.
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LoboSolitario19
I cant help but wonder is it worth it tho. Imagine we start dating and we break up after a week or so. What if we end up on bad terms? She isnt my bestie, but shes a very close friend of mine
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I cant help but wonder is it worth it tho. Imagine we start dating and we break up after a week or so. What if we end up on bad terms? She isnt my bestie, but shes a very close friend of mine
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Venasufeth
Anyone here had fallen in love with their best friend and they liked you as well but you rejected them because you thought it was wrong and now completely regret it?
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Anyone here had fallen in love with their best friend and they liked you as well but you rejected them because you thought it was wrong and now completely regret it?
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Smellanie
dude I really want to be more than friends but because Im an over thinker I know Ill be a horrible partner and i really enjoy the relationship I built them already
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dude I really want to be more than friends but because Im an over thinker I know Ill be a horrible partner and i really enjoy the relationship I built them already
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Sudha
I actually have all these things sinking in my story but I am not sure if my bestfriend is literally in love with me. by the way his name is _ _ _ _ _ _ _ s _o n
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I actually have all these things sinking in my story but I am not sure if my bestfriend is literally in love with me. by the way his name is _ _ _ _ _ _ _ s _o n
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Carl
Loving my best friend romantically was the bravest yet the hardest thing I've done rn. PS. She doesn't know hihi, she will never know. i love you, sofia nelle.
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Loving my best friend romantically was the bravest yet the hardest thing I've done rn. PS. She doesn't know hihi, she will never know. i love you, sofia nelle.
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Indrani
I feel happy reading these comments that people got their bestfriends as the wanted them to be more bestfriends. I wish I could be like that with him.
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I feel happy reading these comments that people got their bestfriends as the wanted them to be more bestfriends. I wish I could be like that with him.
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