7 Signs You're Obsessed With Your Crush, Not Love
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Alistair
So, I have a crush who I never even talked to, and it was at first just me finding them cute and looking at them when we crossed at school (we're both in highschool, but then they started to low-key notice me back? And they started to like, go to places I go and look at me, or just very visibly turning around to look at me when we're at the same room and stuff like that. And very honestly, I have a decent self esteem, really, but there's no way they're actually interested in me, long explanation but trust me. So that got me puzzled, and I am a creative person (a writer) so yeah, I can't stop daydreaming about them and replaying situations to try interpreting them. It's not to the point that's affecting my mood or my daily activities, I'm more productive then ever, and I'm trying to convert the daydreaming to writing material (I just kinda change characters. But I'm kinda worried I'm getting obsessed, and it's not like me at all, any advice on how make the daydreaming go away?
this was rlly more of a vent but I take any advice
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So, I have a crush who I never even talked to, and it was at first just me finding them cute and looking at them when we crossed at school (we're both in highschool, but then they started to low-key notice me back? And they started to like, go to places I go and look at me, or just very visibly turning around to look at me when we're at the same room and stuff like that. And very honestly, I have a decent self esteem, really, but there's no way they're actually interested in me, long explanation but trust me. So that got me puzzled, and I am a creative person (a writer) so yeah, I can't stop daydreaming about them and replaying situations to try interpreting them. It's not to the point that's affecting my mood or my daily activities, I'm more productive then ever, and I'm trying to convert the daydreaming to writing material (I just kinda change characters. But I'm kinda worried I'm getting obsessed, and it's not like me at all, any advice on how make the daydreaming go away?
this was rlly more of a vent but I take any advice
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Lallawmzuala
K soo um I hav a crush for the longest n I thought the dead line was 4 months I have a crush on him idk maybe the first weeks I saw him n till now tho I tried to like someone else cause it was hard for me to forget him but if I saw him again I would again go bac to the beginning I do always think about him the thing is we aren't even friends n we don't really talk to eachother but I am just ok being able to see him once a day anyhow I don't feel jealous even when he hav lots of people crushing on him but idk It was to weird for me so I thought I was just obsessed n idk anymore also most of the signs in this vid is also a yesss now how do I deal with this
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K soo um I hav a crush for the longest n I thought the dead line was 4 months I have a crush on him idk maybe the first weeks I saw him n till now tho I tried to like someone else cause it was hard for me to forget him but if I saw him again I would again go bac to the beginning I do always think about him the thing is we aren't even friends n we don't really talk to eachother but I am just ok being able to see him once a day anyhow I don't feel jealous even when he hav lots of people crushing on him but idk It was to weird for me so I thought I was just obsessed n idk anymore also most of the signs in this vid is also a yesss now how do I deal with this
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Ally
this is true be with someone you feel comfortable. I wish there was video of how pyshopath wont let her date other or meet other. Ever see when girl like guy story he doesnt ask her out well so she moves on with her real soulmate this phsyopath guy tries to ruin her relationship. I wish you guys make video on this. When some men wont leave a women alone. This is crazy seen few scenario like this. Even seen when wife divorce her husband she cant seem to find date reality this dude has access to her phone can see the guy she seeing ruins all her realtionship yep why is no one talking about this
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this is true be with someone you feel comfortable. I wish there was video of how pyshopath wont let her date other or meet other. Ever see when girl like guy story he doesnt ask her out well so she moves on with her real soulmate this phsyopath guy tries to ruin her relationship. I wish you guys make video on this. When some men wont leave a women alone. This is crazy seen few scenario like this. Even seen when wife divorce her husband she cant seem to find date reality this dude has access to her phone can see the guy she seeing ruins all her realtionship yep why is no one talking about this
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Lia
This actually seems like me. I've had a crush on this boy since last year. I soon realized that I didn't like him anymore. I had a crush on this other guy that looked similar to him. I kept comparing him to my old crush. I felt very empty when I didn't have my old crush in my life, I liked him again. I knew that he said my name wrong 3 times, ignored me for half the year but when he was just being nice, I took those signs as if he liked me back. I did feel like I was on cloud 9 but not for long. I still chose to love him even if we don't talk anymore. It seems I'm obsessive.
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This actually seems like me. I've had a crush on this boy since last year. I soon realized that I didn't like him anymore. I had a crush on this other guy that looked similar to him. I kept comparing him to my old crush. I felt very empty when I didn't have my old crush in my life, I liked him again. I knew that he said my name wrong 3 times, ignored me for half the year but when he was just being nice, I took those signs as if he liked me back. I did feel like I was on cloud 9 but not for long. I still chose to love him even if we don't talk anymore. It seems I'm obsessive.
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Kara
Yep, describes everything. This was like with an online friendship that happened only for a few months for me, but I was so obsessed and convinced I had a crush on them.
I think the majority of it was obsession and fear actually, since it gave me excitement to do something I wasnt allowed to do (talk to someone and actually be kinda close to someone idk in real life)
I blocked them with pretty much no explanation and I kinda feel bad since no one deserves to be ghosted like that. but I think its for the better
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Yep, describes everything. This was like with an online friendship that happened only for a few months for me, but I was so obsessed and convinced I had a crush on them.
I think the majority of it was obsession and fear actually, since it gave me excitement to do something I wasnt allowed to do (talk to someone and actually be kinda close to someone idk in real life)
I blocked them with pretty much no explanation and I kinda feel bad since no one deserves to be ghosted like that. but I think its for the better
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Foxied
There is a question in my head. if I already confessed and the person feels the same, does this video still help understand the relationship? I could say i have most of these signs in some way. But I feel like I do have control of them if I don't ignore my wishes besides being with a loved one. My love has been pretty much the same all that time, sometimes it was a bit more intense but not overwhelming. Just since that moment I may often feel relaxed though it can lead to laziness. Do I have an obsession?
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There is a question in my head. if I already confessed and the person feels the same, does this video still help understand the relationship? I could say i have most of these signs in some way. But I feel like I do have control of them if I don't ignore my wishes besides being with a loved one. My love has been pretty much the same all that time, sometimes it was a bit more intense but not overwhelming. Just since that moment I may often feel relaxed though it can lead to laziness. Do I have an obsession?
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hellokittylover_.
So like uhm my crush moved on bc we talk and I told him I have feelings but he said that he already moved on and I was SO CRUSHED. which only made me realize I was obsessed. Day dreamt about him, even when asleep. I always talked abt him to my friends but now I know I shouldve just had controlled myself and not let it get outta hand
I absolutely lovee ur videos! Always makes me feel like I'm not alone especially wiith these type of videos! Keep up the good work!
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So like uhm my crush moved on bc we talk and I told him I have feelings but he said that he already moved on and I was SO CRUSHED. which only made me realize I was obsessed. Day dreamt about him, even when asleep. I always talked abt him to my friends but now I know I shouldve just had controlled myself and not let it get outta hand
I absolutely lovee ur videos! Always makes me feel like I'm not alone especially wiith these type of videos! Keep up the good work!
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johan
This has helped understand that truly I was getting into this unhealthy cycle, I've been showing this signs for over 2 months towards someone, and yes it might be hard to let it go but whatever might be the outcome I guess is imperative to grow up and realize that most of the times, in my case, this persona, is in my head, not the real life person I see, therefore being out of this thoughts can help to clear things up and mostly help you grow.
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This has helped understand that truly I was getting into this unhealthy cycle, I've been showing this signs for over 2 months towards someone, and yes it might be hard to let it go but whatever might be the outcome I guess is imperative to grow up and realize that most of the times, in my case, this persona, is in my head, not the real life person I see, therefore being out of this thoughts can help to clear things up and mostly help you grow.
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Reyie
I think it's totally normal for you doing these things, notably for person who just fall in love. I mean who won't think about their crush when you have a moment with him/her, being delusional with what-ifs, keep wanting more, because that's just how love is.
But yeah, it will eventually depends on us. So, take a lead of your mind and heart and choose your option wisely.
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I think it's totally normal for you doing these things, notably for person who just fall in love. I mean who won't think about their crush when you have a moment with him/her, being delusional with what-ifs, keep wanting more, because that's just how love is.
But yeah, it will eventually depends on us. So, take a lead of your mind and heart and choose your option wisely.
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Abnormality
When I like someone, its alright for the first few months.
But when Im getting closer and closer to actually asking those three words, my days and weeks usually have my crush clouding my thoughts occasionally. Not every second of the day, but when my mind isnt focused on something or daydreaming, I think about them and whether I want to make the move.
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When I like someone, its alright for the first few months.
But when Im getting closer and closer to actually asking those three words, my days and weeks usually have my crush clouding my thoughts occasionally. Not every second of the day, but when my mind isnt focused on something or daydreaming, I think about them and whether I want to make the move.
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Raquibul
There was this girl in my class who I think became obsessive of me. So there was a group project and she and I ended up in the same group. We had to work together for a week and texted each other, but nothing too romantic. After 2 months, she calls me crying out of nowhere and said she misses me and why I didn't text her. I was dumbfounded lol
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There was this girl in my class who I think became obsessive of me. So there was a group project and she and I ended up in the same group. We had to work together for a week and texted each other, but nothing too romantic. After 2 months, she calls me crying out of nowhere and said she misses me and why I didn't text her. I was dumbfounded lol
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Ash
I always thought that how crushing on someone felt like, always being paranoid and always thinking about going to picture them together and stuff like that I cant help it. think its obsessiveness and low self-confidence I was always told youre ugly and bullied I dont have confidence thatll be good enough for someone
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I always thought that how crushing on someone felt like, always being paranoid and always thinking about going to picture them together and stuff like that I cant help it. think its obsessiveness and low self-confidence I was always told youre ugly and bullied I dont have confidence thatll be good enough for someone
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Brigette
Am I the only one who isnt self conscious or nervous around my crush? I also dont really try to impress him, its like here I am take it or leave it. If you dont approve or Im not up to your standards because I didnt go above and beyond then you can leave. Good thing though is that Im actually friends with him
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Am I the only one who isnt self conscious or nervous around my crush? I also dont really try to impress him, its like here I am take it or leave it. If you dont approve or Im not up to your standards because I didnt go above and beyond then you can leave. Good thing though is that Im actually friends with him
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topazmum
someone made me see I'm hyperfixating too much on my crush, and this video made me realize I've been obsessing over him. and. I just don't know _what_ to feel now.
especially sign #3 hit me like a brick.
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someone made me see I'm hyperfixating too much on my crush, and this video made me realize I've been obsessing over him. and. I just don't know _what_ to feel now.
especially sign #3 hit me like a brick.
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Brieey
I feel like a bad psycho/creep now.
What am I'm to myself?
He probably thinks I'm crazy. I'll stay away for a while. If he does like me, I dont want to ruin it or for him to get tired of seeing me.
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I feel like a bad psycho/creep now.
What am I'm to myself?
He probably thinks I'm crazy. I'll stay away for a while. If he does like me, I dont want to ruin it or for him to get tired of seeing me.
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xXMAXTHEVAMP1REXx
Is there a label for so obsessed with your crush that you wanna kill or hurt anyone else that they like or even talk to because youre jealous of them and wanna have your crush all to yourself
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Is there a label for so obsessed with your crush that you wanna kill or hurt anyone else that they like or even talk to because youre jealous of them and wanna have your crush all to yourself
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FamousLeo
Ik Ill never love love someone other than myself. Simply because I just dont feel that way for others. like I mostly just think someone goodlooking and try to say its a crushwhen it obviously isnt.
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Ik Ill never love love someone other than myself. Simply because I just dont feel that way for others. like I mostly just think someone goodlooking and try to say its a crushwhen it obviously isnt.
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jamillah
I got a crush on royal and he's the first person I always think of. I think of him in class, P. E, lunchtime, and when i get home to sleep. He's always on my mind nonstop
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I got a crush on royal and he's the first person I always think of. I think of him in class, P. E, lunchtime, and when i get home to sleep. He's always on my mind nonstop
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onceuponameatball
i know im not a professional but could some of these signs maybe just be love or the cloud 9 stage of love when the skys the limit and youre heads in the clouds?
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i know im not a professional but could some of these signs maybe just be love or the cloud 9 stage of love when the skys the limit and youre heads in the clouds?
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randomJED
This video was very helpful, and I'm definitely not obsessed with my crush. The only example applied to me was the first one where I think about them all the time
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This video was very helpful, and I'm definitely not obsessed with my crush. The only example applied to me was the first one where I think about them all the time
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ghizlaine
srry but im shy around evry guys in the panet unless i hate them even if i dont know them i get shy when i talk to them espacially when i do eye contact gosh
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srry but im shy around evry guys in the panet unless i hate them even if i dont know them i get shy when i talk to them espacially when i do eye contact gosh
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Aditya
I accept that I have an huge obsession towards my crush but what if your crush returns your feelings?
Someone please help me to get out of this situation.
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I accept that I have an huge obsession towards my crush but what if your crush returns your feelings?
Someone please help me to get out of this situation.
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Anna
Let's face it most of them do display love however they shouldn't fill all the space in your head or stop you from living a healthy satisfying life.
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Let's face it most of them do display love however they shouldn't fill all the space in your head or stop you from living a healthy satisfying life.
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YoGixMemes
When you love someone but you're introvert and not have confidence to tell, eye contact. Literally this is biggest pain
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When you love someone but you're introvert and not have confidence to tell, eye contact. Literally this is biggest pain
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Aletha
A boy who likes me is a bad boy. He talks bad, but tries to flatter me. He'll do anything. However, results = he's a jerk.
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A boy who likes me is a bad boy. He talks bad, but tries to flatter me. He'll do anything. However, results = he's a jerk.
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