8 Signs Someone Cannot Be Trusted
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Matthew
Naw. #8 is terrible for a person like me who is levels different but cares and stuff for others. Like im neurodivergent and often just dont have same thought process or conclusions as people.
And it ends in them ostracizing me or whatever even thouhh id say im honest to a near extreme degree.
I do think i can be excessive but im realizing its a fear of abandonment thing. Point is i dont think difference should be an indicator. Ive had great people ive known even very opposite to me politically that what they became close there was a higher level of trust and respect i noticed. Not with everything but there were displays they valued me the same.
Id say just recent i had people in a group (i hardly do groups too) i thought were similar to me and showed they couldnt be trusted much cuz theyre hive minded and passive agressive. And instead of letting u know about issues gossip behind ur back and will literally let you sit on an issue forever just to have something to talk about.
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Naw. #8 is terrible for a person like me who is levels different but cares and stuff for others. Like im neurodivergent and often just dont have same thought process or conclusions as people.
And it ends in them ostracizing me or whatever even thouhh id say im honest to a near extreme degree.
I do think i can be excessive but im realizing its a fear of abandonment thing. Point is i dont think difference should be an indicator. Ive had great people ive known even very opposite to me politically that what they became close there was a higher level of trust and respect i noticed. Not with everything but there were displays they valued me the same.
Id say just recent i had people in a group (i hardly do groups too) i thought were similar to me and showed they couldnt be trusted much cuz theyre hive minded and passive agressive. And instead of letting u know about issues gossip behind ur back and will literally let you sit on an issue forever just to have something to talk about.
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bobo(ko)
I had a friend that told me things that she didn't want anyone else to know except some of her other friends, and I used to always say to her that I won't tell anyone cuz she's not comfortable with talking about some things to others. I always say that and then I end up telling my best friend or someone else trying to help her with her problems so she has more support, forgetting about the promise. And I've done that so many times, now they hate me. I've lost all my friends and myself. I always knew it was wrong, I was trying my best to help but I'm terrible with making people feel better even tho I want to. That's why I hate myself and I did this to me, I'm so mad at myself and will probably never forgive it. Now I don't talk to anyone cuz I know I'll just hurt them even more while trying to help, and I'll turn out like a bad person. I honestly don't know what to do, and I don't trust myself at all anymore
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I had a friend that told me things that she didn't want anyone else to know except some of her other friends, and I used to always say to her that I won't tell anyone cuz she's not comfortable with talking about some things to others. I always say that and then I end up telling my best friend or someone else trying to help her with her problems so she has more support, forgetting about the promise. And I've done that so many times, now they hate me. I've lost all my friends and myself. I always knew it was wrong, I was trying my best to help but I'm terrible with making people feel better even tho I want to. That's why I hate myself and I did this to me, I'm so mad at myself and will probably never forgive it. Now I don't talk to anyone cuz I know I'll just hurt them even more while trying to help, and I'll turn out like a bad person. I honestly don't know what to do, and I don't trust myself at all anymore
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Maeryn
Worst feeling when you know their accusations and anger has nothing to do with you, but they still blame you because they are too afraid to look at their own issues (even after admitting them to you without prompting. It hurts BAD when 9-year long friendships break just because the other person can't deal with themselves and starts letting everything out on you.
I was always there for her and had her back no matter what, even put myself in front of her when a jealous woman once physically attacked and scratched her across the face. she means more to me than my biological sister and I look up to her as if she were my older sister. it just hurts really bad. And she knows how much loyalty means to me.
We've had fights before, but this time it's different. I get the feeling she wants me out of her live because I remind her of her own insecurities and she refuses to talk about it.
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Worst feeling when you know their accusations and anger has nothing to do with you, but they still blame you because they are too afraid to look at their own issues (even after admitting them to you without prompting. It hurts BAD when 9-year long friendships break just because the other person can't deal with themselves and starts letting everything out on you.
I was always there for her and had her back no matter what, even put myself in front of her when a jealous woman once physically attacked and scratched her across the face. she means more to me than my biological sister and I look up to her as if she were my older sister. it just hurts really bad. And she knows how much loyalty means to me.
We've had fights before, but this time it's different. I get the feeling she wants me out of her live because I remind her of her own insecurities and she refuses to talk about it.
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Nina
I hide things from my family because I have experiences where if I tell them the truth, what I say gets used against me. (ex. I tell them what kind of work I brainstorm, then I get something like x job is hard or but you're y personality so this won't suit you at all. It feels so discouraging) I can be unpredictable because my own brain is erratic (no thanks ADHD) It's so hard for me to create my own schedule. And yes, maybe I appear untrustworthy because I'm too different from most neurotypicals. Sad reality is that most ADHDers have difficulty making friends because of their unique challenges. But it's certainly possible to manage our symptoms so we can be more reliable or trustworthy.
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I hide things from my family because I have experiences where if I tell them the truth, what I say gets used against me. (ex. I tell them what kind of work I brainstorm, then I get something like x job is hard or but you're y personality so this won't suit you at all. It feels so discouraging) I can be unpredictable because my own brain is erratic (no thanks ADHD) It's so hard for me to create my own schedule. And yes, maybe I appear untrustworthy because I'm too different from most neurotypicals. Sad reality is that most ADHDers have difficulty making friends because of their unique challenges. But it's certainly possible to manage our symptoms so we can be more reliable or trustworthy.
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Raymond
These signs shouldn't be applicable on people who you clearly know are struggling with mental health issues like depression and anxiety. Like, all of these signs (not exactly the specific examples used for elaborations) could be found from people with mental health issues and it's not that they cannot be trusted, it's not that they are showing these signs out of malice whatsoever. I can tell it's a well-intentioned logical list for viewers to protect ourselves but it's lacking some nuances and can feel self-centered to some extent. I personally would like to see this list to be revamped or at least given more clarifications.
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These signs shouldn't be applicable on people who you clearly know are struggling with mental health issues like depression and anxiety. Like, all of these signs (not exactly the specific examples used for elaborations) could be found from people with mental health issues and it's not that they cannot be trusted, it's not that they are showing these signs out of malice whatsoever. I can tell it's a well-intentioned logical list for viewers to protect ourselves but it's lacking some nuances and can feel self-centered to some extent. I personally would like to see this list to be revamped or at least given more clarifications.
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education
My girlfriend has been hiding things from me and she became so unpredictable, she also started to develop trust issues and she thinks I'm starting to ditch her despite having immense feelings towards her and regardless of all that love she is starting to think I'm cheating on her
is she subtly saying that SHE'S cheating on me? Because my gut feeling is telling me of an incoming disaster to this relationship. in fact, my inner self is telling me that she might have turned untrustworthy. Should I dump her? She is going through a lot in her life but also suspecting our relationship so. maybe she's cheating?
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My girlfriend has been hiding things from me and she became so unpredictable, she also started to develop trust issues and she thinks I'm starting to ditch her despite having immense feelings towards her and regardless of all that love she is starting to think I'm cheating on her
is she subtly saying that SHE'S cheating on me? Because my gut feeling is telling me of an incoming disaster to this relationship. in fact, my inner self is telling me that she might have turned untrustworthy. Should I dump her? She is going through a lot in her life but also suspecting our relationship so. maybe she's cheating?
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education
_my mom always says that all my friends are 32 year olds and I'm 10 and a half, I might trust my mom, because I keep trusting people to easily and I wanna stop doing that, but I trust my friends, but today I got to an argument where my friend always acts like a 32 year old, and they know about the birds and bees, so I blocked them and the told my other friend that I blocked them, so I'm taking a break from Roblox and discord [idk why I use discord I'm literally 10 and a half. ] for a long time. _
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_my mom always says that all my friends are 32 year olds and I'm 10 and a half, I might trust my mom, because I keep trusting people to easily and I wanna stop doing that, but I trust my friends, but today I got to an argument where my friend always acts like a 32 year old, and they know about the birds and bees, so I blocked them and the told my other friend that I blocked them, so I'm taking a break from Roblox and discord [idk why I use discord I'm literally 10 and a half. ] for a long time. _
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Andrew
Signs.
1. Constantly lies/brake promises
2. Blabbermouths/ chatterboxes In they can't keep secrets.
3. Two faced people poeple who act differently from their beliefs.
4. Poeple who are abusive and or cheat in relationships.
Leopards don't change Thier spots serial Cheaters will be cheaters.
Cheating In relationships Is quite low and nasty don't trust such poeple.
5. Change how they are Infront of others nice by themselves cocky and obnoxious with an audience.
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Signs.
1. Constantly lies/brake promises
2. Blabbermouths/ chatterboxes In they can't keep secrets.
3. Two faced people poeple who act differently from their beliefs.
4. Poeple who are abusive and or cheat in relationships.
Leopards don't change Thier spots serial Cheaters will be cheaters.
Cheating In relationships Is quite low and nasty don't trust such poeple.
5. Change how they are Infront of others nice by themselves cocky and obnoxious with an audience.
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Kitetsu
I noticed most of this on my gf but is trust her so much
1. she hide things from me like picture or her she said i was shy
2. she always said i don't understand my self I'm very sorry
3. She unpredictable
4. She react negatively on everything even on food, weather, clothes, and any circumstances
5. She get jealous easily even on my dog or my job and my business
6. She project her insecurities
And then she confess that she cheated in me
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I noticed most of this on my gf but is trust her so much
1. she hide things from me like picture or her she said i was shy
2. she always said i don't understand my self I'm very sorry
3. She unpredictable
4. She react negatively on everything even on food, weather, clothes, and any circumstances
5. She get jealous easily even on my dog or my job and my business
6. She project her insecurities
And then she confess that she cheated in me
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Puddin
Ok, that too different part was a big red flag for me. Too different? I would consider someone to be too different if they bled chocolate syrup and spoke in Latin riddles that sounded like the color blue tastes. This is a poorly masked effort of not only appealing to the ignorance viewers have coming here to convince themselves they had the right idea to begin with, but solidifying that different is untrustworthy and further reinforcing existing prejudices
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Ok, that too different part was a big red flag for me. Too different? I would consider someone to be too different if they bled chocolate syrup and spoke in Latin riddles that sounded like the color blue tastes. This is a poorly masked effort of not only appealing to the ignorance viewers have coming here to convince themselves they had the right idea to begin with, but solidifying that different is untrustworthy and further reinforcing existing prejudices
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Massive
I gave someone my trust. She said I can trust her. Told me her past. Said I should never over think about her. Seems like I was just manipulated, and never saw it. My trust issues are so deep at this point. Now after watching this, I feel like I deserve no ones trust since my trust issue scars are so deep. Help.
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I gave someone my trust. She said I can trust her. Told me her past. Said I should never over think about her. Seems like I was just manipulated, and never saw it. My trust issues are so deep at this point. Now after watching this, I feel like I deserve no ones trust since my trust issue scars are so deep. Help.
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Mario
How do you know when you've met someone you can trust?
I don't!
No, seriously, I don't know who I can trust, so I just don't trust anyone because I faced one too many betrayals before and it could very easily become a pattern, so I only ever trust myself in this world where everyone's out to get me.
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How do you know when you've met someone you can trust?
I don't!
No, seriously, I don't know who I can trust, so I just don't trust anyone because I faced one too many betrayals before and it could very easily become a pattern, so I only ever trust myself in this world where everyone's out to get me.
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Alexis
I'll save you the hassle. i can't be trusted. but. how fun will it be on the way. i mean. can you really call yourself complete if your boyfriend (or in my case girlfriend) hasnt said this girls gonna get me killed. and im ok with this lol
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I'll save you the hassle. i can't be trusted. but. how fun will it be on the way. i mean. can you really call yourself complete if your boyfriend (or in my case girlfriend) hasnt said this girls gonna get me killed. and im ok with this lol
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Mariel
My mom who I love is like that ever since. :( I trust and trust her, I end up hurting repeatedly hoping she would change.
No matter who the person is, dont relay on them. This is WHY, trust only God ask for His guidance. Pray.
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My mom who I love is like that ever since. :( I trust and trust her, I end up hurting repeatedly hoping she would change.
No matter who the person is, dont relay on them. This is WHY, trust only God ask for His guidance. Pray.
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glowinxflora
every person has broke my trust is bc they were too nice and i trusted them without wondering why they were being so nice without a reason. somehow almost everyone i have trusted was too nice and broke my trust.
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every person has broke my trust is bc they were too nice and i trusted them without wondering why they were being so nice without a reason. somehow almost everyone i have trusted was too nice and broke my trust.
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gangloo
So you mean I never met a trustworthy person in my life? Right. So they didn't love me at all. They just used me because they know I can't get mad at them because I know the feeling when someone is mad at you.
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So you mean I never met a trustworthy person in my life? Right. So they didn't love me at all. They just used me because they know I can't get mad at them because I know the feeling when someone is mad at you.
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Paul
I watched this video because i am trying to be trustable to someone who has trust issues, i am not getting mad with him and i am not hidng everything about me, she believe that a day i will stab her in the back
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I watched this video because i am trying to be trustable to someone who has trust issues, i am not getting mad with him and i am not hidng everything about me, she believe that a day i will stab her in the back
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Aaron
I once had a friend who I couldn't trust at all. He was always loud and obnoxious, always bragged about himself, never agreed to what I said. Honestly, I'm glad tht I watched this video, it explains so much.
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I once had a friend who I couldn't trust at all. He was always loud and obnoxious, always bragged about himself, never agreed to what I said. Honestly, I'm glad tht I watched this video, it explains so much.
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Monica
I'm looking for signs that aren't so obvious. Sure once they betray, lie, are insecure. Etc. are obvious to me I need to know beforehand or when you first meet someone. EVERYONE screws me over somehow!
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I'm looking for signs that aren't so obvious. Sure once they betray, lie, are insecure. Etc. are obvious to me I need to know beforehand or when you first meet someone. EVERYONE screws me over somehow!
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Emily
so uhh, all the parts that has with the other person trusting u as much, like uh, if that was true with me i would have no friends bc i don't trust ANYONE with my secrets exept for my school therapist-
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so uhh, all the parts that has with the other person trusting u as much, like uh, if that was true with me i would have no friends bc i don't trust ANYONE with my secrets exept for my school therapist-
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Jannleo
DONT TRUST ANYONE MAKE IT SIMPLE NO EXEMPTED LIKE FREINDS, FAMILY ETC because i share a lot but they betrayed me im not feeling well today i lost my friends now just pretending now im am good
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DONT TRUST ANYONE MAKE IT SIMPLE NO EXEMPTED LIKE FREINDS, FAMILY ETC because i share a lot but they betrayed me im not feeling well today i lost my friends now just pretending now im am good
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education
2: 35 I mean not that much a jeoulous person thingy but when they got more attention then ur old freinds eventually for a few days it will be asking themselves why am I being left out
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2: 35 I mean not that much a jeoulous person thingy but when they got more attention then ur old freinds eventually for a few days it will be asking themselves why am I being left out
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Jesbaam
My ex broke up with me because of my actions and I needed to see if I am trustworthy and so far I am hurt and not to say that I don't feel hurt for them but I feel nore hurt.
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My ex broke up with me because of my actions and I needed to see if I am trustworthy and so far I am hurt and not to say that I don't feel hurt for them but I feel nore hurt.
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James
I dont trust ppl at all cuz I hate everything I see I dont care I still dont trust no one I dont care how they feel cuz they broken me once I'll break them back
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I dont trust ppl at all cuz I hate everything I see I dont care I still dont trust no one I dont care how they feel cuz they broken me once I'll break them back
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Messiah's
2 of my closest friends have betrayed me. It is absolutely true that betrayal will haunt you for years. It's one of the worste pains I have ever felt.
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2 of my closest friends have betrayed me. It is absolutely true that betrayal will haunt you for years. It's one of the worste pains I have ever felt.
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