7 Signs Someone is Too Immature For You
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Xpiredmx
my partner had bpd and i put a lot of these things on that exxcusing it, i know that some of these things were worsened by it maybe but i have recently met someone else with the same mental illness and talked to their boyfriend about all these traits and see that my excuses ii gave my partner were not justifiied and definitely a big sign of maturity, also blaming me for being immature for reacting a certain way when she did something immature or hurtful herself was a big sign aswelll, anytime i messed up, which i did a lot, ii made sure to try my best to see what i did was wrong and work on fixing it if it was a habit or something that was simply going unnoticed by yourself, it took her cheating on me and blaming me for being annoying over beiing worried about how she had been acting lately (when all along she was cheating and falling out of love with me along with it) to realize that she wasnt always excusable and actually snapped me out of the ignorance i had for these things that popped up every once in a while and actually go into reflecting on old minor and major details of situations to see that regardless to me messing up in slight ways so much i always admitted shamed myself and then picked myself back up while she projected her actiions on me especially when i would talk about feeling bad over them.
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my partner had bpd and i put a lot of these things on that exxcusing it, i know that some of these things were worsened by it maybe but i have recently met someone else with the same mental illness and talked to their boyfriend about all these traits and see that my excuses ii gave my partner were not justifiied and definitely a big sign of maturity, also blaming me for being immature for reacting a certain way when she did something immature or hurtful herself was a big sign aswelll, anytime i messed up, which i did a lot, ii made sure to try my best to see what i did was wrong and work on fixing it if it was a habit or something that was simply going unnoticed by yourself, it took her cheating on me and blaming me for being annoying over beiing worried about how she had been acting lately (when all along she was cheating and falling out of love with me along with it) to realize that she wasnt always excusable and actually snapped me out of the ignorance i had for these things that popped up every once in a while and actually go into reflecting on old minor and major details of situations to see that regardless to me messing up in slight ways so much i always admitted shamed myself and then picked myself back up while she projected her actiions on me especially when i would talk about feeling bad over them.
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AnXieTy
Me and my girlfriend been together for over a year now and Ive seen this video and wanted to state these facts are overly true and need everyones opinion if this is a toxic relationship or not:
1: She tends to take some things I say as me pushing her away or saying something to bring her down, and anything I say is just out of consideration or me caring
2: When an argument or an conflict comes to play and all the odds are on her, she still manages to put me at fault for something and in the end I still be the one to apologize when I havent done anything wrong.
3: There was a time we had a heated argument over something she did and told her the flaws that she had faulted, and she wanted space. But when we were giving each other that space, she went to her friends and blamed me for the situation and all her friends texted me cruel things and pointed fingers at me.
4: She also gives me the silent treatment and never tells me what is wrong most of the time. Even if I ask what is wrong, she will say nothing or nothing at all. She will answer my call on a phone and do this, and its like, What is the point of calling me if your not gonna talk to me?
Reply and lmk if this is toxic relationship. (also she is 24 and Im 19 and we are far-distance)
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Me and my girlfriend been together for over a year now and Ive seen this video and wanted to state these facts are overly true and need everyones opinion if this is a toxic relationship or not:
1: She tends to take some things I say as me pushing her away or saying something to bring her down, and anything I say is just out of consideration or me caring
2: When an argument or an conflict comes to play and all the odds are on her, she still manages to put me at fault for something and in the end I still be the one to apologize when I havent done anything wrong.
3: There was a time we had a heated argument over something she did and told her the flaws that she had faulted, and she wanted space. But when we were giving each other that space, she went to her friends and blamed me for the situation and all her friends texted me cruel things and pointed fingers at me.
4: She also gives me the silent treatment and never tells me what is wrong most of the time. Even if I ask what is wrong, she will say nothing or nothing at all. She will answer my call on a phone and do this, and its like, What is the point of calling me if your not gonna talk to me?
Reply and lmk if this is toxic relationship. (also she is 24 and Im 19 and we are far-distance)
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bananaman22
im not even passive aggressive.
my partner didnt even care for my first day at work. even after i called her during lunch to communicate i was hurt she didnt seem engaged in the morning. she was unavailable after my day ended because she was sleeping at 8pm.
i still went to her place and i sat downstairs for 1hour just trying to motivate myself to go upstairs. i wanted to just go home. i wanted to be at peace. but i also wanted to communicate. and i kept telling myself if i were to go i had to try and be happy. if i dont, then she will argue and scold me for being unhappy.
but ive already communicated. and whenever i communicate my concerns she just gets mad at me and makes me feel like a bad person. but i want to share with her, but if i do she gets mad. and i relay that to her too. and she then promised she wont get mad at me if i share.
then next time, i share my thoughts. she gets mad at me. gg
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im not even passive aggressive.
my partner didnt even care for my first day at work. even after i called her during lunch to communicate i was hurt she didnt seem engaged in the morning. she was unavailable after my day ended because she was sleeping at 8pm.
i still went to her place and i sat downstairs for 1hour just trying to motivate myself to go upstairs. i wanted to just go home. i wanted to be at peace. but i also wanted to communicate. and i kept telling myself if i were to go i had to try and be happy. if i dont, then she will argue and scold me for being unhappy.
but ive already communicated. and whenever i communicate my concerns she just gets mad at me and makes me feel like a bad person. but i want to share with her, but if i do she gets mad. and i relay that to her too. and she then promised she wont get mad at me if i share.
then next time, i share my thoughts. she gets mad at me. gg
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Plaxer15
Everybody was Immature at some point, the difference is what experiences you have made and if you had mature people around you or immature people when you were young. I am definitely not the most mature person myself, i still learn a lot from others and the way they live their life (only listen to people who got their life together) helps me to grow on myself. I can just recommend younger people to, if someone clearly older and someone who is standing fully in his own life says to you when you are young how shitty you behaved then you should listen to others and take notes on it and self reflect about it. Not saying that everything others tell you is right, but you should really be honest to yourself and think is he actually correct or not, without being in denial about it like 90% of the people do!
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Everybody was Immature at some point, the difference is what experiences you have made and if you had mature people around you or immature people when you were young. I am definitely not the most mature person myself, i still learn a lot from others and the way they live their life (only listen to people who got their life together) helps me to grow on myself. I can just recommend younger people to, if someone clearly older and someone who is standing fully in his own life says to you when you are young how shitty you behaved then you should listen to others and take notes on it and self reflect about it. Not saying that everything others tell you is right, but you should really be honest to yourself and think is he actually correct or not, without being in denial about it like 90% of the people do!
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JNikz
Just ended my 8. 5 years relationship and never felt so relieved in my life. She kept saying that I was immature but in the end, it was her all along. Walking on eggshells was on point. I used to think twice before I speak because she got hurt so easily over little things. Then she gets mad for not telling the truth and say whatever is on my mind. She gives me silent treatment all the time and when I try to talk to her, she said that I should know already like Im a mindreader. I avoided my friends just to make her felt secure. I gained 60lbs so she wont get jealous of other girls looking at me. Now I will find someone who would truly appreciate me for who I am.
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Just ended my 8. 5 years relationship and never felt so relieved in my life. She kept saying that I was immature but in the end, it was her all along. Walking on eggshells was on point. I used to think twice before I speak because she got hurt so easily over little things. Then she gets mad for not telling the truth and say whatever is on my mind. She gives me silent treatment all the time and when I try to talk to her, she said that I should know already like Im a mindreader. I avoided my friends just to make her felt secure. I gained 60lbs so she wont get jealous of other girls looking at me. Now I will find someone who would truly appreciate me for who I am.
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Liris
Psych2Go sometimes makes videos about precise mental issues like ADHD and HSP. The first point, Acting on emotions, is common to a lot of neurodivergent folks, while a lot of others act based on rationality, and both are mature.
Of course, the rest of the points give context for the first onya. But please don't take any of them, or all of them for only a lack of maturity.
Traumas can also explain them. It's not to excuse them, it's to explain, and be supportive to someonya who want to try to get better, but doesn't know how, or may need help to do it nya.
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Psych2Go sometimes makes videos about precise mental issues like ADHD and HSP. The first point, Acting on emotions, is common to a lot of neurodivergent folks, while a lot of others act based on rationality, and both are mature.
Of course, the rest of the points give context for the first onya. But please don't take any of them, or all of them for only a lack of maturity.
Traumas can also explain them. It's not to excuse them, it's to explain, and be supportive to someonya who want to try to get better, but doesn't know how, or may need help to do it nya.
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Diet_Water
With maturity it isnt also only negative and physical I dated someone who they were so emotionally immature that I said something about changing shoes (mainly for comfort since wed be walking for awhile) and they took it to heart then cried about it had a panic attack then used it against me in every single fight about how I was calling her every single name in the book this and that but then cried and made me feel like I was being mean and bullied her and manipulated me in many emotional and mental ways
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With maturity it isnt also only negative and physical I dated someone who they were so emotionally immature that I said something about changing shoes (mainly for comfort since wed be walking for awhile) and they took it to heart then cried about it had a panic attack then used it against me in every single fight about how I was calling her every single name in the book this and that but then cried and made me feel like I was being mean and bullied her and manipulated me in many emotional and mental ways
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amelia
I was in a past relationship where I was the immature one, and it ruined our relationship (partly, he taught me to be more mature by showing me my wrong behaviors and finally I was ready and mature enough for a relationship only after we ended our relationship. I feel so sorry for my ex for having to put up with me, but I am thankful and know that I was not the only one who had flaws. I am proud of myself that I grew and now found a healthy relationship with someone as mature as I am and its a perfect match.
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I was in a past relationship where I was the immature one, and it ruined our relationship (partly, he taught me to be more mature by showing me my wrong behaviors and finally I was ready and mature enough for a relationship only after we ended our relationship. I feel so sorry for my ex for having to put up with me, but I am thankful and know that I was not the only one who had flaws. I am proud of myself that I grew and now found a healthy relationship with someone as mature as I am and its a perfect match.
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Lalaaaaa
she has a good chunk of these qualities, an if i was to say that she would be like no thats you an blah blah blah, she can literally ONLY ( which isnt even taking any at all ) take accountability if she flips it on me. Shell be like, I do that but you do it as well or Well you did it weeks ago so like? Then why you didnt say that bothered you. Instead you chose to act weird an do exactly what I apparently did to you? Like its exhausting
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she has a good chunk of these qualities, an if i was to say that she would be like no thats you an blah blah blah, she can literally ONLY ( which isnt even taking any at all ) take accountability if she flips it on me. Shell be like, I do that but you do it as well or Well you did it weeks ago so like? Then why you didnt say that bothered you. Instead you chose to act weird an do exactly what I apparently did to you? Like its exhausting
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random
I think at this point, all I have left to start on is accountability, Im getting older and realizing I have responsibilities yhat I need to shoulder and not avoid but i have no idea. how. Thats as best as I can put it. I think thats my sign of immaturity because i have not even tapped into that world of owning up to a responsibility but the rest I feel like I got down and under, all good there
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I think at this point, all I have left to start on is accountability, Im getting older and realizing I have responsibilities yhat I need to shoulder and not avoid but i have no idea. how. Thats as best as I can put it. I think thats my sign of immaturity because i have not even tapped into that world of owning up to a responsibility but the rest I feel like I got down and under, all good there
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xd
i have all of these things in me and i am definitely think it is not my fault to be this type of person idk why am i like that but i want to change just dont know how like i cant even control my own emotions and small things often upsets me to the point i start crying: D i dont want other people to dislike me but there is no way i can change. what should i do?
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i have all of these things in me and i am definitely think it is not my fault to be this type of person idk why am i like that but i want to change just dont know how like i cant even control my own emotions and small things often upsets me to the point i start crying: D i dont want other people to dislike me but there is no way i can change. what should i do?
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ZionCantAnimate
Ive been in one of these relationships. Every trait on this list describes them and how the relationship was going, I was trying to ignore it but most of the times it made me really mad and snap at them when I really didnt want to. I feel like getting out of that relationship was the smartest decision Ive made in a long time.
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Ive been in one of these relationships. Every trait on this list describes them and how the relationship was going, I was trying to ignore it but most of the times it made me really mad and snap at them when I really didnt want to. I feel like getting out of that relationship was the smartest decision Ive made in a long time.
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Adele
wow, these signs are like a reality check! recognizing immaturity is crucial for a healthy relationship. by the way, my partner and i recently discovered spanish fly pro, a natural enhancer that's added a whole new level of excitement and connection in our relationship. highly recommend it if you're looking to spice things up!
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wow, these signs are like a reality check! recognizing immaturity is crucial for a healthy relationship. by the way, my partner and i recently discovered spanish fly pro, a natural enhancer that's added a whole new level of excitement and connection in our relationship. highly recommend it if you're looking to spice things up!
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Vanessa
What can i do if I recognize myself in this video? I love him so much but yeah. so much, that I want to spend all the time with him. I get mad way too often because of more or less reasonable things and I do the silent treatment every time I get mad. Man I don't want to Treaty him like that, je deserves wo mich better
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What can i do if I recognize myself in this video? I love him so much but yeah. so much, that I want to spend all the time with him. I get mad way too often because of more or less reasonable things and I do the silent treatment every time I get mad. Man I don't want to Treaty him like that, je deserves wo mich better
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Kara
Your videos have really opened my eyes to just how unhealthy the relationship I left truly was. I thought I was going crazy, or just making things up or misremembering behaviors and events wrong. that it was all my fault. I'm finally able to put things into perspective now so I can start to heal. Thank you so, so much.
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Your videos have really opened my eyes to just how unhealthy the relationship I left truly was. I thought I was going crazy, or just making things up or misremembering behaviors and events wrong. that it was all my fault. I'm finally able to put things into perspective now so I can start to heal. Thank you so, so much.
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Jana
i've been pondering these signs of immaturity, and it's so true how they can affect relationships. speaking of connections, have you heard of spanish fly pro? my partner and i have been using it to bring more passion and intimacy into our moments together. it's been quite the adventure! #relationshipboost
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i've been pondering these signs of immaturity, and it's so true how they can affect relationships. speaking of connections, have you heard of spanish fly pro? my partner and i have been using it to bring more passion and intimacy into our moments together. it's been quite the adventure! #relationshipboost
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ZVC
I think there is a misconception with maturity. I think you can be funny and joke and make life more light hearted. My girlfriend calls me immature for that but this video describes exactly how she is. I love her but this is accurate and makes me think twice about whether she will grow out of this.
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I think there is a misconception with maturity. I think you can be funny and joke and make life more light hearted. My girlfriend calls me immature for that but this video describes exactly how she is. I love her but this is accurate and makes me think twice about whether she will grow out of this.
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fahim
Whatever you have pointed, its all me. i have lost almost everything for these traits. Cant blame others anymore i guess. I am such a fool. Not emotional right now, well may b a lil bit but i am telling the truth. Cant hold onto whatever i have lost. Kinda sucks. Time to grow up i guess.
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Whatever you have pointed, its all me. i have lost almost everything for these traits. Cant blame others anymore i guess. I am such a fool. Not emotional right now, well may b a lil bit but i am telling the truth. Cant hold onto whatever i have lost. Kinda sucks. Time to grow up i guess.
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Aman
All these points which have been told in the video are too similar to her. She never respected my perspective and always judged the relationship by her pov. We broke up 3 months ago. Now im feeling good that i know what my values and worth
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All these points which have been told in the video are too similar to her. She never respected my perspective and always judged the relationship by her pov. We broke up 3 months ago. Now im feeling good that i know what my values and worth
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Kurt
Omg i didnt even think that what i do to my boyfriend is something wrong. Yea i didnt let him go out with his friend cuz i will get jealous. I should change that right away!
Thx for this video its help he realize i do something wrong.
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Omg i didnt even think that what i do to my boyfriend is something wrong. Yea i didnt let him go out with his friend cuz i will get jealous. I should change that right away!
Thx for this video its help he realize i do something wrong.
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Andy
I used to see this immature thing is fun in relationship, and I got this info by watching anime and now if I think about it. It is really annoying to be honest, I used to love watching romantic anime that I didn't see the clingy of it
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I used to see this immature thing is fun in relationship, and I got this info by watching anime and now if I think about it. It is really annoying to be honest, I used to love watching romantic anime that I didn't see the clingy of it
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SakiStarr
My ex told me ALL her red flags in one sitting, she said she had anger problems, shes insecure, and immature, with bipolar disorder. She didnt even say it as a warning, she thought what she was saying was CUTE
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My ex told me ALL her red flags in one sitting, she said she had anger problems, shes insecure, and immature, with bipolar disorder. She didnt even say it as a warning, she thought what she was saying was CUTE
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St1jnchen
Funny all the signs describe my autistic partner who of course is emotionally immature by diagnosis. I wonder if you maybe could do an episode on that topic? I really enjoy your videos tho.
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Funny all the signs describe my autistic partner who of course is emotionally immature by diagnosis. I wonder if you maybe could do an episode on that topic? I really enjoy your videos tho.
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Petros
Excuse me? Now we shouldn't have feelings?
They blame other people for their problems victim blaming
Entitled, a way to stigmatize people who just want a better life and not be abused
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Excuse me? Now we shouldn't have feelings?
They blame other people for their problems victim blaming
Entitled, a way to stigmatize people who just want a better life and not be abused
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MarlikWinnin
Its sad because everything you said is stuff that I do I can admit that I really wanna treat her better because I love her Im just super nervous because i dont know what Im doing wrong
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Its sad because everything you said is stuff that I do I can admit that I really wanna treat her better because I love her Im just super nervous because i dont know what Im doing wrong
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