7 Simple Psychological Tricks That Always Work
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Toastie
The mirroring definitely works.
Speaking fast is impossible when you're on the spectrum. I win arguments by quick fire texting.
And yes, I'll often go first to get stuff out the way. Didnt realise this would go in my favour.
The don't worry, I'll find someone else grates. I've had that done to me and it feels manipulative. If they say you have free choice, why do they look so angry when I say well, find someone else then, cos I don't wanna do it?
They say it but don't mean it. It's emotional blackmail.
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The mirroring definitely works.
Speaking fast is impossible when you're on the spectrum. I win arguments by quick fire texting.
And yes, I'll often go first to get stuff out the way. Didnt realise this would go in my favour.
The don't worry, I'll find someone else grates. I've had that done to me and it feels manipulative. If they say you have free choice, why do they look so angry when I say well, find someone else then, cos I don't wanna do it?
They say it but don't mean it. It's emotional blackmail.
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Andrea
I like to say the person's name in written or in person communication more than once as it gives them comfort to discuss more with you or in the midst of a serious conversation you could slightly change your tone or pronunciate a word in a humorous manner. I found that it lightens the mood and you may see a giggle. That being said, I look for nonverbal cues initially to see if maybe I could put someone at ease.
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I like to say the person's name in written or in person communication more than once as it gives them comfort to discuss more with you or in the midst of a serious conversation you could slightly change your tone or pronunciate a word in a humorous manner. I found that it lightens the mood and you may see a giggle. That being said, I look for nonverbal cues initially to see if maybe I could put someone at ease.
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Hypercrystalized
Something I've done to both get to know someone better and get them to like me a little more is I try and center the conversation around them. I ask about them, how their day was, what their favorite movie is, what they've been up to, their hobbies, passions, job, etc. People like talking about themsevles and are more inclined to people who let them talk about themselves.
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Something I've done to both get to know someone better and get them to like me a little more is I try and center the conversation around them. I ask about them, how their day was, what their favorite movie is, what they've been up to, their hobbies, passions, job, etc. People like talking about themsevles and are more inclined to people who let them talk about themselves.
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PhiloticSymmetrist
Want to win an argument? Just speak faster.
. this seems dangerously close to encouraging people to use Gish galloping. And I'm not sure that mirroring is much better.
Edit: It's also harder to refuse (sic. should be refute) quick-fire points.
Yeah, this is actually just telling people to Gish gallop. Don't do that.
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Want to win an argument? Just speak faster.
. this seems dangerously close to encouraging people to use Gish galloping. And I'm not sure that mirroring is much better.
Edit: It's also harder to refuse (sic. should be refute) quick-fire points.
Yeah, this is actually just telling people to Gish gallop. Don't do that.
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Archana
Non manipulative
Thank God it gives me a relief, I was always giving options to people in my life making them aware of what they can choose,
I thought I was manipulating them in thinking that I am actually good.
This definitely gives me a relief that I'm actually not manipulating them into doing something in my favour.
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Non manipulative
Thank God it gives me a relief, I was always giving options to people in my life making them aware of what they can choose,
I thought I was manipulating them in thinking that I am actually good.
This definitely gives me a relief that I'm actually not manipulating them into doing something in my favour.
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Blue
My mother figure always tried to manipulate my sister and I by guilt tripping us. I was the lucky one who quickly saw through her words and actions. I stopped doing whatever she wanted when she did that. My sister was not so fortunate, and she ended up as a people pleaser
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My mother figure always tried to manipulate my sister and I by guilt tripping us. I was the lucky one who quickly saw through her words and actions. I stopped doing whatever she wanted when she did that. My sister was not so fortunate, and she ended up as a people pleaser
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Carolina
I do the last one a looooot, because sometimes I am actually I want to do something they want to do but don't want to pressure the decision on to them. I AM SHOCKED that the method I was using for making people confortable actually makes me the one to decide
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I do the last one a looooot, because sometimes I am actually I want to do something they want to do but don't want to pressure the decision on to them. I AM SHOCKED that the method I was using for making people confortable actually makes me the one to decide
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Nekotaku
Talk faster. That's a cheap shot. Not fair in an argument. T. T
4: 25 Haha, it is manipulative. And this one (#7) would not work on me. So the always work failed here.
I don't think in the way of using tricks like this, I'm just honest.
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Talk faster. That's a cheap shot. Not fair in an argument. T. T
4: 25 Haha, it is manipulative. And this one (#7) would not work on me. So the always work failed here.
I don't think in the way of using tricks like this, I'm just honest.
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RoastTurtle2
These are things I already knew. Favor for a favor, heard of it? And NO ONE is approaching a group and asking the ENTIRE group for help. They'll wait until they can single someone out because you only need ONE PERSON
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These are things I already knew. Favor for a favor, heard of it? And NO ONE is approaching a group and asking the ENTIRE group for help. They'll wait until they can single someone out because you only need ONE PERSON
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hel
hey is the narrator person alright? at 4: 08 there's really fast drawing of a figure sitting head down on piano and it says 7 years later and as I understood she said she was forced to learn piano? (4: 59)
that's kinda sad
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hey is the narrator person alright? at 4: 08 there's really fast drawing of a figure sitting head down on piano and it says 7 years later and as I understood she said she was forced to learn piano? (4: 59)
that's kinda sad
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Arshiya
Ik this one psychological trick. ' If you want more information. Just stare blankly at them at do not say anything'. This creates an awkward silence and the person will tend to speak more to break that awkward silence.
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Ik this one psychological trick. ' If you want more information. Just stare blankly at them at do not say anything'. This creates an awkward silence and the person will tend to speak more to break that awkward silence.
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Andrew
As a marketing agent, building rapport quickly with the 5 second friend technique, mirroring and giving people the option to do what they want, helps us get our job done easier because the members are more compliant.
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As a marketing agent, building rapport quickly with the 5 second friend technique, mirroring and giving people the option to do what they want, helps us get our job done easier because the members are more compliant.
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Miriam
So youre telling me that my anxiety about asking for something and telling people its okay if you dont want to makes them MORE likely to do it?
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HECK YEAH! ANXIETY FOR THE WIN!
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So youre telling me that my anxiety about asking for something and telling people its okay if you dont want to makes them MORE likely to do it?
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HECK YEAH! ANXIETY FOR THE WIN!
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aanyaaa
Y'all the last trick works fr. I always make a sort of decision and say but its ok if you don't want that but i think its not bad of a choice and then they take it to consideration and eventually say yes; )
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Y'all the last trick works fr. I always make a sort of decision and say but its ok if you don't want that but i think its not bad of a choice and then they take it to consideration and eventually say yes; )
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Kwak
The talk faster to win an argument works perfectly I didn't realized the reason on why I always win a argument over my brother until I've watched this video thanks psych2go for giving me some knowledge
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The talk faster to win an argument works perfectly I didn't realized the reason on why I always win a argument over my brother until I've watched this video thanks psych2go for giving me some knowledge
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Lisa
It's funny, I want to take the pressure off of people when I ask for things so I do the reminding them they don't have to do the thing automatically. I don't want to pressure someone into a decision.
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It's funny, I want to take the pressure off of people when I ask for things so I do the reminding them they don't have to do the thing automatically. I don't want to pressure someone into a decision.
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Eyob
It is a nice that the video end with the idea of make people think they have great responsibility with great power. it will make people think what they see is important and values.
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It is a nice that the video end with the idea of make people think they have great responsibility with great power. it will make people think what they see is important and values.
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Selvaraju
My brother, who always speaks faster over fights and wins
Me tries to speak fast, but ends up blaberring
Lmao my brother forgot the fight and started laughing over me
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My brother, who always speaks faster over fights and wins
Me tries to speak fast, but ends up blaberring
Lmao my brother forgot the fight and started laughing over me
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Debyuura
I've always mirrored some gestures when I become close to a person, deep down I don't know if It can be also a clue of my lack of confidence: T
(sorrry for the grammar)
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I've always mirrored some gestures when I become close to a person, deep down I don't know if It can be also a clue of my lack of confidence: T
(sorrry for the grammar)
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Yrrah
I've done mirroring before and I actually noticed it on myself & felt really strange. So I researched it, found out it was normal. What a relief thought I was the only one.
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I've done mirroring before and I actually noticed it on myself & felt really strange. So I researched it, found out it was normal. What a relief thought I was the only one.
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Mary
Idk why but I always found my self watching these kind of vids and it help me a lot from making friends to me when I am feeling down. I love your videos. Keep making more: >
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Idk why but I always found my self watching these kind of vids and it help me a lot from making friends to me when I am feeling down. I love your videos. Keep making more: >
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Ms.
Point 2, unfortunately many people just don't know gratitude. Just because you've done something good or helpful to someone, doesn't mean they'll do it for you too
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Point 2, unfortunately many people just don't know gratitude. Just because you've done something good or helpful to someone, doesn't mean they'll do it for you too
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Nevaeh
I've heard that you can give someone anything during a conversation and they'll take it without question. I haven't tried it out yet though.
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I've heard that you can give someone anything during a conversation and they'll take it without question. I haven't tried it out yet though.
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Betty
Wow I tend to mirror people a lot but as soon as I notice it I thought it was just me being weird, I'm glad that it's not the case!
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Wow I tend to mirror people a lot but as soon as I notice it I thought it was just me being weird, I'm glad that it's not the case!
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KoliAN
Yoo i use the last one before watching the video but subconsciously! I didn't know there was psychology involved in it
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Yoo i use the last one before watching the video but subconsciously! I didn't know there was psychology involved in it
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