Which Type of Childhood Traumas Did You Experience?
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Laura
For me. Its neglect for emotional, education and health.
Emotional: My family doesn't show love for one another. So that means no emotional support. My dad even told me once keep my feelings to myself. Therefore I never really learned how to love or how to keep an relationship. I'm now an introvert with no friends. I suffer from depression convince that my family doesn't love me and won't miss me when I'm gone. Wow thanks mom and dad.
Education: My parents didn't care about my education. They atless took me to school and helped me with homework. So I'll give them that. But the never cared if I was doing good or bad. Never ever cared enough to look at my grades. I never got praise for doing good. Or encouraged to do better. Now I'm a high school dropout with no job. I have no idea what to do with my life. Living from my grandparents trust fund. Wow thanks mom and dad.
Health: long story made short I was in alot of pain one day and asked to see a doctor. My parents told me it was all in my head and I was fine. Maybe they thought I was faking. Now I'm scared to go to the doctor. Scared if I go the doctors will find nothing wrong with me. I'm even more scared to ask my family to take me. So even when I'm truely sick I wait it out and hope for the best. Wow thanks mom and dad.
Bonus: They fail to teach me alot of things. Like how to keep good hygiene. I was bullied at school for years because I smelled bad and wear dirty clothes to school. Dental hygiene too. I suffered from multiple cavities. I had to teach my self good hygiene. Never learned how to drive, how to work, how to paid bills, and how to do anything. The first time I had to pay bills was very hard. A learning curve that's for sure. Oh wow thanks mom and dad for preparing me for the world. Now I suffer from anxiety whenever I have to learn new things because I didn't learn them at an early age. Thanks mom and dad.
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For me. Its neglect for emotional, education and health.
Emotional: My family doesn't show love for one another. So that means no emotional support. My dad even told me once keep my feelings to myself. Therefore I never really learned how to love or how to keep an relationship. I'm now an introvert with no friends. I suffer from depression convince that my family doesn't love me and won't miss me when I'm gone. Wow thanks mom and dad.
Education: My parents didn't care about my education. They atless took me to school and helped me with homework. So I'll give them that. But the never cared if I was doing good or bad. Never ever cared enough to look at my grades. I never got praise for doing good. Or encouraged to do better. Now I'm a high school dropout with no job. I have no idea what to do with my life. Living from my grandparents trust fund. Wow thanks mom and dad.
Health: long story made short I was in alot of pain one day and asked to see a doctor. My parents told me it was all in my head and I was fine. Maybe they thought I was faking. Now I'm scared to go to the doctor. Scared if I go the doctors will find nothing wrong with me. I'm even more scared to ask my family to take me. So even when I'm truely sick I wait it out and hope for the best. Wow thanks mom and dad.
Bonus: They fail to teach me alot of things. Like how to keep good hygiene. I was bullied at school for years because I smelled bad and wear dirty clothes to school. Dental hygiene too. I suffered from multiple cavities. I had to teach my self good hygiene. Never learned how to drive, how to work, how to paid bills, and how to do anything. The first time I had to pay bills was very hard. A learning curve that's for sure. Oh wow thanks mom and dad for preparing me for the world. Now I suffer from anxiety whenever I have to learn new things because I didn't learn them at an early age. Thanks mom and dad.
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Lulu
Well Im not sure if this was abuse but I was going on the bus to get home and there was this assistant on the bus and I didnt know her at all and I was like okay, my friend needed to talk to me so I looked at her to see what she wanted and she came up to me and yelled at me so loudly to sit down and the bus was going to move and your stopping the bus and I have a disability and I dont really think about what Im doing and it was just the first time I did nothing to her and she came off like that to me and no one else and I was Traumatizes and shaking and didnt look back once I was so scared and my bus driver did nothing not even a word and that broke my heart and after she was done yelling at me they all clapped there hands and made fun of me and I was holding back the tears bc I was siting with a little girl and I didnt wanna scare her all my friends thought that it was not okay and she didnt yell at anyone like that but me and is that abuse idk?
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Well Im not sure if this was abuse but I was going on the bus to get home and there was this assistant on the bus and I didnt know her at all and I was like okay, my friend needed to talk to me so I looked at her to see what she wanted and she came up to me and yelled at me so loudly to sit down and the bus was going to move and your stopping the bus and I have a disability and I dont really think about what Im doing and it was just the first time I did nothing to her and she came off like that to me and no one else and I was Traumatizes and shaking and didnt look back once I was so scared and my bus driver did nothing not even a word and that broke my heart and after she was done yelling at me they all clapped there hands and made fun of me and I was holding back the tears bc I was siting with a little girl and I didnt wanna scare her all my friends thought that it was not okay and she didnt yell at anyone like that but me and is that abuse idk?
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Neko
Speaking honestly, I was a victim of numbers 1, 2, 3 and 7. Interesting thing about 7 is that I was told by teachers that it's my fault for being bullied because I always reacted and let it get to me. I grew up in the 90s, so not sure if that was a common belief back then, but yeah, between school and home, I never really ever felt that there was ever a secure place for me and just detached myself from reality and people, letting myself be absorbed, instead, by the internet where I don't ever have to make real connections.
I come to terms with the why now, but it was a huge journey trying to figure all this out tbh. I think I'm still figuring things out. Anyways, I just wanted to put this up here for anyone that goes through the same thing to read so you know that you're not alone.
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Speaking honestly, I was a victim of numbers 1, 2, 3 and 7. Interesting thing about 7 is that I was told by teachers that it's my fault for being bullied because I always reacted and let it get to me. I grew up in the 90s, so not sure if that was a common belief back then, but yeah, between school and home, I never really ever felt that there was ever a secure place for me and just detached myself from reality and people, letting myself be absorbed, instead, by the internet where I don't ever have to make real connections.
I come to terms with the why now, but it was a huge journey trying to figure all this out tbh. I think I'm still figuring things out. Anyways, I just wanted to put this up here for anyone that goes through the same thing to read so you know that you're not alone.
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Hello
I got cancer at age 8 (now 16 going on 17 soon) spent months in hospitals always thought I was okay and never thought about the way a specific beep that sounds like hospital equipment makes me tense and the way a needle makes me want to run and never return and how people complaining about getting blood taken makes me want to punch them today was the day I realized and looked back on my reactions to things my school had a blood drive and kids were complaining about arms hurting, workers fishing for veins, being scared, not wanting to bend their arms in fear itd be messed up, and more there were a few times were I nearly started screaming at people bend you arm it over so get over it that's just what happens so suck it up and deal with it (in relation to workers fishing)
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I got cancer at age 8 (now 16 going on 17 soon) spent months in hospitals always thought I was okay and never thought about the way a specific beep that sounds like hospital equipment makes me tense and the way a needle makes me want to run and never return and how people complaining about getting blood taken makes me want to punch them today was the day I realized and looked back on my reactions to things my school had a blood drive and kids were complaining about arms hurting, workers fishing for veins, being scared, not wanting to bend their arms in fear itd be messed up, and more there were a few times were I nearly started screaming at people bend you arm it over so get over it that's just what happens so suck it up and deal with it (in relation to workers fishing)
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Giuseppe
When people tells me that childhood is the best part of life, since you don't have to worry that much, for me wasn't the same; I studied guitar for 7 years (when I was 6 years old, while I tried to make my father proud of me he just compared me with somebody else (I know that I'm not that good, but it really hurted me in the inside, then in middle school I developed an hobby for art/drawing (I still draw now a day's trying to improve) but they told me that it was BS, and I shouldn't, and etc etc.
Sometimes I feel insecure about myself, I live with the feeling of not being good enough, and I struggle with the feeling of having friends.
Sorry for the long comment and possible grammar error, but English actually isn't my first language.
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When people tells me that childhood is the best part of life, since you don't have to worry that much, for me wasn't the same; I studied guitar for 7 years (when I was 6 years old, while I tried to make my father proud of me he just compared me with somebody else (I know that I'm not that good, but it really hurted me in the inside, then in middle school I developed an hobby for art/drawing (I still draw now a day's trying to improve) but they told me that it was BS, and I shouldn't, and etc etc.
Sometimes I feel insecure about myself, I live with the feeling of not being good enough, and I struggle with the feeling of having friends.
Sorry for the long comment and possible grammar error, but English actually isn't my first language.
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Jahy
I have childhood traumas from a photo of the spongebobs' lost episode red mist. The photo with that nightmare-looking Squidward oh God stills even after so many years in my brain an it has made dufficult situation in my life because of bullying. I was gaining so much bullying(and still have but not that much its a long story) because I've lost my father since when I was a baby, grom a super rare fear I have (only 0, 1% on earth have this fear) and from this photo. They all thought it was silly to get scared from this and they were showing it to me all the time. I even went on a psychologist about it. I feel less insane-going when i see that photo but it can still scare me to death.
If there was a way to get that photo out of my head.
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I have childhood traumas from a photo of the spongebobs' lost episode red mist. The photo with that nightmare-looking Squidward oh God stills even after so many years in my brain an it has made dufficult situation in my life because of bullying. I was gaining so much bullying(and still have but not that much its a long story) because I've lost my father since when I was a baby, grom a super rare fear I have (only 0, 1% on earth have this fear) and from this photo. They all thought it was silly to get scared from this and they were showing it to me all the time. I even went on a psychologist about it. I feel less insane-going when i see that photo but it can still scare me to death.
If there was a way to get that photo out of my head.
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$4m_w1h
when i was 6 my whole family had to split up because my step dad teared off my moms clothes and chased her around our house while she was screaming me and my brother where trying to break the plastic window because we lived right next to a construction site and our neighbors moved my uncle who was staying for a bit called the police while me and my brother where screaming and crying and as the older sister i ran downstairs and grabbed a butter knife to lock the bathroom door where my mom was hiding. It was a very scary moment for a 6, 3, and 17 year olds. My step dad went to jail, I went with my aunt, my mom went to a place for her trauma and cuts, my uncle who was 17 went to a special home thing and my brother went with his grandma.
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when i was 6 my whole family had to split up because my step dad teared off my moms clothes and chased her around our house while she was screaming me and my brother where trying to break the plastic window because we lived right next to a construction site and our neighbors moved my uncle who was staying for a bit called the police while me and my brother where screaming and crying and as the older sister i ran downstairs and grabbed a butter knife to lock the bathroom door where my mom was hiding. It was a very scary moment for a 6, 3, and 17 year olds. My step dad went to jail, I went with my aunt, my mom went to a place for her trauma and cuts, my uncle who was 17 went to a special home thing and my brother went with his grandma.
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Gun
Mine:
1. I saw my parents and sisters get yelled at, threatened and even hit sometimes. Many times they screamed at me aswell for being annoying or in the way
2. My mom never cared if I cried or didn't listen to me if I vented, instead just pushed her own problems on me.
3. I'm autistic and I have ADHD and sometimes I've gotten anxiety attacks that make me want to hurt myself and even others at times.
4. People at my school have called me names such as Retard or asked me personal questions if I ignore them they threaten me or push me. This has been happening to my friends too.
I'm sorry if I sound selfish. I don't usually vent on the Internet
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Mine:
1. I saw my parents and sisters get yelled at, threatened and even hit sometimes. Many times they screamed at me aswell for being annoying or in the way
2. My mom never cared if I cried or didn't listen to me if I vented, instead just pushed her own problems on me.
3. I'm autistic and I have ADHD and sometimes I've gotten anxiety attacks that make me want to hurt myself and even others at times.
4. People at my school have called me names such as Retard or asked me personal questions if I ignore them they threaten me or push me. This has been happening to my friends too.
I'm sorry if I sound selfish. I don't usually vent on the Internet
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-AuroraPlays-
when you go to a therapist for ADHD and they say its because of the internet ( I stay on it at MAX 5 hours a day) and your parents don't do sh$t about it cuz they don't care about my mental health, just my physical health
to summarise what I've diagnosed myself (because no therapist diagnosed sh&t for me)
I have ADHD (self-diagnosed from your videos/ undiagnosed) please note that I am unsure, and it may not be true.
I am the Pleaser love type.
Trauma 1- Emotional neglect
Trauma 2 Emotional neglect
Trauma 3-Emotional neglect
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it just stacks up, it doesn't go away.
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when you go to a therapist for ADHD and they say its because of the internet ( I stay on it at MAX 5 hours a day) and your parents don't do sh$t about it cuz they don't care about my mental health, just my physical health
to summarise what I've diagnosed myself (because no therapist diagnosed sh&t for me)
I have ADHD (self-diagnosed from your videos/ undiagnosed) please note that I am unsure, and it may not be true.
I am the Pleaser love type.
Trauma 1- Emotional neglect
Trauma 2 Emotional neglect
Trauma 3-Emotional neglect
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it just stacks up, it doesn't go away.
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Grizzaww
I suffer from the abuse a very scary time in my life was in a dream when I was running away from a murderer and had some of my closest friends and closest family members the murderer had Killed my friend Jonny and I was pissed off so I took a knife and tried to stab him and as soon as it touched him his body vanished and turned into my little sister I woke up 38 minutes ago scared worried if there is something wrong with me watched this video and Im still scared and I think its best that if the scary dreams continue I should just kill my self
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I suffer from the abuse a very scary time in my life was in a dream when I was running away from a murderer and had some of my closest friends and closest family members the murderer had Killed my friend Jonny and I was pissed off so I took a knife and tried to stab him and as soon as it touched him his body vanished and turned into my little sister I woke up 38 minutes ago scared worried if there is something wrong with me watched this video and Im still scared and I think its best that if the scary dreams continue I should just kill my self
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michael_afton
I was abused at the age of six by my sister at school no one would want to play with me becuse they said I was ugly and weird and fat my mom just recently started dating and her boyfriend is a alcoholic and they get into really serious fights my mom loves him to much to let him go im 11 even though these things where traumatizing I have my family with me and are loved if any body is going through this just know it will be OK and one day you will be free to do allmost if not already anything sty safe
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I was abused at the age of six by my sister at school no one would want to play with me becuse they said I was ugly and weird and fat my mom just recently started dating and her boyfriend is a alcoholic and they get into really serious fights my mom loves him to much to let him go im 11 even though these things where traumatizing I have my family with me and are loved if any body is going through this just know it will be OK and one day you will be free to do allmost if not already anything sty safe
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Ahmed
For me its was 7 entring school at grade 4 was hell even when i reacehd highschool every time i think about gitting bullied i become emothinal then cry on my bed it even effect me when i saw my idot cusin bullieng my 6 year old cusin it got me in rage so i have to stop my cusin to save my little cusin i dont want my future kids to be bullies i want them to feel happy live way happier life then me im really feel sad for the pepole who are scared of gonig school if you need help im always here
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For me its was 7 entring school at grade 4 was hell even when i reacehd highschool every time i think about gitting bullied i become emothinal then cry on my bed it even effect me when i saw my idot cusin bullieng my 6 year old cusin it got me in rage so i have to stop my cusin to save my little cusin i dont want my future kids to be bullies i want them to feel happy live way happier life then me im really feel sad for the pepole who are scared of gonig school if you need help im always here
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AkaniOffical
Whenever I was a Small Child my Grandmother sadly died while she was on the floor in pain. When I was Three or four years old My Dad lifted me up by the arm and basically scolded me for no reason. I was Bullied throughout my school years. My family life is a Mess, My mom and Dad got Separated. And I'm pretty sure I almost died in my mom's Arms.
I'm sorry for sharing this, I just can't take anymore stuff like this anymore. I don't think I can even make it pass 15.
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Whenever I was a Small Child my Grandmother sadly died while she was on the floor in pain. When I was Three or four years old My Dad lifted me up by the arm and basically scolded me for no reason. I was Bullied throughout my school years. My family life is a Mess, My mom and Dad got Separated. And I'm pretty sure I almost died in my mom's Arms.
I'm sorry for sharing this, I just can't take anymore stuff like this anymore. I don't think I can even make it pass 15.
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GeckoAJ
I never got how beating your child and disciplining your child fall into the same category
Why would physically hurting your child make a situation better? Why would you hit them in the first place? Out of anger? Thinking they wont do it again? And if it works, they stopped out of FEAR
Sit down and talk to your child. Voice ghat what they did was wrong in a calm manner. Your child is a CHILD. They should grow up in a safe and loving household
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I never got how beating your child and disciplining your child fall into the same category
Why would physically hurting your child make a situation better? Why would you hit them in the first place? Out of anger? Thinking they wont do it again? And if it works, they stopped out of FEAR
Sit down and talk to your child. Voice ghat what they did was wrong in a calm manner. Your child is a CHILD. They should grow up in a safe and loving household
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Perfect
I don't remember much about my childhood (even though I don't think it was traumatic enough to justify that, but I think I remember one point where I told my mom's ex-boyfriend to spank me because I thought I deserved a physical punishment for something. It was probably for existing for all I know. How did I get to that point? Why can't I remember enough things to put the all of pieces together?
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I don't remember much about my childhood (even though I don't think it was traumatic enough to justify that, but I think I remember one point where I told my mom's ex-boyfriend to spank me because I thought I deserved a physical punishment for something. It was probably for existing for all I know. How did I get to that point? Why can't I remember enough things to put the all of pieces together?
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Lucy
One of the moments that impacted my personality the most was in the third grade when a girl told me stop being such a crybaby after I was crying because a kid had set me up with freaking muffin and told the teacher and it still baffles me how such a small comment had such an impact on me now I rarely find myself being vulnerable especially being able to cry at times when I should
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One of the moments that impacted my personality the most was in the third grade when a girl told me stop being such a crybaby after I was crying because a kid had set me up with freaking muffin and told the teacher and it still baffles me how such a small comment had such an impact on me now I rarely find myself being vulnerable especially being able to cry at times when I should
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love
i dont know what catagoier but i am still underage and i had a friend who is not my friend anymore we are the same age and he sent me a bad picture of something and i hid it and then i told my friend and she said show me for some reason and the n i told my mom and dad last year and the kid kept swaering at me and we kinda just forget about so i kinda just have that as a fear
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i dont know what catagoier but i am still underage and i had a friend who is not my friend anymore we are the same age and he sent me a bad picture of something and i hid it and then i told my friend and she said show me for some reason and the n i told my mom and dad last year and the kid kept swaering at me and we kinda just forget about so i kinda just have that as a fear
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teto85
YAHTZEE! I got all 7. Where's my prize? Well, I'm not dead or in prison and have made it to over 50 with a good career and pretty good life after moving across the continent and across the Atlantic for education and early career. Abusing adults and siblings are all dead. And their tapes are all erased and eradicated. Moving away helped get over it and on to a new life.
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YAHTZEE! I got all 7. Where's my prize? Well, I'm not dead or in prison and have made it to over 50 with a good career and pretty good life after moving across the continent and across the Atlantic for education and early career. Abusing adults and siblings are all dead. And their tapes are all erased and eradicated. Moving away helped get over it and on to a new life.
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Michael
There's a 3yr old child/alter that very rarely surfaces and all he does is feel sad emotion and cry uncontrollably so extremely that the body can't even breath or function and falls straight to floor passes out. I felt him a little bit just now from watching this and going through comments.
I do want to say my story but I can't rn.
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There's a 3yr old child/alter that very rarely surfaces and all he does is feel sad emotion and cry uncontrollably so extremely that the body can't even breath or function and falls straight to floor passes out. I felt him a little bit just now from watching this and going through comments.
I do want to say my story but I can't rn.
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Rafael
Things are finally getting normal here, but after years and years of fightings and yellings until this day i get nervous when someone raises their voice. sometimes i'm in my room and i hear a different noise outside, my heartbeat explodes and i start sweating. I calm down when i realize the noise was just the neighbor loudly sneezing
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Things are finally getting normal here, but after years and years of fightings and yellings until this day i get nervous when someone raises their voice. sometimes i'm in my room and i hear a different noise outside, my heartbeat explodes and i start sweating. I calm down when i realize the noise was just the neighbor loudly sneezing
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Technochi
I have bad mental health because of school and being bullied but sometimes I felt like I didt have the same relationship with my parents as my sibling
I also had suicidal thoughts because of school I thought if I should end it all to end the pain lucky my online friends stopped me from doing it
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I have bad mental health because of school and being bullied but sometimes I felt like I didt have the same relationship with my parents as my sibling
I also had suicidal thoughts because of school I thought if I should end it all to end the pain lucky my online friends stopped me from doing it
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StrawberryStrawz
I just always remember my mom would laugh at me when I would limp from an injury, once my leg was paralyzed for a few days and she didnt bother taking me to the doctor, she just laughed at me when I limped. She also always bodyshamed me from ages 7-10
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I just always remember my mom would laugh at me when I would limp from an injury, once my leg was paralyzed for a few days and she didnt bother taking me to the doctor, she just laughed at me when I limped. She also always bodyshamed me from ages 7-10
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Maria
Supposedly I should have mercy towards my bullies in my teens, because they couldn't handle my mood swings due to my misery I had back at home. I never see someone with a strong support base getting excessive conflicts while being ganged upon. I'm just saying.
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Supposedly I should have mercy towards my bullies in my teens, because they couldn't handle my mood swings due to my misery I had back at home. I never see someone with a strong support base getting excessive conflicts while being ganged upon. I'm just saying.
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Marc
I may be late to this video, but I think giving up a baby for adoption could also be considered. Separation from the birth mother at birth can be a trauma in itself, manifesting separation anxiety, fear of rejection and abandonment issues.
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I may be late to this video, but I think giving up a baby for adoption could also be considered. Separation from the birth mother at birth can be a trauma in itself, manifesting separation anxiety, fear of rejection and abandonment issues.
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Lil
7 out of 7 lets go even more reason to ctb. having to constantly deal with the consequences of others actions since i was young and learning more and more about how that never leaves you is even more demeaning and insulting to me.
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7 out of 7 lets go even more reason to ctb. having to constantly deal with the consequences of others actions since i was young and learning more and more about how that never leaves you is even more demeaning and insulting to me.
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