9 Things A Sociopath Would Say
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Date: 2023-08-20
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''Don't be so sensitive'' happened to me from my own sister, but in my case she outright ridiculed me and called me a cry baby for admitting to having depression due to consequences of a genetic dissability im suffering from since birth and greatly hamper my social life. While I was kind of hurt by the comment, what was the most jarring is her own massive hypocresy on the matter, because she herself openly talk in the back of others for percieved past wrongs she feel were done to her, I simply lost the track of all the times she comes around to bemoan about how her co-workers or bosses are dumb asses or something similarly irrespectuous, she even still hate our father for comment he did when she was younger even when he has been dead for more than a decade now, will eagerly jump and accuse you of a myriad issues if you dare critic her about anything, etc etc.
Honestly I wish upon nobody to have to deal with that kind of sociopath (which I only recently realized she undoubtly was, I mean I had suspected she had some kind of psychological issues with how she behaved, but recent events and my own introspection allowed me to gain insight on the matter, its just an utterly horrid experience that drain you of your will to live. Interacting with her in any context is like trying to tip toe across a minefield where the spot where there ain't any traps are covered in egg shells, one moment everything is fine the next she is going ballistic for the most illogical reason, like for exemple I had brought her a game because I knew she'd love the type of humor in it (Disco Elysium if you're wondering, and while she feigned appreciation, it took almost an entire year to convince her to actually give it a try, and it basically happened solely because we happened to be at the same place and she had no real excuse not to try it. And guess what? She loved it! And while thing seemed good for a few hours, it only took a single sentence from me to become pissed off and storm off angrily, claiming a looser like I have to right to dictate how she is to live her life. The sentence in question was; '' Hey you should definitely continue playing it another day this week or the next, its totally worth it''
She is really driving me insane with this kind of shit, I barely want to interact with her because its almost insured to turn sour. I know most sociopath are probably aren't as bad as her, but god damn almighty, why did she have to be so utterly awful? Sorry for the blog post, but I had to write it out somewhere.
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''Don't be so sensitive'' happened to me from my own sister, but in my case she outright ridiculed me and called me a cry baby for admitting to having depression due to consequences of a genetic dissability im suffering from since birth and greatly hamper my social life. While I was kind of hurt by the comment, what was the most jarring is her own massive hypocresy on the matter, because she herself openly talk in the back of others for percieved past wrongs she feel were done to her, I simply lost the track of all the times she comes around to bemoan about how her co-workers or bosses are dumb asses or something similarly irrespectuous, she even still hate our father for comment he did when she was younger even when he has been dead for more than a decade now, will eagerly jump and accuse you of a myriad issues if you dare critic her about anything, etc etc.
Honestly I wish upon nobody to have to deal with that kind of sociopath (which I only recently realized she undoubtly was, I mean I had suspected she had some kind of psychological issues with how she behaved, but recent events and my own introspection allowed me to gain insight on the matter, its just an utterly horrid experience that drain you of your will to live. Interacting with her in any context is like trying to tip toe across a minefield where the spot where there ain't any traps are covered in egg shells, one moment everything is fine the next she is going ballistic for the most illogical reason, like for exemple I had brought her a game because I knew she'd love the type of humor in it (Disco Elysium if you're wondering, and while she feigned appreciation, it took almost an entire year to convince her to actually give it a try, and it basically happened solely because we happened to be at the same place and she had no real excuse not to try it. And guess what? She loved it! And while thing seemed good for a few hours, it only took a single sentence from me to become pissed off and storm off angrily, claiming a looser like I have to right to dictate how she is to live her life. The sentence in question was; '' Hey you should definitely continue playing it another day this week or the next, its totally worth it''
She is really driving me insane with this kind of shit, I barely want to interact with her because its almost insured to turn sour. I know most sociopath are probably aren't as bad as her, but god damn almighty, why did she have to be so utterly awful? Sorry for the blog post, but I had to write it out somewhere.
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Krankle
Hey uhh. I know this video was 2 years ago, but I have a few problems with it. Not trying to complain, I just have a few genuine concerns about the way you're portraying sociopaths. In no way am I a mental health professional or educated on the topic enough to completely judge the things that you're saying/doing, but here are my concerns:
1) I know this is just the video style, but I noticed that you're bringing up each sign with a sorta edgy theme. This isn't too much of a problem I guess, but people who think being edgy is cool might see that theme and associate being a sociopath with being cool and edgy. My proof is this comment section. I've seen at least 5 comments bragging about how much of a sociopath they are as if it's quirky.
2) People may use this information to try and diagnose either themselves, or someone else as a sociopath. Yes, I'm aware that you provided a disclaimer letting people know that these phrases don't define a sociopath, however that doesn't necessarily mean people wont still use it as a diagnosis. This is followed up by my next concern:
3) Associating certain phrases with a mental health condition makes it seem as if they're proper signs of said condition, which might also make people believe that just because someone says one of those phrases, they're automatically considered a sociopath. Although some sociopaths may say things like this, not all will. And not everyone who says these things are sociopaths. These phrases could be the product of many other mental health conditions or mental illnesses. But it also just be nothing at all. And AGAIN, I understand that you put a disclaimer for this, but I don't think it was clear enough.
And before anyone comments hating on me, or saying they put a disclaimer, I will say, AGAIN, these are just my personal concerns, and in NO WAY am I a medical health professional or educated enough to properly criticize this information. And AGAIN, I'm also aware they put a disclaimer. However, I will say that if you're looking for actual good mental health advice or looking for a good educational resource, I honestly don't recommend Psych2Go.
Thank you for reading.
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Hey uhh. I know this video was 2 years ago, but I have a few problems with it. Not trying to complain, I just have a few genuine concerns about the way you're portraying sociopaths. In no way am I a mental health professional or educated on the topic enough to completely judge the things that you're saying/doing, but here are my concerns:
1) I know this is just the video style, but I noticed that you're bringing up each sign with a sorta edgy theme. This isn't too much of a problem I guess, but people who think being edgy is cool might see that theme and associate being a sociopath with being cool and edgy. My proof is this comment section. I've seen at least 5 comments bragging about how much of a sociopath they are as if it's quirky.
2) People may use this information to try and diagnose either themselves, or someone else as a sociopath. Yes, I'm aware that you provided a disclaimer letting people know that these phrases don't define a sociopath, however that doesn't necessarily mean people wont still use it as a diagnosis. This is followed up by my next concern:
3) Associating certain phrases with a mental health condition makes it seem as if they're proper signs of said condition, which might also make people believe that just because someone says one of those phrases, they're automatically considered a sociopath. Although some sociopaths may say things like this, not all will. And not everyone who says these things are sociopaths. These phrases could be the product of many other mental health conditions or mental illnesses. But it also just be nothing at all. And AGAIN, I understand that you put a disclaimer for this, but I don't think it was clear enough.
And before anyone comments hating on me, or saying they put a disclaimer, I will say, AGAIN, these are just my personal concerns, and in NO WAY am I a medical health professional or educated enough to properly criticize this information. And AGAIN, I'm also aware they put a disclaimer. However, I will say that if you're looking for actual good mental health advice or looking for a good educational resource, I honestly don't recommend Psych2Go.
Thank you for reading.
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Stephen
I have an ex who wasn't diagnosed, but I'm convinced that they might be a psychopath because they have a lot of borderline, narcissistic, and psychopathic traits. They also had brain damage from being in a car accident. However, they were only diagnosed with OCD and PTSD.
When we first met, they mirrored aspects of my personality to make it seem like we had a lot in common. After several months, they convinced me to move in with them. As soon as I did, they started psychologically bullying me. It started slow, as if I was being tested to see how much abuse I'll tolerate. They were highly aggressive, used to harm toads, had to do community service for robbing houses, etc. She would ball up her fists and try to make me flinch. She was incredibly parasitic and would try to leach off of me financially. She threatened to murder me in my sleep because I didn't believe in the same things that she did. (I'm an atheist) They were unable to intellectually wrap their mind around certain concepts. I suspect that could be a result of the brain damage from the car accident. I'm convinced that they were at least a borderline with narcissistic traits. Their entire personality would shift to whoever her favorite person was. Her manurisms, the way she dressed, the way she texted, her speech, the music that she listened to, and even her name would change depending on who her favorite person was. Anyway, it was incredibly toxic. It really messed me up because I don't exactly fit in with other people. I ignored the psychological bullying as much as I could because I understood that this is someone who is unable or unwilling to listen to reason. I was called sensative. And when I finally decided that I had enough, I was disgarded.
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I have an ex who wasn't diagnosed, but I'm convinced that they might be a psychopath because they have a lot of borderline, narcissistic, and psychopathic traits. They also had brain damage from being in a car accident. However, they were only diagnosed with OCD and PTSD.
When we first met, they mirrored aspects of my personality to make it seem like we had a lot in common. After several months, they convinced me to move in with them. As soon as I did, they started psychologically bullying me. It started slow, as if I was being tested to see how much abuse I'll tolerate. They were highly aggressive, used to harm toads, had to do community service for robbing houses, etc. She would ball up her fists and try to make me flinch. She was incredibly parasitic and would try to leach off of me financially. She threatened to murder me in my sleep because I didn't believe in the same things that she did. (I'm an atheist) They were unable to intellectually wrap their mind around certain concepts. I suspect that could be a result of the brain damage from the car accident. I'm convinced that they were at least a borderline with narcissistic traits. Their entire personality would shift to whoever her favorite person was. Her manurisms, the way she dressed, the way she texted, her speech, the music that she listened to, and even her name would change depending on who her favorite person was. Anyway, it was incredibly toxic. It really messed me up because I don't exactly fit in with other people. I ignored the psychological bullying as much as I could because I understood that this is someone who is unable or unwilling to listen to reason. I was called sensative. And when I finally decided that I had enough, I was disgarded.
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Jimmy
I think some sociopaths get a bad rep because they have these shortcomings mentally. But doesnt that make people judging them sociopaths in a manner. Im just trying to understand how they think. We automatically assign them as bad person but they are just working with the tools they have. They dont have empathy so they dont choose to be cruel ignoring the fact that they know how you feel. They literally dont know how you feel. Hmm not apologetic for them. Just curious. How might I behave if my brain was wired that way. (Which makes me not a sociopath I guess)
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I think some sociopaths get a bad rep because they have these shortcomings mentally. But doesnt that make people judging them sociopaths in a manner. Im just trying to understand how they think. We automatically assign them as bad person but they are just working with the tools they have. They dont have empathy so they dont choose to be cruel ignoring the fact that they know how you feel. They literally dont know how you feel. Hmm not apologetic for them. Just curious. How might I behave if my brain was wired that way. (Which makes me not a sociopath I guess)
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xxglcxx
Pro Tips:
1. Learn to love yourself and find yourself feeling successful and not wait for the approval of others.
2. If someone says to your reasonable response 'Don't be so touchy/sensitive', say 'No, you're more sensitive/attentive'.
3. Don't let your happiness depend on the happiness of those around you. Build your own system.
4. Know what you deserve (attention, love, personal time, etc) and demand what you think you deserve. Be aware of neither less nor more. If you don't get what you deserve, say it and move on.
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Pro Tips:
1. Learn to love yourself and find yourself feeling successful and not wait for the approval of others.
2. If someone says to your reasonable response 'Don't be so touchy/sensitive', say 'No, you're more sensitive/attentive'.
3. Don't let your happiness depend on the happiness of those around you. Build your own system.
4. Know what you deserve (attention, love, personal time, etc) and demand what you think you deserve. Be aware of neither less nor more. If you don't get what you deserve, say it and move on.
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vrill
As a sociopath I can say that not every sociopaths and pasychopaths ale like that. Like me for example. Sometimes I really don't give a sht about the world, anyone and anything, but sometimes I do care, maybe less than avarage person but still. Anyway, I'm always trying to be a good person, I'm helping people, and I usually don't say things like in this video, but I think that often. But still that doesn't mean we are bad, at least not all of us
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As a sociopath I can say that not every sociopaths and pasychopaths ale like that. Like me for example. Sometimes I really don't give a sht about the world, anyone and anything, but sometimes I do care, maybe less than avarage person but still. Anyway, I'm always trying to be a good person, I'm helping people, and I usually don't say things like in this video, but I think that often. But still that doesn't mean we are bad, at least not all of us
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psych2go
It is somewhat scary how many of these things I have done. I have not been diagnosed with sociopathy but show signs of it. I often lie or manipulate my family without even thinking or realizing it, but when I do realize what I did, I feel dissapointed in myself but continue to do it. I also have problems with impulse control, I will do very ubrupt and mean actions to people if they are rude or say something that offends me.
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It is somewhat scary how many of these things I have done. I have not been diagnosed with sociopathy but show signs of it. I often lie or manipulate my family without even thinking or realizing it, but when I do realize what I did, I feel dissapointed in myself but continue to do it. I also have problems with impulse control, I will do very ubrupt and mean actions to people if they are rude or say something that offends me.
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The
I have had really bad mental and physical abuse family and friends growing up and I been watching your videos and found out recently i have all the descriptions of sociopath my struggle to get my relationships I'm usually depressed and angry and lash out can someone please help me give me advice or something I talk to a therapist over the phone once every 3 weeks is there anyway way I can ask for help?
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I have had really bad mental and physical abuse family and friends growing up and I been watching your videos and found out recently i have all the descriptions of sociopath my struggle to get my relationships I'm usually depressed and angry and lash out can someone please help me give me advice or something I talk to a therapist over the phone once every 3 weeks is there anyway way I can ask for help?
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Darwin
Omg this girl would not leave me alone stalk me at work woudl not let me get inside my car would stalk my house bang on the door man I do not miss that and the part about the money part hit different no cappuccino because she would buy me shoes clothes pay my gas my bills and Im the end she was like I invested in you I said nah you did out your heart but man its like selling your soul to the devil
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Omg this girl would not leave me alone stalk me at work woudl not let me get inside my car would stalk my house bang on the door man I do not miss that and the part about the money part hit different no cappuccino because she would buy me shoes clothes pay my gas my bills and Im the end she was like I invested in you I said nah you did out your heart but man its like selling your soul to the devil
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Nevaeh
You make me a better person
There are people with antisocial personality disorder that genuinely do want to change, but unfortunately, that's like less than 1% of them. Even if they are willing to change their ways, sociopaths are completely incapable of doing so, meaning you're beating a dead horse in simply even trying. The only way for a sociopath to change is if they died.
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You make me a better person
There are people with antisocial personality disorder that genuinely do want to change, but unfortunately, that's like less than 1% of them. Even if they are willing to change their ways, sociopaths are completely incapable of doing so, meaning you're beating a dead horse in simply even trying. The only way for a sociopath to change is if they died.
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the
from someone born and properly diagnosed with psychopathy, things like you'll never survive without me and no one will ever love you as I do are way too blunt and anyone can see through that as attempts of manipulation. keep in mind that psychopaths have lived their entire life manipulating people, so and have a lifetime of experience doing so.
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from someone born and properly diagnosed with psychopathy, things like you'll never survive without me and no one will ever love you as I do are way too blunt and anyone can see through that as attempts of manipulation. keep in mind that psychopaths have lived their entire life manipulating people, so and have a lifetime of experience doing so.
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NoOneGirl
1. No one is ever going to love you like I do
2. You're the most amazing person I've ever met
3. Don't be so sensitive
4. You'll never survive without me
5. You make me a better person
6. You're the only one who understands me
7. You're so needy
8. I don't have time for this
9. You owe me
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1. No one is ever going to love you like I do
2. You're the most amazing person I've ever met
3. Don't be so sensitive
4. You'll never survive without me
5. You make me a better person
6. You're the only one who understands me
7. You're so needy
8. I don't have time for this
9. You owe me
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lil
im a sociopath and i still love, i care about people but it has to be a trade off. like i dont see value in relationships that dont benefit me. its not like we are evil its just that we like to control our partner and its a transactional relationships. Some people are into the control as long as its not taken too far
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im a sociopath and i still love, i care about people but it has to be a trade off. like i dont see value in relationships that dont benefit me. its not like we are evil its just that we like to control our partner and its a transactional relationships. Some people are into the control as long as its not taken too far
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blogorgonopsid
This helped me. I got trolled on the internet by a guy who made everything seem like we had some sort of friendly relationship and that we had to forgive each other. I never knew anything about that person. besides the fact that they are incredibly manipulative. I see the complete picture now. A sociopath.
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This helped me. I got trolled on the internet by a guy who made everything seem like we had some sort of friendly relationship and that we had to forgive each other. I never knew anything about that person. besides the fact that they are incredibly manipulative. I see the complete picture now. A sociopath.
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Kera
I think this is overexaggerated and to be honest I'm borderline and I've done all these things. so I know it's accurate but at the same time doesn't paint a clear picture and that's typically american. that's why we are not the brightest. it always takes a forgiener to teach and paint a clear picture better.
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I think this is overexaggerated and to be honest I'm borderline and I've done all these things. so I know it's accurate but at the same time doesn't paint a clear picture and that's typically american. that's why we are not the brightest. it always takes a forgiener to teach and paint a clear picture better.
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Ash
Most of this is misinformation, not all sociopaths are narcissists, actually not many at all are pls stop painting these PEOPLE as monsters when their nothing like how you described, although some low-functioning sociopaths are like this most arent. get educated ASPD is a spectrum your part of the problem
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Most of this is misinformation, not all sociopaths are narcissists, actually not many at all are pls stop painting these PEOPLE as monsters when their nothing like how you described, although some low-functioning sociopaths are like this most arent. get educated ASPD is a spectrum your part of the problem
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Jmie.
Am I normal? Why dont I feel guilty? Should I feel sad? DO i look normal enough?
It started as domestic abuse, then social anxiety.
Humans have t=no empathy they make me frustrated, angry and fear and just expect me to suck it in.
I hate it.
Im trying.
But i dont know how to.
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Am I normal? Why dont I feel guilty? Should I feel sad? DO i look normal enough?
It started as domestic abuse, then social anxiety.
Humans have t=no empathy they make me frustrated, angry and fear and just expect me to suck it in.
I hate it.
Im trying.
But i dont know how to.
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Paul
That friends some years ago asked to me: am i a sociopath? And i didn't know how to reply because I didn't know what it means but he says all of these things and have that behaviour with me prativally since we met, infact i can say that he manipulated me until maybe now too
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That friends some years ago asked to me: am i a sociopath? And i didn't know how to reply because I didn't know what it means but he says all of these things and have that behaviour with me prativally since we met, infact i can say that he manipulated me until maybe now too
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Mad,
I think it's important to point out that most non-sociopathic people are perfectly capable of saying pretty much any of these things when they're not at their best.
Jumping hastily to conclusions is one of the biggest themes of the 21st century.
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I think it's important to point out that most non-sociopathic people are perfectly capable of saying pretty much any of these things when they're not at their best.
Jumping hastily to conclusions is one of the biggest themes of the 21st century.
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disinfectant
Literal proof that I was around a sociopath at 6. Upon a ton of others. I feel like I'm always a tiny bit of a psychopath or a sociopath. And abusive. but that's literally become habit, and I have zero ideas how to change that
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Literal proof that I was around a sociopath at 6. Upon a ton of others. I feel like I'm always a tiny bit of a psychopath or a sociopath. And abusive. but that's literally become habit, and I have zero ideas how to change that
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Meem
TLDR: if someone insults, compliments, or otherwise talks to you, they are probably a sociopath. Don't trust them. Except for me. I'm definitely not a sociopath, everyone here could trust me with their lives.
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TLDR: if someone insults, compliments, or otherwise talks to you, they are probably a sociopath. Don't trust them. Except for me. I'm definitely not a sociopath, everyone here could trust me with their lives.
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Hamac
Recently a friend of mine came out as a sociopath and I'm not sure if I should continue the relationship or not. It's hard they've helped me a lot with my mental health but I'm not sure anymore.
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Recently a friend of mine came out as a sociopath and I'm not sure if I should continue the relationship or not. It's hard they've helped me a lot with my mental health but I'm not sure anymore.
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education
generally those cat's try to ride your ass making you think that you owe them something for their own personal feels. they gonna burn you down anyway if you let them.
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generally those cat's try to ride your ass making you think that you owe them something for their own personal feels. they gonna burn you down anyway if you let them.
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Lebron
I know someone who uses those phrases, (except for you owe me) and sadly it's me and if Isabel, Dominic, Wyatt, Ricari, Ricardo, or anybody else I know, I'm sorry.
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I know someone who uses those phrases, (except for you owe me) and sadly it's me and if Isabel, Dominic, Wyatt, Ricari, Ricardo, or anybody else I know, I'm sorry.
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Quang
When you become a manager, ceo. You HAVE to think like a sociopath, because there's a lot of sociopaths in this environment, so you will slowly become a sociopath
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When you become a manager, ceo. You HAVE to think like a sociopath, because there's a lot of sociopaths in this environment, so you will slowly become a sociopath
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