8 Signs Youre An INFJ The World Rarest Personality Type
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Being an INFJ is like a double-edged sword; on one hand, you know barely anyone could understand you but you bottle it up because you know it's annoying. Therefore we like to keep most of ourselves to ourselves for the sake of others, which leads to cycles burnout.
The other hand though, I'd rather struggle with inner turmoil, ultimately finding peace in solitude than be anybody different. Not many people like to look beyond the surface. I'm in college to become a psychologist because I simply enjoy working with people on anything they struggle with. The goal is to know how to validate yourself, accept what is, forgive the things you cannot forget, and flourish from all of it.
(Edit: jfc that was a lot sorry i didn't mean to preach to the choir)
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Being an INFJ is like a double-edged sword; on one hand, you know barely anyone could understand you but you bottle it up because you know it's annoying. Therefore we like to keep most of ourselves to ourselves for the sake of others, which leads to cycles burnout.
The other hand though, I'd rather struggle with inner turmoil, ultimately finding peace in solitude than be anybody different. Not many people like to look beyond the surface. I'm in college to become a psychologist because I simply enjoy working with people on anything they struggle with. The goal is to know how to validate yourself, accept what is, forgive the things you cannot forget, and flourish from all of it.
(Edit: jfc that was a lot sorry i didn't mean to preach to the choir)
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Kate
Wave length! I say different world entirely. You don't fit in. Your considered weird. That something is wrong with you. Isolating is more like being ostracized. It's a weakness. I think so differently from every human being. Until I started to learn about INFJ I thought I was mentally ill. I couldn't get a diagnosis but knew something was different in me than others. This is information I wish I had 50 years ago. I'm 53 now. Sad to me. I lost so much of life thinking I was crazy
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Wave length! I say different world entirely. You don't fit in. Your considered weird. That something is wrong with you. Isolating is more like being ostracized. It's a weakness. I think so differently from every human being. Until I started to learn about INFJ I thought I was mentally ill. I couldn't get a diagnosis but knew something was different in me than others. This is information I wish I had 50 years ago. I'm 53 now. Sad to me. I lost so much of life thinking I was crazy
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Crazy
I kept getting INFJ on quizzes, but didn't know much about psychology so I didn't care. Than I saw this video and was like wait, what and instantly began trying to find where I wrote it down. I know that so many people will try to fit this because they want to be rare, and I understand that. But it is sort of hilarious when watching or reading something that is literally fitting every single trait you have.
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I kept getting INFJ on quizzes, but didn't know much about psychology so I didn't care. Than I saw this video and was like wait, what and instantly began trying to find where I wrote it down. I know that so many people will try to fit this because they want to be rare, and I understand that. But it is sort of hilarious when watching or reading something that is literally fitting every single trait you have.
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Fluff_Potato
I dont know if Im an INFJ but I can relate to this video in how my mind works different and I feel misunderstood most times: ) Im different than my friends. They like to talk about random small talk stuff and I like to talk about something that is important to me. I feel more wise than most other kids but I can also be more like a kid. Im a huge empath and I like to help people.
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I dont know if Im an INFJ but I can relate to this video in how my mind works different and I feel misunderstood most times: ) Im different than my friends. They like to talk about random small talk stuff and I like to talk about something that is important to me. I feel more wise than most other kids but I can also be more like a kid. Im a huge empath and I like to help people.
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s0trnlyz
Ever since I was a little kid I have leaned tward helping others all the time. I usually only make friends and date sweet people who need help. Others always come before I do. I always have full mind and push myself away from some people even if I dont want to, I just see a trait and its almost like its natural for me to push away. Idk thats how I connect to this video.
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Ever since I was a little kid I have leaned tward helping others all the time. I usually only make friends and date sweet people who need help. Others always come before I do. I always have full mind and push myself away from some people even if I dont want to, I just see a trait and its almost like its natural for me to push away. Idk thats how I connect to this video.
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Mhost
Its weird cause most of you say this personality is a curse, sure I went through too much bc of it, but at least be proud bc your special you cant fit in that great its not your failt duh, you people w IFNL keeps comforting each others by saying like 'its a curse', 'its nothing to be desirable at all', 'at least im not alone' like cmn, its toxic, dont be toxic to yourself
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Its weird cause most of you say this personality is a curse, sure I went through too much bc of it, but at least be proud bc your special you cant fit in that great its not your failt duh, you people w IFNL keeps comforting each others by saying like 'its a curse', 'its nothing to be desirable at all', 'at least im not alone' like cmn, its toxic, dont be toxic to yourself
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education
Hmmm maybe me, but I've learnt over the years how to be less perfectionist and learnt how to do interesting small talk and learnt how to have boundaries around my empathy. So finally I'm pretty happy with the result. Getting older has advantages as you dont measure yourself against other people all the time. Just enjoy being you! For anyone in semi retirement like me!
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Hmmm maybe me, but I've learnt over the years how to be less perfectionist and learnt how to do interesting small talk and learnt how to have boundaries around my empathy. So finally I'm pretty happy with the result. Getting older has advantages as you dont measure yourself against other people all the time. Just enjoy being you! For anyone in semi retirement like me!
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Lilian
I took my test almost a month ago. I got INFP-T on my previous one and was expecting the same since it was only a year or so apart. Instead, I was presented with INFJ! It was strange honestly, i took it twice to confirm lol but it's weird to think that i changed this year when it feels like i haven't made much progress at all
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I took my test almost a month ago. I got INFP-T on my previous one and was expecting the same since it was only a year or so apart. Instead, I was presented with INFJ! It was strange honestly, i took it twice to confirm lol but it's weird to think that i changed this year when it feels like i haven't made much progress at all
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ghizlaine
yeah i can relate to all of these expect the one that said a friend group cuz i have friedns at my grandma's house and friedn at my school i have like three in my school and 2 in my grandma's house so its prbably two friend groups so i cannot very t=relate to that but the otheres yeah espicially the last one
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yeah i can relate to all of these expect the one that said a friend group cuz i have friedns at my grandma's house and friedn at my school i have like three in my school and 2 in my grandma's house so its prbably two friend groups so i cannot very t=relate to that but the otheres yeah espicially the last one
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education
I got 8 out of 8! I am studying a course at the moment and I do form a study group in the class with no one asking for it. But I have learned one thing from my life experiences is I need to get my study done so I can help with others. Its not easy to put myself's needs first but I keep reminding myself that.
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I got 8 out of 8! I am studying a course at the moment and I do form a study group in the class with no one asking for it. But I have learned one thing from my life experiences is I need to get my study done so I can help with others. Its not easy to put myself's needs first but I keep reminding myself that.
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Kiwi
The only thing I didnt cover completely was empathy- But I was born that way. Cause i am an Austistic person
Edit: I am still actually quite empathetic, but if my mind is fixed on a certain point or task, I find it hard to have empathy in those situations.
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The only thing I didnt cover completely was empathy- But I was born that way. Cause i am an Austistic person
Edit: I am still actually quite empathetic, but if my mind is fixed on a certain point or task, I find it hard to have empathy in those situations.
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WeiRd0M3L0N
I'm an INFP but I think I got like 7 or 6/8 things. The only thing is I'm not focused on the future very much and I don't think I would break off relationships easily but I could be wrong because I don't think I've ever needed to before
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I'm an INFP but I think I got like 7 or 6/8 things. The only thing is I'm not focused on the future very much and I don't think I would break off relationships easily but I could be wrong because I don't think I've ever needed to before
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crogfrog
if ur actually an INFJ then u prolly wouldnt have commented u r cuz it kinda goes against the 8 traits-if u did, u prolly said u were because it said rarest personality type -no offense to anyone just my thoughts
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if ur actually an INFJ then u prolly wouldnt have commented u r cuz it kinda goes against the 8 traits-if u did, u prolly said u were because it said rarest personality type -no offense to anyone just my thoughts
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Samosskiy
Why would someone need signs of personality type if you can just do the test and find out for good?
PS: I'm INFP and can relate to all signs above except last ha-ha - not much of a helper
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Why would someone need signs of personality type if you can just do the test and find out for good?
PS: I'm INFP and can relate to all signs above except last ha-ha - not much of a helper
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milk
I like people, but I also don't like them, but I don't hate them. Most of them are just there. And only about three or four people I've ever talked to I was ever really able to condsider a friend.
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I like people, but I also don't like them, but I don't hate them. Most of them are just there. And only about three or four people I've ever talked to I was ever really able to condsider a friend.
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Tim
I would say I was an INFJ until I retired and realized that a lot of that was something I couldn't use anymore. for example focusing on the future, so I don't know what type I am right now
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I would say I was an INFJ until I retired and realized that a lot of that was something I couldn't use anymore. for example focusing on the future, so I don't know what type I am right now
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Voidy
I feel like i have this personality cuz pretty much all of the facts apply to me tho it also sounds selfish in the same time saying that i would have this rare personality-
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I feel like i have this personality cuz pretty much all of the facts apply to me tho it also sounds selfish in the same time saying that i would have this rare personality-
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EnzoNotFerrari
Are you still an INFJ if you don't really keep a small friend circle or not that perceptive to emotions? Because if not, I am not sure what personality I have.
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Are you still an INFJ if you don't really keep a small friend circle or not that perceptive to emotions? Because if not, I am not sure what personality I have.
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Temilola
Im kind of INFJ like i relate to everything in this vid but, if u get me angry i will pretend to forgive u but i will be quietly plotting my cold blooded revenge
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Im kind of INFJ like i relate to everything in this vid but, if u get me angry i will pretend to forgive u but i will be quietly plotting my cold blooded revenge
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Jaibih
I actually took the test and got this type before I saw this video. Only clicked on it when I confirmed which type I was so tho is pretty cool to hear and spot on
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I actually took the test and got this type before I saw this video. Only clicked on it when I confirmed which type I was so tho is pretty cool to hear and spot on
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Jkgdly
I'm an INTJ and I could relate to all of the signs except the last one, because no matter what I always finish my own goals before turning to help others.
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I'm an INTJ and I could relate to all of the signs except the last one, because no matter what I always finish my own goals before turning to help others.
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mushroom
Idk what I am at this point and I dont wanna start labeling Im already wondering if I have autism or depression and idk what personality type fits me
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Idk what I am at this point and I dont wanna start labeling Im already wondering if I have autism or depression and idk what personality type fits me
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James
Wow, I literally have everything in this video, and I just thought I was weird.
Thanks for making things clear and help me understand more!
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Wow, I literally have everything in this video, and I just thought I was weird.
Thanks for making things clear and help me understand more!
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Moeka
This is literally me but Im not sure since Im new to mbti, I took a test once it said I was intj then I took it twice and it said I was an infj.
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This is literally me but Im not sure since Im new to mbti, I took a test once it said I was intj then I took it twice and it said I was an infj.
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Army
Well i did a test on bright side and i got this personality type i think im happy but in life i have no personality then whats the use of this?
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Well i did a test on bright side and i got this personality type i think im happy but in life i have no personality then whats the use of this?
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