6 Signs You're Depressed, Not Lazy
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Everyone is venting in the comments so I guess it's ok if I do it as well.
I'm only like 14 and I'm sorry to say that I'm already going through severe depression for a couple of years. Life used to be so bright and happy until my family moved to another city when I was 10, it was harder to make social interactions there for some reason but ig I managed to stay put. 2 years later I moved back to the city my family used to live and then I thought that life would get better now that we're back, it didn't. That's probably when I got the depression. It's been another 2 years and I COMPLETELY gave up on social life, I think about death(not suicide, just death) every day, I look at the phone all day trying to shake off the heavy feeling in my head by watching videos/searching up memes/gaming but it does NOT work whatsoever. My family does not know about my depression because I stay in my room with the doors closed all day. Also school is just meaningless torture at this point. I used to be the smartest kid in class, but I guess my grades are gradually dropping as well because I never look up from my phone.
Idc if someone just comes up and says iTs jUsT A PhaSe, my life is basically the [Sugar Crash] song.
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Everyone is venting in the comments so I guess it's ok if I do it as well.
I'm only like 14 and I'm sorry to say that I'm already going through severe depression for a couple of years. Life used to be so bright and happy until my family moved to another city when I was 10, it was harder to make social interactions there for some reason but ig I managed to stay put. 2 years later I moved back to the city my family used to live and then I thought that life would get better now that we're back, it didn't. That's probably when I got the depression. It's been another 2 years and I COMPLETELY gave up on social life, I think about death(not suicide, just death) every day, I look at the phone all day trying to shake off the heavy feeling in my head by watching videos/searching up memes/gaming but it does NOT work whatsoever. My family does not know about my depression because I stay in my room with the doors closed all day. Also school is just meaningless torture at this point. I used to be the smartest kid in class, but I guess my grades are gradually dropping as well because I never look up from my phone.
Idc if someone just comes up and says iTs jUsT A PhaSe, my life is basically the [Sugar Crash] song.
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Ava
I used to show all these signs at one point in the middle of the school year i suddenly felt sad i felt like i was not enough and it felt like i just couldn't do anything right, i couldn't sleep at night and the nights i could i cried myself to sleep, i couldn't look at my reflection in the mirror because everytime i did i felt like a disappointment. I stopped eating i would skip breakfast, lunch, and only have 4 bites of my dinner i began drastically losing weight. My friends and family became concerned they always asked if i was alright they said i looked sad and i always told them i was alright. but i think i don't think i was. My grades dropped and i became much colder towards everyone. Fortunately now i am alright but back then i wasn't. Ever since then i never gained back to my normal weight but i am still at a good average weight but if u feel around my body and hips u can easily feel my bones
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I used to show all these signs at one point in the middle of the school year i suddenly felt sad i felt like i was not enough and it felt like i just couldn't do anything right, i couldn't sleep at night and the nights i could i cried myself to sleep, i couldn't look at my reflection in the mirror because everytime i did i felt like a disappointment. I stopped eating i would skip breakfast, lunch, and only have 4 bites of my dinner i began drastically losing weight. My friends and family became concerned they always asked if i was alright they said i looked sad and i always told them i was alright. but i think i don't think i was. My grades dropped and i became much colder towards everyone. Fortunately now i am alright but back then i wasn't. Ever since then i never gained back to my normal weight but i am still at a good average weight but if u feel around my body and hips u can easily feel my bones
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Xavier
I think I'm just genuinely lazy though, it's the summer holidays I have no work or school that's taking some sort of toll on my mental health, food and tv still makes me happy, but I still feel too lazy to do anything. Like for most days I feel too lazy to even take a shower or brush my teeth. But if it's not depression, and I'm just lazy, then am I a bad person? Like do I just not put in the effort I need to put in? That's what it feels like most of the time, but I also want to not be lazy I just can't be bothered to do the most basic things unless it doesn't feel like work. I think I have lost interest in my hobbies though, I you can really call them hobbies. I used to love video games but not anymore, I did kind of like music, I liked playing the piano kind of and stuff, but not anymore, it feels like a chore learning new pieces of music.
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I think I'm just genuinely lazy though, it's the summer holidays I have no work or school that's taking some sort of toll on my mental health, food and tv still makes me happy, but I still feel too lazy to do anything. Like for most days I feel too lazy to even take a shower or brush my teeth. But if it's not depression, and I'm just lazy, then am I a bad person? Like do I just not put in the effort I need to put in? That's what it feels like most of the time, but I also want to not be lazy I just can't be bothered to do the most basic things unless it doesn't feel like work. I think I have lost interest in my hobbies though, I you can really call them hobbies. I used to love video games but not anymore, I did kind of like music, I liked playing the piano kind of and stuff, but not anymore, it feels like a chore learning new pieces of music.
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HUNGRYCATYUM
Everything is me. Sometimes i tell myself 'why was i born? ' 'i wanna die' its literally becoming stronger every second. Means im actually thinking about doing it. My parents think they can fix it. But they cant. They think its about my school. But its literally EVERYTHING. They dont know how much im struggling. I have lung infection. So i have alot of liquid on my lungs. Its called a flame. Now im struggling with school, lung infection basically EVERYTHING. I used to be the most happiest and funniest girl i know. Im literally 11 years old. I know im not suppose to watch this video. But i cant help it. Im just an 11 years old girl and im already feeling this depression. I dont know what to do anymore. I feel like my happy self has disappeared. I have 1 question. Should i die?
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Everything is me. Sometimes i tell myself 'why was i born? ' 'i wanna die' its literally becoming stronger every second. Means im actually thinking about doing it. My parents think they can fix it. But they cant. They think its about my school. But its literally EVERYTHING. They dont know how much im struggling. I have lung infection. So i have alot of liquid on my lungs. Its called a flame. Now im struggling with school, lung infection basically EVERYTHING. I used to be the most happiest and funniest girl i know. Im literally 11 years old. I know im not suppose to watch this video. But i cant help it. Im just an 11 years old girl and im already feeling this depression. I dont know what to do anymore. I feel like my happy self has disappeared. I have 1 question. Should i die?
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Hana
Im pretty sure Ive had depression for a while now three years to be exact. Ive seen a few of their videos on this topic and I can relate to everything in each and every one of them. Sure Ive gotten a bit better in some areas, but I have experienced all of this again recently, and my parents only now see me as a human being and not something that they can have full control of and only now see the damage thats been happening my entire life, and since I still cant fully open up to them I try playing it off and saying Im fine when I know Im really not.
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Im pretty sure Ive had depression for a while now three years to be exact. Ive seen a few of their videos on this topic and I can relate to everything in each and every one of them. Sure Ive gotten a bit better in some areas, but I have experienced all of this again recently, and my parents only now see me as a human being and not something that they can have full control of and only now see the damage thats been happening my entire life, and since I still cant fully open up to them I try playing it off and saying Im fine when I know Im really not.
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Katie-Cat
Well
The reasons Im in depreshon is
-I moved to different country twice
-swished homes (5+ times)
-My parents broke up but my dad wont let go of us
-my dad manipulates me
- I lost 2 of my best friends
- I have problem with my English pronunciation
-Im switching schools (again)
- Im worrying about my two little sisters
-Im worrying about my moms emotions
And Im just 11 years old girl who is trying to live normal life!
(And all of that happened in one year and 1 month)
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Well
The reasons Im in depreshon is
-I moved to different country twice
-swished homes (5+ times)
-My parents broke up but my dad wont let go of us
-my dad manipulates me
- I lost 2 of my best friends
- I have problem with my English pronunciation
-Im switching schools (again)
- Im worrying about my two little sisters
-Im worrying about my moms emotions
And Im just 11 years old girl who is trying to live normal life!
(And all of that happened in one year and 1 month)
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Skz's
It can be as easy as saying talk to a professional. But it is very difficult for me to tell my family that I want to go to a psychologist. My family doesn't take very good care of the psychologist. That's why I don't think they're going to take me. I don't think I'll be able to do it online either. Because I do not have money! Even though my parents give me money or something, I don't know how to deposit them online. Besides, if I do this secretly from my family, I think there will be a serious fight.
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It can be as easy as saying talk to a professional. But it is very difficult for me to tell my family that I want to go to a psychologist. My family doesn't take very good care of the psychologist. That's why I don't think they're going to take me. I don't think I'll be able to do it online either. Because I do not have money! Even though my parents give me money or something, I don't know how to deposit them online. Besides, if I do this secretly from my family, I think there will be a serious fight.
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Benizakura
I dont know if I have depression or not bc I can be happy but it never lasts long, the negative thoughts are getting over my mind. Its been maybe 2 weeks now and I have the impression that its getting even worse, I am not a person who cries a lot but during the past weeks I feel like its the only thing Im doing and I dont know why am I sad. Everything that my parents can tell me makes me cry even if theyre not aggressive at all. I feel like I dont have a lot of energy. I hope its not depression
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I dont know if I have depression or not bc I can be happy but it never lasts long, the negative thoughts are getting over my mind. Its been maybe 2 weeks now and I have the impression that its getting even worse, I am not a person who cries a lot but during the past weeks I feel like its the only thing Im doing and I dont know why am I sad. Everything that my parents can tell me makes me cry even if theyre not aggressive at all. I feel like I dont have a lot of energy. I hope its not depression
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AROHI
My parents never understands me they don't even know that how much I am trying to get out of this pain and they don't even care about it. Only I know, I have OCD, ADHD, depression how alone I am feeling. But they think I am lazy. I am answering them back. And always scold me I am tired of telling myself to be strong enough to not be so much negetive to commit suicide. But how much can I control myself from this headache without any treatment.
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My parents never understands me they don't even know that how much I am trying to get out of this pain and they don't even care about it. Only I know, I have OCD, ADHD, depression how alone I am feeling. But they think I am lazy. I am answering them back. And always scold me I am tired of telling myself to be strong enough to not be so much negetive to commit suicide. But how much can I control myself from this headache without any treatment.
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lili
When your soul is in wrong place and doesn't get chance to complete its subconscious life purpose depression occurs. Process of depression is over the time and doesn't come all of sudden. Moreover just like water cannot mix with oil same way when you are unable to mix with your surrounding depression is the result. Here best treatment is your religion and spiritual path which can guide us properly to uplift our life purpose
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When your soul is in wrong place and doesn't get chance to complete its subconscious life purpose depression occurs. Process of depression is over the time and doesn't come all of sudden. Moreover just like water cannot mix with oil same way when you are unable to mix with your surrounding depression is the result. Here best treatment is your religion and spiritual path which can guide us properly to uplift our life purpose
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zsscxz
To be honest, people found out in my past that I'm being gay. And they talked about it until the whole school knows. Even tho I'm already straight no matter what they keep talking about it. Until they're making this topic they are talking about is heard by the teachers. Now my future is ruined, I can't join student councils, join the university that i want, etc.
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To be honest, people found out in my past that I'm being gay. And they talked about it until the whole school knows. Even tho I'm already straight no matter what they keep talking about it. Until they're making this topic they are talking about is heard by the teachers. Now my future is ruined, I can't join student councils, join the university that i want, etc.
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Pink
I feel like I have depression but just cant tell anyone and cant reach to professional bc Im a child but just too scared to tell anyone and I would just have to keep my smile on everyday in front of everyone and I look like this when Im in front of ppl but in my body if look like this
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I feel like I have depression but just cant tell anyone and cant reach to professional bc Im a child but just too scared to tell anyone and I would just have to keep my smile on everyday in front of everyone and I look like this when Im in front of ppl but in my body if look like this
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Sarah
the worst thing about this is that i'm aware it's happening so I feel terrible because I know everyone around me is trying so hard to make me happy and i'm just letting them down I feel like my friendships and future is crumbling before me and there is nothing I can do to stop it
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the worst thing about this is that i'm aware it's happening so I feel terrible because I know everyone around me is trying so hard to make me happy and i'm just letting them down I feel like my friendships and future is crumbling before me and there is nothing I can do to stop it
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Tay11
7 ways to be happy!
1. Embrace your emotions.
2. do what is true to you
3. feel grateful when you can
4. stop comparing yourself to others
5. forgive yourself for your past
6. do not isolate yourself
7. leave what does not serve you
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7 ways to be happy!
1. Embrace your emotions.
2. do what is true to you
3. feel grateful when you can
4. stop comparing yourself to others
5. forgive yourself for your past
6. do not isolate yourself
7. leave what does not serve you
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HETANSH
Please make video on overcoming depression because I am like in the early stages of it I dont like anything and I uh kinda hate eating food i uh ok thanks this help me to confirm that and yea I have dreams of do suicide too but I can handle it
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Please make video on overcoming depression because I am like in the early stages of it I dont like anything and I uh kinda hate eating food i uh ok thanks this help me to confirm that and yea I have dreams of do suicide too but I can handle it
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Eko
Now I found out why I am slowly losing interest and motivation in everything, even what I used to like to do making me doubt about myself. And turned out I just wanted to stay at home all the time, talking with people make me feel so exhausted
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Now I found out why I am slowly losing interest and motivation in everything, even what I used to like to do making me doubt about myself. And turned out I just wanted to stay at home all the time, talking with people make me feel so exhausted
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The
For me the scary thing is that I am extremely good at hiding my depression and feelings, sometimes even I cant tell. I am mostly the life of the party, but when I am alone with my thoughts for just a second, I go insane.
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For me the scary thing is that I am extremely good at hiding my depression and feelings, sometimes even I cant tell. I am mostly the life of the party, but when I am alone with my thoughts for just a second, I go insane.
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Булка
I loved drawing. I loved psychology. I loved my friends. And I dont understand, what did I wrong? :( Maybe its all depression, but it seems to me like I dont want to be responsible for my life: (
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I loved drawing. I loved psychology. I loved my friends. And I dont understand, what did I wrong? :( Maybe its all depression, but it seems to me like I dont want to be responsible for my life: (
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backyard
I do often lose interest in my hobbies like rc's and video games because im depressed because i always have to do what my parents expect. I only rc in my grandpas backyard which is in my videos.
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I do often lose interest in my hobbies like rc's and video games because im depressed because i always have to do what my parents expect. I only rc in my grandpas backyard which is in my videos.
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ArcheryGrl271
I relate to all of this and I decided today after talking about it for a while to finally seek help, I hope everyone else who relates is able to get help and has a happy and fun filled life
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I relate to all of this and I decided today after talking about it for a while to finally seek help, I hope everyone else who relates is able to get help and has a happy and fun filled life
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Ray-Ray
I think I'm feeling down because of everything that is happening around me. But honestly I've been feeling like this since I was very young. I say to my self why am I taking too long to end this.
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I think I'm feeling down because of everything that is happening around me. But honestly I've been feeling like this since I was very young. I say to my self why am I taking too long to end this.
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Aditi
The comment section feels so familiar it feels like we are living in different world where only we can understand each other and all the people around us are alien
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The comment section feels so familiar it feels like we are living in different world where only we can understand each other and all the people around us are alien
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BloxburgBuildsPlus
Id never thought Id have to deal with it again after the last years of bullying I went through. I WAS WRONG
Pretend smiling is so hard rn
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Id never thought Id have to deal with it again after the last years of bullying I went through. I WAS WRONG
Pretend smiling is so hard rn
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Damaged_Otaku
Yes #3 is the worst! I used to be so passionate about Japan and anime that I studied abroad when I was in college, now I feel nothing though: (
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Yes #3 is the worst! I used to be so passionate about Japan and anime that I studied abroad when I was in college, now I feel nothing though: (
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HaimakoZentziThe
I was just laying in bed, listening to this, and then, i suddenly felt a bit more encouragement hearing everyones storys in the comments.
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I was just laying in bed, listening to this, and then, i suddenly felt a bit more encouragement hearing everyones storys in the comments.
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