6 Signs Someone Truly Loves You Without Saying It
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Ron
I used had this crush on this young lady and i would always ask to hangout with her and I loved her company I was never on my phone or feeling like I rather be doing something else.
I was so happy that in my mind she can possibly be my first true love I was praying to god that she be the one.
I realized the more we hung out the more I realized the red flags that she wasnt into me, that it was just a fantasy I was confusing for reality she wasnt responding to my texts promptly, she only text me every other day or 3 days I realized I was the one inviting her to hangout and if I stopped responding or stop asking to hangout she wouldnt even bother wanting to text me back I asked her out even though these red flags were recurring more frequently and I was promptly and certainly rejected, I know I sound like an idiot but for the hopeless romantics out there I hope to god you dont develop feelings for people who dont even put the same effort as you do, after she rejected me a week or so later i found out she started dating someone else it crushed my soul and I havent tried since then for another partner since then that was 2 years ago, now Im doing a lot better focusing of time on myself and my connections with my family and friends over a girl who never loved me, Im hopping soon though someone will be willing to be my first ever girlfriend. I may look like a loser especially at my old age when it comes too dating but Im still going to stay positive through it all we all will experience true love one day.
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I used had this crush on this young lady and i would always ask to hangout with her and I loved her company I was never on my phone or feeling like I rather be doing something else.
I was so happy that in my mind she can possibly be my first true love I was praying to god that she be the one.
I realized the more we hung out the more I realized the red flags that she wasnt into me, that it was just a fantasy I was confusing for reality she wasnt responding to my texts promptly, she only text me every other day or 3 days I realized I was the one inviting her to hangout and if I stopped responding or stop asking to hangout she wouldnt even bother wanting to text me back I asked her out even though these red flags were recurring more frequently and I was promptly and certainly rejected, I know I sound like an idiot but for the hopeless romantics out there I hope to god you dont develop feelings for people who dont even put the same effort as you do, after she rejected me a week or so later i found out she started dating someone else it crushed my soul and I havent tried since then for another partner since then that was 2 years ago, now Im doing a lot better focusing of time on myself and my connections with my family and friends over a girl who never loved me, Im hopping soon though someone will be willing to be my first ever girlfriend. I may look like a loser especially at my old age when it comes too dating but Im still going to stay positive through it all we all will experience true love one day.
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yoyoyoyoyo
Can someone love you, but not get you? You see, I have a friend, pretty much my best friend, and we laugh and hug and say we love eachother. They even called me their platonic soulmate several times.
But I don't think they really are that to me, because, while we technically are really compatible, when I make my dumb jokes or am just randomly enjoying myself, they never understand what I mean or laugh, instead all they do is akwardly accept it.
I know that not every joke is funny, but I legit think that your soulmate would laugh at least a bit at your goofier sides.
I know this is probably high level complaining, but I love joking, especially dad jokes, and they made me pretty insecure about it.
I know they didn't mean to, but it had a negative impact on me.
Also, I really struggle a lot to communicate with them, because they'll either not get what I am trying to tell them or unintentionally hurt me with not responding to it. but still, we planed a future with one another and I really love them.
They just make me feel more loved and hurt than anyone else I know.
I just wanted to get this off my chest rq, thx for reading.
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Can someone love you, but not get you? You see, I have a friend, pretty much my best friend, and we laugh and hug and say we love eachother. They even called me their platonic soulmate several times.
But I don't think they really are that to me, because, while we technically are really compatible, when I make my dumb jokes or am just randomly enjoying myself, they never understand what I mean or laugh, instead all they do is akwardly accept it.
I know that not every joke is funny, but I legit think that your soulmate would laugh at least a bit at your goofier sides.
I know this is probably high level complaining, but I love joking, especially dad jokes, and they made me pretty insecure about it.
I know they didn't mean to, but it had a negative impact on me.
Also, I really struggle a lot to communicate with them, because they'll either not get what I am trying to tell them or unintentionally hurt me with not responding to it. but still, we planed a future with one another and I really love them.
They just make me feel more loved and hurt than anyone else I know.
I just wanted to get this off my chest rq, thx for reading.
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Angel
I stopped yelling my z I loved him when I realised I just didnt anymore. Wasnt going to lue. But then his version of love was what he could get fron me. I dont believe he ever actually loved me, just what he could get from me.
I stopped listening when everything coming out his mouth was negative. Never had a good word to say about anyone.
He'd say he loved me then trample over my feelings and boundaries. Of course it was never his fault, always someone else's.
Did he ever remember our wedding anniversary, no i dont think he ever did. Perhaps the fact i didnt really cate abput it should have been a red flag.
At the end of the relationship all the Narcissistic traits where glaringly in my face.
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I stopped yelling my z I loved him when I realised I just didnt anymore. Wasnt going to lue. But then his version of love was what he could get fron me. I dont believe he ever actually loved me, just what he could get from me.
I stopped listening when everything coming out his mouth was negative. Never had a good word to say about anyone.
He'd say he loved me then trample over my feelings and boundaries. Of course it was never his fault, always someone else's.
Did he ever remember our wedding anniversary, no i dont think he ever did. Perhaps the fact i didnt really cate abput it should have been a red flag.
At the end of the relationship all the Narcissistic traits where glaringly in my face.
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jakeunshakeable
i had the GALL the audacity to become disabled and unable to serve THEIR needs. just dumbfounded. I KNEW they were 55 lbs of shit stuffed in a 5lb sack BUT i thought I could teach them, convince them, plead with THEM.
Then I realized I am the only one who EVER tried.
They will be broken, shattered, financially amd in their own self images and shocked there is NOTHING they could ever do to gain my heart again.
Closer to not seeking and Needing revenge.
I want to help ky community, i want to build as i have always endeavoured.
Narcissists destroy, so leave them alone to drown in their own bile and venom.
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i had the GALL the audacity to become disabled and unable to serve THEIR needs. just dumbfounded. I KNEW they were 55 lbs of shit stuffed in a 5lb sack BUT i thought I could teach them, convince them, plead with THEM.
Then I realized I am the only one who EVER tried.
They will be broken, shattered, financially amd in their own self images and shocked there is NOTHING they could ever do to gain my heart again.
Closer to not seeking and Needing revenge.
I want to help ky community, i want to build as i have always endeavoured.
Narcissists destroy, so leave them alone to drown in their own bile and venom.
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Tizona
yeah, a lot of them. and a few others too. kind of an extension of there for you but. I often think of my Fiance, when I do things. if I make dinner, is it something he would like? make sure it's not too spicy. [cause. he's an absolute pansy, and I like spicy, oh well. ] and while I'm not much of a phone call type person. we go to bed like an hour before we actually plan to sleep. because every night is chat for a while, time. no matter how busy our day was, we always have that bedtime no distractions chatting time to look forward to.
and yes. we remind each other by saying I love you quite regularly.
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yeah, a lot of them. and a few others too. kind of an extension of there for you but. I often think of my Fiance, when I do things. if I make dinner, is it something he would like? make sure it's not too spicy. [cause. he's an absolute pansy, and I like spicy, oh well. ] and while I'm not much of a phone call type person. we go to bed like an hour before we actually plan to sleep. because every night is chat for a while, time. no matter how busy our day was, we always have that bedtime no distractions chatting time to look forward to.
and yes. we remind each other by saying I love you quite regularly.
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Wistbacka
Last one is almost useless if you are English speaking, because the phrase love and love you is spanmed way too casually and has imho really lost its true meaning.
Not saying you cant sincerely mean it when you say it, just that it gets substituted for like in so many instances.
And the worst part is that thanks to English being so prominent now everywhete, this overuse of I love you/something also gets translsted into other languages that previously was very conservative of when to use love; mostly only for true love-situations.
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Last one is almost useless if you are English speaking, because the phrase love and love you is spanmed way too casually and has imho really lost its true meaning.
Not saying you cant sincerely mean it when you say it, just that it gets substituted for like in so many instances.
And the worst part is that thanks to English being so prominent now everywhete, this overuse of I love you/something also gets translsted into other languages that previously was very conservative of when to use love; mostly only for true love-situations.
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Photon
7: they don't criticize your failings, rather they find them endearing, or even cherish them.
8. they love you whether you love them back, or not. You don't have to do anything, or not do anything.
9. they never ghost you, ever. they take pains to be very clearly there for you.
10 they conspicuously care about your feelings, and they clearly love it when they make you feel good.
My two cents. Have a great day.
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7: they don't criticize your failings, rather they find them endearing, or even cherish them.
8. they love you whether you love them back, or not. You don't have to do anything, or not do anything.
9. they never ghost you, ever. they take pains to be very clearly there for you.
10 they conspicuously care about your feelings, and they clearly love it when they make you feel good.
My two cents. Have a great day.
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Ins
Me and my partner are too shy to call each other yet but we are slowly developing our relationship. But he recently took me after our movie date to the top of the hill where you can see the whole city and night. we took our time to walk to the top and enjoy our time together with hugs and cuddles.
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Me and my partner are too shy to call each other yet but we are slowly developing our relationship. But he recently took me after our movie date to the top of the hill where you can see the whole city and night. we took our time to walk to the top and enjoy our time together with hugs and cuddles.
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Chisaten
I have a small catch on this. Because of having autism and other problems, I find it easier to communicate through writing than speaking. The worst of all is trying to do video or phone calls. A good compromise is I write things out that I want to share, then we can discuss them after.
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I have a small catch on this. Because of having autism and other problems, I find it easier to communicate through writing than speaking. The worst of all is trying to do video or phone calls. A good compromise is I write things out that I want to share, then we can discuss them after.
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Wistbacka
First one does not apply to me and boomers. I always prefer talking. Professionally, Casually, intimically.
Also, the problem is not me wanting to take her to special places. Problem is me not wanting to go to special places myself. But wherever I go I want her with me.
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First one does not apply to me and boomers. I always prefer talking. Professionally, Casually, intimically.
Also, the problem is not me wanting to take her to special places. Problem is me not wanting to go to special places myself. But wherever I go I want her with me.
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Monica
I may love a person but dread to speak on phone in the initial phase, this always happens, I have this weird kind of phobia speaking on phone to the person i m attracted toi lost one potential relationship during my 10th grade because i dreaded to speak on phone
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I may love a person but dread to speak on phone in the initial phase, this always happens, I have this weird kind of phobia speaking on phone to the person i m attracted toi lost one potential relationship during my 10th grade because i dreaded to speak on phone
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Aeshma
My boyfriend very obviously loves me but it's very difficult for him to hold his attention. He always feels terrible when i call him out on it. Really guilty even.
But I know he doesn't do it on purpose, he doesn't even notice
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My boyfriend very obviously loves me but it's very difficult for him to hold his attention. He always feels terrible when i call him out on it. Really guilty even.
But I know he doesn't do it on purpose, he doesn't even notice
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education
I am a kid and I love one girl from my school. I were 11 years old. Then I saw this video I understood that she loves me too! Now I am 13 years old. We have told each other the three magic words and she's my girlfriend
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I am a kid and I love one girl from my school. I were 11 years old. Then I saw this video I understood that she loves me too! Now I am 13 years old. We have told each other the three magic words and she's my girlfriend
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Hana
When someone loves you there should be a natural desire to uplift you without any resentment solely to improve your life in anyway they can & that makes them feel good too: ) imo they should add to the quality of your life!
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When someone loves you there should be a natural desire to uplift you without any resentment solely to improve your life in anyway they can & that makes them feel good too: ) imo they should add to the quality of your life!
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Jayonetta
Some love cannot be found in those who can't trust someone who loves enough like they love. True love isn't just a relationship it's also a unique bond you share with that special someone.
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Some love cannot be found in those who can't trust someone who loves enough like they love. True love isn't just a relationship it's also a unique bond you share with that special someone.
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Vlogoosh
I don't believe that anyone can love me or get close to me without being oriented or to paid do so, or even get close to me without any kind of commercial or professional interest.
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I don't believe that anyone can love me or get close to me without being oriented or to paid do so, or even get close to me without any kind of commercial or professional interest.
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One
All things are good but if you can't be there for me when I need you most I won't go forward. I can't let myself be hurt like that. Or hurt myself in hopes they'll care.
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All things are good but if you can't be there for me when I need you most I won't go forward. I can't let myself be hurt like that. Or hurt myself in hopes they'll care.
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Asmobby
Okay, but what if you dont live close? We live in the same state, PA, but different cities/towns. He is 3hrs away from me. We talk on the phone a lot though
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Okay, but what if you dont live close? We live in the same state, PA, but different cities/towns. He is 3hrs away from me. We talk on the phone a lot though
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Firemishaa
This helped bc idk if im in love with her and i saw the vid. And i think with a little bit of time im gonna be sure its a yes and no no or yyyyee idk
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This helped bc idk if im in love with her and i saw the vid. And i think with a little bit of time im gonna be sure its a yes and no no or yyyyee idk
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Hamilton
Only God loves me! We don't need women or men. Friends yes. but love? No! I prefer celibacy because I can stay clear headed and focused!
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Only God loves me! We don't need women or men. Friends yes. but love? No! I prefer celibacy because I can stay clear headed and focused!
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LoopMcFast
If only I wasn't a perfectionist and autistic.
(a nobody)
if only i was someone else
. But of course, this is meaningless.
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If only I wasn't a perfectionist and autistic.
(a nobody)
if only i was someone else
. But of course, this is meaningless.
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Foroozan
Your advertising method is really distracting and disturbing! They come intrusively right in the middle of your interesting content.
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Your advertising method is really distracting and disturbing! They come intrusively right in the middle of your interesting content.
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Arc
i do those things for her and she does for me except for the last one cuz i think we both are scared how it'll effect our relationship
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i do those things for her and she does for me except for the last one cuz i think we both are scared how it'll effect our relationship
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education
Do they like playing Halo or they just lost & need help. Cos I'm sure doing the same thing over & over again can't be that fun
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Do they like playing Halo or they just lost & need help. Cos I'm sure doing the same thing over & over again can't be that fun
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