7 Signs Someone Secretly Hates You
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Drowsy
I'm still so unsure. I've been with my partner for 6-7 years now, since we were 12 and 13 years old. That was while I was still in a mentally abusive relationship with my mother. He tells me he's traumatized because of all the times I tried to attempt and all my break downs. Tells me he doesn't trust me anymore. I've been trying to get help desperately, anxiety has made it really hard to find the money and the ability to call for therapists n shit. He gets mad and irritated at me for struggling to do these things. Now lately, he's so blunt with me, snaps at me easily. Etc. and I can't do anything about it because whenever I stand up for myself, I'm the bad guy. I've tried everything, I even had plans to leave so that he would be happier without me but he was even upset about that. I don't know what to do anymore. It feels like he hates me, but he also makes me out to be delusional so I don't even know if I'm perceiving things right and I'm actually that far gone. I don't know anymore, I feel insane because I don't know what to do for him to like me. I can't just change to be mentally stable, that's impossible. I'm on a waiting list for a therapist, but he's still blunt with me despite me getting help was one of his biggest arguments with me. I'm just lost. I feel like I have no support for my anxiety, like the world is on my shoulders as I struggle to find and maintain jobs unmedicated. I was doing well with suicidal thoughts until yesterday, something snapped in me and I just broke down somewhere I could be alone so he wouldn't see and get pissed at me. I want to die desperately, not even my family is on my side. If I wasn't so anxious, I'd just go off by myself and live alone somewhere but my crippling anxiety leaves me dependant and burdensome to everyone around me. I don't know what to do anymore.
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I'm still so unsure. I've been with my partner for 6-7 years now, since we were 12 and 13 years old. That was while I was still in a mentally abusive relationship with my mother. He tells me he's traumatized because of all the times I tried to attempt and all my break downs. Tells me he doesn't trust me anymore. I've been trying to get help desperately, anxiety has made it really hard to find the money and the ability to call for therapists n shit. He gets mad and irritated at me for struggling to do these things. Now lately, he's so blunt with me, snaps at me easily. Etc. and I can't do anything about it because whenever I stand up for myself, I'm the bad guy. I've tried everything, I even had plans to leave so that he would be happier without me but he was even upset about that. I don't know what to do anymore. It feels like he hates me, but he also makes me out to be delusional so I don't even know if I'm perceiving things right and I'm actually that far gone. I don't know anymore, I feel insane because I don't know what to do for him to like me. I can't just change to be mentally stable, that's impossible. I'm on a waiting list for a therapist, but he's still blunt with me despite me getting help was one of his biggest arguments with me. I'm just lost. I feel like I have no support for my anxiety, like the world is on my shoulders as I struggle to find and maintain jobs unmedicated. I was doing well with suicidal thoughts until yesterday, something snapped in me and I just broke down somewhere I could be alone so he wouldn't see and get pissed at me. I want to die desperately, not even my family is on my side. If I wasn't so anxious, I'd just go off by myself and live alone somewhere but my crippling anxiety leaves me dependant and burdensome to everyone around me. I don't know what to do anymore.
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Anurag
In My case I had a female friend who has always shared me all of her problems in life where she doesn't have a control over and I can only listen to her and console her nothing else but she has unfollowed and removed me from her account multiple times, I know it's a very silly thing to be sad about but she has followed and followed back the people she hates/my friends who are just like me I felt really bad about that idk why. And I remember her going to a birthday party and she posted the pictures on her story and tagged the people who were absent in the party, and those people obviously didn't included me. She has even behaved rudely with me at times in gatherings with me and the other friends.
It was never like I liked her romantically or something but I cared about her more than anyone in my life because she has suffered alot in life. Currently she's in my block list and I'm also in her block list and she's shifting to another state. So it's not a much of a problem for her because she already has other people who are my friends, to whom she can share her problems, I have no idea what was I for her.
I all I can feel is being used by her, if she would've valued me she wouldn't have done things to hurt me
She is not a bad person, and it's not even my fault, the thing is she never tells somethings whenever I feel hurt by any of her actions
I am just confused and I can only assume things cause she doesn't clarify things by herself
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In My case I had a female friend who has always shared me all of her problems in life where she doesn't have a control over and I can only listen to her and console her nothing else but she has unfollowed and removed me from her account multiple times, I know it's a very silly thing to be sad about but she has followed and followed back the people she hates/my friends who are just like me I felt really bad about that idk why. And I remember her going to a birthday party and she posted the pictures on her story and tagged the people who were absent in the party, and those people obviously didn't included me. She has even behaved rudely with me at times in gatherings with me and the other friends.
It was never like I liked her romantically or something but I cared about her more than anyone in my life because she has suffered alot in life. Currently she's in my block list and I'm also in her block list and she's shifting to another state. So it's not a much of a problem for her because she already has other people who are my friends, to whom she can share her problems, I have no idea what was I for her.
I all I can feel is being used by her, if she would've valued me she wouldn't have done things to hurt me
She is not a bad person, and it's not even my fault, the thing is she never tells somethings whenever I feel hurt by any of her actions
I am just confused and I can only assume things cause she doesn't clarify things by herself
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Carlos
A friend always tells the whole car to shut up when Im making a point with someone Im arguing with. We car pool with people sometimes and every time I am in conflict with one of the three guys and Im making my point AFTER one of the other guys made their point and this guys always tells us to shut up when I start to talk. Jerk oh well I wasnt going to be there forever but now I know he doesnt like me. Im a family friend of him and nobody I argued with was that close to his family. Hes a jerk oh well
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A friend always tells the whole car to shut up when Im making a point with someone Im arguing with. We car pool with people sometimes and every time I am in conflict with one of the three guys and Im making my point AFTER one of the other guys made their point and this guys always tells us to shut up when I start to talk. Jerk oh well I wasnt going to be there forever but now I know he doesnt like me. Im a family friend of him and nobody I argued with was that close to his family. Hes a jerk oh well
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Natalii
I heared from my best friend that some girls from an other class hate my personality like they dont like me and some dont even know me Idk if my bestie is telling lies she has been pretty distant, she asked me and my friend to go out and still she wants to leave us and wants to go with those girls. What should i do? Should i dump her? Should i change myself for other peoples likes? Should i change my personality? Or should i be myself?
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I heared from my best friend that some girls from an other class hate my personality like they dont like me and some dont even know me Idk if my bestie is telling lies she has been pretty distant, she asked me and my friend to go out and still she wants to leave us and wants to go with those girls. What should i do? Should i dump her? Should i change myself for other peoples likes? Should i change my personality? Or should i be myself?
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education
I'm almost certain most people in my year hate me. I'm always left out when people pick groups and I'm usually alone unless I'm with my best friend who I also thinks hates me. Almost all of the classes I'm in, there is always a person I know dislikes me. I'm unsure if it's because I'm smart or if they just hate how I look. I've been shoved and pushed but I don't report it because I'm scared of confrontation.
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I'm almost certain most people in my year hate me. I'm always left out when people pick groups and I'm usually alone unless I'm with my best friend who I also thinks hates me. Almost all of the classes I'm in, there is always a person I know dislikes me. I'm unsure if it's because I'm smart or if they just hate how I look. I've been shoved and pushed but I don't report it because I'm scared of confrontation.
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Phillip
If you know that someone doesnt like you just cut ties with that toxic person or just dont acknowledge them or simply just avoid going to places you somewhat know where that person may like to hang around at but unfortunately some enemies are unavoidable. And simply just dont give a F its as simple as that f The haters. Just be you and you only yourself.
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If you know that someone doesnt like you just cut ties with that toxic person or just dont acknowledge them or simply just avoid going to places you somewhat know where that person may like to hang around at but unfortunately some enemies are unavoidable. And simply just dont give a F its as simple as that f The haters. Just be you and you only yourself.
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education
Am i the only one who hates?
I am preety nice to him but when it gets to me i will be mad.
I dont think i am the toxic one because his behavour torwords me is anoying and he knows i dislike him and he still cant figure out what he does wrong.
Anddddddd, he thinks he is a good person and i am less, he even told that.
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Am i the only one who hates?
I am preety nice to him but when it gets to me i will be mad.
I dont think i am the toxic one because his behavour torwords me is anoying and he knows i dislike him and he still cant figure out what he does wrong.
Anddddddd, he thinks he is a good person and i am less, he even told that.
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R0seH3art
I do not understand what is happening and would like some help.
so, i have been watching a lot of these videos and see the does your crush like you back and my crush shows a lot of the signs of liking me, and I'm pretty sure he does, but i watched this video and he's showing some of these signs too. what's happening?
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I do not understand what is happening and would like some help.
so, i have been watching a lot of these videos and see the does your crush like you back and my crush shows a lot of the signs of liking me, and I'm pretty sure he does, but i watched this video and he's showing some of these signs too. what's happening?
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education
This just seems like signs of someone with poor social skills. The only way these would be signs of them disliking you is if they treat everyone else differently, but even that doesn't necessarily mean they hate you. They might be treating you differently because they have a crush on you.
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This just seems like signs of someone with poor social skills. The only way these would be signs of them disliking you is if they treat everyone else differently, but even that doesn't necessarily mean they hate you. They might be treating you differently because they have a crush on you.
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rubina
me literally non-biary have a male face not the beard and all but male face with a female body
people with me: like like i am the not talking minding my own business
them: hello, hey, hi wassup always cling on me
methinking: i just want a five mintues of peace pls
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me literally non-biary have a male face not the beard and all but male face with a female body
people with me: like like i am the not talking minding my own business
them: hello, hey, hi wassup always cling on me
methinking: i just want a five mintues of peace pls
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Corona
When persons hate each other. there is no question of whether the person dislikes you or whether the person likes you.
Hate(Nafrat) simply means that the person dislikes you. vice-versa
Example- India and Pakistan hate each other
#Nafrat #Haters urf Enemies
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When persons hate each other. there is no question of whether the person dislikes you or whether the person likes you.
Hate(Nafrat) simply means that the person dislikes you. vice-versa
Example- India and Pakistan hate each other
#Nafrat #Haters urf Enemies
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Joshua
I have a non gf that will soon be a gf so she says but she exhibits all these signs. She heard me sneakily hearing this audio while she cleaned the dishes and I think she felt compelled to kiss me multiple times till she kicked me out of the kitchen. I need help
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I have a non gf that will soon be a gf so she says but she exhibits all these signs. She heard me sneakily hearing this audio while she cleaned the dishes and I think she felt compelled to kiss me multiple times till she kicked me out of the kitchen. I need help
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Paranoid
This can be of use but you get people that they are not aware of their own body language & behaviours so in a way, this can be misleading information.
Plus, you cannot always maintain body language or behaviours anyway, you're not a robot are you?
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This can be of use but you get people that they are not aware of their own body language & behaviours so in a way, this can be misleading information.
Plus, you cannot always maintain body language or behaviours anyway, you're not a robot are you?
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Tom
The eye contact one isnt right with everyone. Many autistic people cant make eye contact because they find it painful with anyone. Yet they do like people, yet making eye contact is painful so they cant do it. So if that person has autism ignore this one.
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The eye contact one isnt right with everyone. Many autistic people cant make eye contact because they find it painful with anyone. Yet they do like people, yet making eye contact is painful so they cant do it. So if that person has autism ignore this one.
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Psych2Go
Disclaimer: Some of these signs can apply to introverts, people with social anxiety, or are a little withdrawn as well. The key is if the person in question only shows these signs to you and not other people, then maybe they secretly dislike you.
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Disclaimer: Some of these signs can apply to introverts, people with social anxiety, or are a little withdrawn as well. The key is if the person in question only shows these signs to you and not other people, then maybe they secretly dislike you.
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Anubhav
I knew it dhe hates me. thanks for making me realize this fact. I was just putting a lot of effort in place where it's not even required. it hurts but still thats life. wr can't force a person to like us when she likes someone else.
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I knew it dhe hates me. thanks for making me realize this fact. I was just putting a lot of effort in place where it's not even required. it hurts but still thats life. wr can't force a person to like us when she likes someone else.
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HVAC
I already know I'm hated by everyone people just don't wanna tell me but they hate me for whatever reason when I say somethingDEAD SILENCE(everyone) even people I don't know LOLLLL SO WHATTTTT IM STILL HAPPYLMAOOOOO
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I already know I'm hated by everyone people just don't wanna tell me but they hate me for whatever reason when I say somethingDEAD SILENCE(everyone) even people I don't know LOLLLL SO WHATTTTT IM STILL HAPPYLMAOOOOO
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Ezekiel
I was unintentionally showing some of these signs with my crush at uni, because I'm an introvert, and even more shy with them than with other people; -; I'm scared they think I hate them.
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I was unintentionally showing some of these signs with my crush at uni, because I'm an introvert, and even more shy with them than with other people; -; I'm scared they think I hate them.
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Tangy
I'm friends with the popular kids and I really needed this cause the popular kids have a lot of friends I feel could hate me thank you for this video and your content in general. :>
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I'm friends with the popular kids and I really needed this cause the popular kids have a lot of friends I feel could hate me thank you for this video and your content in general. :>
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William
Most people believe, secretly dislikes and hate may cause risks to become pariah before others not liking you.
To care victims, instead of pre psychopaths and sociopaths.
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Most people believe, secretly dislikes and hate may cause risks to become pariah before others not liking you.
To care victims, instead of pre psychopaths and sociopaths.
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Shrutika
Shockingly this is exactly how my sis behaves with meI thought she hates me but now this video confirms itand the only reason behind this was that I hated her bf
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Shockingly this is exactly how my sis behaves with meI thought she hates me but now this video confirms itand the only reason behind this was that I hated her bf
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xw
i am either losing my mind or she's extremely weird. she's showing both signs of hating me and crushing me. which one is it? but i would just assume she hates me. ?
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i am either losing my mind or she's extremely weird. she's showing both signs of hating me and crushing me. which one is it? but i would just assume she hates me. ?
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Carnex_Animates
I am not hated, I feel forbidden
Pretty sure if I committed suicide everyone that hates me will turn the day that I died in into a festival; _;
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I am not hated, I feel forbidden
Pretty sure if I committed suicide everyone that hates me will turn the day that I died in into a festival; _;
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ginger
There may be a projection technique. Like they hate us but by body language and everything. would only tend to indicate that they like us!
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There may be a projection technique. Like they hate us but by body language and everything. would only tend to indicate that they like us!
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Alan
Ever since I became popular the class muse has always been giving me deathstare and the weird mirroring movements on me it gives me chill
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Ever since I became popular the class muse has always been giving me deathstare and the weird mirroring movements on me it gives me chill
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