9 Signs Of Insecurity That Turns Others Off
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Patty
Having a insecurity about your body may seem small to other people that have nothing really wrong with them, But when your born with a congenial disorder that involves your body to be deformed, how can you escape that insecurity. And then add a literal LIFETIME of nothing but trauma of being bullied about my body and how I look.
Just Not being normal. Always feeling like Im never good enough. Always feeling incomplete. My mind is always attacking me with negative things. Im always at war with myself because I try not to think of the bad things but Im always hit with my reality. I cant escape my mind and Im always causing problems in my relationship that almost breaks us up. Sometimes I feel helpless and wanna leave so he can be happy with someone else that doesnt live with these problems. I constantly feel like I will end up alone in the long run. I have a very sensitive soul since I was a baby, and everything that has ever happened to me, traumatically, has broke me and messed me up mentally since I was little. Its a huge pile of weight on my shoulders that I cant get rid of and its constantly pulling me down. I dont know what my future looks like, I just wish I can one day really feel like Im enough. And That Im worth it. And that Im beautiful.
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Having a insecurity about your body may seem small to other people that have nothing really wrong with them, But when your born with a congenial disorder that involves your body to be deformed, how can you escape that insecurity. And then add a literal LIFETIME of nothing but trauma of being bullied about my body and how I look.
Just Not being normal. Always feeling like Im never good enough. Always feeling incomplete. My mind is always attacking me with negative things. Im always at war with myself because I try not to think of the bad things but Im always hit with my reality. I cant escape my mind and Im always causing problems in my relationship that almost breaks us up. Sometimes I feel helpless and wanna leave so he can be happy with someone else that doesnt live with these problems. I constantly feel like I will end up alone in the long run. I have a very sensitive soul since I was a baby, and everything that has ever happened to me, traumatically, has broke me and messed me up mentally since I was little. Its a huge pile of weight on my shoulders that I cant get rid of and its constantly pulling me down. I dont know what my future looks like, I just wish I can one day really feel like Im enough. And That Im worth it. And that Im beautiful.
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Iffah
All of these signs speak to me. I didn't know my insecurity has reached that point until now. At that time when it's the hardest for me to endure it, I asked my fiance to break up with me because I felt like I was and will be a burden to him.
Hearing people said that it's hard to live with a depressed partner, made me feel guilty from time to time. I must have hurt him in our past relationship. I didn't even realize that my insecurity hurt him too.
I know that we can not be together anymore. I don't have the courage to ask him to wait until I recovered.
I love him and I know he still loves me too, but we're both tortured in our relationship, so I just need to accept that not every love deserves to be fought for.
I hope I can recover fast and move on with my life.
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All of these signs speak to me. I didn't know my insecurity has reached that point until now. At that time when it's the hardest for me to endure it, I asked my fiance to break up with me because I felt like I was and will be a burden to him.
Hearing people said that it's hard to live with a depressed partner, made me feel guilty from time to time. I must have hurt him in our past relationship. I didn't even realize that my insecurity hurt him too.
I know that we can not be together anymore. I don't have the courage to ask him to wait until I recovered.
I love him and I know he still loves me too, but we're both tortured in our relationship, so I just need to accept that not every love deserves to be fought for.
I hope I can recover fast and move on with my life.
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Happy
I was scared to talk abt this with my bf of 3 months bc I was scared he would leave me or dismiss my feelings altogether. But he completely understood that I have major relationship anxiety and he said he wants me to always feel secure. That he loves and cares for me. Please talk to your partner if you have these issues! If they truly love you, they will stay and help you out. If you leave it and dont confront them bc you know they will leave, then they shouldnt be with you. It hurts to let someone go, but in the end it is better for both people in the relationship to end the toxicity.
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I was scared to talk abt this with my bf of 3 months bc I was scared he would leave me or dismiss my feelings altogether. But he completely understood that I have major relationship anxiety and he said he wants me to always feel secure. That he loves and cares for me. Please talk to your partner if you have these issues! If they truly love you, they will stay and help you out. If you leave it and dont confront them bc you know they will leave, then they shouldnt be with you. It hurts to let someone go, but in the end it is better for both people in the relationship to end the toxicity.
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Rosie
I mean, i used to relate to the more jealous ones in the start of our relationship but I'm a lot less so now. I struggle with however the first one, the one about needing reassurance and the conflict one, although me and my partner tmdo approach things as more of a discussion than an argument. The other 2 can be chalked down to my anxiety (suspected ocd but unsure as of yet) especially the constant need for reassurance, my bad relationship with my father and my bad past relationships. I am working on these but it's hard when you feel like a bad person due to mental illness.
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I mean, i used to relate to the more jealous ones in the start of our relationship but I'm a lot less so now. I struggle with however the first one, the one about needing reassurance and the conflict one, although me and my partner tmdo approach things as more of a discussion than an argument. The other 2 can be chalked down to my anxiety (suspected ocd but unsure as of yet) especially the constant need for reassurance, my bad relationship with my father and my bad past relationships. I am working on these but it's hard when you feel like a bad person due to mental illness.
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Stephen
Wow, this hack comforted me. These past few days I just kinda feel hopeless, and not knowing my purpose in life. Sometimes, I am questioning every thing and it kills me. When this happens, I used to listen to my wife calls like this, and it helps me. Sad to say that this cheating also makes me depressed, I always find an answer, it's just so sad. don't have any one who is there to listen to me, so I am just keeping it to myself and writing it down. Anyways, thank minslegend you for this wonderful job.
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Wow, this hack comforted me. These past few days I just kinda feel hopeless, and not knowing my purpose in life. Sometimes, I am questioning every thing and it kills me. When this happens, I used to listen to my wife calls like this, and it helps me. Sad to say that this cheating also makes me depressed, I always find an answer, it's just so sad. don't have any one who is there to listen to me, so I am just keeping it to myself and writing it down. Anyways, thank minslegend you for this wonderful job.
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Stephen
Wow, this hack comforted me. These past few days I just kinda feel hopeless, and not knowing my purpose in life. Sometimes, I am questioning every thing and it kills me. When this happens, I used to listen to my wife calls like this, and it helps me. Sad to say that this cheating also makes me depressed, I always find an answer, it's just so sad. don't have any one who is there to listen to me, so I am just keeping it to myself and writing it down. Anyways, thank minslegend you for this wonderful job.
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Wow, this hack comforted me. These past few days I just kinda feel hopeless, and not knowing my purpose in life. Sometimes, I am questioning every thing and it kills me. When this happens, I used to listen to my wife calls like this, and it helps me. Sad to say that this cheating also makes me depressed, I always find an answer, it's just so sad. don't have any one who is there to listen to me, so I am just keeping it to myself and writing it down. Anyways, thank minslegend you for this wonderful job.
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Anon
Where's this video were I need to know while I am naive.
It's so sad I didn't know it was insecurity that starts just to break my last relationship.
For being first timers it made me pathetic. How many times I need to assure her then after break up i am the one who suffers while she find another happily.
Hanging without knowing. Thinking why, I haven't cheat and only have attention on her. Then after gave it all, left hanging in the air.
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Where's this video were I need to know while I am naive.
It's so sad I didn't know it was insecurity that starts just to break my last relationship.
For being first timers it made me pathetic. How many times I need to assure her then after break up i am the one who suffers while she find another happily.
Hanging without knowing. Thinking why, I haven't cheat and only have attention on her. Then after gave it all, left hanging in the air.
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Javy
Hi I need help and I dont know where else to go. My girlfriend of 2 years is relapsing to her childhood trauma and shes always been contradicting of her needs such as wanting attention, love, protection and such like a child; however, shes contradicting of it and pushes away at times. Shes come to me saying she wants to be loved and seen and cared for but how do I fulfill that or help her find self worth? Thanks for any help from any one
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Hi I need help and I dont know where else to go. My girlfriend of 2 years is relapsing to her childhood trauma and shes always been contradicting of her needs such as wanting attention, love, protection and such like a child; however, shes contradicting of it and pushes away at times. Shes come to me saying she wants to be loved and seen and cared for but how do I fulfill that or help her find self worth? Thanks for any help from any one
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Coastaku
I'm extremely insecure about relationships. I just met a girl through a Dating app but shes not really online so I'm not sure if she's in to me, I want to get to know her better but I fear she doesn't want me. Her profile said Just looking for friends rn but I really hope she and I can become more, though we haven't talked much due to the previous lack of being online thing.
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I'm extremely insecure about relationships. I just met a girl through a Dating app but shes not really online so I'm not sure if she's in to me, I want to get to know her better but I fear she doesn't want me. Her profile said Just looking for friends rn but I really hope she and I can become more, though we haven't talked much due to the previous lack of being online thing.
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Amber
Ugh. I'm so embarrassed. I've spent the last 5 years avoiding relationships because I show pretty much all of these signs and after deep introspection and psychological retraining I still have the majority of these problems. I'm already 32 and I'm so scared I missed my shot to be happy in a lifelong relationship and I'll never be worthy of love.
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Ugh. I'm so embarrassed. I've spent the last 5 years avoiding relationships because I show pretty much all of these signs and after deep introspection and psychological retraining I still have the majority of these problems. I'm already 32 and I'm so scared I missed my shot to be happy in a lifelong relationship and I'll never be worthy of love.
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LiberationGz
My ex friend broke down crying because she couldn't give her partner a child like his first baby mama and that she wasn't measuring up. They were together for only 2 years at the time.
She cheated on him before their kid even turned 1 and asked for a poly relationship the same day he found out she cheated.
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My ex friend broke down crying because she couldn't give her partner a child like his first baby mama and that she wasn't measuring up. They were together for only 2 years at the time.
She cheated on him before their kid even turned 1 and asked for a poly relationship the same day he found out she cheated.
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Andrew
I swear I used to not meet most of these, but after hearing her talk about her ex for 16 years I'm feeling them all.
Your significant other might not have a complex about your ex now, but keep talking about your ex and every detail about your past relationship, and I guarantee they will.
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I swear I used to not meet most of these, but after hearing her talk about her ex for 16 years I'm feeling them all.
Your significant other might not have a complex about your ex now, but keep talking about your ex and every detail about your past relationship, and I guarantee they will.
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CanineComedyClub
Interesting observation about stalking your boyfriends social media. Technology has been wonderful in so many ways but it has also provided a potential for insecurity! In many ways there are relationships damaged by too much doubt driven by social media contacts.
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Interesting observation about stalking your boyfriends social media. Technology has been wonderful in so many ways but it has also provided a potential for insecurity! In many ways there are relationships damaged by too much doubt driven by social media contacts.
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Xavier
hey psych2go, I just wanted to seek your advice on something, you see I think I might have depression, but I don't know what I should do. it would be really helpful if you could maybe give me some advice. thank you and I hope that you're doing well.
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hey psych2go, I just wanted to seek your advice on something, you see I think I might have depression, but I don't know what I should do. it would be really helpful if you could maybe give me some advice. thank you and I hope that you're doing well.
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Remnants
I would say more wary than insecure. Self-honesty, difficult as it can be, has come in handy quite a lot. Of course, when practicing self-honesty, one does find some potentially troubling signs. Namely my own struggle with self-acceptance.
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I would say more wary than insecure. Self-honesty, difficult as it can be, has come in handy quite a lot. Of course, when practicing self-honesty, one does find some potentially troubling signs. Namely my own struggle with self-acceptance.
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Viktor
Honestly, just owning it and not trying to hide it is partially why I watch you. It's the honorable thing to do and it make the rest of the jobs much more believe when you are call out of the spots like that, so thank you minslegend
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Honestly, just owning it and not trying to hide it is partially why I watch you. It's the honorable thing to do and it make the rest of the jobs much more believe when you are call out of the spots like that, so thank you minslegend
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Viktor
Honestly, just owning it and not trying to hide it is partially why I watch you. It's the honorable thing to do and it make the rest of the jobs much more believe when you are call out of the spots like that, so thank you minslegend
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Honestly, just owning it and not trying to hide it is partially why I watch you. It's the honorable thing to do and it make the rest of the jobs much more believe when you are call out of the spots like that, so thank you minslegend
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Liz
Look this is not related but this is a safe place so. I am 11 and I think I am depressed but no one will listen I have many of the systems. I could be going to the bathroom at school and break out in tears. What should I do?
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Look this is not related but this is a safe place so. I am 11 and I think I am depressed but no one will listen I have many of the systems. I could be going to the bathroom at school and break out in tears. What should I do?
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totohlife
Hello psych2go
I just wanted a request cuz I've been hearing about emphty and sympathy and I'm a bit confused can you pls make a video of it pls thank you for reading
From: Phillipines
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Hello psych2go
I just wanted a request cuz I've been hearing about emphty and sympathy and I'm a bit confused can you pls make a video of it pls thank you for reading
From: Phillipines
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Michelle
Hands down this dude will be recognized as a goat. this dude has literally saved my life. listening to his work and job I can relate to it. minslegend keep it up and thank you for your talent.
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Hands down this dude will be recognized as a goat. this dude has literally saved my life. listening to his work and job I can relate to it. minslegend keep it up and thank you for your talent.
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Michelle
Hands down this dude will be recognized as a goat. this dude has literally saved my life. listening to his work and job I can relate to it. minslegend keep it up and thank you for your talent.
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Hands down this dude will be recognized as a goat. this dude has literally saved my life. listening to his work and job I can relate to it. minslegend keep it up and thank you for your talent.
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Mara
i was going through this signs, and my boyfriend and i broke up when all i wanted was to open up my feelings. it didnt end up well. and now he likes someone else when we just broke up 4 days ago.
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i was going through this signs, and my boyfriend and i broke up when all i wanted was to open up my feelings. it didnt end up well. and now he likes someone else when we just broke up 4 days ago.
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Bea
Why are you speaking so quietly? I really cant focus on the video (I have ADHD so maybe its because of that) and I almost fell asleep you would be perfect for ASMR videos, your voice is so calming
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Why are you speaking so quietly? I really cant focus on the video (I have ADHD so maybe its because of that) and I almost fell asleep you would be perfect for ASMR videos, your voice is so calming
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asn413
I wish you folks could teach me how to approach people in general, and act without fearing i look like an idiot. I'm a high functioning autistic, and I've learned i don't speak human too well.
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I wish you folks could teach me how to approach people in general, and act without fearing i look like an idiot. I'm a high functioning autistic, and I've learned i don't speak human too well.
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Pamela
The guy I was recently seeing never asked me any questions to get to know me. I tried making a few attempts to set up dates to sit and talk. needless to say he avoided me like the black plague
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The guy I was recently seeing never asked me any questions to get to know me. I tried making a few attempts to set up dates to sit and talk. needless to say he avoided me like the black plague
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