6 Behaviors That Make People Dislike You
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Yusra
I've never really experienced such anxiety over not being liked by people before. I have great friends and was always surrounded by good people, but things have now started turning weird, more precisely, some people have. I am talking abt my classmates in my academy and I don't know any of them personally. They are good in studying and always score the highest in the academy tests. So basically, I achieved the top score in my finals papers of last year and ever since then, I feel this weird vibe coming from all those students. They keep staring at me, talking behind my back, and it's like they don't believe that I worked for it. They seem to judge me a lot. And somehow I feel guilty abt it! I don't know what's wrong with me. I've always avoided those groups ever since I joined the academy, I have no friends there cuz I feel anxious meeting new people so I decided I won't make any new friend since I already have my school ones thankfully. I am very quiet and reserved there. I think they all see me as the arrogant type, and they never really viewed me as someone who has the potential of achieving good grades like them. I took them by surprise, and now I feel like they are all against me. or maybe I'm over thinking it. But I do get negative vibes from them. Hardly anyone congratulated me for my score! The environment in my class makes me so so uncomfortable. I'm happy that my last year is going to be over soon. I hope I never see them again, because they make me feel like I don't deserve it.
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I've never really experienced such anxiety over not being liked by people before. I have great friends and was always surrounded by good people, but things have now started turning weird, more precisely, some people have. I am talking abt my classmates in my academy and I don't know any of them personally. They are good in studying and always score the highest in the academy tests. So basically, I achieved the top score in my finals papers of last year and ever since then, I feel this weird vibe coming from all those students. They keep staring at me, talking behind my back, and it's like they don't believe that I worked for it. They seem to judge me a lot. And somehow I feel guilty abt it! I don't know what's wrong with me. I've always avoided those groups ever since I joined the academy, I have no friends there cuz I feel anxious meeting new people so I decided I won't make any new friend since I already have my school ones thankfully. I am very quiet and reserved there. I think they all see me as the arrogant type, and they never really viewed me as someone who has the potential of achieving good grades like them. I took them by surprise, and now I feel like they are all against me. or maybe I'm over thinking it. But I do get negative vibes from them. Hardly anyone congratulated me for my score! The environment in my class makes me so so uncomfortable. I'm happy that my last year is going to be over soon. I hope I never see them again, because they make me feel like I don't deserve it.
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NotEvenFunny
I see all my classmates hanging out, going out etc. and I fell so bad bc I feel like I should go out and interact too but sometimes it just stresses me or I would like to go but I feel like I dint have time. My two closest friends also have so many other friends or are so popular and get along with many people, while I have them( I mean I am thankfull for having them) and a few more that I get along with. But im not that social and other than my two closest friend I usually dont have other friends to hang out or i just dont grab the oppertunity. Currently I just feel like I should go out and I should interact with others bc I feel kind of left out even though I made that myself and dont even want it. Im so confused.
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I see all my classmates hanging out, going out etc. and I fell so bad bc I feel like I should go out and interact too but sometimes it just stresses me or I would like to go but I feel like I dint have time. My two closest friends also have so many other friends or are so popular and get along with many people, while I have them( I mean I am thankfull for having them) and a few more that I get along with. But im not that social and other than my two closest friend I usually dont have other friends to hang out or i just dont grab the oppertunity. Currently I just feel like I should go out and I should interact with others bc I feel kind of left out even though I made that myself and dont even want it. Im so confused.
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1mbored
For me its a mystery I dont know why this person hates me they give rude glares laugh about to me their friends and whisper and Ive smiled at them and they rolled their eyes at me but I swear Ive never made fun of them.
I could hear them laughing and I rember a teacher noticing and embarrassing them infront of the class asking them what exactly are they laughing at their faces where so red and they had no response I was Tryna not to laugh as soon as the teacher turned to me she smiled and the other 2 girls looked at eachother and smiled and soon as the teacher turned around they gave a rotten stink eye at me and they started saying it was my fault to eachother
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For me its a mystery I dont know why this person hates me they give rude glares laugh about to me their friends and whisper and Ive smiled at them and they rolled their eyes at me but I swear Ive never made fun of them.
I could hear them laughing and I rember a teacher noticing and embarrassing them infront of the class asking them what exactly are they laughing at their faces where so red and they had no response I was Tryna not to laugh as soon as the teacher turned to me she smiled and the other 2 girls looked at eachother and smiled and soon as the teacher turned around they gave a rotten stink eye at me and they started saying it was my fault to eachother
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S. sreehari
Don't Laugh too much for things that are not that funny, don't be less confident, don't act very smart even if your not, don't be unhygenic all the time, don't argue everytime and try to win every arguement, don't disrespect others, appreciate the effort of others,
Don't be Selfish, don't question too much, don't get very angry when got teased, don't share others secret to everyone, don't use other's for your own sake and start ignoring them eventually, admire your mistakes, give someting back to people who help you, Try to make other's happy, avoid bad friendships
No need to correct spelling mistakes or grammar mistakes
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Don't Laugh too much for things that are not that funny, don't be less confident, don't act very smart even if your not, don't be unhygenic all the time, don't argue everytime and try to win every arguement, don't disrespect others, appreciate the effort of others,
Don't be Selfish, don't question too much, don't get very angry when got teased, don't share others secret to everyone, don't use other's for your own sake and start ignoring them eventually, admire your mistakes, give someting back to people who help you, Try to make other's happy, avoid bad friendships
No need to correct spelling mistakes or grammar mistakes
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XDRazormon
Im just accepting to be misanthrope I hate people with a passion so many social rules to follow although I like following rules it gets annoying when people are just going be fake friends or use you anyway only a few people deserve to be my friends otherwise I hate almost everyone I like having a small circle of friends I got tired of being disliked so I hate human beings back from feeling too much guilt of being disliked but anyway thanks for your video. It also makes me realize why some people turn evil and also to be able to see why villains are just broken and not evil
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Im just accepting to be misanthrope I hate people with a passion so many social rules to follow although I like following rules it gets annoying when people are just going be fake friends or use you anyway only a few people deserve to be my friends otherwise I hate almost everyone I like having a small circle of friends I got tired of being disliked so I hate human beings back from feeling too much guilt of being disliked but anyway thanks for your video. It also makes me realize why some people turn evil and also to be able to see why villains are just broken and not evil
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KnockOffHuman
1. I dont even have social media.
2. I never brag, Im fact I always avoid it.
3. I find it hard to smile sometimes, but I do when I can.
4. I never criticize peoples decisions, people normally do this to me instead.
5. I normally say what I think, but I play dumb to lighten the mood sometimes.
6. I always add smile emoticons, but not when I am saying something important.
I dont really get why everyone is telling me to shut up all the time, but maybe Im just too annoying
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1. I dont even have social media.
2. I never brag, Im fact I always avoid it.
3. I find it hard to smile sometimes, but I do when I can.
4. I never criticize peoples decisions, people normally do this to me instead.
5. I normally say what I think, but I play dumb to lighten the mood sometimes.
6. I always add smile emoticons, but not when I am saying something important.
I dont really get why everyone is telling me to shut up all the time, but maybe Im just too annoying
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Marcin
1. No, probably.
2. No. I have little to nothing to humble (or not so humble) brag about.
3. Yes. I don't want people to think I'm making fun of them.
4. No. At least not constantly.
5. Faking no, supressing yes. Kinda difficult to express your emotions when you were raised with boys don't cry attitude and you have no idea whether or not what you feel is appropriate.
6. No. Formal writing should be just that - formal.
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1. No, probably.
2. No. I have little to nothing to humble (or not so humble) brag about.
3. Yes. I don't want people to think I'm making fun of them.
4. No. At least not constantly.
5. Faking no, supressing yes. Kinda difficult to express your emotions when you were raised with boys don't cry attitude and you have no idea whether or not what you feel is appropriate.
6. No. Formal writing should be just that - formal.
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Narendran
Just be yourself. The right people will be with you. Let the rest fade. Remember you are not taking anything or anyone along with when you die. Flow like a river. Accept and let go. Never sacrifice who you are to be accepted by others. You are your biggest asset and support. Live the way you are, keeping in mind to be to a better and kinder human on the way. don't overthink we will be dead in no time: )
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Just be yourself. The right people will be with you. Let the rest fade. Remember you are not taking anything or anyone along with when you die. Flow like a river. Accept and let go. Never sacrifice who you are to be accepted by others. You are your biggest asset and support. Live the way you are, keeping in mind to be to a better and kinder human on the way. don't overthink we will be dead in no time: )
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hiro
I'm japane.
first of time in america, I tried to ask person met first-time to take picture with me and him because I wanna make a memory. but he ignored me. I can't expect this. if I was in japan, perhaps they might say no thank you or can say yes, not feel bad.
it is hard for me to know culture and person's mind, feeling.
I must learn right things more
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I'm japane.
first of time in america, I tried to ask person met first-time to take picture with me and him because I wanna make a memory. but he ignored me. I can't expect this. if I was in japan, perhaps they might say no thank you or can say yes, not feel bad.
it is hard for me to know culture and person's mind, feeling.
I must learn right things more
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Cleocatra
Yeah but how am I gonna change myself if its something I just do. I wanna be liked but I cant force myself to smile or make my facial expression look more friendly. I dont know how and I dont know if I should force myself to change just to be more likable. I want to be liked though so maybe I should, I will pray about this.
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Yeah but how am I gonna change myself if its something I just do. I wanna be liked but I cant force myself to smile or make my facial expression look more friendly. I dont know how and I dont know if I should force myself to change just to be more likable. I want to be liked though so maybe I should, I will pray about this.
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SHAWNA'S
Hello. I post reels and post pictures of myself. But i dont talk about anything. Its just music around me. Thats it, i dont post family photos! I dont even share my personal stuffs only my artwork so am upset! I dont boast on people i dont even talk to people so they will hate me? That preposterous!
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Hello. I post reels and post pictures of myself. But i dont talk about anything. Its just music around me. Thats it, i dont post family photos! I dont even share my personal stuffs only my artwork so am upset! I dont boast on people i dont even talk to people so they will hate me? That preposterous!
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NotASpyReally
I don't do any of these but it keeps happening: I think I made a friend and after a while they try to get as far away from me as possible and they don't even tell me why. Or they just one day tell me that I suck and laugh about it. They are suddenly less than a stranger. Why.
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I don't do any of these but it keeps happening: I think I made a friend and after a while they try to get as far away from me as possible and they don't even tell me why. Or they just one day tell me that I suck and laugh about it. They are suddenly less than a stranger. Why.
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education
I always thought it depended on looks since two people can act like that. A tall, manly and broad shoulder girl and a short, tiny waste and girly girl can both act perfectly friendly and people would still prefer option 2 because they just want something that appeals trend today.
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I always thought it depended on looks since two people can act like that. A tall, manly and broad shoulder girl and a short, tiny waste and girly girl can both act perfectly friendly and people would still prefer option 2 because they just want something that appeals trend today.
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oxoxkidd
Im an introverted person. So i stayed silent most of the time. My friends always said im too quiet & i always got ignored & left out. But once i open my mouth and decided to make joke or smthn. They said i keep stressing them out. It looks like they hate me. And idk what to do
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Im an introverted person. So i stayed silent most of the time. My friends always said im too quiet & i always got ignored & left out. But once i open my mouth and decided to make joke or smthn. They said i keep stressing them out. It looks like they hate me. And idk what to do
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Kendrick
Coz Im Indian, brown, poor, disowned, shy and ugly
Also the only compliment and/or interaction I ever got from a female was on this test paper which I aced she wrote good job Im 23 now and I still have that paper and I look at it when Im depressed or having a panic attack
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Coz Im Indian, brown, poor, disowned, shy and ugly
Also the only compliment and/or interaction I ever got from a female was on this test paper which I aced she wrote good job Im 23 now and I still have that paper and I look at it when Im depressed or having a panic attack
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Oblivion.
People have disliked me for plenty of reasons. It all ties down to them not relating to me:
1) I do cringe shit
2) I did overshare on social media at one point
3) I said something that people dont like
4) humble bragging (mentioned in the video)
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People have disliked me for plenty of reasons. It all ties down to them not relating to me:
1) I do cringe shit
2) I did overshare on social media at one point
3) I said something that people dont like
4) humble bragging (mentioned in the video)
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HUGUANG66
People don't like me now, i don't now what i doing now, no friends and don't like public. People see me like idiot or like kid not getting education, i hate myself i smoking was 15 now. Nothing special in my life, i hope you guys have fun with life
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People don't like me now, i don't now what i doing now, no friends and don't like public. People see me like idiot or like kid not getting education, i hate myself i smoking was 15 now. Nothing special in my life, i hope you guys have fun with life
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unknown
I'm worried about this. I'm afraid if I over-share, but I'm afraid if I make the situation awkward if I choose to be silent. Sometimes, I don't realize what I'm doing when interacting. I just want to be open but I'm worried if it annoys other people
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I'm worried about this. I'm afraid if I over-share, but I'm afraid if I make the situation awkward if I choose to be silent. Sometimes, I don't realize what I'm doing when interacting. I just want to be open but I'm worried if it annoys other people
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matrix
The struggle is that our group makes fun of subjects, but when I do it I get a negative reception?
I have another guy in the group that does it and gets a good response. Its confusing, and honestly I should probably give up on the whole group
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The struggle is that our group makes fun of subjects, but when I do it I get a negative reception?
I have another guy in the group that does it and gets a good response. Its confusing, and honestly I should probably give up on the whole group
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petitsjoujoux
Could someone help explain to me what is humblebragging please? Is it like boasting about an achievement while talking ourself down? (E. g.: I couldn't get any sleep because I studied until the morning to be able to get my straight A's)
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Could someone help explain to me what is humblebragging please? Is it like boasting about an achievement while talking ourself down? (E. g.: I couldn't get any sleep because I studied until the morning to be able to get my straight A's)
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Cristian
Let's agree to disagree. I am a self-sufficient complete introvert and megalomaniac that cares nothing about what others think. I know what's best for everyone and as long as they won't listen, it's their loss, not mine.
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Let's agree to disagree. I am a self-sufficient complete introvert and megalomaniac that cares nothing about what others think. I know what's best for everyone and as long as they won't listen, it's their loss, not mine.
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SIX
so everyone reading comments this list should be red flags but the other way around. a secure good person would love and feed their friend not (for example) hate you overposting on insta or you not smilining enough.
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so everyone reading comments this list should be red flags but the other way around. a secure good person would love and feed their friend not (for example) hate you overposting on insta or you not smilining enough.
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Melina
I do suppress my feelings, I picked have since I was a child, how can I undo that, I don't know and sometimes I feel like ppl might don't like me, but I am not that funny and I am scared to be left behind
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I do suppress my feelings, I picked have since I was a child, how can I undo that, I don't know and sometimes I feel like ppl might don't like me, but I am not that funny and I am scared to be left behind
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Moon_Wolf
I think one of the reasons people usually dont answer me (especially in the family group chat) is bc I dont have that much authority being the youngest and well. sort of the family jester.
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I think one of the reasons people usually dont answer me (especially in the family group chat) is bc I dont have that much authority being the youngest and well. sort of the family jester.
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Spaghet_consumer
I feel like i dont really do these things but my problem is im so incredibly worried about people not liking me, like finding me annoying or not wanting to be friends anymore
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I feel like i dont really do these things but my problem is im so incredibly worried about people not liking me, like finding me annoying or not wanting to be friends anymore
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big back
Broo I smiled at my teacher and then she just gave me a side eye paired with a nasty look :(
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Broo I smiled at my teacher and then she just gave me a side eye paired with a nasty look :(
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