10 Signs Your Mental Health is Getting Worse
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Wind
Sorry for venting here.
I used to vent a lot to my friends and family, but I decided to stop sharing bc I felt bad when everyone else has something of their own going on/ I thought I was being annoying/ making a big deal out of little things. I didnt think much of it until recently when I realized it really doesnt make it feel better/ its all just piling up. But now I realized this and Im not comfortable venting to my friends anymore. I have one friend I used to vent to and a little sister, but she just doesnt understand. And Ive gotten myself into a situation I wasnt ready for, and now I dont know the way out. I feel trapped and like I have no one to turn to. I want to let it out. But I feel as if though Ive lost emotional closeness with my friends since I moved to a different state. I cant talk to my parents about this situation bc its about getting into a relationship I wasnt ready for, and theyre homophobic. And I think Ive fallen out of love with my gf but I feel to bad to break up with her. I feel like Im holding her back as well, bc I literally cannot be there for her emotionally or physically, as I am two states away. Im far too impulsive/ young and emotionally unsure to be in a relationship regardless. And I feel like I cant talk to anyone about how I feel at this point. If you read this far thank you, Im sorry for being a stranger venting here but I needed to get it off my chest.
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Sorry for venting here.
I used to vent a lot to my friends and family, but I decided to stop sharing bc I felt bad when everyone else has something of their own going on/ I thought I was being annoying/ making a big deal out of little things. I didnt think much of it until recently when I realized it really doesnt make it feel better/ its all just piling up. But now I realized this and Im not comfortable venting to my friends anymore. I have one friend I used to vent to and a little sister, but she just doesnt understand. And Ive gotten myself into a situation I wasnt ready for, and now I dont know the way out. I feel trapped and like I have no one to turn to. I want to let it out. But I feel as if though Ive lost emotional closeness with my friends since I moved to a different state. I cant talk to my parents about this situation bc its about getting into a relationship I wasnt ready for, and theyre homophobic. And I think Ive fallen out of love with my gf but I feel to bad to break up with her. I feel like Im holding her back as well, bc I literally cannot be there for her emotionally or physically, as I am two states away. Im far too impulsive/ young and emotionally unsure to be in a relationship regardless. And I feel like I cant talk to anyone about how I feel at this point. If you read this far thank you, Im sorry for being a stranger venting here but I needed to get it off my chest.
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FanOfHistory
Like, my mindset theese days is pretty wierd, i wloudnt tell about myself that i feel depressed and even i cloud say i feel some of the sings in the video its probably just exaggeration, i just feel something is off with myself. I have huge problem with my education since i failed my grade and if i fail summer test im going to repeat the grade but its going to be probably full, so counting the days to the end of the summer is like counting last days until the death row. I struggle doing things myself, like watching movies or doing my hobbies, i just dont feel happy anymore doing thoose things anymore even i did most of my life. I sometimes catch up that i talk with people in my mind that i know arent real but i just speak like to myself and answering like character im thinking of, and songs that were bangers my whole life just doesnt seem to entertain me anymore and i listen to songs that i wloud never did before.
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Like, my mindset theese days is pretty wierd, i wloudnt tell about myself that i feel depressed and even i cloud say i feel some of the sings in the video its probably just exaggeration, i just feel something is off with myself. I have huge problem with my education since i failed my grade and if i fail summer test im going to repeat the grade but its going to be probably full, so counting the days to the end of the summer is like counting last days until the death row. I struggle doing things myself, like watching movies or doing my hobbies, i just dont feel happy anymore doing thoose things anymore even i did most of my life. I sometimes catch up that i talk with people in my mind that i know arent real but i just speak like to myself and answering like character im thinking of, and songs that were bangers my whole life just doesnt seem to entertain me anymore and i listen to songs that i wloud never did before.
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tweetipi
I don't have an ED or anything (not that I am particularly aware of) but I've been struggling a lot with eating or eating something that isn't simple or comforting and idk what it is or how to fix it. My meals are inconsistent. Some days, if I'm not forced, I don't eat breakfast or lunch and at dinner I either eat a lot or nothing. Most days I skip breakfast and have very little lunch and dinner, whether I'm hungry or not, my body just refuses it. I'm getting concerned and am worried. The food is there, it's available and there is enough so idk what it is, it might be I've just gotten a worsening relationship with food but idk. I was hoping you might know a bit about this.
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I don't have an ED or anything (not that I am particularly aware of) but I've been struggling a lot with eating or eating something that isn't simple or comforting and idk what it is or how to fix it. My meals are inconsistent. Some days, if I'm not forced, I don't eat breakfast or lunch and at dinner I either eat a lot or nothing. Most days I skip breakfast and have very little lunch and dinner, whether I'm hungry or not, my body just refuses it. I'm getting concerned and am worried. The food is there, it's available and there is enough so idk what it is, it might be I've just gotten a worsening relationship with food but idk. I was hoping you might know a bit about this.
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TheFoxy#2039
I can relate to every single one of these pints, how do I get help without my dad noticing, im 13, male, and he always just passes it as well, life is unfair or when will you grow up even though hes one of the main reasons I dont be positive, awhile ago I said I knew something (cant remember what) was going to happen and I kid you not he said dont be positive or else youll be disappointed all the time and I believed him and now that Ive believed that for a year its hard to not think negative and he just denies it when I tell him this. I need help but I dont want my dad to notice or else Ill get in trouble because he thinks Im getting help for problems that dont exist
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I can relate to every single one of these pints, how do I get help without my dad noticing, im 13, male, and he always just passes it as well, life is unfair or when will you grow up even though hes one of the main reasons I dont be positive, awhile ago I said I knew something (cant remember what) was going to happen and I kid you not he said dont be positive or else youll be disappointed all the time and I believed him and now that Ive believed that for a year its hard to not think negative and he just denies it when I tell him this. I need help but I dont want my dad to notice or else Ill get in trouble because he thinks Im getting help for problems that dont exist
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EyeSeeYou
You cant have these conversations with family if they are the prime reason you're in this state, you don't have friends because people only want fun (fairweather) friends, and you can't afford to pay for treatment.
People are getting mixed signals from society about this topic, first told it's OK to get help, but then making it inaccessible for the most part for too many people.
What good is outreach if all people are getting is a pamphlet telling them to go get help only to find out there are few resources they could actually afford?
Then what?
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You cant have these conversations with family if they are the prime reason you're in this state, you don't have friends because people only want fun (fairweather) friends, and you can't afford to pay for treatment.
People are getting mixed signals from society about this topic, first told it's OK to get help, but then making it inaccessible for the most part for too many people.
What good is outreach if all people are getting is a pamphlet telling them to go get help only to find out there are few resources they could actually afford?
Then what?
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Sailor
Im always forced to be like my older brother and study 24/7 and worst part is I dont even have WiFi to actually talk to my friends. Oh and also Im not sure why but I usually have been hating to eat and eat less sometimes, so Im wondering if thats the reason I always feel so tired. Ive been called out skinny, a stick and that I only have bones and its gotten to me so bad that I dont even know. Recently yes I have been having IG, death anxiety or prob thanataphobia. it has infected me really bad and I cannot focus well and this made me understand more
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Im always forced to be like my older brother and study 24/7 and worst part is I dont even have WiFi to actually talk to my friends. Oh and also Im not sure why but I usually have been hating to eat and eat less sometimes, so Im wondering if thats the reason I always feel so tired. Ive been called out skinny, a stick and that I only have bones and its gotten to me so bad that I dont even know. Recently yes I have been having IG, death anxiety or prob thanataphobia. it has infected me really bad and I cannot focus well and this made me understand more
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Xirrac
This is one of those things ill have to just suck up or deal with myself. Nobody will care or will use what I say against me, or they cannot help me. Ive been backstabbed, gas-lighted, been walked all over and its always the other person is bad or im bad. Once upon a time I gave a damn abt my behavior and morals. But its so draining and in return i just get used and pushed away so i just resort to isolation for my sake and other ppls sake. Its much easier than hurting others or being hurt over and over
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This is one of those things ill have to just suck up or deal with myself. Nobody will care or will use what I say against me, or they cannot help me. Ive been backstabbed, gas-lighted, been walked all over and its always the other person is bad or im bad. Once upon a time I gave a damn abt my behavior and morals. But its so draining and in return i just get used and pushed away so i just resort to isolation for my sake and other ppls sake. Its much easier than hurting others or being hurt over and over
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ElyseD21
Ive realised ive just been icolating myself from everyone else, I mean i was never really a social person anyways but i had really bad trauma thats still ongoing, and my hamster earlier this evening had a seizure when i was eating, i feel very dizzy and im starting to lose excitement in things id usually love to do. Your videos help me so much, thank you R. I. P Lightning- 2022-2023
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Ive realised ive just been icolating myself from everyone else, I mean i was never really a social person anyways but i had really bad trauma thats still ongoing, and my hamster earlier this evening had a seizure when i was eating, i feel very dizzy and im starting to lose excitement in things id usually love to do. Your videos help me so much, thank you R. I. P Lightning- 2022-2023
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Cera
I'm 12 and I have severe depression and severe anxiety with trust issues. I couldn't find a way to cope so I cut my arms not deep but enough to control my feelings. My family doesnt care and won't listen. I get picked on at school beacuse I have ADHD but at the same time I get hit on cause I'm beautiful. I know that but I have no friends because of my trust issues.
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I'm 12 and I have severe depression and severe anxiety with trust issues. I couldn't find a way to cope so I cut my arms not deep but enough to control my feelings. My family doesnt care and won't listen. I get picked on at school beacuse I have ADHD but at the same time I get hit on cause I'm beautiful. I know that but I have no friends because of my trust issues.
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YAK257
Thank you for making this video! I have been feeling depressed for a few years now but for no reason, and my mum always tells me its just a phase, but Im not so sure. I identify with basically all of the points you mentioned, but the video has also made me realise that I can try to make it better, so thank you from the bottom of my heart
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Thank you for making this video! I have been feeling depressed for a few years now but for no reason, and my mum always tells me its just a phase, but Im not so sure. I identify with basically all of the points you mentioned, but the video has also made me realise that I can try to make it better, so thank you from the bottom of my heart
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Princess
Im 24 been depressed for years n I finally decided to get it looked at last year n it turns out I have Severe Depression and Anxiety on top of the fact that I have mental disorders too Yep Ive been through so much. on top of the fact that I was too afraid to tell anyone especially my mother My mother made my mental health so much worse.
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Im 24 been depressed for years n I finally decided to get it looked at last year n it turns out I have Severe Depression and Anxiety on top of the fact that I have mental disorders too Yep Ive been through so much. on top of the fact that I was too afraid to tell anyone especially my mother My mother made my mental health so much worse.
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Reid
i've had a lot of mental health trouble since i was in elementary school. i'm now 39, but its definitely escalating. i cant afford to even go to to a sliding scale clinic, as i now somehow owe them thousands of dollars; there is no help out there for people like me. all this is really scary.
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i've had a lot of mental health trouble since i was in elementary school. i'm now 39, but its definitely escalating. i cant afford to even go to to a sliding scale clinic, as i now somehow owe them thousands of dollars; there is no help out there for people like me. all this is really scary.
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Osamu
Im sad all the time, I hang out with people and come home sad again, sure i was happy with them but still feel sad at the same time, Im sad when Im by myself, sad everyday I wake up, constantly crying, I dont know whats wrong with me, why cant I be happy? I just want to be happy
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Im sad all the time, I hang out with people and come home sad again, sure i was happy with them but still feel sad at the same time, Im sad when Im by myself, sad everyday I wake up, constantly crying, I dont know whats wrong with me, why cant I be happy? I just want to be happy
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Maytal
Well shit then this video help me Much more than the actual therapist. I cldnt focus on reading, drawing or art like I once had and it's difficult to explained to my parents she's always find something negative about me even when I did most good in my life.
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Well shit then this video help me Much more than the actual therapist. I cldnt focus on reading, drawing or art like I once had and it's difficult to explained to my parents she's always find something negative about me even when I did most good in my life.
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Sam
This is the third video ive seen pertaining to these topics where I've checked every single box, just as I predicted.
Its becoming more obvious to me with each video that something serious is going on, and it scares me.
I still don't know what to do.
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This is the third video ive seen pertaining to these topics where I've checked every single box, just as I predicted.
Its becoming more obvious to me with each video that something serious is going on, and it scares me.
I still don't know what to do.
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Ela
My parents just say stop being sad or youre too young to be sad they dont understand and whenever they catch me crying, they say youre embarrassing us and then they tell everyone they know. So its basically forbidden to cry or be sad in this household
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My parents just say stop being sad or youre too young to be sad they dont understand and whenever they catch me crying, they say youre embarrassing us and then they tell everyone they know. So its basically forbidden to cry or be sad in this household
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Donita
I have all of these but my parents will not brlieve me Im feel horrible and I just dont wanna think about my life at all its too much
It makes me wanna cry everything I need doesnt go as planned and im stuck with all this stress
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I have all of these but my parents will not brlieve me Im feel horrible and I just dont wanna think about my life at all its too much
It makes me wanna cry everything I need doesnt go as planned and im stuck with all this stress
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Solekeeper
Have you made a video about being sad for no reason, like feeling numbness in your emotions and just sad and empty. If not, could you make a video on this effect, I'm having so little self worth as of late
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Have you made a video about being sad for no reason, like feeling numbness in your emotions and just sad and empty. If not, could you make a video on this effect, I'm having so little self worth as of late
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s0trnlyz
What if a lot of these symptoms exist along with one you didnt mention, like just not caring about it all? Ive lived that way for more than 40 years. Seems normal to me.
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What if a lot of these symptoms exist along with one you didnt mention, like just not caring about it all? Ive lived that way for more than 40 years. Seems normal to me.
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Mikayla
I got all ten of those. But Id like to ask for a certain video about (5-10 ways to tell if you want to kill yourself and how to stop those thoughts) thank you.
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I got all ten of those. But Id like to ask for a certain video about (5-10 ways to tell if you want to kill yourself and how to stop those thoughts) thank you.
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Sreyda
I told my husband and my family all they said about WHAT. There is nothing to be depressed. I hide from everyone tired of talking even dont want to go outside.
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I told my husband and my family all they said about WHAT. There is nothing to be depressed. I hide from everyone tired of talking even dont want to go outside.
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the
Well i relate 100%to all above, but there no therapy in my city and I can not afford traveling to another therapy, is there any advice abt what i can do?
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Well i relate 100%to all above, but there no therapy in my city and I can not afford traveling to another therapy, is there any advice abt what i can do?
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Dhar
In reality:
1. Your mental health will not get better.
2. Getting Help makes no difference, only criticism
3. Death is the only solution
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In reality:
1. Your mental health will not get better.
2. Getting Help makes no difference, only criticism
3. Death is the only solution
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itzjusICEx
Ive been struggling with depression for a long time but im glad i have a loving and caring gf. idk where id be without her now, i love her.
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Ive been struggling with depression for a long time but im glad i have a loving and caring gf. idk where id be without her now, i love her.
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The
I dont have a therapist right now. But this helps. I have 3 projects Im doing so I can make a career. Im very unhappy working job after job.
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I dont have a therapist right now. But this helps. I have 3 projects Im doing so I can make a career. Im very unhappy working job after job.
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