7 Signs Someone Loves You, But It's Toxic
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Awkward_boy
I have excactly that kind of boyfriend and i would love to break up with him, also because i want to have my own time again, he dosnt give me time for myself he always wants to talk 24/7 and its just stressing for me and he knows but it still seems like he dosnt care. I want to break up with him so bad but i cant i just cant every time i do a sense of guilt comes up in me and i feel bad about it and he told me he will unalive himself, burn himself and stuff if i leave him and to be honest im scared of him. I feel stressed and anxious every time im with him. He Always (EVERY day) tells me his Problems. I mean yea its fine to tell me sometimes because im someone who cant deal with stuff like that and panics, but every damn day is just to much for me. but i never tell him. i never do because im just scared he will be mad at me or hurt himself. But if i do help him, he dosnt accept it, he feels bad again after a few minutes and throws my help away like its just useless even though i tried my best cause im not good at helping others. im also not able to tell him that i want to be alone because he always comes with his oh when i tell him and he excactly knows that i feel bad about it whenever he does that oh thing but he still dosnt and then i forget my wants i deny my mental wants (wanting to be alone so i feel better) i deny it so i can make him happy and im getting tired of him. I dont want to be with him but i just cant tell him. Does someone have advice on how i could calmly tell him without freaking out myself?
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I have excactly that kind of boyfriend and i would love to break up with him, also because i want to have my own time again, he dosnt give me time for myself he always wants to talk 24/7 and its just stressing for me and he knows but it still seems like he dosnt care. I want to break up with him so bad but i cant i just cant every time i do a sense of guilt comes up in me and i feel bad about it and he told me he will unalive himself, burn himself and stuff if i leave him and to be honest im scared of him. I feel stressed and anxious every time im with him. He Always (EVERY day) tells me his Problems. I mean yea its fine to tell me sometimes because im someone who cant deal with stuff like that and panics, but every damn day is just to much for me. but i never tell him. i never do because im just scared he will be mad at me or hurt himself. But if i do help him, he dosnt accept it, he feels bad again after a few minutes and throws my help away like its just useless even though i tried my best cause im not good at helping others. im also not able to tell him that i want to be alone because he always comes with his oh when i tell him and he excactly knows that i feel bad about it whenever he does that oh thing but he still dosnt and then i forget my wants i deny my mental wants (wanting to be alone so i feel better) i deny it so i can make him happy and im getting tired of him. I dont want to be with him but i just cant tell him. Does someone have advice on how i could calmly tell him without freaking out myself?
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Anna
I think I might be the toxic one. I took possession of my partner when we were dating and a let all my emotions come out in a passive aggressive way that I knew wasn't healthy but I kept telling myself that I could fix it and she would just have to tell me what was wrong. Its not her priority to tell me all that's wrong with me especially if I knew I was in the wrong so we broke up. We tried to become friends and I alowed myself to set some boundaries so I could keep a safe distance from her. But being in a romantic relationship and immediately trying to become friends was so difficult that I didn't feel healthy being around her so I broke things off for good. It hurt really bad but I felt like I just couldn't maintain any type of relationship with her if I could niether communicate with her properly nor feel like I'm constantly being possessive of her. I'm going to take some time away from her to sort the possessive feeling out safely.
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I think I might be the toxic one. I took possession of my partner when we were dating and a let all my emotions come out in a passive aggressive way that I knew wasn't healthy but I kept telling myself that I could fix it and she would just have to tell me what was wrong. Its not her priority to tell me all that's wrong with me especially if I knew I was in the wrong so we broke up. We tried to become friends and I alowed myself to set some boundaries so I could keep a safe distance from her. But being in a romantic relationship and immediately trying to become friends was so difficult that I didn't feel healthy being around her so I broke things off for good. It hurt really bad but I felt like I just couldn't maintain any type of relationship with her if I could niether communicate with her properly nor feel like I'm constantly being possessive of her. I'm going to take some time away from her to sort the possessive feeling out safely.
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Ritu
All the 7 point were in my ex bf. how it can be possible? I mean he was toxic more than toxic and blames me for everything but i love him too much thats why i never ended the relationship even if i wanted to. and then he broke up with after getting his marriage fixed with another girl. n for this also he blames me for that. but thank god. universe saved me from him. I still miss him im totally broken. but its better we he left me. for my good. and didn't wanted me to move on from him. theirs alot long story. now i keep myself away from him i just want to heal up from that toxic relationship. where i was living daily with fear that i do not make any mistake. and we fight on that. thank you so much universe for sending him in my life and thnku for taking as apart from each other
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All the 7 point were in my ex bf. how it can be possible? I mean he was toxic more than toxic and blames me for everything but i love him too much thats why i never ended the relationship even if i wanted to. and then he broke up with after getting his marriage fixed with another girl. n for this also he blames me for that. but thank god. universe saved me from him. I still miss him im totally broken. but its better we he left me. for my good. and didn't wanted me to move on from him. theirs alot long story. now i keep myself away from him i just want to heal up from that toxic relationship. where i was living daily with fear that i do not make any mistake. and we fight on that. thank you so much universe for sending him in my life and thnku for taking as apart from each other
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Angelita
Am I in a toxic relationship when one of my significant others doesn't want me to be poly? Or when they always want to be the better one? Or when they told me something I wasn't supposed to know about a friend and the other significant other to stop me from moving with them (even though everyone else is trying to stop me too but in a more reasonable way? Or when I feel scared being in a relationship with that person half the time and I'm scared to tell one of my other significant others about them too? Are they doing what was listed in the video? Am I not allowed to be myself or have any flaws? Are they jealous and overidealizing me?
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Am I in a toxic relationship when one of my significant others doesn't want me to be poly? Or when they always want to be the better one? Or when they told me something I wasn't supposed to know about a friend and the other significant other to stop me from moving with them (even though everyone else is trying to stop me too but in a more reasonable way? Or when I feel scared being in a relationship with that person half the time and I'm scared to tell one of my other significant others about them too? Are they doing what was listed in the video? Am I not allowed to be myself or have any flaws? Are they jealous and overidealizing me?
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yakuza
My abusive ex-boyfriend of 8 years blocked me 2 days ago and I'm still coming to terms with it all,
Back at our past conversations about how he would talk down to me control me Force his preferences on me for what he liked me and always put everything and everything over me I would constantly walk on eggshells with this guy,
too tired to argue,
Too under the illusion that I could change him and make him, make him better for us and our relationship, but in the end, he was a narcissistic psychopath, and most likely will end that way
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My abusive ex-boyfriend of 8 years blocked me 2 days ago and I'm still coming to terms with it all,
Back at our past conversations about how he would talk down to me control me Force his preferences on me for what he liked me and always put everything and everything over me I would constantly walk on eggshells with this guy,
too tired to argue,
Too under the illusion that I could change him and make him, make him better for us and our relationship, but in the end, he was a narcissistic psychopath, and most likely will end that way
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Fin
i love this girl in a toxic way, shes an ex girlfriend from a while back and she cheated on me before, and ive been told that shes cheated on her more recent boyfriends as well, including cheating on her most recent boyfriend with me - she told me she is in love with me still, always flirts, always texts me, etc. - bit for some reason I am so deeply in love with her and have a serious emotional attachment to her even though I know shes a toxic person and would completely deteriorate my mental health
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i love this girl in a toxic way, shes an ex girlfriend from a while back and she cheated on me before, and ive been told that shes cheated on her more recent boyfriends as well, including cheating on her most recent boyfriend with me - she told me she is in love with me still, always flirts, always texts me, etc. - bit for some reason I am so deeply in love with her and have a serious emotional attachment to her even though I know shes a toxic person and would completely deteriorate my mental health
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Remco
The thumbnail is perfect.
Too many people romanticize the Joker and Harley, while the Joker is unable to love anyone but himself and just abuses naive Harley to do his dirty work.
Paul Dini, the creator of Harley Quinn, based Harley on crazy women who fall in love with violent men and serial killers.
Yet for some reason woke writers and toxic fans think the Joker and Harley are a cute couple and a great example of what a relationship should be like.
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The thumbnail is perfect.
Too many people romanticize the Joker and Harley, while the Joker is unable to love anyone but himself and just abuses naive Harley to do his dirty work.
Paul Dini, the creator of Harley Quinn, based Harley on crazy women who fall in love with violent men and serial killers.
Yet for some reason woke writers and toxic fans think the Joker and Harley are a cute couple and a great example of what a relationship should be like.
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hatchettwit
why would you stay in a relationship with someone that makes you feel bad? Because you're desperately hoping it starts to feel as good as it did before. Listen to your gut. More over, if you trust your friends and they don't like this person AND you feel that bad, run. If you are those trusted friends, if your friend is an anxious attachment type. please look out for them. Call the toxic person out in front of them whenever they're toxic, don't be gentle.
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why would you stay in a relationship with someone that makes you feel bad? Because you're desperately hoping it starts to feel as good as it did before. Listen to your gut. More over, if you trust your friends and they don't like this person AND you feel that bad, run. If you are those trusted friends, if your friend is an anxious attachment type. please look out for them. Call the toxic person out in front of them whenever they're toxic, don't be gentle.
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Fernando
My bf came out as poliamorous and it have been very difficult for me to normalize it in my head and not get jealous about him and his bf's.
We talked a lot about what I felt, and I tried to cometo terms with this new dynamic, but I at the and, the only way I will feel confortable about it is if I'm the only one.
He started dating other people, and I think it's too late, cause I know the loves them too.
It is gonna be messy.
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My bf came out as poliamorous and it have been very difficult for me to normalize it in my head and not get jealous about him and his bf's.
We talked a lot about what I felt, and I tried to cometo terms with this new dynamic, but I at the and, the only way I will feel confortable about it is if I'm the only one.
He started dating other people, and I think it's too late, cause I know the loves them too.
It is gonna be messy.
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Lizzie
After watching this video I realize I've always been the toxic one in the romantic relationships I've had. It's a tough pill to swallow but I'm glad I know now it truly was me and not the other person. It's something I'll have to work on and I'm glad now I know that I need to before I get into any type of a romantic relationship. Does anyone have any advice on how to not be this way Especially if you weren't aware in the first place?
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After watching this video I realize I've always been the toxic one in the romantic relationships I've had. It's a tough pill to swallow but I'm glad I know now it truly was me and not the other person. It's something I'll have to work on and I'm glad now I know that I need to before I get into any type of a romantic relationship. Does anyone have any advice on how to not be this way Especially if you weren't aware in the first place?
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education
I used to be in a relationship with someone exactly like how this vid described
And I never knew they were toxic for me I just always felt bad when being around them and never knew y
Until one day when I literally freaked out, left their house and just deleted them from my life immediately and never looked back as it was too painful
Now I feel much happier in myself, more confident and free!
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I used to be in a relationship with someone exactly like how this vid described
And I never knew they were toxic for me I just always felt bad when being around them and never knew y
Until one day when I literally freaked out, left their house and just deleted them from my life immediately and never looked back as it was too painful
Now I feel much happier in myself, more confident and free!
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Karen
me and him are always on and off. I know he isnt good to me. Today we got in an argurment and I feel like Im not enough for him bc he always getting mad at me I make excuses tellling my friends he is just having a bad day but in reality he is just so horrible but I cant lose feelings and TIDAY he told me lets lose feelings like thats hard rly hard Im so attached to him
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me and him are always on and off. I know he isnt good to me. Today we got in an argurment and I feel like Im not enough for him bc he always getting mad at me I make excuses tellling my friends he is just having a bad day but in reality he is just so horrible but I cant lose feelings and TIDAY he told me lets lose feelings like thats hard rly hard Im so attached to him
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lockspring_666
I had a bf who loved me at first, but slowly started getting jealous of me & was controlling, he would always get mad whenever I didnt draw him or include him in my videos, he would also get mad when I didnt tell my family about him. He also even used me to try to become popular on an art website. Good thing I ended the relationship for good
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I had a bf who loved me at first, but slowly started getting jealous of me & was controlling, he would always get mad whenever I didnt draw him or include him in my videos, he would also get mad when I didnt tell my family about him. He also even used me to try to become popular on an art website. Good thing I ended the relationship for good
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Rikki
Hi All! I need some quick help: I'm doing some research on Toxic Love Relationships and would love to do a 20 minute interview with anyone who has dealt with, or is dealing with, this issue. I promise I'm NOT selling anything! I just want to learn from your wisdom. Comment here if you are willing, and I will then DM you. Thank you!
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Hi All! I need some quick help: I'm doing some research on Toxic Love Relationships and would love to do a 20 minute interview with anyone who has dealt with, or is dealing with, this issue. I promise I'm NOT selling anything! I just want to learn from your wisdom. Comment here if you are willing, and I will then DM you. Thank you!
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wrld
I don't know if I really am toxic but it felt like some things of them apply to me, I am worried right now that I am toxic to my partner.
I wanna know now how to stop being toxic, does anyone know this? Because I really love him and I don't wanna lose him because I might be toxic
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I don't know if I really am toxic but it felt like some things of them apply to me, I am worried right now that I am toxic to my partner.
I wanna know now how to stop being toxic, does anyone know this? Because I really love him and I don't wanna lose him because I might be toxic
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Sacred
It sucks so bad I was with someone I was madly in love with but when he started to try and ruin my life I left him. But it still hurt a LOT i was depressed for 5 years. Now I see how toxic the past was, smh. May no one ever have to go through a toxic dynamic ever. Blessings to all.
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It sucks so bad I was with someone I was madly in love with but when he started to try and ruin my life I left him. But it still hurt a LOT i was depressed for 5 years. Now I see how toxic the past was, smh. May no one ever have to go through a toxic dynamic ever. Blessings to all.
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DJ
My ex had all of these and I lost myself in the process falling in love w/ a version of her that never existed n its my fault for believing or even thinking of changing her cuz thats not how a relationship works u should never believe changing someone if u do u already lost.
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My ex had all of these and I lost myself in the process falling in love w/ a version of her that never existed n its my fault for believing or even thinking of changing her cuz thats not how a relationship works u should never believe changing someone if u do u already lost.
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SORA
Ah, the embodiment of what I had at the start of the year and we werent even a thing. And honestly, the trauma it left on the what I rebuilt myself on the past 4 years wasnt worth it, never.
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Ah, the embodiment of what I had at the start of the year and we werent even a thing. And honestly, the trauma it left on the what I rebuilt myself on the past 4 years wasnt worth it, never.
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honey
this is 100% my relationship with my bf it sucks cause i love him a lot n cant leave him. weve been together for over a year now; / i just wish he would see what he does to me sometimes.
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this is 100% my relationship with my bf it sucks cause i love him a lot n cant leave him. weve been together for over a year now; / i just wish he would see what he does to me sometimes.
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Ryan
Im in my first relationship rn and I just realized that I have been doing a few of these things but so has she a little bit. I dont think Im toxic but maybe I am and I wanna work on it
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Im in my first relationship rn and I just realized that I have been doing a few of these things but so has she a little bit. I dont think Im toxic but maybe I am and I wanna work on it
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songdemon
Just had a break up, and all the toxic relationship videos i keep watching just makes me think of her friend. It hurts knowing that she left because her friend didnt like me
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Just had a break up, and all the toxic relationship videos i keep watching just makes me think of her friend. It hurts knowing that she left because her friend didnt like me
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Sylvanas
The relationship to my best friend is toxic, but i can't leave him. It feels bad every single day, i know i must leave him, gut i can't. It hurts too much. I often crying.
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The relationship to my best friend is toxic, but i can't leave him. It feels bad every single day, i know i must leave him, gut i can't. It hurts too much. I often crying.
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Lofi
My old Relationship toxic Points
1, 2, 4, 5 and 6
I had a toxic relationship, it was really hard to Break Up because we Work togethe but it was the best i has done.
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My old Relationship toxic Points
1, 2, 4, 5 and 6
I had a toxic relationship, it was really hard to Break Up because we Work togethe but it was the best i has done.
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Gilgamesh
Watching this made me realise that being overjealous is toxic now I know what my ex-gf felt in our relationship. If that's the case how can I not make myself toxic?
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Watching this made me realise that being overjealous is toxic now I know what my ex-gf felt in our relationship. If that's the case how can I not make myself toxic?
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BeelzeKid
some things aint so toxic if she or he already moved in with you. if you dont communicate things it will get toxic fast anyway, dont bottle up your thaughts
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some things aint so toxic if she or he already moved in with you. if you dont communicate things it will get toxic fast anyway, dont bottle up your thaughts
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