Why People Are Intimidated By You Based on Your Personality Type
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Benjamin
I love personality traits and love to look these things up. I have often looked at personalities of what peoples jobs are including mine as a working pianist. As a pianist the personality for a lot of people seems to come out quiet and reserved, but that is not always true. I looked up on line to see the personality of a pianist and it says that a pianist is shy and quiet and doesnt talk much. That is far from the truth. Sure. Their are many different types of personalities of different pianists and all of them act different but we agree on the same things. I do have to say that some pianists personalities are reserved and quiet but mine is very loud and electric and direct. Even when i am not at my instrument I am the kind of guy who will say things the way they are and tell it right then and their. I dont beat around the bush. I am very volcal and direct with people. I tell the truth and tell it like it is. I say how i feel. So that of a pianists personality is this. From the musical side of things. Whether quiet or loud, a pianist has to have some what of an intimidating personality. One thing is is that we are intimidating because of the instrument we play and we are covering a lot of ground and when we play we are actually without realizing and doing it when we are playing yes people love the piano but it is intimidating for people. You have to have the personality for this kind of thing. The personality of a pianist is where her people like to hear it or not we are intimidating even way from our instruments. As a pianists personality you have to bee intimidating, great worker, and problem solver and you have to have passion for the instrument you play. So a pianists personality is intimidating. Now their are some that are very quiet pianists and they are not very vocal and it shows in their playing they kinda hold back and are more reserved in their playing. Me on the other hand are not like that at all. Yes. I go by the books and if the music is quiet of course I am quiet in my dynamics, but I when i am playing are the forceful type of person. It shows in my playing what kind of personality of person I am. It is just like bus drivers or other people that are doing their jobs. For a bus driver you know the driver the way they are driving the bus. You can tell the personality a lot of the time by the way they drive. Some are calm and cool as they press that pedal and the bus starts from its stopping place smooth and then you have those are are more jerky when they go from a stop the bus jerks forward. Well, that is my personality. Very electric loud independent. I love to bee alone, but I love to bee with others as well. Very direct in my ways and I say what i have to say. I am an in your face kind of person. I honestly am not reserved, and quiet. But yes. I have had people tell me that I am intimidating. Now people sometimes can think that the word intimidating is bad but it is not a negative thing at all. Intimidation can bee something that people look up to in some ways. For example. Playing the piano for example. Intimidating people in this way is not a negative thing the part that is intimidating is all of the things we have to do and keys we are having to play. We have 10 fingers each and every one of us well, I would hope so and then with our instruments we have 88 keys. For many that is intimidating. 10 fingers and 88 keys. How can this not be e intimidating. I do play both acoustic and digital pianos but if you had to ask me which instrument really is my personality or which instrument that i play describes my personality it would bee the digital piano. I think in some ways, not every way but those purist pianists who only play acoustic pianos are some what a bit more quiet than those who play keyboards, synthesizers and digitals. So really it can depend on the person but even in the world of pianists we all have our own types of personality. Just because you are a musician doesnt mean you have the same personality. The most romantic personalities probably wold have to bee the sax players and guitar players. They are more calm and relaxed. Even the violen players. If you look at a pianist or violenists, you can see the personality is a bit different. The personality of a violenist is a bit more calm compared to those that of a pianist. We have more of a harder and harsher personality because are in higher demand we are the main hub for all of the musicians. We are required to do more things and their is more demand and expectations put on a pianist than a violenist not to say that a violenist has demand because they too have to work hard of course to bee part of an orchestra the personality of a pianist versus a violenist though is a lot different. A violenist ever so seems to bee more fun loving and gentle and outgoing on those high notes that they play. They are easier and gentle and perky in their personality. The pianist though is short and not so approachable when we are working and playing. We are short with our answers whe we are playing. I think that if I was to just play acoustic pianos then my personality would bee probably a bit more layer back not quiet but layed back but I am one who plays both so my personality shows that when i am playing and when i am not. Even when i am doing things on a day to day basis I am more forceful with my fingers even when I am typing because I have a piano touch. So my personality doesnt just show when I am at the keys or at work, but it shows in my daily situations and tasks that i carry out throughout the day.
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I love personality traits and love to look these things up. I have often looked at personalities of what peoples jobs are including mine as a working pianist. As a pianist the personality for a lot of people seems to come out quiet and reserved, but that is not always true. I looked up on line to see the personality of a pianist and it says that a pianist is shy and quiet and doesnt talk much. That is far from the truth. Sure. Their are many different types of personalities of different pianists and all of them act different but we agree on the same things. I do have to say that some pianists personalities are reserved and quiet but mine is very loud and electric and direct. Even when i am not at my instrument I am the kind of guy who will say things the way they are and tell it right then and their. I dont beat around the bush. I am very volcal and direct with people. I tell the truth and tell it like it is. I say how i feel. So that of a pianists personality is this. From the musical side of things. Whether quiet or loud, a pianist has to have some what of an intimidating personality. One thing is is that we are intimidating because of the instrument we play and we are covering a lot of ground and when we play we are actually without realizing and doing it when we are playing yes people love the piano but it is intimidating for people. You have to have the personality for this kind of thing. The personality of a pianist is where her people like to hear it or not we are intimidating even way from our instruments. As a pianists personality you have to bee intimidating, great worker, and problem solver and you have to have passion for the instrument you play. So a pianists personality is intimidating. Now their are some that are very quiet pianists and they are not very vocal and it shows in their playing they kinda hold back and are more reserved in their playing. Me on the other hand are not like that at all. Yes. I go by the books and if the music is quiet of course I am quiet in my dynamics, but I when i am playing are the forceful type of person. It shows in my playing what kind of personality of person I am. It is just like bus drivers or other people that are doing their jobs. For a bus driver you know the driver the way they are driving the bus. You can tell the personality a lot of the time by the way they drive. Some are calm and cool as they press that pedal and the bus starts from its stopping place smooth and then you have those are are more jerky when they go from a stop the bus jerks forward. Well, that is my personality. Very electric loud independent. I love to bee alone, but I love to bee with others as well. Very direct in my ways and I say what i have to say. I am an in your face kind of person. I honestly am not reserved, and quiet. But yes. I have had people tell me that I am intimidating. Now people sometimes can think that the word intimidating is bad but it is not a negative thing at all. Intimidation can bee something that people look up to in some ways. For example. Playing the piano for example. Intimidating people in this way is not a negative thing the part that is intimidating is all of the things we have to do and keys we are having to play. We have 10 fingers each and every one of us well, I would hope so and then with our instruments we have 88 keys. For many that is intimidating. 10 fingers and 88 keys. How can this not be e intimidating. I do play both acoustic and digital pianos but if you had to ask me which instrument really is my personality or which instrument that i play describes my personality it would bee the digital piano. I think in some ways, not every way but those purist pianists who only play acoustic pianos are some what a bit more quiet than those who play keyboards, synthesizers and digitals. So really it can depend on the person but even in the world of pianists we all have our own types of personality. Just because you are a musician doesnt mean you have the same personality. The most romantic personalities probably wold have to bee the sax players and guitar players. They are more calm and relaxed. Even the violen players. If you look at a pianist or violenists, you can see the personality is a bit different. The personality of a violenist is a bit more calm compared to those that of a pianist. We have more of a harder and harsher personality because are in higher demand we are the main hub for all of the musicians. We are required to do more things and their is more demand and expectations put on a pianist than a violenist not to say that a violenist has demand because they too have to work hard of course to bee part of an orchestra the personality of a pianist versus a violenist though is a lot different. A violenist ever so seems to bee more fun loving and gentle and outgoing on those high notes that they play. They are easier and gentle and perky in their personality. The pianist though is short and not so approachable when we are working and playing. We are short with our answers whe we are playing. I think that if I was to just play acoustic pianos then my personality would bee probably a bit more layer back not quiet but layed back but I am one who plays both so my personality shows that when i am playing and when i am not. Even when i am doing things on a day to day basis I am more forceful with my fingers even when I am typing because I have a piano touch. So my personality doesnt just show when I am at the keys or at work, but it shows in my daily situations and tasks that i carry out throughout the day.
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education
How to deal with an ISTJ, from an ISTJ:
1. Get to the point. ISTJs are very just the facts, ma'am type of people. If we need details, we'll ask.
2. Take nothing we say personally, we prefer to be direct. But don't be afraid to call us out when we're being assholes.
3. Got a question? We give answers. ISTJs have a very large file in their brain labeled seems useless but might come in handy.
4. We are willing to die on very silly hills but are also willing to be proven wrong. We aren't really debaters but we love a good argument.
5. We're not funny, cool or expressive. _Or are we? _
6. We're not afraid to call your baby ugly. No, we will not apologize. ISTJs love nothing more than offering our thoughts or completing surveys.
7. Think of us as an igloo: cold on the outside, warm on the inside. But the door has a combination lock on it and we don't hand out the number very often.
8. ISTJs are not robots, we are -legion- not that different from you. We're ornery little cusses sometimes but we mean well. All we ask is that you be patient with us.
9. Closing thought, taken from Introvert Dear: Speaking the love language of the ISTJ requires a delicate balance between showing your gratitude and respecting their disinterest in sentiment. This is probably the most difficult thing when dealing with an ISTJ. When you tell us good job or I love you, we will (hopefully) acknowledge it _and then move on. _ Standing on ceremony is not our thing. We prefer to show we care, not say it.
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How to deal with an ISTJ, from an ISTJ:
1. Get to the point. ISTJs are very just the facts, ma'am type of people. If we need details, we'll ask.
2. Take nothing we say personally, we prefer to be direct. But don't be afraid to call us out when we're being assholes.
3. Got a question? We give answers. ISTJs have a very large file in their brain labeled seems useless but might come in handy.
4. We are willing to die on very silly hills but are also willing to be proven wrong. We aren't really debaters but we love a good argument.
5. We're not funny, cool or expressive. _Or are we? _
6. We're not afraid to call your baby ugly. No, we will not apologize. ISTJs love nothing more than offering our thoughts or completing surveys.
7. Think of us as an igloo: cold on the outside, warm on the inside. But the door has a combination lock on it and we don't hand out the number very often.
8. ISTJs are not robots, we are -legion- not that different from you. We're ornery little cusses sometimes but we mean well. All we ask is that you be patient with us.
9. Closing thought, taken from Introvert Dear: Speaking the love language of the ISTJ requires a delicate balance between showing your gratitude and respecting their disinterest in sentiment. This is probably the most difficult thing when dealing with an ISTJ. When you tell us good job or I love you, we will (hopefully) acknowledge it _and then move on. _ Standing on ceremony is not our thing. We prefer to show we care, not say it.
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Eyola
While I usually love videos by Psych2Go, this one kind of missed the mark for me.
People aren't so black and white, they fall into different shades of gray. Even as an avid researcher and fan of MBTI, I'd say that MBTI helps us understand how a person is at their core, and then their life's experiences causes them to branch out in different directions.
I've definitely met people who according to their MBTI are supposed to be open-minded, accepting, warm, and generous but instead they are cold, judgmental, and critical. And vice versa for people who I'd expect to act one way and instead act another. Unfortunately, depression, trauma, etc. can cause us to view the world and ourselves unhealthily and treat others badly. My point is, it's unfair to put everyone in a box and declare that that is how they are supposed to be, people's personalities are supposed to grow and become more well-rounded and balanced over time.
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While I usually love videos by Psych2Go, this one kind of missed the mark for me.
People aren't so black and white, they fall into different shades of gray. Even as an avid researcher and fan of MBTI, I'd say that MBTI helps us understand how a person is at their core, and then their life's experiences causes them to branch out in different directions.
I've definitely met people who according to their MBTI are supposed to be open-minded, accepting, warm, and generous but instead they are cold, judgmental, and critical. And vice versa for people who I'd expect to act one way and instead act another. Unfortunately, depression, trauma, etc. can cause us to view the world and ourselves unhealthily and treat others badly. My point is, it's unfair to put everyone in a box and declare that that is how they are supposed to be, people's personalities are supposed to grow and become more well-rounded and balanced over time.
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Ish-! sh
I'm an INFP and I wouldn't say that it is completely accurate. I would say that people are intimidated because if you daydream all the time, you're basically difficult to approach. Since you aren't paying attention to people.
If someone didn't live up to my expectation, I would be disappointed, sure. But I wouldn't cut them out but try and help them stop that bad habit.
for example, if someone tried talking bad about someone else, I would argue on their behalf, that they aren't a bad person, in order to discourage the topic. I'm too self-conscious to say it outright since that person they spoke about has probably not been nice to me. But I would try to convince them to be the mature person and not talk about them behind their back, for the reason that they are human as well, you know?
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I'm an INFP and I wouldn't say that it is completely accurate. I would say that people are intimidated because if you daydream all the time, you're basically difficult to approach. Since you aren't paying attention to people.
If someone didn't live up to my expectation, I would be disappointed, sure. But I wouldn't cut them out but try and help them stop that bad habit.
for example, if someone tried talking bad about someone else, I would argue on their behalf, that they aren't a bad person, in order to discourage the topic. I'm too self-conscious to say it outright since that person they spoke about has probably not been nice to me. But I would try to convince them to be the mature person and not talk about them behind their back, for the reason that they are human as well, you know?
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guccizhan
as an INFP, sometimes I have an idealistic view of people, but most of the time I really dont to be honest. if theres one thing I want to be ideal, its the connection I share with someone. so once I feel this person isnt treating me well, I tend to distance right away. so Id say that its about how Im treated rather than me idolizing them bc the latter is not true. I also admit that I cut off people who dont live life according to my morals. NOT saying that I dont accept different people, like you do you, but example: if a friend cheats on their partner, Im likely to walk out of their lives as well like bye
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as an INFP, sometimes I have an idealistic view of people, but most of the time I really dont to be honest. if theres one thing I want to be ideal, its the connection I share with someone. so once I feel this person isnt treating me well, I tend to distance right away. so Id say that its about how Im treated rather than me idolizing them bc the latter is not true. I also admit that I cut off people who dont live life according to my morals. NOT saying that I dont accept different people, like you do you, but example: if a friend cheats on their partner, Im likely to walk out of their lives as well like bye
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Bhumi
I feel like a lot of people might think all INFJs are quite and calm because I think a lot of us are, but I'm INFJ who can be very loud and almost pushy and overbearing.
I love talking to others and getting to know them. Understand their feelings and try everything in my power to help them become a better person
But I'm very very private and i don't think I've ever told anyone about my own passions, thoughts, and ideas, and its honestly kind of sad
I wish someone cared about me the same way I care about humanity
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I feel like a lot of people might think all INFJs are quite and calm because I think a lot of us are, but I'm INFJ who can be very loud and almost pushy and overbearing.
I love talking to others and getting to know them. Understand their feelings and try everything in my power to help them become a better person
But I'm very very private and i don't think I've ever told anyone about my own passions, thoughts, and ideas, and its honestly kind of sad
I wish someone cared about me the same way I care about humanity
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Loveshamarr
I literally cant say if in one or the other personality type I relate to a lot of them, Im the type thats social when Im not tired or anxious, love meeting new people and being social, Im observant and when I notice a boundary being crossed I communicate that and if someone goes against me being uncomfortable I dont care to keep in contact or further explain myself, Im very observant and logical, willing to know and understand people but bc I dont have just a carefree personality I feel people find that intimidating
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I literally cant say if in one or the other personality type I relate to a lot of them, Im the type thats social when Im not tired or anxious, love meeting new people and being social, Im observant and when I notice a boundary being crossed I communicate that and if someone goes against me being uncomfortable I dont care to keep in contact or further explain myself, Im very observant and logical, willing to know and understand people but bc I dont have just a carefree personality I feel people find that intimidating
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Cvhtrail1
I'm honestly surprised to say that my ENTIRE and I'm not over exaggerating (because I know all my friends personalities) to list them off 2 logicians 1 virtuoso 2 adventurers and 1 protagonist. And honestly the none of us or all that intimidating besides me and one of the adventurers: ) (side note one of the two logicians is me and also the virtuoso I count myself as both because the brigs personality test won't give me a straight answer).
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I'm honestly surprised to say that my ENTIRE and I'm not over exaggerating (because I know all my friends personalities) to list them off 2 logicians 1 virtuoso 2 adventurers and 1 protagonist. And honestly the none of us or all that intimidating besides me and one of the adventurers: ) (side note one of the two logicians is me and also the virtuoso I count myself as both because the brigs personality test won't give me a straight answer).
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Smazy
I hate how people represent ENFPs as clowns, childish-like individuals. yes, I am kind of like that but not so much. People around me usually think that I am so much outside the box with my value that I can't stand those social norms which are considered as enjoyment but to me, those are violation of justice or empathy. That's why I am considered as boring to them.
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I hate how people represent ENFPs as clowns, childish-like individuals. yes, I am kind of like that but not so much. People around me usually think that I am so much outside the box with my value that I can't stand those social norms which are considered as enjoyment but to me, those are violation of justice or empathy. That's why I am considered as boring to them.
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OhmygoshSosh
INFP here, I don't agree with the grudge thing, I very very rarely hold grudges if at all. I tend to forgive people no matter what, and try to believe the best in people. I do try to be the mediator though and a peacemaker in situations. I also do not have high expectations for others AT ALL lol. I have high expectations for myself, NOT others.
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INFP here, I don't agree with the grudge thing, I very very rarely hold grudges if at all. I tend to forgive people no matter what, and try to believe the best in people. I do try to be the mediator though and a peacemaker in situations. I also do not have high expectations for others AT ALL lol. I have high expectations for myself, NOT others.
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Nessy143
I'm ENFP, and sometimes I'm surprised about how fast can I get a random idea and than just spend all day planning on how to make it work. Only to find out the next day that now I'm possessed by another idea. And that kinda became my life style, I'm still feel pissed sometimes tho cause I'm having too much ideas and that's quite tiring actually
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I'm ENFP, and sometimes I'm surprised about how fast can I get a random idea and than just spend all day planning on how to make it work. Only to find out the next day that now I'm possessed by another idea. And that kinda became my life style, I'm still feel pissed sometimes tho cause I'm having too much ideas and that's quite tiring actually
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Father
As an intp our curious part is kinda annoying sometimes. like when you're thinking at night in your bed and suddenly question sth. I have to search and read about it or I can't sleep. and also in school I usually contemplate the meaning of words when I hear them and just throw random questions at teachers and my classmates often look at me funny
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As an intp our curious part is kinda annoying sometimes. like when you're thinking at night in your bed and suddenly question sth. I have to search and read about it or I can't sleep. and also in school I usually contemplate the meaning of words when I hear them and just throw random questions at teachers and my classmates often look at me funny
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phillip
I'm an ENTJ, as a student I was always the leader of the group, and many other students were also intimidated by the presence of me. It hurts because whenever they want to ask something they turn to other people first then those people will tell me what they want. I just want them to feel comfortable around me hmmm
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I'm an ENTJ, as a student I was always the leader of the group, and many other students were also intimidated by the presence of me. It hurts because whenever they want to ask something they turn to other people first then those people will tell me what they want. I just want them to feel comfortable around me hmmm
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John
I think the description about the ISFJ somewhat applies to me an ISFJ.
A lot of people get caught off guard whenever I feel like something is wrong and I am extending some help.
They always ask me why am I helping them? For me, I just can't help it when I know that I could do something to help them.
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I think the description about the ISFJ somewhat applies to me an ISFJ.
A lot of people get caught off guard whenever I feel like something is wrong and I am extending some help.
They always ask me why am I helping them? For me, I just can't help it when I know that I could do something to help them.
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psych2go
Ok, well. You've confirmed what people told me before, so I suppose there's a grain to pull from this.
I feel like my personality type has a predisposition to being empaths, or at the very least highly empathetic people, with an innate sense of feel of the room at all times.
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Ok, well. You've confirmed what people told me before, so I suppose there's a grain to pull from this.
I feel like my personality type has a predisposition to being empaths, or at the very least highly empathetic people, with an innate sense of feel of the room at all times.
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Moraenil
I'm an INTJ but very close to INTP which are apparently both intimidating. It's bad when your college instructors are intimidated by you because you know more than them and could teach the class better than they could but you're stuck in the student role. So horribly stressful!
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I'm an INTJ but very close to INTP which are apparently both intimidating. It's bad when your college instructors are intimidated by you because you know more than them and could teach the class better than they could but you're stuck in the student role. So horribly stressful!
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Lliss. s
INFPs aren't unrealistic or having high expectations. they are not naive either. Just oblivious at times, they may not realize what is going on because they are in their paracosm, they don't focus on what everyone sees, they see the little things not the big picture
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INFPs aren't unrealistic or having high expectations. they are not naive either. Just oblivious at times, they may not realize what is going on because they are in their paracosm, they don't focus on what everyone sees, they see the little things not the big picture
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Charlotte
I don't know my personality type I live outside the Social norms and I'm creative I'm also gentle and I want help everybody atleast in Finland it's not very common to have a doll when you go everywhere in babys carseat or in babys pram as a baby my doll is my baby
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I don't know my personality type I live outside the Social norms and I'm creative I'm also gentle and I want help everybody atleast in Finland it's not very common to have a doll when you go everywhere in babys carseat or in babys pram as a baby my doll is my baby
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the
I'm INFP but I don't have an idealized version of other people, but rather of myself and distance myself if people are hostile towards me in any way.
So my intimading trait is rather that if I feel not liked, I distance myself from friends without them knowing way.
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I'm INFP but I don't have an idealized version of other people, but rather of myself and distance myself if people are hostile towards me in any way.
So my intimading trait is rather that if I feel not liked, I distance myself from friends without them knowing way.
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tae
intj here. you have no idea just how many times i heard the phrase 'i thought you were really arrogant, but you actually aren't': ) i'm used to be seen like that now, but at first i was so upset and even angry a little: ) this shows how easily people judge others
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intj here. you have no idea just how many times i heard the phrase 'i thought you were really arrogant, but you actually aren't': ) i'm used to be seen like that now, but at first i was so upset and even angry a little: ) this shows how easily people judge others
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shitpostdog
The INFP is 50% accurate for me. I hold grudges when people disappoint me but I like hearing their explanations ( if it is a good one, of course ) and considering some facts I haven't before. To prevent that, I try to put my expectations on medium
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The INFP is 50% accurate for me. I hold grudges when people disappoint me but I like hearing their explanations ( if it is a good one, of course ) and considering some facts I haven't before. To prevent that, I try to put my expectations on medium
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pandora's
i'm a turbulent logician, or, INTP-T. i'm mostly an impatient person and are less stable with their projects. i really can't remember most of the details of being one but i relate to all of them. just search them up or whatever lol
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i'm a turbulent logician, or, INTP-T. i'm mostly an impatient person and are less stable with their projects. i really can't remember most of the details of being one but i relate to all of them. just search them up or whatever lol
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fairy_dust
Is it bad that I feel like a INTP and INTJ at the same time? Ive heard that I can be really intimidating and cold hearted or mean. Truthfully I dont want to be that I wish I didnt have such a harsh critic on others or myself: (
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Is it bad that I feel like a INTP and INTJ at the same time? Ive heard that I can be really intimidating and cold hearted or mean. Truthfully I dont want to be that I wish I didnt have such a harsh critic on others or myself: (
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education
Honestly as an INFP, yes, I do have high expectations for myself. But others? Not really. The only reason I could possibly be intimidating is my extreme anger issues but thats not really related to my MBTI-
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Honestly as an INFP, yes, I do have high expectations for myself. But others? Not really. The only reason I could possibly be intimidating is my extreme anger issues but thats not really related to my MBTI-
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Alex
As an infp, its pretty true. If people dont act or seem the way I want them to seem, I get upset at THEM for ruining my expectations. Dont know why, Im trying not to think that way though bc its real harmful! :(
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As an infp, its pretty true. If people dont act or seem the way I want them to seem, I get upset at THEM for ruining my expectations. Dont know why, Im trying not to think that way though bc its real harmful! :(
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