6 Signs You Have An Obsessive Love Style
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Jennah
I've come to realize this is how I am with my partners. I just got out of a toxic relationship a few months ago where I was feeling all of this but on such a bad level. Scared that anything and everything I said would make them mad, that asking them to stop something will make me look selfish, getting jealous over their friends, blah blah blah. It really turned awful (especially when they started telling me about their fantasies with fictional characters they loved) it greatly disturbed me how they acted and whatnot, but I was scared of their judgement, i was scared to leave them because I had depended on them for years. But I met someone new (my current boyfriend) and he helped me start to learn to love, and stick up for myself. He appreciated me, he made me feel happy and I knew, what am I doing? I could be off doing 10x better than I currently am, but all because i'm scared of a toxic person I don't? One week, my ex and I got into a fight, and later that same week we got into an even bigger fight. I broke up with them that night because I realized Ayo, what am I scared of? Once I say the words I do not have to worry about them anymore I did it, and later got with my current boyfriend. Because of the stuff I went through with my ex, it's hard to stop acting the way I did with them, where I am constantly thinking about them, constantly worrying about what I say and how they'll react. Lucky for me, my current boyfriend is the best. He supports me and is willing to stay by my side and help me grow into a better person. I am no where near absolutely mature, we're still in high school and this is just the beginning, as long as i try hard enough, I know I can get out of this silly mindset that I've been beaten down to think this is how I should be. I love my boyfriend, he means the world to me and I want us to last a very very long time, and I am not about to let this amazing and beautiful relationship go down the drain. I'm gonna get through this, i'm going to grow and become a better person, for him and I. So so sorry for the loooong comment, I just have a lot on my mind after watching this and yeah.
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I've come to realize this is how I am with my partners. I just got out of a toxic relationship a few months ago where I was feeling all of this but on such a bad level. Scared that anything and everything I said would make them mad, that asking them to stop something will make me look selfish, getting jealous over their friends, blah blah blah. It really turned awful (especially when they started telling me about their fantasies with fictional characters they loved) it greatly disturbed me how they acted and whatnot, but I was scared of their judgement, i was scared to leave them because I had depended on them for years. But I met someone new (my current boyfriend) and he helped me start to learn to love, and stick up for myself. He appreciated me, he made me feel happy and I knew, what am I doing? I could be off doing 10x better than I currently am, but all because i'm scared of a toxic person I don't? One week, my ex and I got into a fight, and later that same week we got into an even bigger fight. I broke up with them that night because I realized Ayo, what am I scared of? Once I say the words I do not have to worry about them anymore I did it, and later got with my current boyfriend. Because of the stuff I went through with my ex, it's hard to stop acting the way I did with them, where I am constantly thinking about them, constantly worrying about what I say and how they'll react. Lucky for me, my current boyfriend is the best. He supports me and is willing to stay by my side and help me grow into a better person. I am no where near absolutely mature, we're still in high school and this is just the beginning, as long as i try hard enough, I know I can get out of this silly mindset that I've been beaten down to think this is how I should be. I love my boyfriend, he means the world to me and I want us to last a very very long time, and I am not about to let this amazing and beautiful relationship go down the drain. I'm gonna get through this, i'm going to grow and become a better person, for him and I. So so sorry for the loooong comment, I just have a lot on my mind after watching this and yeah.
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Snaxxii
I Kinda Had This Love Style.
Tbh Honest Tho It Wasn't That Bad At The Start but After Days By Day I Seem To Become More Obsessive To My Partner Friend.
Like Everyday I Wanted To Talk To Them and Be With Them Every Hour!
I Asked Them How Are They Are Everyday Just To Make Sure if They are Comfortable With Me But When They Say I'm Okay Or I'm Good
And I always Think That They Are Not
So I Tried To Distance Myself Towards Them For How Long as I Can but My Feelings Seem To Hurt And Drained
And some how I felt empty without them.
I don't wanna get to detail about this but
After So My Days Kept Going IT GOT WORSE! I could Feel Something Was Wrong. and I Know Something Was Coming To an End
Then after so.
My Friend Finally Confessed To Me That. They Need a Break
And my Heart Slinked.
So Many Emotions Came up in 1
And I Was about to Cry
But I gotta say I have to respect That to My Friend
So I Let Them Be
We Nevered Talked Ever Since.
And Then After 1 Month Later
We Seem To Reunite!
I Wasn't To Obsessive Now
And Everything Was Okay!
And I'm Talking about my Present Time
Me and My Friend Have Finally Became a Great Friendship!
The End!
(Sorry for this Whole Story Man I Literally Went all Out )
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I Kinda Had This Love Style.
Tbh Honest Tho It Wasn't That Bad At The Start but After Days By Day I Seem To Become More Obsessive To My Partner Friend.
Like Everyday I Wanted To Talk To Them and Be With Them Every Hour!
I Asked Them How Are They Are Everyday Just To Make Sure if They are Comfortable With Me But When They Say I'm Okay Or I'm Good
And I always Think That They Are Not
So I Tried To Distance Myself Towards Them For How Long as I Can but My Feelings Seem To Hurt And Drained
And some how I felt empty without them.
I don't wanna get to detail about this but
After So My Days Kept Going IT GOT WORSE! I could Feel Something Was Wrong. and I Know Something Was Coming To an End
Then after so.
My Friend Finally Confessed To Me That. They Need a Break
And my Heart Slinked.
So Many Emotions Came up in 1
And I Was about to Cry
But I gotta say I have to respect That to My Friend
So I Let Them Be
We Nevered Talked Ever Since.
And Then After 1 Month Later
We Seem To Reunite!
I Wasn't To Obsessive Now
And Everything Was Okay!
And I'm Talking about my Present Time
Me and My Friend Have Finally Became a Great Friendship!
The End!
(Sorry for this Whole Story Man I Literally Went all Out )
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Rosette
Ive felt exactly like this since January, hes barely spoken to me and I dont try to talk to him cause I think I made him think Im uninteresting. Ive been more depressed lately since at least last month. Ive kind of talked to him about how Ive felt about things but all he says is ok or tough. I said happy anniversary with a pic of a french fry and all he said was ok. Ive wanted to try to text him but i feel like hed understand better if I told him in person. Im the one who wants to hangout all the time, Im the one asking to hangout, he doesnt invite me anywhere at all. He hangs out with his other friends all the time. He doesnt want anyone at school know about us and since people have been asking him so much if were still dating or if we even ate he gets bothered and has asked me I think 3 times about it. I dont think he can even trust me anymore, I feel so guilty too. I keep remember how hed say the nicest things almost every day this month a year ago, I think he loved me this day a year. I feel like that version of him is gone forever. He has told me he loves me but only when we hangout. I just want my therapy buddy, my best friend, and my romantic lover back, thats all I want.
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Ive felt exactly like this since January, hes barely spoken to me and I dont try to talk to him cause I think I made him think Im uninteresting. Ive been more depressed lately since at least last month. Ive kind of talked to him about how Ive felt about things but all he says is ok or tough. I said happy anniversary with a pic of a french fry and all he said was ok. Ive wanted to try to text him but i feel like hed understand better if I told him in person. Im the one who wants to hangout all the time, Im the one asking to hangout, he doesnt invite me anywhere at all. He hangs out with his other friends all the time. He doesnt want anyone at school know about us and since people have been asking him so much if were still dating or if we even ate he gets bothered and has asked me I think 3 times about it. I dont think he can even trust me anymore, I feel so guilty too. I keep remember how hed say the nicest things almost every day this month a year ago, I think he loved me this day a year. I feel like that version of him is gone forever. He has told me he loves me but only when we hangout. I just want my therapy buddy, my best friend, and my romantic lover back, thats all I want.
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AntTheUh
I hate how I develop into this love style. It's difficult for me to come over it.
It's caused so many problems for me, especially now. My partner (complicated) doesn't message often, as in, generally, to anyone.
But I do. So when his messages are cold, or he doesn't reply fast - or message at all, I take it as a personal attack of He's not interested. or He doesn't care.
Really, he's just really stressed - and he's just a person who doesn't message. If anything, he shows his care in different ways from me.
Though, I don't really know how he shows it, and neither does he. It's hard for me to come to terms that he's different from me, and that he might not have time or energy to spend with me.
I'm too obsessive and it makes me anxious all the time.
He's not messaging me, He doesn't want to spend time with me. He's only saying that so I don't feel bad.
I'm not really sure what to do other than work on myself. I would like to tell him this, but when I told it to him - I told it in a way that it was his fault.
I think I need to work on myself first, and the next time we meet, tell him about how I over-think everything.
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I hate how I develop into this love style. It's difficult for me to come over it.
It's caused so many problems for me, especially now. My partner (complicated) doesn't message often, as in, generally, to anyone.
But I do. So when his messages are cold, or he doesn't reply fast - or message at all, I take it as a personal attack of He's not interested. or He doesn't care.
Really, he's just really stressed - and he's just a person who doesn't message. If anything, he shows his care in different ways from me.
Though, I don't really know how he shows it, and neither does he. It's hard for me to come to terms that he's different from me, and that he might not have time or energy to spend with me.
I'm too obsessive and it makes me anxious all the time.
He's not messaging me, He doesn't want to spend time with me. He's only saying that so I don't feel bad.
I'm not really sure what to do other than work on myself. I would like to tell him this, but when I told it to him - I told it in a way that it was his fault.
I think I need to work on myself first, and the next time we meet, tell him about how I over-think everything.
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gris
Dude I hate being obsessed but I just cant help it. I met this one guy, and Ive been emotionally attached to him ever since. Its only been like 2 months so I know this is not love. He told me that he likes this other girl, so I know I have no chance with him even if I tried. Im happy for him but my obsession isnt. I just like being around him most of the times, he brings me the peace I never thought Id find. He is absolutely beautiful, his personality is beautiful. He is moving schools in a month, so Im doing my best to let go and enjoy the moment every time Im with him, just because I know Im going to miss him. He is the reason life isnt so hard right now. Look Im just confused right now, I need time to process my emotions before its too late. I just dont know what Ill do without him? And I know our friendship wont continue after he moves schools, so Im just lost. Also the thing I hate about myself is that my mood changes quickly, so I get out of control and mess things up. I think this is what ruins most of my relationships, and Im trying to work on it.
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Dude I hate being obsessed but I just cant help it. I met this one guy, and Ive been emotionally attached to him ever since. Its only been like 2 months so I know this is not love. He told me that he likes this other girl, so I know I have no chance with him even if I tried. Im happy for him but my obsession isnt. I just like being around him most of the times, he brings me the peace I never thought Id find. He is absolutely beautiful, his personality is beautiful. He is moving schools in a month, so Im doing my best to let go and enjoy the moment every time Im with him, just because I know Im going to miss him. He is the reason life isnt so hard right now. Look Im just confused right now, I need time to process my emotions before its too late. I just dont know what Ill do without him? And I know our friendship wont continue after he moves schools, so Im just lost. Also the thing I hate about myself is that my mood changes quickly, so I get out of control and mess things up. I think this is what ruins most of my relationships, and Im trying to work on it.
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mrs_nic
I'll share my experience as someone who has been in this type of relationship.
I must admit, I felt controlled. Constant control of where and who I am with, excessive jealousy and the need to be together made me not feel the same feelings anymore. I have found myself in situations where I was running away from any contact with anyone. I was just disappearing. It felt so wrong, but I thought it was the only solution for this to workout. And so my feelings for the person who once was my whole world have died out. I didn't understand their constant need to be close to me because I didn't feel the same way they did. It made me feel overwhelmed by guilt. And don't get me wrong, I loved that person, still do, but I saw that our relationship was becoming more and more toxic. It wasn't healthy for both of us and so we broke up. It was the best we could do, since it was too late. It was a year since then. We're just friends now. I think it's getting better, but it won't be the same as it was.
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I'll share my experience as someone who has been in this type of relationship.
I must admit, I felt controlled. Constant control of where and who I am with, excessive jealousy and the need to be together made me not feel the same feelings anymore. I have found myself in situations where I was running away from any contact with anyone. I was just disappearing. It felt so wrong, but I thought it was the only solution for this to workout. And so my feelings for the person who once was my whole world have died out. I didn't understand their constant need to be close to me because I didn't feel the same way they did. It made me feel overwhelmed by guilt. And don't get me wrong, I loved that person, still do, but I saw that our relationship was becoming more and more toxic. It wasn't healthy for both of us and so we broke up. It was the best we could do, since it was too late. It was a year since then. We're just friends now. I think it's getting better, but it won't be the same as it was.
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Warfu_
Careful on not blaming yourselves if you ever get to that kind of loving because the cause can't be personality itself, but also the result of something else happening in your life.
I was there.
When the pandemic lockdown hit in 2020 and all my life spheres were destroyed, I attached too much to the last one remaining: my crush. Became codependent and obsessed to the point I got angry many times he wouldn't put attention to me because, well, he wasn't having a good time in lockdown too and I was too obsessed to see it. I realized about this by the start of 2021 and with communication, we've been exercising the distance I know I had to take and I still am up to this day in 2022. I'm not dependent anymore and I realized my problem is I needed to get back on my life spheres once again to start the habit of thinking about different things. I decided too that if I couldn't do it myself (I'm improving step by step though, I'd take therapy because I finally knew this was the reason.
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Careful on not blaming yourselves if you ever get to that kind of loving because the cause can't be personality itself, but also the result of something else happening in your life.
I was there.
When the pandemic lockdown hit in 2020 and all my life spheres were destroyed, I attached too much to the last one remaining: my crush. Became codependent and obsessed to the point I got angry many times he wouldn't put attention to me because, well, he wasn't having a good time in lockdown too and I was too obsessed to see it. I realized about this by the start of 2021 and with communication, we've been exercising the distance I know I had to take and I still am up to this day in 2022. I'm not dependent anymore and I realized my problem is I needed to get back on my life spheres once again to start the habit of thinking about different things. I decided too that if I couldn't do it myself (I'm improving step by step though, I'd take therapy because I finally knew this was the reason.
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hwnglover
i was quite jealous when my friend messaged my crush, and when she told me about them having the same club. of-course i wasnt mad at any of them, i was just somehow pouting yk it isnt wrong for your crush to hangout w others. although i still get quite pouty and all, but i still am able to keep a stable friendship w her and its alright! i can still be my extrovert self with her and be happy. im not the type to shout and lose all my temper when someone who i like is with others, id shout when im not in the mood, or when im mad at my family. though i try to control it so i probably just throw some childish tantrum especially sometimes when theyre quite mad at me, when my mom or dad asks me too much, it kinda depends. i eye my brother who has a bit of autism in a bad way when i get annoyed or frustrated when he isnt saying anything good, when he repeats the same thing too much, and when he just seems careless about others feelings
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i was quite jealous when my friend messaged my crush, and when she told me about them having the same club. of-course i wasnt mad at any of them, i was just somehow pouting yk it isnt wrong for your crush to hangout w others. although i still get quite pouty and all, but i still am able to keep a stable friendship w her and its alright! i can still be my extrovert self with her and be happy. im not the type to shout and lose all my temper when someone who i like is with others, id shout when im not in the mood, or when im mad at my family. though i try to control it so i probably just throw some childish tantrum especially sometimes when theyre quite mad at me, when my mom or dad asks me too much, it kinda depends. i eye my brother who has a bit of autism in a bad way when i get annoyed or frustrated when he isnt saying anything good, when he repeats the same thing too much, and when he just seems careless about others feelings
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QittiKat
Im subconsciously obsessive over the person im in love with. Though, we arent dating, many have thought we were dating based off how i treat them vs how i treat my casual friends. This person is my life, we joke about getting married and having a life together, and the only future i can see myself having is with them, and that makes me so attached to them. Not to mention the abuse they go through at home, i just want to be the ray of sun in their life like how theyve been to mine. I accidentally break boundaries and possess over them in a sad attempt to get close to them, and it hurts me when I realize ive made them uncomfortable. I hate the ways I try to get close to them, I just want to be with them forever even though i know thats statistically improbable.
Sos save me lol im lost.
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Im subconsciously obsessive over the person im in love with. Though, we arent dating, many have thought we were dating based off how i treat them vs how i treat my casual friends. This person is my life, we joke about getting married and having a life together, and the only future i can see myself having is with them, and that makes me so attached to them. Not to mention the abuse they go through at home, i just want to be the ray of sun in their life like how theyve been to mine. I accidentally break boundaries and possess over them in a sad attempt to get close to them, and it hurts me when I realize ive made them uncomfortable. I hate the ways I try to get close to them, I just want to be with them forever even though i know thats statistically improbable.
Sos save me lol im lost.
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Ms
I think it all depends cause feeling jealous from time to time or being obsessed with your partner cause you deeply love them is normal. I mean, me and my girlfriend hate it if the other is doing something with someone else and we easily get sad or lonely when the other is not having much time or couldn't respond in time Dx I just love being close to her a lot as much as she does and its super cute! always kiss and cuddle is amazing! As long as it all runs on a healthy line I don't think it's mania cause otherwise every second person is like that xd we all love to get loved by our partner or? That's we are there for, for one another just like family gives love and affection too! Or friends! It's just important
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I think it all depends cause feeling jealous from time to time or being obsessed with your partner cause you deeply love them is normal. I mean, me and my girlfriend hate it if the other is doing something with someone else and we easily get sad or lonely when the other is not having much time or couldn't respond in time Dx I just love being close to her a lot as much as she does and its super cute! always kiss and cuddle is amazing! As long as it all runs on a healthy line I don't think it's mania cause otherwise every second person is like that xd we all love to get loved by our partner or? That's we are there for, for one another just like family gives love and affection too! Or friends! It's just important
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Edgy
This is both heart breaking but an eye opener. I didn't believe I was obsessed, but I was checking off everything. I lost someone so important to me and I realized how I acted was toxic. I did pick up on these such as jealousy and always wanting to be with them 24/7. But after the relationship was over, I took the time to reflect on myself. I knew I struggled with an anxious attachment and feeling no self worth, but I never realized I was hurting them. I'm both sad the relationship is over but glad that I'm now seeing what I should do to improve myself. I'm willing to let go, not only to free him from my toxicity but to also to allow myself to take the steps to healing.
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This is both heart breaking but an eye opener. I didn't believe I was obsessed, but I was checking off everything. I lost someone so important to me and I realized how I acted was toxic. I did pick up on these such as jealousy and always wanting to be with them 24/7. But after the relationship was over, I took the time to reflect on myself. I knew I struggled with an anxious attachment and feeling no self worth, but I never realized I was hurting them. I'm both sad the relationship is over but glad that I'm now seeing what I should do to improve myself. I'm willing to let go, not only to free him from my toxicity but to also to allow myself to take the steps to healing.
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lil
my ex partner had this. They would constantly ask me if I still loved them if I was not paying full attention to them, they got mad if I was hanging out with anyone else, they would constantly manipulate and guilt trip me if I wanted to do something without them, and they hated when they were not with me and whenever I was with them they would hold my arm to prevent me from walking in front of them and they would talk over my friends if anyone tried to talk to me. I ended up breaking up with them because they did a lot of other horrible sht and they were not a good person overall.
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my ex partner had this. They would constantly ask me if I still loved them if I was not paying full attention to them, they got mad if I was hanging out with anyone else, they would constantly manipulate and guilt trip me if I wanted to do something without them, and they hated when they were not with me and whenever I was with them they would hold my arm to prevent me from walking in front of them and they would talk over my friends if anyone tried to talk to me. I ended up breaking up with them because they did a lot of other horrible sht and they were not a good person overall.
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MamaMo
I know I am love obsessed with this person I am not blind but I cant get rid of it and I know its tearing me apart and I dont know what to do pls someone give me advice I have good awareness and I am not a stalker and even if I am really jealous I almost never show it but its almost all internal because I know its wrong but I cant stop those thoughts but some of those thoughts go out and almost ruin our friendship and he really loves me but not like that and thats what keeps me going and I dont know how to stop this obsession with out ending our friendship, advice?
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I know I am love obsessed with this person I am not blind but I cant get rid of it and I know its tearing me apart and I dont know what to do pls someone give me advice I have good awareness and I am not a stalker and even if I am really jealous I almost never show it but its almost all internal because I know its wrong but I cant stop those thoughts but some of those thoughts go out and almost ruin our friendship and he really loves me but not like that and thats what keeps me going and I dont know how to stop this obsession with out ending our friendship, advice?
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Angeygirl
This video is going to be very useful for a story I have about a guy who tries to deal with his best friend turning evil by falling in love constantly. The main character never really gets his target to reciprocate because he comes off as either an empty headed dreamer or kind of a creep, but things go south when someone finally does love him back because his core issues were never dealt with and his new best friend has to snap him out of it before mc turns into the villain himself
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This video is going to be very useful for a story I have about a guy who tries to deal with his best friend turning evil by falling in love constantly. The main character never really gets his target to reciprocate because he comes off as either an empty headed dreamer or kind of a creep, but things go south when someone finally does love him back because his core issues were never dealt with and his new best friend has to snap him out of it before mc turns into the villain himself
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CrazyArrows
I was feeling just like this with mi Ex-gf, we had a long distance relationship and we've seen once a few months ago, she began to act distant and avoid answering my text for hours and hours, the pain someone obsessive with their partner is horrible and can't even describe how it was going through that, now I try to focus on myself, seeing if I can achieve a more secure and high self-esteem version of me before trying to be with that person again.
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I was feeling just like this with mi Ex-gf, we had a long distance relationship and we've seen once a few months ago, she began to act distant and avoid answering my text for hours and hours, the pain someone obsessive with their partner is horrible and can't even describe how it was going through that, now I try to focus on myself, seeing if I can achieve a more secure and high self-esteem version of me before trying to be with that person again.
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Nothing
That is me but i dont think im that extreme. I do get jealous and overthink many situations. But i keep myself together and try not to show it and ill talk about it later with my partner. He is very understanding and i love him all the more. I do know that i have a issues with wanting to be with my patner all the time but we work it out and im greatfully happy that i know im loved and cared for. The reassurance is important.
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That is me but i dont think im that extreme. I do get jealous and overthink many situations. But i keep myself together and try not to show it and ill talk about it later with my partner. He is very understanding and i love him all the more. I do know that i have a issues with wanting to be with my patner all the time but we work it out and im greatfully happy that i know im loved and cared for. The reassurance is important.
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Gam
I'm honestly like this, and i feel im being a burden because of it. I have terrible self esteem and I barely can love myself, which is why i have a deep need to feel wanted. Like, to feel like someone wants your around, wants to be near you, wants to spend time with you, those are all really good feelings that i think im like depending on too much. I gotta be more supportive of him
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I'm honestly like this, and i feel im being a burden because of it. I have terrible self esteem and I barely can love myself, which is why i have a deep need to feel wanted. Like, to feel like someone wants your around, wants to be near you, wants to spend time with you, those are all really good feelings that i think im like depending on too much. I gotta be more supportive of him
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education
Anyone else gone down a rabbit hole of videos like this recently which actually help a lot with reflection and growth. Ive been watching this type of stuff and I feel I can break down and pin point my emotions much better now and focus on just making memories with my partner. This is honestly a great way to educate people and help mature emotionally.
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Anyone else gone down a rabbit hole of videos like this recently which actually help a lot with reflection and growth. Ive been watching this type of stuff and I feel I can break down and pin point my emotions much better now and focus on just making memories with my partner. This is honestly a great way to educate people and help mature emotionally.
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Mi
Wow this is like all of me. It makes it worst when you have a family who is not affectionate towards you and have 0 friends. It makes me super clingy but I've been screwed over by my ex that I don't care most of the time if my current partner plans to leave me or not. Like if they threaten me, I wouldn't care cuz im over the line of not giving a shet.
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Wow this is like all of me. It makes it worst when you have a family who is not affectionate towards you and have 0 friends. It makes me super clingy but I've been screwed over by my ex that I don't care most of the time if my current partner plans to leave me or not. Like if they threaten me, I wouldn't care cuz im over the line of not giving a shet.
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BabyBlue
It's things like this that make me not even want to date, feels like you can't show love too much or be clingy/needy without it being an issue which sucks. I do show a few of these due to abandonment issues but I have too much love to give to a person I love which makes this complicated as too much love drives people away: /
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It's things like this that make me not even want to date, feels like you can't show love too much or be clingy/needy without it being an issue which sucks. I do show a few of these due to abandonment issues but I have too much love to give to a person I love which makes this complicated as too much love drives people away: /
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Noko
My mentally abusive ex has this love style and it was so bad. I was having dreams about him getting physically abusive. He had passwords to accounts, he controlled who I was friends with, he controlled me. Luckily I got out of the relationship with the help of friends. He did some critical damage though lmao.
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My mentally abusive ex has this love style and it was so bad. I was having dreams about him getting physically abusive. He had passwords to accounts, he controlled who I was friends with, he controlled me. Luckily I got out of the relationship with the help of friends. He did some critical damage though lmao.
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Vashon
This is how I felt in 8th grade. I had all of these but it was over a crush. I think I was possessive. When she was around other guys I felt mad. I had panic attacks when I wasnt getting responses from her or was getting a negative response from her because all I wanted was to be around her.
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This is how I felt in 8th grade. I had all of these but it was over a crush. I think I was possessive. When she was around other guys I felt mad. I had panic attacks when I wasnt getting responses from her or was getting a negative response from her because all I wanted was to be around her.
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Pink
Its toxic, to myself. coz I know how bad it is so I control my actions and just keep those emotions to myself, so the other side doesnt actually feel that Im being too much. I kinda just realized that most of the things that one day hurt me was just because of me. my brain made it all.
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Its toxic, to myself. coz I know how bad it is so I control my actions and just keep those emotions to myself, so the other side doesnt actually feel that Im being too much. I kinda just realized that most of the things that one day hurt me was just because of me. my brain made it all.
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I absolutely hate not hearing from my partner, to me I see it as a sign that they are no longer interested in me because talking to me is not a priority to them. Maybe cause I have an obsession love style that I cant imagine taking hours to reply like they do to me sometimes.
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I absolutely hate not hearing from my partner, to me I see it as a sign that they are no longer interested in me because talking to me is not a priority to them. Maybe cause I have an obsession love style that I cant imagine taking hours to reply like they do to me sometimes.
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Bruhhhh i do all those things with my boyfriend I literally try to control him and love bomb him and fight and invade his personal space and boundaries I dont care! And its true when he listens to me Im like not attracted anymore thats weird thats suspicious
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Bruhhhh i do all those things with my boyfriend I literally try to control him and love bomb him and fight and invade his personal space and boundaries I dont care! And its true when he listens to me Im like not attracted anymore thats weird thats suspicious
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