How Emotionally Mature Are You? (QUIZ)
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Date: 2023-08-20
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psych2go
I got 43! :) and I'm really feel happy about it bcs I wasn't so good at managing my emotions before, I can say for a fact that if I took this test just a year ago, I probably would've gotten 11-20 or something. I didn't have the best childhood or the best fostering environment for growth of my self esteem and social skills, I want to share how I overcame it even if it can help just 1 person, I would always find myself toxic, acting on impulses, being insensitive to other bcs I was just mad at the world for few personal reasons, I would always engage in needless arguments and loved to make others look wrong, but then I couldn't live with myself bcs I wasn't like this as a kid, my life had gotten harder after my high school and a lot of horrible stuff that happened including losing some loved ones, and tbh I was never too rational, just happy as a kid so I wasn't toxic. The guilt of feeling like a villain made me self reflect, I spent a lot of time with just myself, lets safely assume that past 1. 5-2 years while preparing to get into Uni, I started to notice patterns on how I react on certain scenarios and I gained experience, I would make up scenes in my mind and asked myself, how would I react? and I started replacing every negative emotional outburst with a rational reaction that would be to try to look into wider perspective than my own. I taught myself to grow more tolerant and I spent a lot of time trying to put myself in others' shoes, I mostly lived by myself bcs I wanted to give myself some time and when I did talk to ppl, I tried to stay as rational as I could. It feels like its impossible to be better at regulating your emotions but I can tell that its more like training a muscle by resisting to react emotionally, 1 thing I did that was a big mistake was I tried to cast aside my emotions and that took a toll on me, so my advice is don't try to be unemotional, emotions is what makes you human, rather try to own them and not be emotional in social settings. Think with mind, not your heart because when heart is broken, brain gives the best advices. AND give yourself the time you need, no matter how long, its been a long journey for me and I'm not gonna stop here, it takes time! Be patient, it gets better: ) and try to stay as optimistic as you can, if you catch yourself too pessimist then practise blind optimism, despite its demerits for a few months and then bring balance to it! And it does get better, we atch an entire anime or web series even if its slow or boring at the beginning just bcs someone tells us that it gets better, how about we apply that to our lives? It does get better, just never stop to try to improve yourself!
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I got 43! :) and I'm really feel happy about it bcs I wasn't so good at managing my emotions before, I can say for a fact that if I took this test just a year ago, I probably would've gotten 11-20 or something. I didn't have the best childhood or the best fostering environment for growth of my self esteem and social skills, I want to share how I overcame it even if it can help just 1 person, I would always find myself toxic, acting on impulses, being insensitive to other bcs I was just mad at the world for few personal reasons, I would always engage in needless arguments and loved to make others look wrong, but then I couldn't live with myself bcs I wasn't like this as a kid, my life had gotten harder after my high school and a lot of horrible stuff that happened including losing some loved ones, and tbh I was never too rational, just happy as a kid so I wasn't toxic. The guilt of feeling like a villain made me self reflect, I spent a lot of time with just myself, lets safely assume that past 1. 5-2 years while preparing to get into Uni, I started to notice patterns on how I react on certain scenarios and I gained experience, I would make up scenes in my mind and asked myself, how would I react? and I started replacing every negative emotional outburst with a rational reaction that would be to try to look into wider perspective than my own. I taught myself to grow more tolerant and I spent a lot of time trying to put myself in others' shoes, I mostly lived by myself bcs I wanted to give myself some time and when I did talk to ppl, I tried to stay as rational as I could. It feels like its impossible to be better at regulating your emotions but I can tell that its more like training a muscle by resisting to react emotionally, 1 thing I did that was a big mistake was I tried to cast aside my emotions and that took a toll on me, so my advice is don't try to be unemotional, emotions is what makes you human, rather try to own them and not be emotional in social settings. Think with mind, not your heart because when heart is broken, brain gives the best advices. AND give yourself the time you need, no matter how long, its been a long journey for me and I'm not gonna stop here, it takes time! Be patient, it gets better: ) and try to stay as optimistic as you can, if you catch yourself too pessimist then practise blind optimism, despite its demerits for a few months and then bring balance to it! And it does get better, we atch an entire anime or web series even if its slow or boring at the beginning just bcs someone tells us that it gets better, how about we apply that to our lives? It does get better, just never stop to try to improve yourself!
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Daedalus
some of these questions don't really deal with emotional maturity and just deal with whether or not you are depressed/traumatized. I have a low self worth, but I process emotions more maturely than just about everyone I know, and always have. Some questions are questionable when it comes to maturity. For instance, trying to find the cause of the emotional discomfort isn't always a pragmatic or beneficial option to pursue in the moment. Sometimes its a matter of powering through the situation and assessing things afterward. I did eight years in the army. There was very often no time to get to a root cause of your emotional problem, or, more often than not, the root cause was the job itself.
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some of these questions don't really deal with emotional maturity and just deal with whether or not you are depressed/traumatized. I have a low self worth, but I process emotions more maturely than just about everyone I know, and always have. Some questions are questionable when it comes to maturity. For instance, trying to find the cause of the emotional discomfort isn't always a pragmatic or beneficial option to pursue in the moment. Sometimes its a matter of powering through the situation and assessing things afterward. I did eight years in the army. There was very often no time to get to a root cause of your emotional problem, or, more often than not, the root cause was the job itself.
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HNL
I have score of 37 as for emotional maturity. now it may not be come as high as other high emotional mature categories. However I sometimes get myself into multiple choice of answers than just picking only one answers. I sometimes get c/b etc. as I'd understand a lot better that my emotions fluctuate even on situations I dealt with before will hit differently. Over all I may look like very out going, but I tend to be much calmer in the inside.
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I have score of 37 as for emotional maturity. now it may not be come as high as other high emotional mature categories. However I sometimes get myself into multiple choice of answers than just picking only one answers. I sometimes get c/b etc. as I'd understand a lot better that my emotions fluctuate even on situations I dealt with before will hit differently. Over all I may look like very out going, but I tend to be much calmer in the inside.
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WoodSprite
I scored 42: I had an extremely painful relationship failure last year. took me a long time and a lot self reflection to get through it. im in a much better place now. if i had taken this test before that horrible situation, i wouldnt have scored this much! So im thankful that i had to go thought that and proud of myself that i grew through that.
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I scored 42: I had an extremely painful relationship failure last year. took me a long time and a lot self reflection to get through it. im in a much better place now. if i had taken this test before that horrible situation, i wouldnt have scored this much! So im thankful that i had to go thought that and proud of myself that i grew through that.
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Unknown167
I scored 32 points which that means I am mature but I am often bored and aloof that's why i ignore my emotions and think about something that could motivate me oh it's nothing just being an open person because maturity is a part of my growing up.
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I scored 32 points which that means I am mature but I am often bored and aloof that's why i ignore my emotions and think about something that could motivate me oh it's nothing just being an open person because maturity is a part of my growing up.
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Thomas
2: 08 Do you think from other's point of view? It is worthy to attempt but your mind is not their mind so you will never know if you are actually in someone else's point of view, or YOUR imagination of what someone else's point of view happens to be.
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2: 08 Do you think from other's point of view? It is worthy to attempt but your mind is not their mind so you will never know if you are actually in someone else's point of view, or YOUR imagination of what someone else's point of view happens to be.
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cringe
picking the very high ones shows a form of naivity, wich isent necisarily mature enough. Being aware of the fact you arent always mature, can make you more mature. We all have flaws, a simple one dimensional direction isent that mature
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picking the very high ones shows a form of naivity, wich isent necisarily mature enough. Being aware of the fact you arent always mature, can make you more mature. We all have flaws, a simple one dimensional direction isent that mature
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Lavender
I got 42 yay! I'm very grateful for this score although I still have a lot more to improve I'm still very proud of myself for growing and I'm very excited to keep on finding new ways on how to improve and grow even more
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I got 42 yay! I'm very grateful for this score although I still have a lot more to improve I'm still very proud of myself for growing and I'm very excited to keep on finding new ways on how to improve and grow even more
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xxglcxx
You tell me if emotional maturity is a good thing.
In general; I don't have many emotions, I am empathetic, I always become indispensable and irreplaceable in a short time.
A-8 / B-1 / D-1
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You tell me if emotional maturity is a good thing.
In general; I don't have many emotions, I am empathetic, I always become indispensable and irreplaceable in a short time.
A-8 / B-1 / D-1
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Bennekin
I got 29 but I wanted to cry cuz I kept having to restart the video cuz I kept hitting the wrong button and then losing my comment that was keeping track of my score it happened like 3 times
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I got 29 but I wanted to cry cuz I kept having to restart the video cuz I kept hitting the wrong button and then losing my comment that was keeping track of my score it happened like 3 times
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Jonathan
36 is hard sometimes is still a thing I got to keep improving. Still is a really hard battle with a pretty hot temper growing up and now I have gotten better. Still hard.
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36 is hard sometimes is still a thing I got to keep improving. Still is a really hard battle with a pretty hot temper growing up and now I have gotten better. Still hard.
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Mika
I'm sorry but I saw the nonbinary sticker on the mirror in question one and I full on jumped out of bed. It just made me so happy, as someone who is nonbinary, Ty psych2go!
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I'm sorry but I saw the nonbinary sticker on the mirror in question one and I full on jumped out of bed. It just made me so happy, as someone who is nonbinary, Ty psych2go!
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Cupsps
EM: 29
Im not sure what to think of this, Im a 13 M and Ive had my fair share of traumatic stuff but I didnt know I would get this low dang
Mental age: 40-55
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EM: 29
Im not sure what to think of this, Im a 13 M and Ive had my fair share of traumatic stuff but I didnt know I would get this low dang
Mental age: 40-55
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HanGray
35
way higher than i thought. there are certain things I'm working on. I'll come back after I'm satisfied with the results of my work on myself.
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35
way higher than i thought. there are certain things I'm working on. I'll come back after I'm satisfied with the results of my work on myself.
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Toms
a a a b a d b a a a = 45
a b b b a d b a b b = 41
I wasn't sure about a few of them between A or B but it seems it didn't matter.
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a a a b a d b a a a = 45
a b b b a d b a b b = 41
I wasn't sure about a few of them between A or B but it seems it didn't matter.
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Gav123
38/50
It's much higher than I thought it would be. I guess one of the things I need to learn is not to be so hard on myself.
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38/50
It's much higher than I thought it would be. I guess one of the things I need to learn is not to be so hard on myself.
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Click
When I stop caring I have little to no emotional maturity but when I actually stop and think I can get ahold of myself
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When I stop caring I have little to no emotional maturity but when I actually stop and think I can get ahold of myself
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cesspool
How does always getting bother by the opinions of others equate to emotional maturity? These test are ridiculous.
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How does always getting bother by the opinions of others equate to emotional maturity? These test are ridiculous.
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Naysha
mines was 38 and im pretty happy with it cuz im 13 rn, theres still room to improve but im still happy with it
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mines was 38 and im pretty happy with it cuz im 13 rn, theres still room to improve but im still happy with it
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Michael
Shouldn't the answers for Question #2 be reversed?
where a) is never bothered and e) is always bothered
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Shouldn't the answers for Question #2 be reversed?
where a) is never bothered and e) is always bothered
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education
I got a moderate level but I can't control my emotions I cry all the time like this week over 30 times
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I got a moderate level but I can't control my emotions I cry all the time like this week over 30 times
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