How to Deal with Unrequited Love
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Pratyaksh
The thing which hurts the most is when you know that your girlfriend had unrequited love for your friend but still just because you were too emotionally unstable and could not control your emotions for her you tried and this lead to stopping of talks between your friend and girlfriend. I did that unknowingly because i started loving her. My friend and she stopped talking and later i find out they both had feelings for each other and i just broke that. She never blamed me. But this is something which she also know that if i had not been there they could become more than friends.
She never blames me she is just so kind. But i wish i had been more understanding and emotionally stable.
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The thing which hurts the most is when you know that your girlfriend had unrequited love for your friend but still just because you were too emotionally unstable and could not control your emotions for her you tried and this lead to stopping of talks between your friend and girlfriend. I did that unknowingly because i started loving her. My friend and she stopped talking and later i find out they both had feelings for each other and i just broke that. She never blamed me. But this is something which she also know that if i had not been there they could become more than friends.
She never blames me she is just so kind. But i wish i had been more understanding and emotionally stable.
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DrunkenRampage
The way to cure unrequited love is to realize that someone in your life has the exact same feelings for you. They may be shy to express themselves or you may not be aware that they have feelings for you but the same pain you feel is shared with the person who is truly attracted to you. Relieve that person of their pain by being with them and you two will make each other happy.
Don't waste years chasing a person that you already know isn't attracted to you and will probably never be in a relationship with you. We don't have much time in our lives. The thing worse than not being loved back is wasted time. Hopefully you realize it before it's too late.
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The way to cure unrequited love is to realize that someone in your life has the exact same feelings for you. They may be shy to express themselves or you may not be aware that they have feelings for you but the same pain you feel is shared with the person who is truly attracted to you. Relieve that person of their pain by being with them and you two will make each other happy.
Don't waste years chasing a person that you already know isn't attracted to you and will probably never be in a relationship with you. We don't have much time in our lives. The thing worse than not being loved back is wasted time. Hopefully you realize it before it's too late.
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DJ
I came from this experience with a male colleague I used to crush on, and when he rejected my advances, I was like okay cool because I thought I would be over it easily with the romantic attraction. But NO, I still think about that colleague months later And it's hard because we work in the same office building, have mutual friends, and we even had a heart-to-heart talk about my plan to set boundaries and not speak to him from now on so I can work on myself. Even then, I still hang on to that possiblity of still being friends with him in the future, and detaching myself from anyone associated with him. I hope this video can really help me recover from this.
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I came from this experience with a male colleague I used to crush on, and when he rejected my advances, I was like okay cool because I thought I would be over it easily with the romantic attraction. But NO, I still think about that colleague months later And it's hard because we work in the same office building, have mutual friends, and we even had a heart-to-heart talk about my plan to set boundaries and not speak to him from now on so I can work on myself. Even then, I still hang on to that possiblity of still being friends with him in the future, and detaching myself from anyone associated with him. I hope this video can really help me recover from this.
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education
I really wanna stop obsessing over him istg i love him more than anything and he doesnt even know that i even freaking exist, What could be more embarrassing than that? I always stalk him on ig like an lunatic and rewatch his reels, Kiss his pic before sleeping ik i sound like an maniac yall dont need to remind me of it. im so obsessed i feel like hes near me when he aint the fact is i hv talked to him only once and fell for him like some psychos. he must've forgotten abt me but i havent i wish i could forget him like he did. i love him sm like whenever i see him posting anything depressing it just hurts me i love him and i hate it
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I really wanna stop obsessing over him istg i love him more than anything and he doesnt even know that i even freaking exist, What could be more embarrassing than that? I always stalk him on ig like an lunatic and rewatch his reels, Kiss his pic before sleeping ik i sound like an maniac yall dont need to remind me of it. im so obsessed i feel like hes near me when he aint the fact is i hv talked to him only once and fell for him like some psychos. he must've forgotten abt me but i havent i wish i could forget him like he did. i love him sm like whenever i see him posting anything depressing it just hurts me i love him and i hate it
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Larry
How about unrequited love in a marriage?
Weve been married since 2006, in 2010 we had our child.
After that she cut off all intimate contact. So 13 years later she says that she doesnt even want me touching her and that my mental & physical issues are mine to deal with. Dont want a divorce because of child, he is special and it would crush his world.
She is surprised that I still take care of her and there for her with anything she needs.
This was last great hope for happiness. I call her sunshine, and play the song you are my sunshineshe doesnt know what the song means, so it is a true description of our life
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How about unrequited love in a marriage?
Weve been married since 2006, in 2010 we had our child.
After that she cut off all intimate contact. So 13 years later she says that she doesnt even want me touching her and that my mental & physical issues are mine to deal with. Dont want a divorce because of child, he is special and it would crush his world.
She is surprised that I still take care of her and there for her with anything she needs.
This was last great hope for happiness. I call her sunshine, and play the song you are my sunshineshe doesnt know what the song means, so it is a true description of our life
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Saturnin
Well. I tried all of this suggestions and what can I say. It happened 3 years ago and for the first 2 years I was feeling terrible and totally devastated, but now I'm able to hide it inside me and no one see my true feelings, so it's great yea, nothing from that list works guys. They say time is best cure and well.
It doesn't cure it, it's just prevent this wound from expanding and infection. Eventually after really lots of time it will cure, but there will always be a scar. I personally tried to not think about her, but I started dreaming and I can't fight with it XD. I hope you have better life than me
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Well. I tried all of this suggestions and what can I say. It happened 3 years ago and for the first 2 years I was feeling terrible and totally devastated, but now I'm able to hide it inside me and no one see my true feelings, so it's great yea, nothing from that list works guys. They say time is best cure and well.
It doesn't cure it, it's just prevent this wound from expanding and infection. Eventually after really lots of time it will cure, but there will always be a scar. I personally tried to not think about her, but I started dreaming and I can't fight with it XD. I hope you have better life than me
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Rickestrick
I developed feelings for a woman I work with and over the course of a year I tried to deny how I felt about her and tell I couldn't do it any longer and built up the courage to tell her how I truly felt. She did not feel the same way right now although she said she has love for me, it's incredibly hard to process this genuinely feel I'm not going to find anyone else like her. I was very careful not to assume her kindness for interest and somehow I was still wrong this really hurts I hope anyone else facing this type of problem and find peace would be nice if I could but right now I'm just too hurt.
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I developed feelings for a woman I work with and over the course of a year I tried to deny how I felt about her and tell I couldn't do it any longer and built up the courage to tell her how I truly felt. She did not feel the same way right now although she said she has love for me, it's incredibly hard to process this genuinely feel I'm not going to find anyone else like her. I was very careful not to assume her kindness for interest and somehow I was still wrong this really hurts I hope anyone else facing this type of problem and find peace would be nice if I could but right now I'm just too hurt.
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gottaprobm
Okay I have a serious question, and not that I would act on it and ever have at least not without being forced. Like when I was younger. but now my younger experiences has me confused and I have thoughts that I don't agree with. Kind of in the realm of OCD I believe. basically in love with someone that I shouldn't be, but I'm finding that God is keeping those feelings suppressed and in check and keeping me safe from my terrible thoughts. But every once in awhile those starts will pop up. If anyone else is dealing with this You are not alone and God loves you by the way.
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Okay I have a serious question, and not that I would act on it and ever have at least not without being forced. Like when I was younger. but now my younger experiences has me confused and I have thoughts that I don't agree with. Kind of in the realm of OCD I believe. basically in love with someone that I shouldn't be, but I'm finding that God is keeping those feelings suppressed and in check and keeping me safe from my terrible thoughts. But every once in awhile those starts will pop up. If anyone else is dealing with this You are not alone and God loves you by the way.
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Danny_R27
3: 17 is definitely what helped me move on. Theyre far from who I thought they were. Shes just extremely confused about a lot of areas in life and she tried to justify hurting people.
Its just what helped me move on, realizing that theyre far from who I thought they were in my head. They deceived me so I healed and moved on. Its not worth dwelling in the past and giving your energy to someone who couldnt care less if you were to pass away. We have to realize that we deserve better and believe that the right person for us is out there
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3: 17 is definitely what helped me move on. Theyre far from who I thought they were. Shes just extremely confused about a lot of areas in life and she tried to justify hurting people.
Its just what helped me move on, realizing that theyre far from who I thought they were in my head. They deceived me so I healed and moved on. Its not worth dwelling in the past and giving your energy to someone who couldnt care less if you were to pass away. We have to realize that we deserve better and believe that the right person for us is out there
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Sarkastik
I cant do it, i cant stop thinking about them, i cant stop wishing they loved me back. I cant stop my little broken heart from begging to be repaired by him. Im a horrible monsterous person for wanting this but i cant help myself. I do not blame him for not loving me because i will never love myself. The world is cruel and after nearly 20 years of walking this earth, i thought i had finally found someone perfect but I was wrong, of course i was wrong, how can a horrible person like me eevr be right?
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I cant do it, i cant stop thinking about them, i cant stop wishing they loved me back. I cant stop my little broken heart from begging to be repaired by him. Im a horrible monsterous person for wanting this but i cant help myself. I do not blame him for not loving me because i will never love myself. The world is cruel and after nearly 20 years of walking this earth, i thought i had finally found someone perfect but I was wrong, of course i was wrong, how can a horrible person like me eevr be right?
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Kaya
it's rough how we're in the same DnD group- we see each other every wednesday.
not that I don't want to see her and be her friend or anything, I do.
it's just. her boyfriend's there playing with us. and I hate feeling like I'm hiding something.
I'm probably going to take my time and mourn the idea of being with her, just as you said- hopefully I can forget about ever liking her in the first place.
In the meantime, I'm probably just gonna try and write more music. For the catharsis.
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it's rough how we're in the same DnD group- we see each other every wednesday.
not that I don't want to see her and be her friend or anything, I do.
it's just. her boyfriend's there playing with us. and I hate feeling like I'm hiding something.
I'm probably going to take my time and mourn the idea of being with her, just as you said- hopefully I can forget about ever liking her in the first place.
In the meantime, I'm probably just gonna try and write more music. For the catharsis.
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YaBoiB-
What if I have unrequited love with someone whom I am best friends with and dont want to end the friendship she knows already that I have a crush on her and she keeps telling me to forget it and to get over the crush (because she already has a boyfriend and told me that there is no way that me and her would become a couple. We are literally best friends and I cannot for the life of me get over this feeling that I have for her. Its been 2 years and we stayed best friends but IDK what to do
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What if I have unrequited love with someone whom I am best friends with and dont want to end the friendship she knows already that I have a crush on her and she keeps telling me to forget it and to get over the crush (because she already has a boyfriend and told me that there is no way that me and her would become a couple. We are literally best friends and I cannot for the life of me get over this feeling that I have for her. Its been 2 years and we stayed best friends but IDK what to do
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Joydip
The most daredevils are the one who love somebody one sidedly. They always think they're might not getting the time with their love ones when they know very well there is no possibility of changing of their mind and doesn't express their feeling to the person and feeling hurt by any unavoidable actions from their love ones. it's emotionally very very painful rather than any other wound. They keep trying their best to keep them safe from this destructive feeling but they can't help
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The most daredevils are the one who love somebody one sidedly. They always think they're might not getting the time with their love ones when they know very well there is no possibility of changing of their mind and doesn't express their feeling to the person and feeling hurt by any unavoidable actions from their love ones. it's emotionally very very painful rather than any other wound. They keep trying their best to keep them safe from this destructive feeling but they can't help
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Lily
It's a miracle that we met, only a miracle can erase you from my heart.
Miracle please free me.
Let me be free from something holding me back.
I fake smile. I do my best, but I'm not the same. My friend is worried about me, no one knows what happened to me.
I want to tell someone but I can't. I keep everything to myself.
It's hunts so deep. I have to stop loving someone I love the most. I don't know how to go on, can I get through it?
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It's a miracle that we met, only a miracle can erase you from my heart.
Miracle please free me.
Let me be free from something holding me back.
I fake smile. I do my best, but I'm not the same. My friend is worried about me, no one knows what happened to me.
I want to tell someone but I can't. I keep everything to myself.
It's hunts so deep. I have to stop loving someone I love the most. I don't know how to go on, can I get through it?
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peup
Hey, can anyone help me out?
I one-sided loved someone for years and yesterday we finally met. He hugged and kissed me, i felt so safe around him. Though he didn't confess anything but he took care of me. But today he called and said he doesn't have any feelings for me, he likes me but not in that way. My heart shatters after listening to those words. I am in so much pain right now
How to get out of this pain help please
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Hey, can anyone help me out?
I one-sided loved someone for years and yesterday we finally met. He hugged and kissed me, i felt so safe around him. Though he didn't confess anything but he took care of me. But today he called and said he doesn't have any feelings for me, he likes me but not in that way. My heart shatters after listening to those words. I am in so much pain right now
How to get out of this pain help please
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waSABI
Recently I somfessed to my crush. He was literally the only one person who talked to me in my new class. But after that he just went ghost. I still see him during classes everyday and that made me worrying. I thought that there's something wrong with me. But then I realized I need to stop suffering and start concentrating on my studies. I got into sports cuz I needed to clean my mind of him. Now I feel kinda better
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Recently I somfessed to my crush. He was literally the only one person who talked to me in my new class. But after that he just went ghost. I still see him during classes everyday and that made me worrying. I thought that there's something wrong with me. But then I realized I need to stop suffering and start concentrating on my studies. I got into sports cuz I needed to clean my mind of him. Now I feel kinda better
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Nipun
She made me hate my job. I'm stuck there and i want to move on, every time i step on the floor it reminds me of her. The painful feeling that I'll only be over her when i move out of that place is kind of haunting. She'll be gone after a month, but all those good memories stay there and those good moments which i thought were the best have now turned into something i wish i never had.
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She made me hate my job. I'm stuck there and i want to move on, every time i step on the floor it reminds me of her. The painful feeling that I'll only be over her when i move out of that place is kind of haunting. She'll be gone after a month, but all those good memories stay there and those good moments which i thought were the best have now turned into something i wish i never had.
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-Skyshadow-
When I was in group therapy, your videos helped me whenever the therapists played them. It's been almost a year since I got out of therapy, and recently had my first ever true romantic crush on somebody, who didn't feel the same way. This video helped me just as much as they used to. Thank you for being there to strangers across the internet.
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When I was in group therapy, your videos helped me whenever the therapists played them. It's been almost a year since I got out of therapy, and recently had my first ever true romantic crush on somebody, who didn't feel the same way. This video helped me just as much as they used to. Thank you for being there to strangers across the internet.
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Amarice
Whats saddening to me is when they really liked me I wasnt in a good mental space to be with them. Now I like them theyve stopped liking me. I understand since its better to move on when you think the other doesnt like you, but it all happened so fast. Its like they lost feelings suddenly in the week I was going to confess to them.
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Whats saddening to me is when they really liked me I wasnt in a good mental space to be with them. Now I like them theyve stopped liking me. I understand since its better to move on when you think the other doesnt like you, but it all happened so fast. Its like they lost feelings suddenly in the week I was going to confess to them.
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brendrunkkkk
Story of my life
I like someone
I try to show it
But I never really openly express what I feel
I guess I should change that
And I wrote many songs about girls
But I never gather enough courage to sing these songs in front of her
Then I wait
Then she moves on
Then I'm forced to forget
Fack me xd
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Story of my life
I like someone
I try to show it
But I never really openly express what I feel
I guess I should change that
And I wrote many songs about girls
But I never gather enough courage to sing these songs in front of her
Then I wait
Then she moves on
Then I'm forced to forget
Fack me xd
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John
Music can be a way of mourning. There are many beautiful and sad songs about unrequited love. It helps to know some talented poet or songwriter once felt the same way. The most beautiful song of unrequited love I know is called Leave me here by the alt-folk band Hem. Probably the most famous one is Linda Ronstadts Long, Long, time
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Music can be a way of mourning. There are many beautiful and sad songs about unrequited love. It helps to know some talented poet or songwriter once felt the same way. The most beautiful song of unrequited love I know is called Leave me here by the alt-folk band Hem. Probably the most famous one is Linda Ronstadts Long, Long, time
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Xtina
Its hard to get over someone even if you were aware that they werent perfect because life was so much better with them at one point in the past. But again that was the past, this is now. It is not love but attachment and emotions will pass as well. Still, the pain lingers despite of knowing the fundamentals of it. Damn hormones
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Its hard to get over someone even if you were aware that they werent perfect because life was so much better with them at one point in the past. But again that was the past, this is now. It is not love but attachment and emotions will pass as well. Still, the pain lingers despite of knowing the fundamentals of it. Damn hormones
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nasra
Guyz as a girl am so afraid to express my feelings, I feel like am lowering my pride, and i really wanna know if he likes me or not, we have been friends for sometimes and he act normal around me but sometimes he also kind act as he likes me. God I don't get him and i really like him so much like crazy, what should I do?
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Guyz as a girl am so afraid to express my feelings, I feel like am lowering my pride, and i really wanna know if he likes me or not, we have been friends for sometimes and he act normal around me but sometimes he also kind act as he likes me. God I don't get him and i really like him so much like crazy, what should I do?
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confused
Anyone, please help. I am going through this one sided love phase and it's heartbreaking and painful. I can't be with the guy I love even as a friend. Overtime I've started to love him unconditionally, more than anything. My feelings grow everyday. I expect affection from his side.
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Anyone, please help. I am going through this one sided love phase and it's heartbreaking and painful. I can't be with the guy I love even as a friend. Overtime I've started to love him unconditionally, more than anything. My feelings grow everyday. I expect affection from his side.
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what
I've just told my bff about this and she doesnt care abt me struggling with my crush and my feelings. Shes being sarcastic to me and I just dont know at this point. I've liked my crush for 3 yrs and its kinda sad knowing my own bff doesnt care and that my crush likes her.
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I've just told my bff about this and she doesnt care abt me struggling with my crush and my feelings. Shes being sarcastic to me and I just dont know at this point. I've liked my crush for 3 yrs and its kinda sad knowing my own bff doesnt care and that my crush likes her.
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