6 Reasons Why People Don't Respect You
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Date: 2023-08-20
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DMTdreamz
I'm going to shower you with attention and my awareness. I'm going to give you a lot of my time. I'm going to be in physical proximity to you. I'm going to touch you, hold you, cuddle you. I'm going to try to connect with you physically, emotionally, intellectually, spiritually. I'm going to take good care of you. I'm going to care about your needs. I'm going to help you to meet your needs. I'm going to help you to survive. I'm going to shelter you from excessive suffering, fear and trauma. I'm going to have your back. I'm going to defend you and be loyal to you. I'm going to take on your agenda as my own. I'm going to make you an extension of me. I'm going to treat you as well as i would treat myself. I'm going to be happy for you when you succeed. I'm going to want for you what you most want for yourself. I'm going to sacrifice for you and work on your behalf. I'm going to support you nurture you and encourage you. I'm going to cheerlead you. I'm going to encourage your self-exploration, self-expression and self-actualization. I'm going to respect your sovereignty as a consciousness. I'm not going to try to manipulate you, control you, dominate you or exploit you. I'm going to totally accept you and never judge you. I'm going to value you for your sake and appreciate you and see your intrinsic beauty. I'm not going to need anything from you and I'm not going to make you a tool to satisfy my own needs. I'm going to respect your point of view, wanting to understand your point of view, wanting to understand you, your uniqueness, taking the time to deeply get to know you. I'm not going to force my agenda or point of view on you. I'm going to listen to you and care about your interests and share similar interests with you. I'm going to develop togetherness with you and collaborate with you. I'm going to be there for you when you're down and hopeless. I'm going to be there for you when you're lonely. I'm going to validate your feelings, sharing your emotions with you, empathizing with you. Your pain is going to be my pain. I'm going to meet you where you're at, at your developmental level. I'm going to forgive you for your mistakes.
I'm going to be patient with you. I'm going to see the good in you even when you don't see the good in yourself. I'm going to be generous and kind. I'm going to give you verbal approval and praise. I'm going to compliment you on your uniqueness. I'm going to keep my promises to you. I'm going to keep my peace with you, avoid conflict with you. I'm going to tell the truth to you. You're going to be able to fully trust me and I'm never going to cash in on that trust. I'm going to see your realness, warts and shadow and all as you truly are. I'm going to deeply appreciate the finite portion of consciousness that you are and I'm going to accept your selfishness whenever you have the urge to be selfish. Now ask yourself on a scale of 0 to 10 how loved do you feel? Open Your Eyes.
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I'm going to shower you with attention and my awareness. I'm going to give you a lot of my time. I'm going to be in physical proximity to you. I'm going to touch you, hold you, cuddle you. I'm going to try to connect with you physically, emotionally, intellectually, spiritually. I'm going to take good care of you. I'm going to care about your needs. I'm going to help you to meet your needs. I'm going to help you to survive. I'm going to shelter you from excessive suffering, fear and trauma. I'm going to have your back. I'm going to defend you and be loyal to you. I'm going to take on your agenda as my own. I'm going to make you an extension of me. I'm going to treat you as well as i would treat myself. I'm going to be happy for you when you succeed. I'm going to want for you what you most want for yourself. I'm going to sacrifice for you and work on your behalf. I'm going to support you nurture you and encourage you. I'm going to cheerlead you. I'm going to encourage your self-exploration, self-expression and self-actualization. I'm going to respect your sovereignty as a consciousness. I'm not going to try to manipulate you, control you, dominate you or exploit you. I'm going to totally accept you and never judge you. I'm going to value you for your sake and appreciate you and see your intrinsic beauty. I'm not going to need anything from you and I'm not going to make you a tool to satisfy my own needs. I'm going to respect your point of view, wanting to understand your point of view, wanting to understand you, your uniqueness, taking the time to deeply get to know you. I'm not going to force my agenda or point of view on you. I'm going to listen to you and care about your interests and share similar interests with you. I'm going to develop togetherness with you and collaborate with you. I'm going to be there for you when you're down and hopeless. I'm going to be there for you when you're lonely. I'm going to validate your feelings, sharing your emotions with you, empathizing with you. Your pain is going to be my pain. I'm going to meet you where you're at, at your developmental level. I'm going to forgive you for your mistakes.
I'm going to be patient with you. I'm going to see the good in you even when you don't see the good in yourself. I'm going to be generous and kind. I'm going to give you verbal approval and praise. I'm going to compliment you on your uniqueness. I'm going to keep my promises to you. I'm going to keep my peace with you, avoid conflict with you. I'm going to tell the truth to you. You're going to be able to fully trust me and I'm never going to cash in on that trust. I'm going to see your realness, warts and shadow and all as you truly are. I'm going to deeply appreciate the finite portion of consciousness that you are and I'm going to accept your selfishness whenever you have the urge to be selfish. Now ask yourself on a scale of 0 to 10 how loved do you feel? Open Your Eyes.
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Dee
Whats the difference between someone just not liking you so they wont respect you either way? For example Im 37 and some people from high school who were bullies and mean do not like me cause I didnt want to hang with them, and cause I stood up for myself or and of course flipped the bird and ruined a senior picture back in 2004. They wanted me to apologize and I said Im sorry for having to behave in a way that caused me to defend myself due to being bullied. To this day I will never apologize cause Im not remorseful and I dont believe I did anything wrong. I was the victim and they should apologize to me. They didnt know me and they are still mean and theyre bitter as hell. I have so many things going great for me as I did in high school too. I just think theyre evil and other agree too. They sabotaged my efforts on the class reunion committee my former sorry ex boyfriend even told me that they were doing it and that he wouldnt be part of it and he was evil he broke up with me cause of people not liking me and is a hater too.
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Whats the difference between someone just not liking you so they wont respect you either way? For example Im 37 and some people from high school who were bullies and mean do not like me cause I didnt want to hang with them, and cause I stood up for myself or and of course flipped the bird and ruined a senior picture back in 2004. They wanted me to apologize and I said Im sorry for having to behave in a way that caused me to defend myself due to being bullied. To this day I will never apologize cause Im not remorseful and I dont believe I did anything wrong. I was the victim and they should apologize to me. They didnt know me and they are still mean and theyre bitter as hell. I have so many things going great for me as I did in high school too. I just think theyre evil and other agree too. They sabotaged my efforts on the class reunion committee my former sorry ex boyfriend even told me that they were doing it and that he wouldnt be part of it and he was evil he broke up with me cause of people not liking me and is a hater too.
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Zasz799
It's natural to be disrespected by someone. and of course the point you showed make this more real. But i'd like to point the fact that in today's society, the more aggressive you are going to be, the more you'll get respect, at least from the vast majority of people, and probably only on facade. Those who are not prone to overwhelm weaker ones are seen often as weak themselves, especially by the youngsters ( i think parents today lack that genuine belt slap of past days) and bullied, made fun of and so on. The problem is not that YOU are disrespected, the real thing in my opinion is those people with an exaggerated self esteem (or total lack of self insight. and you can't change them. So, walk away. for hardcore loners there is the kick their arse option but i strongly do not reccomend it!
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It's natural to be disrespected by someone. and of course the point you showed make this more real. But i'd like to point the fact that in today's society, the more aggressive you are going to be, the more you'll get respect, at least from the vast majority of people, and probably only on facade. Those who are not prone to overwhelm weaker ones are seen often as weak themselves, especially by the youngsters ( i think parents today lack that genuine belt slap of past days) and bullied, made fun of and so on. The problem is not that YOU are disrespected, the real thing in my opinion is those people with an exaggerated self esteem (or total lack of self insight. and you can't change them. So, walk away. for hardcore loners there is the kick their arse option but i strongly do not reccomend it!
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Wendy
I actually like the act of saying the words, Im sorry. For some reason, those words just feel good to say. I'm learning to switch to, I apologize, which is better, though those words also feel good in my mouth. Such an odd thing--at least I'm aware of it. As for making everything about me, I'm also aware of that. Other people seem not to be, and say they don't mind when I bring it up (of course); it's mostly strangers (as in people I've never met) who express annoyance. Perhaps people who know me can see that I try to process everything in terms that I can understand? It feels self-centered, and only strangers tell me that it is. These are very good tips though, as ever!
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I actually like the act of saying the words, Im sorry. For some reason, those words just feel good to say. I'm learning to switch to, I apologize, which is better, though those words also feel good in my mouth. Such an odd thing--at least I'm aware of it. As for making everything about me, I'm also aware of that. Other people seem not to be, and say they don't mind when I bring it up (of course); it's mostly strangers (as in people I've never met) who express annoyance. Perhaps people who know me can see that I try to process everything in terms that I can understand? It feels self-centered, and only strangers tell me that it is. These are very good tips though, as ever!
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nenamichelle
Ive been working on saying sorry quite a bit lately! I also try to be very conscious of how much Im dominating a conversation because it annoys me so much when others do it. lol. The big one Im working on learning is how to set boundaries. Ive learned in therapy that my parents never allowed me to be my own person or question things. Every time I did I was labeled a bad kid. They still say it to this day. Im having to learn that they were just bad parents and that its ok to speak up and have opinions/boundaries. Its really hard!
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Ive been working on saying sorry quite a bit lately! I also try to be very conscious of how much Im dominating a conversation because it annoys me so much when others do it. lol. The big one Im working on learning is how to set boundaries. Ive learned in therapy that my parents never allowed me to be my own person or question things. Every time I did I was labeled a bad kid. They still say it to this day. Im having to learn that they were just bad parents and that its ok to speak up and have opinions/boundaries. Its really hard!
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Valentina
The reason why people don't respect me is:
- my low self-esteem
- being scared of people
- being a people pleaser who doesn't want to start an argument
- believing that people are going to disappear from your life after a fight
- don't give a damn about being right or wrong, I was just having a conversation, why do you want to force your opinion on me?
- not competitive, so I don't care whether I win an argument or nor
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The reason why people don't respect me is:
- my low self-esteem
- being scared of people
- being a people pleaser who doesn't want to start an argument
- believing that people are going to disappear from your life after a fight
- don't give a damn about being right or wrong, I was just having a conversation, why do you want to force your opinion on me?
- not competitive, so I don't care whether I win an argument or nor
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Camille
What to do if someone is not respecting borders, and you cant cut off that person from your life? Like in school for example, someone is constantly mean to you. I have those borders, but I'm struggling when someone doesn't respect them, and it seems that only force argument can settle things. But I don't want to solve problems by force. Of course I can go the school therapist, but I want to find a way to solve these things alone.
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What to do if someone is not respecting borders, and you cant cut off that person from your life? Like in school for example, someone is constantly mean to you. I have those borders, but I'm struggling when someone doesn't respect them, and it seems that only force argument can settle things. But I don't want to solve problems by force. Of course I can go the school therapist, but I want to find a way to solve these things alone.
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Francesco
I disrespect shallow people and superficial people and people who impose others to do what they want to do. Also I disrespect and I truly dislike possessive people and aggressive people with aggressive looks such as Nina dolci and paulo dybala, lil peep, jayden bartels.
I dislike shallow people by the way of how they judge your looks and how you look in the outside also of how they impose them to chase them that's for sure.
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I disrespect shallow people and superficial people and people who impose others to do what they want to do. Also I disrespect and I truly dislike possessive people and aggressive people with aggressive looks such as Nina dolci and paulo dybala, lil peep, jayden bartels.
I dislike shallow people by the way of how they judge your looks and how you look in the outside also of how they impose them to chase them that's for sure.
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Lolipop
Ty for telling me but. everytime I go to school no one comes to say hi or give me a hug and they don't really talk to me I have to talk to them but we don't even talk for that long like for 2sec literally and for everyone else they give hugs come say hi I'm the only one that's left out I do none of these I just think its me that they don't like I did nothing wrong but no one likes to talk to me: (
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Ty for telling me but. everytime I go to school no one comes to say hi or give me a hug and they don't really talk to me I have to talk to them but we don't even talk for that long like for 2sec literally and for everyone else they give hugs come say hi I'm the only one that's left out I do none of these I just think its me that they don't like I did nothing wrong but no one likes to talk to me: (
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Maia
We need more things like this. Lately ive been feeling like my friends dont respect me and they act different when we are alone versus when they are together as im just there to be made fun of (but of course stop overracting were just joking) sometimes and I feel like I had no one to blame but myself for not being taken seriously since I hardly have a life, this really helps.
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We need more things like this. Lately ive been feeling like my friends dont respect me and they act different when we are alone versus when they are together as im just there to be made fun of (but of course stop overracting were just joking) sometimes and I feel like I had no one to blame but myself for not being taken seriously since I hardly have a life, this really helps.
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Bean
I need to ask a question. My old best friend and I have grown apart, and she has has gotten some bad friends. But recently, she has started to spread rumors about me and is manipulating my new friends to think I'm bad. What I'm wondering is way she is now being so toxic since we just kinda drifted apart and it was not toxic at all. Btw thanks for the videos
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I need to ask a question. My old best friend and I have grown apart, and she has has gotten some bad friends. But recently, she has started to spread rumors about me and is manipulating my new friends to think I'm bad. What I'm wondering is way she is now being so toxic since we just kinda drifted apart and it was not toxic at all. Btw thanks for the videos
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Xeno-J8
Yes maybe it's these things. or in a lot of cases it isn't your fault and people are simply being mean.
My point being that not everyone, or even close to everyone in fact, will respect you, and that is normal and a good thing because there are people in this world who you do not want to respect you.
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Yes maybe it's these things. or in a lot of cases it isn't your fault and people are simply being mean.
My point being that not everyone, or even close to everyone in fact, will respect you, and that is normal and a good thing because there are people in this world who you do not want to respect you.
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Sam
Instead of trying to get to the bottom of it, just do what I do, flip 'em off and move on. They can go fk themselves for all I care.
The most spoiled, overrated, and ugliest pieces of sht have been rude to me, and guess what, it didn't make them any better!
Like I said, they can fk right off
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Instead of trying to get to the bottom of it, just do what I do, flip 'em off and move on. They can go fk themselves for all I care.
The most spoiled, overrated, and ugliest pieces of sht have been rude to me, and guess what, it didn't make them any better!
Like I said, they can fk right off
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John
I have none of these, People disrepect me and bully me because i am weird. So i started rejecting them. and became a non conformist loner. I hate fitting in. But its also lonely and painful here. I wish atleast just one person understood me and accept me for who i am.
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I have none of these, People disrepect me and bully me because i am weird. So i started rejecting them. and became a non conformist loner. I hate fitting in. But its also lonely and painful here. I wish atleast just one person understood me and accept me for who i am.
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SIMONE
Is it a problem if i am a bit insufferent of established narrative standards? Like [insert point] then A study by [insert study] etc.
Ok am a tough one to please, i know, is just that like a bit of variability; is NOT about the content, more on how is presented
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Is it a problem if i am a bit insufferent of established narrative standards? Like [insert point] then A study by [insert study] etc.
Ok am a tough one to please, i know, is just that like a bit of variability; is NOT about the content, more on how is presented
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KODEN
Hey Psych2Go. Ive had a situation happen lately where my partner cheated on me. I care for him a lot and I feel like I can move on. Though I dont know how. Could you make a video on some hints of a direction I can go to repairing the relationship?
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Hey Psych2Go. Ive had a situation happen lately where my partner cheated on me. I care for him a lot and I feel like I can move on. Though I dont know how. Could you make a video on some hints of a direction I can go to repairing the relationship?
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Jerry
The key to respect is respect others. The least respect with which you should treat someone is the respect you would give a total stranger. Same with love, though love and respect are not interchangeable, they are intertwined.
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The key to respect is respect others. The least respect with which you should treat someone is the respect you would give a total stranger. Same with love, though love and respect are not interchangeable, they are intertwined.
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MatChan
TIMESTAMPS
0: 22 You make everything about you
0: 53 You dismiss other people's ideas
1: 33 You try to control others
2: 11 You dont put boundaries
2: 44 You apologize too often
3: 26 You break promises
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TIMESTAMPS
0: 22 You make everything about you
0: 53 You dismiss other people's ideas
1: 33 You try to control others
2: 11 You dont put boundaries
2: 44 You apologize too often
3: 26 You break promises
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Renz
thank you much, i will not say slr or sorry late reply and i will not say sorry if it is not warrantedly my fault. I would like to built my self-esteem and aplogizing for others' fault lead me to be gaslightedly vulnerable.
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thank you much, i will not say slr or sorry late reply and i will not say sorry if it is not warrantedly my fault. I would like to built my self-esteem and aplogizing for others' fault lead me to be gaslightedly vulnerable.
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ExuberantKittens
0: 23 you make everything about you
0: 53 you dismiss other peoples ideas
1: 33 you try to control others
2: 10 you dont maintain boundaries
2: 44 you apologize too often
3: 24 you break promises
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0: 23 you make everything about you
0: 53 you dismiss other peoples ideas
1: 33 you try to control others
2: 10 you dont maintain boundaries
2: 44 you apologize too often
3: 24 you break promises
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Nicolai
What the hell?
I came into this video trying to figure out why my family didn't respect me.
I ended up realizing why I dont respect them at all.
Though I do say sorry a lot. :/
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What the hell?
I came into this video trying to figure out why my family didn't respect me.
I ended up realizing why I dont respect them at all.
Though I do say sorry a lot. :/
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RickyUltra
All Imma tell you guys is screw what other people think. Do what you wanna do and if they don't respect you it is what it is. Stop trying to please people you can care less about.
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All Imma tell you guys is screw what other people think. Do what you wanna do and if they don't respect you it is what it is. Stop trying to please people you can care less about.
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Kuitaran(
Good video I really liek this one I once did to one of these but now cause of experience and this video
Hope everyone saw this video, and can learn something from it
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Good video I really liek this one I once did to one of these but now cause of experience and this video
Hope everyone saw this video, and can learn something from it
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education
I think everyone at my school except for my friends really hate me.
But the only one of these I do is apologize too often
Edit: Nvm my friends hate me too
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I think everyone at my school except for my friends really hate me.
But the only one of these I do is apologize too often
Edit: Nvm my friends hate me too
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natasha
Excellent points as always. But what about: racial, economic and gender prejudice? You can be the most virtuous person in the world, but people only see status.
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Excellent points as always. But what about: racial, economic and gender prejudice? You can be the most virtuous person in the world, but people only see status.
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