Do Attractive People Tend To Have Better Partners?
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Anonymous.
I've been literally watching body-language videos and at this point, it feels like I can become a body-language coach. So, it'd be nice if anyone could bring some insight on this and you're honest opinions.
I like someone since 3 months and 'his friend' started liking me around the same time. Fast forward to now, my crush and I keep making eye contact soo many times. maybe 30+ times at least. idk. I've lost count.
He is a very charismatic, confident and sociable person. We've never talked though.
Recently, he's been acting weird. He glances at me even when there are so many people around (even my friends have pointed out. He makes eye contact with me but these days (we've met after quite a while due to exams) he acts a bit shy? In the corridor, he looks at me, looks somewhere. like at the floor, looks at me again. He glances quite a lot.
However, it seems he is not interested in dating (found out 3 months ago. Considering this, I feel its a bit weird for a person who claims to not be interested in dating and for a person whose friend likes me to give off these gestures.
I've been having a very strong gut instinct that he likes me back but Im trying to convince myself that maybe he's just confused if I like him. However, it doesn't seem to fit in. Like- if he feels uncomfortable with me, then, why does he keep glancing back?
(P. S.: - Ik stalking is a bad habit, but i needed to. Basically, I saw his spotify, he isn't the type who adds love songs but recently he added some on his playlist. It's weird how it doesn't seem to very much fit into his playlist and how the songs relate to the situationship. Very interesting, indeed + His friend still likes me)
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I've been literally watching body-language videos and at this point, it feels like I can become a body-language coach. So, it'd be nice if anyone could bring some insight on this and you're honest opinions.
I like someone since 3 months and 'his friend' started liking me around the same time. Fast forward to now, my crush and I keep making eye contact soo many times. maybe 30+ times at least. idk. I've lost count.
He is a very charismatic, confident and sociable person. We've never talked though.
Recently, he's been acting weird. He glances at me even when there are so many people around (even my friends have pointed out. He makes eye contact with me but these days (we've met after quite a while due to exams) he acts a bit shy? In the corridor, he looks at me, looks somewhere. like at the floor, looks at me again. He glances quite a lot.
However, it seems he is not interested in dating (found out 3 months ago. Considering this, I feel its a bit weird for a person who claims to not be interested in dating and for a person whose friend likes me to give off these gestures.
I've been having a very strong gut instinct that he likes me back but Im trying to convince myself that maybe he's just confused if I like him. However, it doesn't seem to fit in. Like- if he feels uncomfortable with me, then, why does he keep glancing back?
(P. S.: - Ik stalking is a bad habit, but i needed to. Basically, I saw his spotify, he isn't the type who adds love songs but recently he added some on his playlist. It's weird how it doesn't seem to very much fit into his playlist and how the songs relate to the situationship. Very interesting, indeed + His friend still likes me)
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Ash
Okay sorry, but this is gonna be a long comment but I have two questions that I really need answers to!
1. I've been having this HUGE crush on this guy. To the point where I'll think about him from the point I wake up to the last second before I fall asleep. Sometimes I can't even concentrate, without thinking about him. But here's the catch. I've never even talked to him. I just see him around school and know some basic things like his name and age cause he shares some classes with a friend of mine. But is this normal? And is it okay?
2. About the same guy, how do I go up to him and talk to him? The only times I see this being possible is in the lunch breaks, but he's always with friends and I always get shy. I really want to talk to him, but I just don't know how to start a conversation. If I just say 'hey, how are you? ' I think almost anyone's natural response would be 'who are you? ' and I don't want that to happen:
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Okay sorry, but this is gonna be a long comment but I have two questions that I really need answers to!
1. I've been having this HUGE crush on this guy. To the point where I'll think about him from the point I wake up to the last second before I fall asleep. Sometimes I can't even concentrate, without thinking about him. But here's the catch. I've never even talked to him. I just see him around school and know some basic things like his name and age cause he shares some classes with a friend of mine. But is this normal? And is it okay?
2. About the same guy, how do I go up to him and talk to him? The only times I see this being possible is in the lunch breaks, but he's always with friends and I always get shy. I really want to talk to him, but I just don't know how to start a conversation. If I just say 'hey, how are you? ' I think almost anyone's natural response would be 'who are you? ' and I don't want that to happen:
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Kevin
So what about hypergamy?
It's the act of dating &/or marrying to a higher perceived social status.
If looks don't matter, then why do women swipe for the top 1-20% of attractiveness;
while guys only seam to be attracted to physicality and common interests.
Why do a lot of women say their all perfect ten's, while clearly not supermodels?
The first time I saw woman's profile from a friend,
it blew my mind how much attention they got for just having an (F) near their name
and no picture. I uninstalled my social apps mostly since then.
Is social media ruining the dating market or is it just amplifying a problem;
that already existed in society?
It feels like modern dating is pay-to-play, like those annoying video game DLC's;
that they beg you to buy after buying the game.
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So what about hypergamy?
It's the act of dating &/or marrying to a higher perceived social status.
If looks don't matter, then why do women swipe for the top 1-20% of attractiveness;
while guys only seam to be attracted to physicality and common interests.
Why do a lot of women say their all perfect ten's, while clearly not supermodels?
The first time I saw woman's profile from a friend,
it blew my mind how much attention they got for just having an (F) near their name
and no picture. I uninstalled my social apps mostly since then.
Is social media ruining the dating market or is it just amplifying a problem;
that already existed in society?
It feels like modern dating is pay-to-play, like those annoying video game DLC's;
that they beg you to buy after buying the game.
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Rosabelle
I can only stay single due to my inability to maintain a relationship long term as it takes way too much work. Im not against people pursing relationships as I believed relationships can work for some people but not for everyone. Just one past relationship was able to help me realise Im not suitable to be in a relationship. It was also a toxic relationship too. Its not so much about the toxic relationship but before I knew he was manipulative, I already had a hard time trying to maintain the relationship. I dont like it when my friends insisted I should get a boyfriend, Im done with relationships ever since my first break up. I will usually celebrate on Singles Day which is 11 November every year. I dont need a relationship to keep me happy as I had friends. Happy Valentines Day to all couples.
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I can only stay single due to my inability to maintain a relationship long term as it takes way too much work. Im not against people pursing relationships as I believed relationships can work for some people but not for everyone. Just one past relationship was able to help me realise Im not suitable to be in a relationship. It was also a toxic relationship too. Its not so much about the toxic relationship but before I knew he was manipulative, I already had a hard time trying to maintain the relationship. I dont like it when my friends insisted I should get a boyfriend, Im done with relationships ever since my first break up. I will usually celebrate on Singles Day which is 11 November every year. I dont need a relationship to keep me happy as I had friends. Happy Valentines Day to all couples.
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Steve
This video discusses whether attractive people tend to have better partners. The speaker explains that the definition of better is subjective, and then goes on to examine the role of physical attractiveness in forming relationships. They explain that while initial attraction is often based on looks, traits like warmth, intimacy, and loyalty are more important for a lasting partnership. The speaker also suggests that as people become emotionally attached to their partners, they tend to see them as more attractive than they actually are. Overall, the video concludes that having a healthy, loving relationship depends on more than just physical appearance.
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This video discusses whether attractive people tend to have better partners. The speaker explains that the definition of better is subjective, and then goes on to examine the role of physical attractiveness in forming relationships. They explain that while initial attraction is often based on looks, traits like warmth, intimacy, and loyalty are more important for a lasting partnership. The speaker also suggests that as people become emotionally attached to their partners, they tend to see them as more attractive than they actually are. Overall, the video concludes that having a healthy, loving relationship depends on more than just physical appearance.
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Vlogoosh
The Web has proven to me to be as toxic an environment for relationships as the physical world. The Web is just a tool, used by well-intentioned people and others not so much and the fact that you are not face to face with the person, your ability to perceive if the person is really interested in you or just manipulating and using you it's big. Even if you meet someone interesting, you will still have to deal with distance, you will have to deal with mirrors that can destroy what you are trying to build. How many people manage to migrate virtual encounters to the physical world?
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The Web has proven to me to be as toxic an environment for relationships as the physical world. The Web is just a tool, used by well-intentioned people and others not so much and the fact that you are not face to face with the person, your ability to perceive if the person is really interested in you or just manipulating and using you it's big. Even if you meet someone interesting, you will still have to deal with distance, you will have to deal with mirrors that can destroy what you are trying to build. How many people manage to migrate virtual encounters to the physical world?
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BlueMoon
I know u won't answer this but I need advice. My friend hams been distant since he was used by a partner. He seems sad but almost refuses to show it, I know he is hurting but is masking it, he doesn't like lovey or me just showing that I care anymore, he doesn't tell me his issues, he tells me smth is wrong but wont tell me what, he cares less and less everyday I feel. I dont know how to show him I care and that i am here for him. I know u probably won't answer this but if I can get a bit of advice I would appreciate it.
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I know u won't answer this but I need advice. My friend hams been distant since he was used by a partner. He seems sad but almost refuses to show it, I know he is hurting but is masking it, he doesn't like lovey or me just showing that I care anymore, he doesn't tell me his issues, he tells me smth is wrong but wont tell me what, he cares less and less everyday I feel. I dont know how to show him I care and that i am here for him. I know u probably won't answer this but if I can get a bit of advice I would appreciate it.
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EChillyKahlil
Hmmm, yeah I think that adds up with my most recent crush. As much as I would say she was the most gorgeous woman on the planet, there are heaping tons of attractive people that I see everyday on the internet, and it was more her vulnerability, warmth and giving attitude that drew me in, even if it was parasocial in nature. I liked smart and friendly. I felt I probably wasn't warm enough in the whole 2 year delusion though, I wonder what constitutes warmth? Thanks for the video, it was a pleasure
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Hmmm, yeah I think that adds up with my most recent crush. As much as I would say she was the most gorgeous woman on the planet, there are heaping tons of attractive people that I see everyday on the internet, and it was more her vulnerability, warmth and giving attitude that drew me in, even if it was parasocial in nature. I liked smart and friendly. I felt I probably wasn't warm enough in the whole 2 year delusion though, I wonder what constitutes warmth? Thanks for the video, it was a pleasure
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education
Psych2go, I have had a crush for the past two-three months. She isnt the kind to come straight out and say something but just yesterday she looked me straight in the eyes said, Your eyes are beautiful I like that. She has apparently had a crush on me for the same amount she of time I have had one on her. Thanks to one of your videos she watched telling her some body language clues she very awkwardly dropped the biggest hint ever. I plan to ask her out at the right time tomorrow. Thank you so much!
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Psych2go, I have had a crush for the past two-three months. She isnt the kind to come straight out and say something but just yesterday she looked me straight in the eyes said, Your eyes are beautiful I like that. She has apparently had a crush on me for the same amount she of time I have had one on her. Thanks to one of your videos she watched telling her some body language clues she very awkwardly dropped the biggest hint ever. I plan to ask her out at the right time tomorrow. Thank you so much!
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Hawley
Attractive people get opportunity to test drive multiple partners. Less attractive people lack options. Attractive people, in spite of their endless opportunities, may still not pick good partners, or because of that endless opportunity, may never settle or be afraid to settle believing someone better is behind door number 4372. But for the people who are self aware, the attractive people will be able to score a better partner, just because they have so many more people to choose from.
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Attractive people get opportunity to test drive multiple partners. Less attractive people lack options. Attractive people, in spite of their endless opportunities, may still not pick good partners, or because of that endless opportunity, may never settle or be afraid to settle believing someone better is behind door number 4372. But for the people who are self aware, the attractive people will be able to score a better partner, just because they have so many more people to choose from.
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Sirijan
Hey can you do a video on why sometimes words are stuck in your head, as an example, i heard this gen z term cringe being used for invading peoples private way of fun in reels, this term is being extremely jugmental and toxic in its own way, for not understanding others individuality or upbringing and difference in culture. even then, it is somewhat in my head, i know it will fade, yet why it is stuck in my head is something i would like you to put a light on, thank you!
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Hey can you do a video on why sometimes words are stuck in your head, as an example, i heard this gen z term cringe being used for invading peoples private way of fun in reels, this term is being extremely jugmental and toxic in its own way, for not understanding others individuality or upbringing and difference in culture. even then, it is somewhat in my head, i know it will fade, yet why it is stuck in my head is something i would like you to put a light on, thank you!
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Nick
The high divorce rate among the beautiful people in Hollywood should call this idea into question right away. This is unfortunate, in a way, since I also find that a lot of attractive people (esp. women) place a high premium on being in a relationship as soon as possible, seeking to take themselves off the market before they can feel comfortable with their lives and their looks. (Apparently, both the attention and the pressure are a bit much)
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The high divorce rate among the beautiful people in Hollywood should call this idea into question right away. This is unfortunate, in a way, since I also find that a lot of attractive people (esp. women) place a high premium on being in a relationship as soon as possible, seeking to take themselves off the market before they can feel comfortable with their lives and their looks. (Apparently, both the attention and the pressure are a bit much)
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Josh
Im 6, 2 decent looking, great shape, kind, pretty well. rounded and id say no. We dont. This new girl seems really kind and has a great personality but im just waiting for something to go wrong. Been in a couple obsessive and abusive relationships and kept everyone at arms length for the past 7 years so this is the first girl im letting in in a long time. She has a few red flags so maybe its just how i pick em. Idk. I need help.
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Im 6, 2 decent looking, great shape, kind, pretty well. rounded and id say no. We dont. This new girl seems really kind and has a great personality but im just waiting for something to go wrong. Been in a couple obsessive and abusive relationships and kept everyone at arms length for the past 7 years so this is the first girl im letting in in a long time. She has a few red flags so maybe its just how i pick em. Idk. I need help.
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Silver
It's somewhat simple. Either someone is attractive, attractive enough, or invisible. I'm the latter. It is not possible for any person to feel attraction to me because I am not attractive, and no, personality doesn't matter. Attractive people don't have to adopt a more coherent method beyond their primitive instincts. They're like simple animals. Although, I've grown to find them just as vile and their looks a mere facade.
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It's somewhat simple. Either someone is attractive, attractive enough, or invisible. I'm the latter. It is not possible for any person to feel attraction to me because I am not attractive, and no, personality doesn't matter. Attractive people don't have to adopt a more coherent method beyond their primitive instincts. They're like simple animals. Although, I've grown to find them just as vile and their looks a mere facade.
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education
When we are emotionally intimate with our soulmate, we are able to:
be vulnerable without fear of being judged
feel comfortable in the silence together
trust each other without hesitation
feel secure in our relationship
open and honest communication
And we build emotional intimacy with our partner when we spend quality time together.
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When we are emotionally intimate with our soulmate, we are able to:
be vulnerable without fear of being judged
feel comfortable in the silence together
trust each other without hesitation
feel secure in our relationship
open and honest communication
And we build emotional intimacy with our partner when we spend quality time together.
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Bastion
I know I'm a minority, but I'm fairly sure that my initial drive to pay attention to someone (which has developed into a crush) was not because of her looks, it's mostly the casualness that she addresses things, including her looks, that blatantly get attention
I regularly have to remind myself that she has that figure in my fantasies
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I know I'm a minority, but I'm fairly sure that my initial drive to pay attention to someone (which has developed into a crush) was not because of her looks, it's mostly the casualness that she addresses things, including her looks, that blatantly get attention
I regularly have to remind myself that she has that figure in my fantasies
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Averycreativename
I feel like they have an equal chance because they could be constantly asked out by people who only care about looks and nothing else and fail to create a more meaningful relationship, and could also be seen as out of their league for other people, thus scaring them away.
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I feel like they have an equal chance because they could be constantly asked out by people who only care about looks and nothing else and fail to create a more meaningful relationship, and could also be seen as out of their league for other people, thus scaring them away.
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Wind_Cursed
So. I'm a weirdo because I care 0 about the looks of a potential partner? Too many years of insecurity has encouraged me to look beyond looks, therefore I don't give a flying fish about looks. As long as they're a good person, they're good for me
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So. I'm a weirdo because I care 0 about the looks of a potential partner? Too many years of insecurity has encouraged me to look beyond looks, therefore I don't give a flying fish about looks. As long as they're a good person, they're good for me
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acrill
today I kinda uh. confessed my feelings to my crush. on valentine's day.
IDK. I realy thoght it would be more u know, like a lot a LOT of butterflys. But it felt wired and calm actualy. He didn't say no or anything. I think it whent prytty well.
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today I kinda uh. confessed my feelings to my crush. on valentine's day.
IDK. I realy thoght it would be more u know, like a lot a LOT of butterflys. But it felt wired and calm actualy. He didn't say no or anything. I think it whent prytty well.
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TheKillerWolfie
I would say yes, just because them having lot of dates helps them know witch type of person they like, it would hurt, yes, but it'll help them improve too. At least that's what I think. I'm the opposite of attractive so I don't know xD
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I would say yes, just because them having lot of dates helps them know witch type of person they like, it would hurt, yes, but it'll help them improve too. At least that's what I think. I'm the opposite of attractive so I don't know xD
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Shinigami
My boyfriend is very attractive but we have a long distance relationship. He generally always gets hit up but I dont really care because he knows how to deal with it (I still get jealous though. Him loving and caring about me is enough
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My boyfriend is very attractive but we have a long distance relationship. He generally always gets hit up but I dont really care because he knows how to deal with it (I still get jealous though. Him loving and caring about me is enough
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ariesmars29
It's a shame that looks are important to even get a date. I like to look at attractive women, but after a bit, looks don't matter. If the person has no interests that match mine, it would never work out.
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It's a shame that looks are important to even get a date. I like to look at attractive women, but after a bit, looks don't matter. If the person has no interests that match mine, it would never work out.
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MaxGamer07
Quite bold of you to assume I have chances at getting a partner
seriously though, something weird is going on
its like i really want one but also knowingly avoid any opportunities
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Quite bold of you to assume I have chances at getting a partner
seriously though, something weird is going on
its like i really want one but also knowingly avoid any opportunities
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psych2go
#tell #me #about #it #they #shadow #banned #me #for #telling #the #truth
#and #there #hidden #idea #of #me #keep #me #low. #in #a #way #that #no #one #can #think #about.
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#tell #me #about #it #they #shadow #banned #me #for #telling #the #truth
#and #there #hidden #idea #of #me #keep #me #low. #in #a #way #that #no #one #can #think #about.
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Imnot
Does anyone have good psychology ytbers to recommend? Im a psych undergrad, the teachers arent that great at teaching and i cant seem to find much ytbers for psychology
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Does anyone have good psychology ytbers to recommend? Im a psych undergrad, the teachers arent that great at teaching and i cant seem to find much ytbers for psychology
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