6 Signs You've Been Emotionally Abused
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Roz
My narcissistic mother did this to me. It was horrible when I was a kid! I, out of 4 of us kids, looked just like my dad, and he left her. Every time she looked at me, she saw him! She and I clashed all the time! You're just like your father! Why can't you do anything right? Why can't you be more like your sister? Etc, etc, etc. I never felt good about myself and I have low self esteem. I often wondered if have something like PTSD. I can't self diagnose, but when I watch videos on this subject, I ALWAYS see myself in the lowest position! My mother really messed with my emotions! Since I was born, I loved to be with my dad no matter what. At 5, I was learning what the different tools were. Wrenches, phillips head screwdrivers, all kinds of things! Anyway, we've always been close. Yes, I'm a daddy's girl, but I always have been! My mother tried to say that I loved him and not her because he has money. I couldn't believe my ears! No mom! Dad doesn't put me down and make me feel like shit when I see him, but YOU do! She was like a vampire, suckling the life out of me every single time I visited her! I had to STOP doing that to myself! I still called her every other week because she's still my mother. I hoped one day we could work things out. But she wasn't interested in that. She'd rather be able to make me feel horrible for not visiting her. I REALLY TRIED TO BE FRIENDS WITH HER! But she passed a couple of months ago now, and it will never be resolved. I'm sorry this is so long. I guess I just needed to get it out. Thank you to those of you that read this whole debacle! Peace and love to you all.
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My narcissistic mother did this to me. It was horrible when I was a kid! I, out of 4 of us kids, looked just like my dad, and he left her. Every time she looked at me, she saw him! She and I clashed all the time! You're just like your father! Why can't you do anything right? Why can't you be more like your sister? Etc, etc, etc. I never felt good about myself and I have low self esteem. I often wondered if have something like PTSD. I can't self diagnose, but when I watch videos on this subject, I ALWAYS see myself in the lowest position! My mother really messed with my emotions! Since I was born, I loved to be with my dad no matter what. At 5, I was learning what the different tools were. Wrenches, phillips head screwdrivers, all kinds of things! Anyway, we've always been close. Yes, I'm a daddy's girl, but I always have been! My mother tried to say that I loved him and not her because he has money. I couldn't believe my ears! No mom! Dad doesn't put me down and make me feel like shit when I see him, but YOU do! She was like a vampire, suckling the life out of me every single time I visited her! I had to STOP doing that to myself! I still called her every other week because she's still my mother. I hoped one day we could work things out. But she wasn't interested in that. She'd rather be able to make me feel horrible for not visiting her. I REALLY TRIED TO BE FRIENDS WITH HER! But she passed a couple of months ago now, and it will never be resolved. I'm sorry this is so long. I guess I just needed to get it out. Thank you to those of you that read this whole debacle! Peace and love to you all.
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Dudette
I think you are mistaking chronic fatigue syndrome with chronic fatigue. The latter being a symptom of many illnesses. The former being a silly name for a serious illness. A better name is Myalgic Encephalomyelitis (M. E, and listed as neurological by the WHO. This disease is mostly caused by viral infections, which triggers post-viral fatigue syndrome, and if not better after six months, then it becomes ME. A defining feature is Post-exertional malaise, which is worsening of symptoms after exertion 24-48 hours later. Also, paralysing exhaustion that doesn't improve after rest, light and sound sensitivity, sore throat, enlarged lymph nodes, etc. We've suffered decades of abuse and disdain from health professionals and the public, and have a huge lack of proper biomedical research due to a certain group of psychiatrists and psychologists trying to make it out to be psychosomatic in the 90s and 00s. Their research was poor, and indeed, fraudulent (check the PACE trial, and who funded it. Please don't perpetuate the myth that ME is psychological. I can assure you that it is not. Trauma may cause chronic fatigue, but it is doubtful that it causes true ME.
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I think you are mistaking chronic fatigue syndrome with chronic fatigue. The latter being a symptom of many illnesses. The former being a silly name for a serious illness. A better name is Myalgic Encephalomyelitis (M. E, and listed as neurological by the WHO. This disease is mostly caused by viral infections, which triggers post-viral fatigue syndrome, and if not better after six months, then it becomes ME. A defining feature is Post-exertional malaise, which is worsening of symptoms after exertion 24-48 hours later. Also, paralysing exhaustion that doesn't improve after rest, light and sound sensitivity, sore throat, enlarged lymph nodes, etc. We've suffered decades of abuse and disdain from health professionals and the public, and have a huge lack of proper biomedical research due to a certain group of psychiatrists and psychologists trying to make it out to be psychosomatic in the 90s and 00s. Their research was poor, and indeed, fraudulent (check the PACE trial, and who funded it. Please don't perpetuate the myth that ME is psychological. I can assure you that it is not. Trauma may cause chronic fatigue, but it is doubtful that it causes true ME.
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Four
it all started when we came to his house day one. He told me he would pay me for pressure washing his driveway what i got was a one dollar peice of cheesecake. Than he told me girls wont and will never like me the following night my mom got some type of sickness she was vomiting, pooping blood when she asked HIM for help he was drunk at a bar not paying attention than my mom told me about it me crying saying are you gonna die? She says no reashuring me after that he finnaly vame home when my mom was long gone and HE went to the hospital insulting my mom getting escorted like an idot. The folling day the van was gone. for context the van was my moms form of transportation and HE took it away he originally gave it as a gift when it was gone my mom called my dad he rented a car and got us out of that house i cried the whole carise home (4 hours) and the next following three days i mostly cred taking into mid i could not see my grandmother with stage 3 dementia i am still scared for life up to this day.
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it all started when we came to his house day one. He told me he would pay me for pressure washing his driveway what i got was a one dollar peice of cheesecake. Than he told me girls wont and will never like me the following night my mom got some type of sickness she was vomiting, pooping blood when she asked HIM for help he was drunk at a bar not paying attention than my mom told me about it me crying saying are you gonna die? She says no reashuring me after that he finnaly vame home when my mom was long gone and HE went to the hospital insulting my mom getting escorted like an idot. The folling day the van was gone. for context the van was my moms form of transportation and HE took it away he originally gave it as a gift when it was gone my mom called my dad he rented a car and got us out of that house i cried the whole carise home (4 hours) and the next following three days i mostly cred taking into mid i could not see my grandmother with stage 3 dementia i am still scared for life up to this day.
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Robert
The 'best' kind of abuse always follows after you finally escape from the source of your CPTSD and try to intergrate in society.
That's when all of the self-proclaimed 'perfect' people in society who have a sadistic streak begin to mock and riducule you because they know they can get away with it since you have no self-esteem or desire to engage in conflict.
Their greatest insult is, You're the kind of person that no one likes and is always acting like a victim. I can see now why no one likes you, they boast as they look down their nose at you for not being as perfect as they are.
This is the kind of treatment that those who have suffered the most have endure as their day to day experience because people see shameful weakness in vulnerability and low self-esteem.
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The 'best' kind of abuse always follows after you finally escape from the source of your CPTSD and try to intergrate in society.
That's when all of the self-proclaimed 'perfect' people in society who have a sadistic streak begin to mock and riducule you because they know they can get away with it since you have no self-esteem or desire to engage in conflict.
Their greatest insult is, You're the kind of person that no one likes and is always acting like a victim. I can see now why no one likes you, they boast as they look down their nose at you for not being as perfect as they are.
This is the kind of treatment that those who have suffered the most have endure as their day to day experience because people see shameful weakness in vulnerability and low self-esteem.
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kathy
I have been trying to better myself and stick up for myself. Even put my health issues 1st now. I have no help from the medical profession tho. I am on disability for hemiplegic migraines and I have bad arthritis, diabetes and MacTel ( slowly losing my eyesight) I have lost over 50 lbs and off my diabetes meds by changing my diet. I need orthopedic shoes for my feet but my pcp can't even do that. I have asked for mental help and told they can't help me or find me a provider. So I am trying to better myself but I am hitting walls. When the medical profession doesn't even want to help me, it just validates that i am worthless and insignificant.
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I have been trying to better myself and stick up for myself. Even put my health issues 1st now. I have no help from the medical profession tho. I am on disability for hemiplegic migraines and I have bad arthritis, diabetes and MacTel ( slowly losing my eyesight) I have lost over 50 lbs and off my diabetes meds by changing my diet. I need orthopedic shoes for my feet but my pcp can't even do that. I have asked for mental help and told they can't help me or find me a provider. So I am trying to better myself but I am hitting walls. When the medical profession doesn't even want to help me, it just validates that i am worthless and insignificant.
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JUNE
I just realized I was emotional abused by my friends, Because I can remember multiple times they have told its my fault and due to this I say sorry way to much. It sucks because I didnt even know it was abuse and thought they were going through a rough time, so I continue to stay friends with them even though they destroyed my mental health.
(Also if your wondering, I did move away form them and Im glad that Im far away form them now)
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I just realized I was emotional abused by my friends, Because I can remember multiple times they have told its my fault and due to this I say sorry way to much. It sucks because I didnt even know it was abuse and thought they were going through a rough time, so I continue to stay friends with them even though they destroyed my mental health.
(Also if your wondering, I did move away form them and Im glad that Im far away form them now)
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Ray
i feel i was emotionally abused by my ex partner. we decided to become friends but even then they constantly dismissed my feelings and concerns. im now terrified to say how i feel because i dont want to get yelled at or invalidated. my ex did do name calling and saying how im the reason things were getting awkward between us and how im changing. (sorry for the rant)
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i feel i was emotionally abused by my ex partner. we decided to become friends but even then they constantly dismissed my feelings and concerns. im now terrified to say how i feel because i dont want to get yelled at or invalidated. my ex did do name calling and saying how im the reason things were getting awkward between us and how im changing. (sorry for the rant)
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Indrid
I was emotionally, and financially abused by those that claimed to like and even love me. After I deleted them all from my life. I have made it 100% impossible for that abuse to ever happen to me again. It was not without some minor sacrifices. But, those small sacrifices have made me impervious to any form of emotional abuse.
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I was emotionally, and financially abused by those that claimed to like and even love me. After I deleted them all from my life. I have made it 100% impossible for that abuse to ever happen to me again. It was not without some minor sacrifices. But, those small sacrifices have made me impervious to any form of emotional abuse.
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Dawnb78
I was checking off so many boxes in this one from my former marriage! I knew it was bad, but not this bad. But if we were talking now and I were to tell him this, he would tell me he didnt do this and make me question everything! But I know he did! Its so confusing and hard to get past! I so wish I could! I carry such guilt!
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I was checking off so many boxes in this one from my former marriage! I knew it was bad, but not this bad. But if we were talking now and I were to tell him this, he would tell me he didnt do this and make me question everything! But I know he did! Its so confusing and hard to get past! I so wish I could! I carry such guilt!
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Isa
I'm in a psychosis again that's how far i go for love i'ts hard to spot abuse if your lover takes on a i want to help you role. But the help made me feel worse or even when i vent i got a solution response. I have go trough dysregulation in extreem ways also ask if he cannot trigger me but their is never a real listening ear.
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I'm in a psychosis again that's how far i go for love i'ts hard to spot abuse if your lover takes on a i want to help you role. But the help made me feel worse or even when i vent i got a solution response. I have go trough dysregulation in extreem ways also ask if he cannot trigger me but their is never a real listening ear.
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1Time
Your partner or even parent? WTH, I AM SO SICK of these psyche videos ONLY addressing it being a parent or spouse. what about when its your adult child? Im the parent, and its my Kids who are narcs, and abusive! Todays vast majority of psyche problems are people addicted to social media. GET. OFF. YOUR. DAMN. SMART PHONES
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Your partner or even parent? WTH, I AM SO SICK of these psyche videos ONLY addressing it being a parent or spouse. what about when its your adult child? Im the parent, and its my Kids who are narcs, and abusive! Todays vast majority of psyche problems are people addicted to social media. GET. OFF. YOUR. DAMN. SMART PHONES
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EvieBuggs
I've gotten to the point where i full on dissociate while watching things and I'm only able to feel most emotions through characters. I don't really know how to go about it, and i honestly don't have the energy to unpack it all. But i always felt i was weird for this behavior- but no i was just abused.
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I've gotten to the point where i full on dissociate while watching things and I'm only able to feel most emotions through characters. I don't really know how to go about it, and i honestly don't have the energy to unpack it all. But i always felt i was weird for this behavior- but no i was just abused.
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Rachel
Along with all the tons of comments, I can totally relate to this. So even though you may feel all alone in the world and/or like nobody cares, everyone is here that is or has felt the same way. Just know youre not alone. We all just haven't crossed paths yet but we're everywhere feeling that way too.
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Along with all the tons of comments, I can totally relate to this. So even though you may feel all alone in the world and/or like nobody cares, everyone is here that is or has felt the same way. Just know youre not alone. We all just haven't crossed paths yet but we're everywhere feeling that way too.
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Tami
I don't find this video helpful.
It's like having a broken arm. Everyone can see it's broke. All they do is say, Oh, you ok? Your arm is broke.
AND.
What's your point?
You going to help?
NO!
Just another video for views!
And $$
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I don't find this video helpful.
It's like having a broken arm. Everyone can see it's broke. All they do is say, Oh, you ok? Your arm is broke.
AND.
What's your point?
You going to help?
NO!
Just another video for views!
And $$
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lipstickprincess1
Oh, I dont need a sign.
The jackass family that I come from are openly abusive
Plus, my mom and dad refuse to go to my son, their grandsons wedding, my shit childhood is spilling over to my son.
Thats why we stay away!
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Oh, I dont need a sign.
The jackass family that I come from are openly abusive
Plus, my mom and dad refuse to go to my son, their grandsons wedding, my shit childhood is spilling over to my son.
Thats why we stay away!
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Jule
I was severe abuse. I didn't hide it. What hurt was I told teachers, and police about what was happening. Half of the people I told didn't believe me, the other said I deserved it. I never believed that, and my mother is the best mother ever
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I was severe abuse. I didn't hide it. What hurt was I told teachers, and police about what was happening. Half of the people I told didn't believe me, the other said I deserved it. I never believed that, and my mother is the best mother ever
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Just
My mom keeps saying Are you sure you werent just imagining things when I KNOW she locked my outside when I was a kid at night and now Im starting to doubt myself so I just wanted this here in case I start thinking I was making it up
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My mom keeps saying Are you sure you werent just imagining things when I KNOW she locked my outside when I was a kid at night and now Im starting to doubt myself so I just wanted this here in case I start thinking I was making it up
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Saad
I feel bad about telling my parents about my problems because I know they become worried about me so much and so I don't want to tell them and I suffer it alone and wish that they will live happily instead of in worrying avout me.
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I feel bad about telling my parents about my problems because I know they become worried about me so much and so I don't want to tell them and I suffer it alone and wish that they will live happily instead of in worrying avout me.
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Priestess
I have come so far in my time of healing i am at the point where i refuse to look back, if you stuggle with ur time of healing. Baby steps, you got this, you are worth it, you are enough. don't give up you can do it
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I have come so far in my time of healing i am at the point where i refuse to look back, if you stuggle with ur time of healing. Baby steps, you got this, you are worth it, you are enough. don't give up you can do it
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Dark7Angel
This is what i have and i didnt understand why i felt so NERVOUS and shaky and angry and weak and cant concentrate or feel normally, think normally. fatigue every day of my life and i dont feep like my myself
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This is what i have and i didnt understand why i felt so NERVOUS and shaky and angry and weak and cant concentrate or feel normally, think normally. fatigue every day of my life and i dont feep like my myself
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Rose
My friend sent me this a week after she went to my house and heard how my dad talked to me and how nervous I am to get in trouble. This is how my dad treats me. So no wonder my motivation and self esteem is crappy.
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My friend sent me this a week after she went to my house and heard how my dad talked to me and how nervous I am to get in trouble. This is how my dad treats me. So no wonder my motivation and self esteem is crappy.
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Victoria
Boy, I got really triggered. It was hard to watch. But I guess acknowledging how much hurt there [still] is, will in turn keep me pushing through to keep learning, keep healing, keep trusting God. Thank you.
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Boy, I got really triggered. It was hard to watch. But I guess acknowledging how much hurt there [still] is, will in turn keep me pushing through to keep learning, keep healing, keep trusting God. Thank you.
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1Time
My 33 yr old daughter and her husband are bothe narcs and boy do they ever play the head games with my husband and Ioh and theyve attempted to get my MIL and my 38yr old son as their f, hung monkeys
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My 33 yr old daughter and her husband are bothe narcs and boy do they ever play the head games with my husband and Ioh and theyve attempted to get my MIL and my 38yr old son as their f, hung monkeys
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Christy
I don't know where to begin with this. I didn't know I had been abused until I was older. Now I'm back with my abuser and don't know what to do. They are not even aware of what they are doing.
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I don't know where to begin with this. I didn't know I had been abused until I was older. Now I'm back with my abuser and don't know what to do. They are not even aware of what they are doing.
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charity
I have cptsd from the emotional abuse from my parents,
Since I was a little girl.
Its hard but noticing and being aware what is happening within you is great.
Knowledge is power
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I have cptsd from the emotional abuse from my parents,
Since I was a little girl.
Its hard but noticing and being aware what is happening within you is great.
Knowledge is power
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