Why You Should NEVER Mess With A Quiet Person
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Date: 2023-12-21
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TheManLab7
I've been told loads of times by girls over the years that I'm very quite (even though I'm quite loud, but I know it's a figure of speech) and they've said it's VERY dangerous. They've said the last thing you want, is a quiet person me to finally have enough and snap.
I think the reason why is they're very logical and if it get to that point n they snap, then they don't care what happens which is EXTREMELY DANGEROUS.
The last thing you want is to have a gf (EX gf btw) who's constantly being a horrible, nasty and sometimes violent to your bf. Who can get crazy when she's drunk and all I did was to try and help her, but you end up getting it thrown back in your face.
She knows, due too all the h! t she given me over the years, that I'm on a knifes ends n she's playing with fire. It could of gone either ways, but I've ALWAYS done the right, sensible, logical, reasonable and law lidding way of doing things and that is to GTFO! There have been times when she won't let me and I've tried to leave and she pushing into me and I've snapped keys off in the locks because of her ramming into me. But if she did snap keys in all the lock's, then I'd be pinning her so she stopped attaching me and to try and calm her down which I know is a complete waste of time when she's pissed, angry and wants to take it out on someone who loves and wants to protect her.
All my female friends and gf's have said your the only quite person they've ever come across and they've seen times when things have gotten heated with random people and the girl(s) get me away from that person to protect me.
Even when my female friends have bf and he's with us. They've always felt safer walking, holding and being with me, compaired to with their bf's which I could understand is VERY emasculating for them.
Maybe it's because I'm a real manly man, who does lot's of manly stuff but is also very gentle and they could clearly see if something were to kick off. Then I'd be protecting then and they know that their bf would be scared to get into a fight to protect your gf, which is something I've NEVER DONE.
If there's some bloke I don't like or if it's getting heated, then I walk away and the girls always follow with me for safety. They can also tell if it's getting heated so they talk to me and we move away, just so it doesn't get worse and nothing happens.
The last thing I want is to get into a fight for no reason when you can just walk away.
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I've been told loads of times by girls over the years that I'm very quite (even though I'm quite loud, but I know it's a figure of speech) and they've said it's VERY dangerous. They've said the last thing you want, is a quiet person me to finally have enough and snap.
I think the reason why is they're very logical and if it get to that point n they snap, then they don't care what happens which is EXTREMELY DANGEROUS.
The last thing you want is to have a gf (EX gf btw) who's constantly being a horrible, nasty and sometimes violent to your bf. Who can get crazy when she's drunk and all I did was to try and help her, but you end up getting it thrown back in your face.
She knows, due too all the h! t she given me over the years, that I'm on a knifes ends n she's playing with fire. It could of gone either ways, but I've ALWAYS done the right, sensible, logical, reasonable and law lidding way of doing things and that is to GTFO! There have been times when she won't let me and I've tried to leave and she pushing into me and I've snapped keys off in the locks because of her ramming into me. But if she did snap keys in all the lock's, then I'd be pinning her so she stopped attaching me and to try and calm her down which I know is a complete waste of time when she's pissed, angry and wants to take it out on someone who loves and wants to protect her.
All my female friends and gf's have said your the only quite person they've ever come across and they've seen times when things have gotten heated with random people and the girl(s) get me away from that person to protect me.
Even when my female friends have bf and he's with us. They've always felt safer walking, holding and being with me, compaired to with their bf's which I could understand is VERY emasculating for them.
Maybe it's because I'm a real manly man, who does lot's of manly stuff but is also very gentle and they could clearly see if something were to kick off. Then I'd be protecting then and they know that their bf would be scared to get into a fight to protect your gf, which is something I've NEVER DONE.
If there's some bloke I don't like or if it's getting heated, then I walk away and the girls always follow with me for safety. They can also tell if it's getting heated so they talk to me and we move away, just so it doesn't get worse and nothing happens.
The last thing I want is to get into a fight for no reason when you can just walk away.
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kadecide7586
Personally, I feel like I'm a quiet kid that doesn't want to be quiet, but don't have the strength or courage to pull the lever to let down the drawbridge on this castle of walls I've built around myself.
I love to talk, I really do, but I feel like I'm so closeted that I'm afraid to have fun in that way in public, even in family events, or to do anything that could possibly make somebody else judge me. It's a fear and problem that I've had for a long time, and opening up has always been difficult ever since I was a young'un. It's definitely affected my relationship with my peers. I think at some point I disguised it by connecting having an opinion with pain, as opinions tend to clash, but honestly this is all just speculation on my part. I've never had therapy or anything similar and sometimes I wonder how well I know myself.
I simply can't bring myself to do a lot of things just out of fear, despite how much I want it. In fact, I often sought validation to do things I should've been doing on my own. It doesn't help that I grew up with a mindset around solving my own problems alone, since I didn't have many childhood friends and most of those I did ended up drifting away, and I learned to keep myself calm and clam emotions and stress up inside yet another castle, which the lever to opening is far more hidden (I haven't ugly cried in years. Honestly I have/had so many clashing inner beliefs I'm surprised my brain hasn't gone poof.
I've been getting better lately and it's becoming easier to talk to people and make my own choices because I've made some really good friends. I'm not really sure why I'm sharing all this, even through the whole fear of being judged bit I wrote, but I suppose I'll give some advice that I struggle to take myself: Don't be afraid to grab the reigns of your life. What other people think are far less significant than you believe them to be. Take that as you will, as I'm just another guy on the internet.
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Personally, I feel like I'm a quiet kid that doesn't want to be quiet, but don't have the strength or courage to pull the lever to let down the drawbridge on this castle of walls I've built around myself.
I love to talk, I really do, but I feel like I'm so closeted that I'm afraid to have fun in that way in public, even in family events, or to do anything that could possibly make somebody else judge me. It's a fear and problem that I've had for a long time, and opening up has always been difficult ever since I was a young'un. It's definitely affected my relationship with my peers. I think at some point I disguised it by connecting having an opinion with pain, as opinions tend to clash, but honestly this is all just speculation on my part. I've never had therapy or anything similar and sometimes I wonder how well I know myself.
I simply can't bring myself to do a lot of things just out of fear, despite how much I want it. In fact, I often sought validation to do things I should've been doing on my own. It doesn't help that I grew up with a mindset around solving my own problems alone, since I didn't have many childhood friends and most of those I did ended up drifting away, and I learned to keep myself calm and clam emotions and stress up inside yet another castle, which the lever to opening is far more hidden (I haven't ugly cried in years. Honestly I have/had so many clashing inner beliefs I'm surprised my brain hasn't gone poof.
I've been getting better lately and it's becoming easier to talk to people and make my own choices because I've made some really good friends. I'm not really sure why I'm sharing all this, even through the whole fear of being judged bit I wrote, but I suppose I'll give some advice that I struggle to take myself: Don't be afraid to grab the reigns of your life. What other people think are far less significant than you believe them to be. Take that as you will, as I'm just another guy on the internet.
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Emile-et5sv
Being good at noticing things - true
Being thoughtful and self-aware - true
Emotional resilience - true
The power of silence - true
Depth of knowledge - true
All of the points are true for me, i 'm quiet yes. but i know too much, tho not academically, i suck at academics. I also know how to stand up for myself and i'm usaully calm and patient but at the same time when my patients runs out i usually don't talk that much, and just stayed silent cursing at them throught my mind. I know how to defend myself tho, i'm just afraid of hurting people. Tho when i'm super pissed i would usually turn off my emotion and hurt them and after i don't care what they thin. Oh another funfact about me is that i keep a ton of secrets from both my family and freinds. But that is a secret that will be kept for reasons unknown. and i am only sharing this because i need something to get this off my mind.
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I don't talk to people at all, tho i do talk only if they ask me questions. they underestemate me without actually getting to know me, i usually tried to avoid having the attention to me since i always feel quite uncomfortable when everyone stares at me, which inturn makes me nervous stumble or stutter throught my words.
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Being good at noticing things - true
Being thoughtful and self-aware - true
Emotional resilience - true
The power of silence - true
Depth of knowledge - true
All of the points are true for me, i 'm quiet yes. but i know too much, tho not academically, i suck at academics. I also know how to stand up for myself and i'm usaully calm and patient but at the same time when my patients runs out i usually don't talk that much, and just stayed silent cursing at them throught my mind. I know how to defend myself tho, i'm just afraid of hurting people. Tho when i'm super pissed i would usually turn off my emotion and hurt them and after i don't care what they thin. Oh another funfact about me is that i keep a ton of secrets from both my family and freinds. But that is a secret that will be kept for reasons unknown. and i am only sharing this because i need something to get this off my mind.
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I don't talk to people at all, tho i do talk only if they ask me questions. they underestemate me without actually getting to know me, i usually tried to avoid having the attention to me since i always feel quite uncomfortable when everyone stares at me, which inturn makes me nervous stumble or stutter throught my words.
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pandahead2241
I m quiet most of the time, and I took up meditation so I could focus on my thoughts and emotions instead of loud noises around me. It actually helps my epilepsy (in my opinion) that I was able to learn how to focus inward and keep myself from getting overwhelmed. I ve always focused on things I found interesting, like history, fighting, writing, and reading. That still didn t stop people from bullying me for no reason, but I tried not to let their words get to me. Other than that I loved school. And I also realized that even though all of these things are facts, I happen to be autistic, although I prefer socially awkward, and that may have effected how I acted. I don t know if you made any videos about autism and the autistic spectrum, but if you could try to make one for people who don t understand what mental illness is like and that none of this is anything to be ashamed of or angry about, I would appreciate it. My dad doesn t understand how to deal with mental disorders and it would be refreshing if I could explain how this all exists by just showing him a video. I ve tried explaining it but he doesn t understand anything about mental health. Happy Holidays!
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I m quiet most of the time, and I took up meditation so I could focus on my thoughts and emotions instead of loud noises around me. It actually helps my epilepsy (in my opinion) that I was able to learn how to focus inward and keep myself from getting overwhelmed. I ve always focused on things I found interesting, like history, fighting, writing, and reading. That still didn t stop people from bullying me for no reason, but I tried not to let their words get to me. Other than that I loved school. And I also realized that even though all of these things are facts, I happen to be autistic, although I prefer socially awkward, and that may have effected how I acted. I don t know if you made any videos about autism and the autistic spectrum, but if you could try to make one for people who don t understand what mental illness is like and that none of this is anything to be ashamed of or angry about, I would appreciate it. My dad doesn t understand how to deal with mental disorders and it would be refreshing if I could explain how this all exists by just showing him a video. I ve tried explaining it but he doesn t understand anything about mental health. Happy Holidays!
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cotovantre
I enjoy being quiet, and I probably would have a hard time being anything else. But. I still can't help but see it as a flaw too. It feels like others never really know what I'm thinking about, and so they might think I'm cold/ don't want to open up to them/ purposely judging or not telling them things. But nothing in my head is congruent to full thoughts that can turn into sentences. I'm mostly just observing, vibing, taking things in and hoping for connection too.
This is something related to finding work too. A past part-time job where my manager refused to allow me to do things other co-workers could do (despite me being there longer) bc she seemed to have a hard time reading me. Or when I'm at job interviews and I'm just not 'selling myself enough/ expressing that I want this job badly enough'
idk. feels like i should be changing. even though i hate acting like someone else
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I enjoy being quiet, and I probably would have a hard time being anything else. But. I still can't help but see it as a flaw too. It feels like others never really know what I'm thinking about, and so they might think I'm cold/ don't want to open up to them/ purposely judging or not telling them things. But nothing in my head is congruent to full thoughts that can turn into sentences. I'm mostly just observing, vibing, taking things in and hoping for connection too.
This is something related to finding work too. A past part-time job where my manager refused to allow me to do things other co-workers could do (despite me being there longer) bc she seemed to have a hard time reading me. Or when I'm at job interviews and I'm just not 'selling myself enough/ expressing that I want this job badly enough'
idk. feels like i should be changing. even though i hate acting like someone else
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psych2go
I love your vids, but could you make more about internalized symptoms for as someone who often internalizes things it s harder to find people talking about more internalized symptoms, and I think it is very important. Your vids are for more educational purposes, and it may be more helpful for people like me. My family has a background in mental health so I have always grown up with more knowledge of mental health, and so i have always seen the importance of young people learning about mental health and why it s so important, but we are all so complicated, so having the most knowledge of it can be very important. You are great at breaking down mental health in light and helping ways, so it would be even more helpful if you made more videos about more internalized symptoms.
Ps: My school counselor had us watch your videos
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I love your vids, but could you make more about internalized symptoms for as someone who often internalizes things it s harder to find people talking about more internalized symptoms, and I think it is very important. Your vids are for more educational purposes, and it may be more helpful for people like me. My family has a background in mental health so I have always grown up with more knowledge of mental health, and so i have always seen the importance of young people learning about mental health and why it s so important, but we are all so complicated, so having the most knowledge of it can be very important. You are great at breaking down mental health in light and helping ways, so it would be even more helpful if you made more videos about more internalized symptoms.
Ps: My school counselor had us watch your videos
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psych2go
I wasnt the quiet kid but i never really found the need to talk and wasn't keen on having many friends. Im demiromantic too so that could also be why I don't care for people unless they try really hard to be close. Anyway i learned and heard SO much about people. I knew who liked who, who had beef with who, knew so many people's secrets. People would just blabber around me because I stayed so quiet and tended to myself so they figured it would be fine. Lol i was listening sure was. The amount of tea and hilarious drama i was unintentionally given was enough to blackmail quite of few people. I didnt though of course, but people should be more aware of their surroundings and of what they say. You never know who's listening
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I wasnt the quiet kid but i never really found the need to talk and wasn't keen on having many friends. Im demiromantic too so that could also be why I don't care for people unless they try really hard to be close. Anyway i learned and heard SO much about people. I knew who liked who, who had beef with who, knew so many people's secrets. People would just blabber around me because I stayed so quiet and tended to myself so they figured it would be fine. Lol i was listening sure was. The amount of tea and hilarious drama i was unintentionally given was enough to blackmail quite of few people. I didnt though of course, but people should be more aware of their surroundings and of what they say. You never know who's listening
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jarmoliebrand2005
I am often quiet and reserved, enjoying time spent on my own. My mind is my biggest playground after all, especially since I m an INFP writer. I like my headphones as a means of closing off and letting my mind wander with music that suits me. When I ride familiar routes by bike, I can easily let myself go unrestricted. Being spoken to or something can really jolt me back to reality sometimes.
That said, when I talk to people I know (friends, close family) I have the capacity to probably talk someone s ears off. But in most other scenarios. I won t really speak unless spoken to. I won t rattle on about my hobbies when the environment for it seems unfit.
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I am often quiet and reserved, enjoying time spent on my own. My mind is my biggest playground after all, especially since I m an INFP writer. I like my headphones as a means of closing off and letting my mind wander with music that suits me. When I ride familiar routes by bike, I can easily let myself go unrestricted. Being spoken to or something can really jolt me back to reality sometimes.
That said, when I talk to people I know (friends, close family) I have the capacity to probably talk someone s ears off. But in most other scenarios. I won t really speak unless spoken to. I won t rattle on about my hobbies when the environment for it seems unfit.
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OOJTS
The silent treatment oh I it my ex girlfriend did that sh t to me and I had to learn the hard way, but I learned because it happened to me not once but twice the second time much easier and much pleasant to the point that it doesn't effect me anymore because I don't do it to people, I believe you only get mad when you do the same or some thing similar. The person or should I say my friend helped me with that I had and still have strong feelings for her but we communicate with honesty and respect, me a little more then her but she's learning and I don't give up ( no man is left behind mentally) we here for each other. 2: 39
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The silent treatment oh I it my ex girlfriend did that sh t to me and I had to learn the hard way, but I learned because it happened to me not once but twice the second time much easier and much pleasant to the point that it doesn't effect me anymore because I don't do it to people, I believe you only get mad when you do the same or some thing similar. The person or should I say my friend helped me with that I had and still have strong feelings for her but we communicate with honesty and respect, me a little more then her but she's learning and I don't give up ( no man is left behind mentally) we here for each other. 2: 39
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neowolf09
I'm kind of in the middle, but I relate to most, I'm quiet to an extent. Certain things will make me speak up and speak my mind even if it's uncomfortable for me and those around me. Sometimes I just can't help it at times.
Like bullies for example. I can't help but to at least say something.
And with friends I can get very talkative if the subject is of interest to me. Plus the closer you are to me the more I feel safe to talk.
I have some emotional resilience, I find the biggest of tragedies I can handle suprisingly well, but little frustrations I'm not as good at handling.
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I'm kind of in the middle, but I relate to most, I'm quiet to an extent. Certain things will make me speak up and speak my mind even if it's uncomfortable for me and those around me. Sometimes I just can't help it at times.
Like bullies for example. I can't help but to at least say something.
And with friends I can get very talkative if the subject is of interest to me. Plus the closer you are to me the more I feel safe to talk.
I have some emotional resilience, I find the biggest of tragedies I can handle suprisingly well, but little frustrations I'm not as good at handling.
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thedecalisthub
I couldn't agree more! Being a quiet person doesn't mean you're lacking strength or intelligence; in fact, it's quite the opposite. While others are busy making noise, you're silently mastering the art of observation. And let's not forget the power of your silence it's not just a lack of words, it's a strategic choice. So, to all the quiet people out there, keep embracing your unique strengths, and don't be afraid to let your silence speak volumes. And if someone underestimates you, just remember you've got a special ability to notice things that others might miss.
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I couldn't agree more! Being a quiet person doesn't mean you're lacking strength or intelligence; in fact, it's quite the opposite. While others are busy making noise, you're silently mastering the art of observation. And let's not forget the power of your silence it's not just a lack of words, it's a strategic choice. So, to all the quiet people out there, keep embracing your unique strengths, and don't be afraid to let your silence speak volumes. And if someone underestimates you, just remember you've got a special ability to notice things that others might miss.
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psych2go
i was very quiet throughout my years of highschool and i learned alot about most of my classmates and peers when i was in highschool
because instead of asking, i let the conversations do the talking for me.
i was able to find out if certain things that went around about a person were true or not, where a persons mind was at, how they carry themselves and etc
all truths were told
no lies.
a classic case of show, dont tell
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i was very quiet throughout my years of highschool and i learned alot about most of my classmates and peers when i was in highschool
because instead of asking, i let the conversations do the talking for me.
i was able to find out if certain things that went around about a person were true or not, where a persons mind was at, how they carry themselves and etc
all truths were told
no lies.
a classic case of show, dont tell
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cinderaceyt. 3100
In my case. some points i Have but. I often lose patience and stuff. well. learned my mistakes and lessons. i'll try to adapt these skills, since i never talk to others much. Even next time someone insults or try to argue with me. stay quiet. But. Sometimes. being quiet is not enough thought(my personal opinion Through my life experience) Anyways. thanks for info. (And loved the usage of Komi-san. )
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In my case. some points i Have but. I often lose patience and stuff. well. learned my mistakes and lessons. i'll try to adapt these skills, since i never talk to others much. Even next time someone insults or try to argue with me. stay quiet. But. Sometimes. being quiet is not enough thought(my personal opinion Through my life experience) Anyways. thanks for info. (And loved the usage of Komi-san. )
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psych2go
This is a weird video title. It makes it seem like quiet people are threatening and that people should be wary of how they act around quiet people, lest they be met with violence. Something that alludes to quiet people being interesting despite their demeanor would have been a better title. Liked that 'Komi Can't Communicate' was used as a sort of backdrop for this video.
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This is a weird video title. It makes it seem like quiet people are threatening and that people should be wary of how they act around quiet people, lest they be met with violence. Something that alludes to quiet people being interesting despite their demeanor would have been a better title. Liked that 'Komi Can't Communicate' was used as a sort of backdrop for this video.
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psych2go
I'm unable to notice the details I wish to notice. Boss man pushing out quantity over quality, resulting in errors that causes more loss to the business. It's mentally exhausting. The exhaustion builds up and I never have time to recover. I just keep getting exposed to the factors, all in the name of earning money to stay off the streets.
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I'm unable to notice the details I wish to notice. Boss man pushing out quantity over quality, resulting in errors that causes more loss to the business. It's mentally exhausting. The exhaustion builds up and I never have time to recover. I just keep getting exposed to the factors, all in the name of earning money to stay off the streets.
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okwiiarnold12
I'm a very quiet person, I relate with some points including the part of speaking which is impactful but most of it is misunderstood and noticing many things that many people don't see but I never tell but eventually people will know.
This is different from I expected from ordinary Psych2go video and I love this. Keep it up
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I'm a very quiet person, I relate with some points including the part of speaking which is impactful but most of it is misunderstood and noticing many things that many people don't see but I never tell but eventually people will know.
This is different from I expected from ordinary Psych2go video and I love this. Keep it up
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atransartist5437
not a quiet person, i just never found anybody to talk to about my interests and stuff because they were all not really anything people like classmates and family members found interesting, and so i couldn't really find any non-online spaces where i can talk about things like pokemon or smth
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not a quiet person, i just never found anybody to talk to about my interests and stuff because they were all not really anything people like classmates and family members found interesting, and so i couldn't really find any non-online spaces where i can talk about things like pokemon or smth
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itz_mashrur5269
thanks for this vid. yes i am a quiet person and people underestimate me all the time. even my mom. being quiet is a great super power! it has helped me out a lot. i use to regret it but now i embrace my quiet nature. your video hit the nail on the head. i am all those things so thanks again!
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thanks for this vid. yes i am a quiet person and people underestimate me all the time. even my mom. being quiet is a great super power! it has helped me out a lot. i use to regret it but now i embrace my quiet nature. your video hit the nail on the head. i am all those things so thanks again!
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storytimetv1
thanks for this vid. yes i am a quiet person and people underestimate me all the time. even my mom. being quiet is a great super power! it has helped me out a lot. i use to regret it but now i embrace my quiet nature. your video hit the nail on the head. i am all those things so thanks again!
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thanks for this vid. yes i am a quiet person and people underestimate me all the time. even my mom. being quiet is a great super power! it has helped me out a lot. i use to regret it but now i embrace my quiet nature. your video hit the nail on the head. i am all those things so thanks again!
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OOJTS
I used to be quiet and very shy when I was growing up, but when I met the mother of my kids that slowly went away, and felt that laughter is very important, 1) bonding with my then girlfriend
2) making friends
3) cheering people up
And because I smoked flower I smiled all the time 0: 27
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I used to be quiet and very shy when I was growing up, but when I met the mother of my kids that slowly went away, and felt that laughter is very important, 1) bonding with my then girlfriend
2) making friends
3) cheering people up
And because I smoked flower I smiled all the time 0: 27
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