5 Types of Friends You Should Surround Yourself With
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Date: 2023-12-18
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garrettisham2028
OK, what I'm going to talk about is completely out of context but here goes, really I'm just looking for advice.
There's this girl (cliche, I know) and I have a huge crush on her. We met during fall semester a few months ago and Its crazy that I've gone basically my entire life as an outcast and I find someone just like me to the point where I think they're my twin flame.
We have been softly flirting with one another since we met. The first instance we both kept eye contact for a solid 20 seconds, a conversation without words because we got lost in each other for such a long instance. This has happened multiple times, and she blushes often when we're flirting. One very distinct instance that I keep going back to is when we were talking and we locked eyes again, I teased her by saying I think we keep doing this because we both have something to say to the other. and I ish you not she turns redder than a tomato, looks down, and suggests she doesn't (mind you she is smiling like a Cheshire Cat through all this and giggling like a child caught in a innocent lie)
Fast forward to the last week of classes 3 weeks ago. I've noticed at this point that she flirts a lot through physical touch especially in hand-to-hand contact. It has been well established in our platonic relationship that I am quite larger than her, since I am athletically built 175 lbs at around 5'10' and she's a very petite 80 lbs at 5'4'. She asks to compare hand sizes, and when our hands are touching she makes a move like she's trying to clasp mine, but she pulls back and lets our hands touch for a little longer. Not long after, she introduces the idea that we hang out at some point during winter break.
The Question: My ego is telling me that I should wait a long time before I make a move to ensure that if a relationship does happen it is built on trust and 'ride-or-die' mentality, but my id is telling me START DATING NNNOWW! , which should I do given the circumstances?
I've asked many of my friends and they all have suggested to send it and don't look back, while my religious leaders tell me that I should wait and listen to God over it, the problem with listening to God is that it is easy to mix it up with your own biases so I'm looking into the stranger's viewpoint now.
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OK, what I'm going to talk about is completely out of context but here goes, really I'm just looking for advice.
There's this girl (cliche, I know) and I have a huge crush on her. We met during fall semester a few months ago and Its crazy that I've gone basically my entire life as an outcast and I find someone just like me to the point where I think they're my twin flame.
We have been softly flirting with one another since we met. The first instance we both kept eye contact for a solid 20 seconds, a conversation without words because we got lost in each other for such a long instance. This has happened multiple times, and she blushes often when we're flirting. One very distinct instance that I keep going back to is when we were talking and we locked eyes again, I teased her by saying I think we keep doing this because we both have something to say to the other. and I ish you not she turns redder than a tomato, looks down, and suggests she doesn't (mind you she is smiling like a Cheshire Cat through all this and giggling like a child caught in a innocent lie)
Fast forward to the last week of classes 3 weeks ago. I've noticed at this point that she flirts a lot through physical touch especially in hand-to-hand contact. It has been well established in our platonic relationship that I am quite larger than her, since I am athletically built 175 lbs at around 5'10' and she's a very petite 80 lbs at 5'4'. She asks to compare hand sizes, and when our hands are touching she makes a move like she's trying to clasp mine, but she pulls back and lets our hands touch for a little longer. Not long after, she introduces the idea that we hang out at some point during winter break.
The Question: My ego is telling me that I should wait a long time before I make a move to ensure that if a relationship does happen it is built on trust and 'ride-or-die' mentality, but my id is telling me START DATING NNNOWW! , which should I do given the circumstances?
I've asked many of my friends and they all have suggested to send it and don't look back, while my religious leaders tell me that I should wait and listen to God over it, the problem with listening to God is that it is easy to mix it up with your own biases so I'm looking into the stranger's viewpoint now.
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NeverToMuch21
I've said this before on one of your videos, but I'll say it again. I use to have friends but I didn't feel love or care for them, they did but I didn't, plus he was micromanaging me, he wants me to be better in his image and do what he says, whatever I say or do he sees it wrong, he calls it I do it cause i love you and care for you. I didn't feel that. After being friends with him for 8 years, I decided to just do the dirty and leave him without telling him and this was the time where we rented an apt for only 4 months, I just couldn't take it, If I talked to him he wouldn't listen and try to say it's my fault or give me self reflection. What sucks is that he's smart, and I sometimes ask him for help. well, a lot, cause it's easier to tell someone who knows a lot of things. now it's been 2 years since I left him, which means 2 years of me being myself and doing whatever I want. I feel better, more relieved, and comfortable now.
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I've said this before on one of your videos, but I'll say it again. I use to have friends but I didn't feel love or care for them, they did but I didn't, plus he was micromanaging me, he wants me to be better in his image and do what he says, whatever I say or do he sees it wrong, he calls it I do it cause i love you and care for you. I didn't feel that. After being friends with him for 8 years, I decided to just do the dirty and leave him without telling him and this was the time where we rented an apt for only 4 months, I just couldn't take it, If I talked to him he wouldn't listen and try to say it's my fault or give me self reflection. What sucks is that he's smart, and I sometimes ask him for help. well, a lot, cause it's easier to tell someone who knows a lot of things. now it's been 2 years since I left him, which means 2 years of me being myself and doing whatever I want. I feel better, more relieved, and comfortable now.
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BCSchmerker
+Psych2GoTv As an autist whom the school systems o' the late-20th-Century United States failed due to immature resources, I've agnosis on how to identify the five friends described below:
0: 27 1. The Motivator
0: 54 2. The Empathetic Listener
1: 26 3. The Optimistic Dreamer
1: 51 4. The Authentic, Open-Minded Friend
2: 23 5. The Funny Friend
Having yet to experience a Guiding Relationship as defined by Steven E. Gutstein Ph. D, I _have_ no friends to surround me. Internal, unconscious emotional blocks pathognomonic o' Kanner's not only derailed growth-seeking at mid-infancy but also prevented my learning relational fundamentals.
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+Psych2GoTv As an autist whom the school systems o' the late-20th-Century United States failed due to immature resources, I've agnosis on how to identify the five friends described below:
0: 27 1. The Motivator
0: 54 2. The Empathetic Listener
1: 26 3. The Optimistic Dreamer
1: 51 4. The Authentic, Open-Minded Friend
2: 23 5. The Funny Friend
Having yet to experience a Guiding Relationship as defined by Steven E. Gutstein Ph. D, I _have_ no friends to surround me. Internal, unconscious emotional blocks pathognomonic o' Kanner's not only derailed growth-seeking at mid-infancy but also prevented my learning relational fundamentals.
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psych2go
No I'm absolutely NOT satisfied with the friend's that I've surrounded Myself with, because they are all actually very incredibly evil, despicable, and sinister piece of negative toxic s. t a. hole's all of which whom I cannot wait at all whatsoever to sever karmic tie's with permanently FOREVER to be quite absolutely totally honest with all of You right now My dear beautiful friend's from Psych2go fam!
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No I'm absolutely NOT satisfied with the friend's that I've surrounded Myself with, because they are all actually very incredibly evil, despicable, and sinister piece of negative toxic s. t a. hole's all of which whom I cannot wait at all whatsoever to sever karmic tie's with permanently FOREVER to be quite absolutely totally honest with all of You right now My dear beautiful friend's from Psych2go fam!
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damnablethief
My social crowd has dramatically shrank over the years. You can be friends with people for years and still end up getting betrayed. That being said, I am thankful for the friends I have. They have always been true friends and some of them lifelong, over distance and time. We do nothing but laugh when we hang out, it's something that means the world to me.
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My social crowd has dramatically shrank over the years. You can be friends with people for years and still end up getting betrayed. That being said, I am thankful for the friends I have. They have always been true friends and some of them lifelong, over distance and time. We do nothing but laugh when we hang out, it's something that means the world to me.
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bent9686
You are worthy of love, kindness, and respect. You've been through so much you're not weak, you're brave look at everything you've been through and everything you've overcame, don't give up on yourself. The world would be changed if you died you can't be replaced there is only one of you, no matter what you're going through in life never forget that.
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You are worthy of love, kindness, and respect. You've been through so much you're not weak, you're brave look at everything you've been through and everything you've overcame, don't give up on yourself. The world would be changed if you died you can't be replaced there is only one of you, no matter what you're going through in life never forget that.
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psych2go
I appreciate having positive and motivating friends around me. It's essential to surround ourselves with people who are non-judgmental. Recently, I decided to end a toxic friendship and am now seeking open-minded individuals. It's a refreshing change, and I believe cultivating such connections contributes significantly to our well-being.
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I appreciate having positive and motivating friends around me. It's essential to surround ourselves with people who are non-judgmental. Recently, I decided to end a toxic friendship and am now seeking open-minded individuals. It's a refreshing change, and I believe cultivating such connections contributes significantly to our well-being.
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psych2go
I spend time alot with my Cameroonian friend who is funny, weird and obnoxious person came from Africa which makes me laugh cuz of his foreign accents than African-Americans unlike others who are fake friends that are unsupportive and didnt care how I feel cuz they had an important issues of a particular subjects
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I spend time alot with my Cameroonian friend who is funny, weird and obnoxious person came from Africa which makes me laugh cuz of his foreign accents than African-Americans unlike others who are fake friends that are unsupportive and didnt care how I feel cuz they had an important issues of a particular subjects
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crossxfuse
my friend that I've had for the past 8 years has been complete trash to me lately. She can't get over past events, acts completely cold, unkind I could go on. Everyone else seems to like her but she's shown me her true colors and I'm sick of her. I keep making terrible friends and I'm just so tired of it
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my friend that I've had for the past 8 years has been complete trash to me lately. She can't get over past events, acts completely cold, unkind I could go on. Everyone else seems to like her but she's shown me her true colors and I'm sick of her. I keep making terrible friends and I'm just so tired of it
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PH3_N0X
Imma be honest I m an INFJ and I am the friend that is most of these, and I have friends that are most of these too. I personally think that if you look for people that show small acts of kindness to everyone that s a pretty good green flag that they are a good friend.
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Imma be honest I m an INFJ and I am the friend that is most of these, and I have friends that are most of these too. I personally think that if you look for people that show small acts of kindness to everyone that s a pretty good green flag that they are a good friend.
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allenxdthesixth777
I'm happy with my current online and real life friend, not too much and not too small, enough to make a party or having fun together, my goal now is to make sure to always check on em while also keep them safe & company
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I'm happy with my current online and real life friend, not too much and not too small, enough to make a party or having fun together, my goal now is to make sure to always check on em while also keep them safe & company
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bradypower4365
the person Psych describes was me, at one time. I was at a thriving middle school, with a friend group I felt really comfortable with, and then, I moved schools an hour away, and I'm bullied daily. wish I could go back.
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the person Psych describes was me, at one time. I was at a thriving middle school, with a friend group I felt really comfortable with, and then, I moved schools an hour away, and I'm bullied daily. wish I could go back.
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t_for_txxyy
I have this friend who loves suicidal things how can I help her she has a dark humour she is kind but she's going through alot and she doesn't wants to talk or open about it I'm worried sometimes about her.
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I have this friend who loves suicidal things how can I help her she has a dark humour she is kind but she's going through alot and she doesn't wants to talk or open about it I'm worried sometimes about her.
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strawberrycanoe
- TIME STAMPS -
0: 28 - The Motivator
0: 56 - The Empathetic Listener
1: 27 - The Optimistic Dreamer
1: 53 - The Authentic, Open-Minded Friend
2: 23 - The Funny Friend
Love your vids!
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- TIME STAMPS -
0: 28 - The Motivator
0: 56 - The Empathetic Listener
1: 27 - The Optimistic Dreamer
1: 53 - The Authentic, Open-Minded Friend
2: 23 - The Funny Friend
Love your vids!
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R4nd0mus3r4
Talking abouy people's mental health and at the same time you are saying no anti-se. mit. isim in ur discord server?
Please, don't support the people who make the mental health of others worse
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Talking abouy people's mental health and at the same time you are saying no anti-se. mit. isim in ur discord server?
Please, don't support the people who make the mental health of others worse
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lovelumity
Ya I don't hook up with any of my friends they are all fake friends and I'll be real I'm fake too
All my life I have not seen one true friend
I wonder how it feels to be next to a true friend
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Ya I don't hook up with any of my friends they are all fake friends and I'll be real I'm fake too
All my life I have not seen one true friend
I wonder how it feels to be next to a true friend
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AutumnTheAxalotl
I like videos like this because they not only show you how to take care of yourself better but they also teach me how I can be a better person for my friends rather than just myself
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I like videos like this because they not only show you how to take care of yourself better but they also teach me how I can be a better person for my friends rather than just myself
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CrilintainS.
I always have difficulty making friends. And if I have, it's hard for me to maintain friendships. It's make me feel I don't deserve a friend. Is it right to not having a friend?
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I always have difficulty making friends. And if I have, it's hard for me to maintain friendships. It's make me feel I don't deserve a friend. Is it right to not having a friend?
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STRIKEFURY
My friends lack communication and it hurts when I talk with them and we seem great then ghosted and get no reply even though they tell me to show up. It's painful.
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My friends lack communication and it hurts when I talk with them and we seem great then ghosted and get no reply even though they tell me to show up. It's painful.
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