6 Things To Know About Your Crush Before Dating
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Date: 2024-05-06
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Rose_Butterfly98
I actually do know all that. I've known for years.
But there's no chance anything will happen so, it just seems kinda meh.
I would have wanted to be with her a long time ago but I am not one who forgives.
And while I do still love her I know now that it's better to not let her have this one.
She's nice and kind to everyone, most of the time, so people forgive her easily when she oversteps boundaries and while she's always improving herself and trying to help the rest of us be better, she doesn't realize some of us were never meant to be better.
I remind her of the past, before things got more difficult as life goes on. But the past contains bad things as well, so she blocked me when she finally realized I'm not one of the good people.
Even if she comes back to me, I think I know now, while she's the one meant for me, I am not the one for her and I must push her away so she will finally learn there are some things that can't be forgiven and some people who don't forgive.
A small punishment for her actions against me. It'll hurt me too but I've lived with it for the last 15 years I have no problems continuing.
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I actually do know all that. I've known for years.
But there's no chance anything will happen so, it just seems kinda meh.
I would have wanted to be with her a long time ago but I am not one who forgives.
And while I do still love her I know now that it's better to not let her have this one.
She's nice and kind to everyone, most of the time, so people forgive her easily when she oversteps boundaries and while she's always improving herself and trying to help the rest of us be better, she doesn't realize some of us were never meant to be better.
I remind her of the past, before things got more difficult as life goes on. But the past contains bad things as well, so she blocked me when she finally realized I'm not one of the good people.
Even if she comes back to me, I think I know now, while she's the one meant for me, I am not the one for her and I must push her away so she will finally learn there are some things that can't be forgiven and some people who don't forgive.
A small punishment for her actions against me. It'll hurt me too but I've lived with it for the last 15 years I have no problems continuing.
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gigibays6587
The man I'm with now and have been for 5 years, we talked for about 6 months and thought we were really getting to know each other.
Things were wonderful for quite a while, he then started showing a very mean spirited side of himself. He would feel really bad the next day, apologize, then return to the sweet guy I fell in love with. This roller-coaster has continued and he blamed his harsh words on his cheating 1st wife. I tried to believe him because I too had been cheated on in my 1st marriage. Since about 6 months ago things have gotten only worse. He said he thinks he's suffering from depression and anxiety and started seeing a Dr and a therapist. I've tried to be supportive and stand by him but my heart is getting more tattered from these sudden mood swings.
Our kids have grown close to each other and us as a couple, their hearts have been broken once already. I've tried to teach them that everyone can make mistakes and about forgiveness. Their little hearts aren't as tough as mine, could this be the time to bring this roller-coaster ride to a stop permanently
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The man I'm with now and have been for 5 years, we talked for about 6 months and thought we were really getting to know each other.
Things were wonderful for quite a while, he then started showing a very mean spirited side of himself. He would feel really bad the next day, apologize, then return to the sweet guy I fell in love with. This roller-coaster has continued and he blamed his harsh words on his cheating 1st wife. I tried to believe him because I too had been cheated on in my 1st marriage. Since about 6 months ago things have gotten only worse. He said he thinks he's suffering from depression and anxiety and started seeing a Dr and a therapist. I've tried to be supportive and stand by him but my heart is getting more tattered from these sudden mood swings.
Our kids have grown close to each other and us as a couple, their hearts have been broken once already. I've tried to teach them that everyone can make mistakes and about forgiveness. Their little hearts aren't as tough as mine, could this be the time to bring this roller-coaster ride to a stop permanently
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psych2go
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Key Points from Psych2Go’s Video on Understanding Your Crush:
- Essential Insight: Knowing your crush well before starting a relationship is key to its success.
- Communication Style: Understanding how your crush expresses love (their love language) is crucial for ensuring they feel loved and appreciated.
- Core Values: Sharing similar values enhances deep connections and mutual understanding.
- Past Influences: Be aware that past experiences and traumas can affect how your crush behaves in relationships today.
- Relationship Patterns: Observing how your crush has acted in past relationships can clue you into potential challenges.
- Self-Treatment: How your crush treats themselves is often a good indicator of how they will treat you in a relationship.
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This comment was summarized using ChatWithPDF
Key Points from Psych2Go’s Video on Understanding Your Crush:
- Essential Insight: Knowing your crush well before starting a relationship is key to its success.
- Communication Style: Understanding how your crush expresses love (their love language) is crucial for ensuring they feel loved and appreciated.
- Core Values: Sharing similar values enhances deep connections and mutual understanding.
- Past Influences: Be aware that past experiences and traumas can affect how your crush behaves in relationships today.
- Relationship Patterns: Observing how your crush has acted in past relationships can clue you into potential challenges.
- Self-Treatment: How your crush treats themselves is often a good indicator of how they will treat you in a relationship.
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RayPeng-07
I see a great value in this episode. I have a feeling that this is one of those MORE special ones with big power in them. And the beauty of this piano melody only made the information stronger and more reachable to the heart. Im' thankful for it and I'm going to mention it in today's gratitude journal entry. Because. soon there will be a whole year since I started to write it. And I this time I didn't give up on it. And it really works when I look inside it and remind myself those small things. which make me smile and which I would forgot by now if I wouldn't writer about therm. And I do want to remember this important episode.
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I see a great value in this episode. I have a feeling that this is one of those MORE special ones with big power in them. And the beauty of this piano melody only made the information stronger and more reachable to the heart. Im' thankful for it and I'm going to mention it in today's gratitude journal entry. Because. soon there will be a whole year since I started to write it. And I this time I didn't give up on it. And it really works when I look inside it and remind myself those small things. which make me smile and which I would forgot by now if I wouldn't writer about therm. And I do want to remember this important episode.
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Krzysztof-ge5fw
I had two girlfriends, one pretended to cut her wrist just to manipulate me into doing something then dumped me because i realised what was going on, the second one cheated on me with 2 guys. After that i didn't have any crush because most of the girls pretended to like me just to finally make fun of me or just crush my hope when they felt like it.
Time has passed it was about 4-5 years ago since i had someone and i realised i'm not going to get loved anytime soon, hope that everyone who reads this will.
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I had two girlfriends, one pretended to cut her wrist just to manipulate me into doing something then dumped me because i realised what was going on, the second one cheated on me with 2 guys. After that i didn't have any crush because most of the girls pretended to like me just to finally make fun of me or just crush my hope when they felt like it.
Time has passed it was about 4-5 years ago since i had someone and i realised i'm not going to get loved anytime soon, hope that everyone who reads this will.
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user-ey5rm5zd8b
I was one time in love and than i remembered that it's useless staying with her, one time will be i found a better man than you so i letted go(i was really shy lonely and nervous around girls because when i was little girls bullied i didn't speak American so i didn't understand but they were laughing at me and i got really sad and insicure with people cuz i was like what if they don't want me to talk with them etc)
Btw guys don't do the mistake i did
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I was one time in love and than i remembered that it's useless staying with her, one time will be i found a better man than you so i letted go(i was really shy lonely and nervous around girls because when i was little girls bullied i didn't speak American so i didn't understand but they were laughing at me and i got really sad and insicure with people cuz i was like what if they don't want me to talk with them etc)
Btw guys don't do the mistake i did
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plouifasol
I think some people are doing it wrong. Dating doesn't mean becoming a couple; this phase is meant to let people know each other. It's while dating that you get to see compatibility, feelings, etc. It's highly recommended not to have sx while getting to know each other better if they are looking for commitment. After dating a while both parts can tell if they see/want a future together as a couple. If not, they can even become good friends.
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I think some people are doing it wrong. Dating doesn't mean becoming a couple; this phase is meant to let people know each other. It's while dating that you get to see compatibility, feelings, etc. It's highly recommended not to have sx while getting to know each other better if they are looking for commitment. After dating a while both parts can tell if they see/want a future together as a couple. If not, they can even become good friends.
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A55a551n
Timestamps
1. They love differently than you 0: 34
2. If your values align 1: 22
3. How their past shows up in the present 2: 23
4. Their relationship patterns 3: 05
5. Their relationship with self 3: 39
6. Openess to improvement 4: 10
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late.
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Timestamps
1. They love differently than you 0: 34
2. If your values align 1: 22
3. How their past shows up in the present 2: 23
4. Their relationship patterns 3: 05
5. Their relationship with self 3: 39
6. Openess to improvement 4: 10
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late.
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psych2go
I wish i knew all that 2 weeks ago. now it's so fcking late, i lost her, she don't trust me anymore, she hates me. i hate myself for not being able to be there for her, for not be the man she saw inside me. she was laughing and enjoyed a lot my conpany in the start, now she doesn’t even want to talk to me
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I wish i knew all that 2 weeks ago. now it's so fcking late, i lost her, she don't trust me anymore, she hates me. i hate myself for not being able to be there for her, for not be the man she saw inside me. she was laughing and enjoyed a lot my conpany in the start, now she doesn’t even want to talk to me
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iliyangeorgiev9552
Actually she showed interest in me last year, in September, then not that much, then again in December-January and now things between us are we don’t talk much. I know her since first grade, she liked me in the past, I like her now and idk what to do at this point. Please help me! :)
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Actually she showed interest in me last year, in September, then not that much, then again in December-January and now things between us are we don’t talk much. I know her since first grade, she liked me in the past, I like her now and idk what to do at this point. Please help me! :)
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kath471
I needed this SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO BAD! Thanks so much! Love all of your helpful videos.
Some more advice on how to deal with crushes and budding relationships would be wonderful! I've never been in a relationship and theres a guy I really like, so help is appreciated! Thanks!
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I needed this SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO BAD! Thanks so much! Love all of your helpful videos.
Some more advice on how to deal with crushes and budding relationships would be wonderful! I've never been in a relationship and theres a guy I really like, so help is appreciated! Thanks!
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not__smokey
Timestamps
1. They love differently than you - 0: 35
2. If your values align - 1: 23
3. How their past shows up in the present - 2: 24
4. Their relationship patterns - 3: 06
5. Their relationship with Self - 3: 40
6. Openness to improvement - 4: 11
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Timestamps
1. They love differently than you - 0: 35
2. If your values align - 1: 23
3. How their past shows up in the present - 2: 24
4. Their relationship patterns - 3: 06
5. Their relationship with Self - 3: 40
6. Openness to improvement - 4: 11
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HopefulTribe
One of the best things I did, when I met the love of my life, was to really get to know them before committing. For the first time, I feel like I'm in a healthy relationship, built on a solid foundation of friendship, common values, and compassion.
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One of the best things I did, when I met the love of my life, was to really get to know them before committing. For the first time, I feel like I'm in a healthy relationship, built on a solid foundation of friendship, common values, and compassion.
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augustkitty
0: 35 They love differently than you
1: 23 If your values align
2: 24 How their past shows up in the present
3: 06 Their relationship patterns
3: 40 Their relationship with self
4: 11 Openness to improvement
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0: 35 They love differently than you
1: 23 If your values align
2: 24 How their past shows up in the present
3: 06 Their relationship patterns
3: 40 Their relationship with self
4: 11 Openness to improvement
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B1inkbu11et
1. They may have a different love language
2. Do they have similar values in life
3. Their past can affect their present
4. (doesn't exist)
5. Their past relationships
6. How they treat themselves
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1. They may have a different love language
2. Do they have similar values in life
3. Their past can affect their present
4. (doesn't exist)
5. Their past relationships
6. How they treat themselves
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psych2go
there is no one to date in my 50s, just dating apps to spend money on.
It's a good thing I like to be alone, cuz that looks like the way I'm going to be for the duration
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there is no one to date in my 50s, just dating apps to spend money on.
It's a good thing I like to be alone, cuz that looks like the way I'm going to be for the duration
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gionder
Regarding love languages: have you realized that you might express love for someone in a different way than how you'd like to receive love from people I know I'm like that
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Regarding love languages: have you realized that you might express love for someone in a different way than how you'd like to receive love from people I know I'm like that
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ChocoParfaitFra
These things are too deep to ask at the beginning, you must go out with them a few times, so in a way you’re kinda dating them while you ask these questions
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These things are too deep to ask at the beginning, you must go out with them a few times, so in a way you’re kinda dating them while you ask these questions
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Notdogexgaming7225
I have a crush but im scared to ask her out shes 1 year younger than me im 13 and shes 12 but i feel like its wrong and what if she dont like me help
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I have a crush but im scared to ask her out shes 1 year younger than me im 13 and shes 12 but i feel like its wrong and what if she dont like me help
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diamondmoon9496
This is great to consider as someone who has rushed into disastrous relationships after never considering these points. Thank you.
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This is great to consider as someone who has rushed into disastrous relationships after never considering these points. Thank you.
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