8 Signs Someone Is Fighting Their Feelings For You
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Date: 2024-05-12
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spacecat8511
Well at least I’m not crazy, but it still hurts, and will it ever resolve.
at least my own repeated and increasing insistence to be friends seems to finally be heardbecause admitting Yeah I DO Like You (Too) canonly do harm right now. What IS apparently safe but often gets that described hot/cold isus trying to get through to the other how much we respect them but.
And this has been going on for YEARS now. Despite a literal year of not interacting at all in an attempt to protect eachother, then me pushing the issue for a friendship, then the people we were literally trying to shield the other from through avoidance lit the fusewhich left a LOT of repair work to do ontop of the already Not Great start
Andnow the air’s as clear as it can be but. The method I thought was fine, wasn’t, soliterally haven’t seen them for. Literal months. And it’s are they avoiding me, or do I continue to choose to trust that they’re not and want to be my friend like they insist. And to maybe see them againis apparently dependent on whether or not I can get preexisting plans to work as well as face down my own traumas getting stirred up by environmentswhich they at least acknowledge isn’t fair to the point of distress.
I wish we could just say we liked eachother already. And I still don’t understand what’s so difficult to just agree to hey are you free at __ once a month or whatever.
Or. Have my feelings just DIE already instead of keeping me miserable.
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Well at least I’m not crazy, but it still hurts, and will it ever resolve.
at least my own repeated and increasing insistence to be friends seems to finally be heardbecause admitting Yeah I DO Like You (Too) canonly do harm right now. What IS apparently safe but often gets that described hot/cold isus trying to get through to the other how much we respect them but.
And this has been going on for YEARS now. Despite a literal year of not interacting at all in an attempt to protect eachother, then me pushing the issue for a friendship, then the people we were literally trying to shield the other from through avoidance lit the fusewhich left a LOT of repair work to do ontop of the already Not Great start
Andnow the air’s as clear as it can be but. The method I thought was fine, wasn’t, soliterally haven’t seen them for. Literal months. And it’s are they avoiding me, or do I continue to choose to trust that they’re not and want to be my friend like they insist. And to maybe see them againis apparently dependent on whether or not I can get preexisting plans to work as well as face down my own traumas getting stirred up by environmentswhich they at least acknowledge isn’t fair to the point of distress.
I wish we could just say we liked eachother already. And I still don’t understand what’s so difficult to just agree to hey are you free at __ once a month or whatever.
Or. Have my feelings just DIE already instead of keeping me miserable.
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8MinutesExplainer
1. They seem to light up whenever you enter the room, their eyes lingering on you a beat longer than necessary.
2. You catch them stealing glances at you when they think you're not looking, a shy smile playing on their lips.
3. They go out of their way to help you or be near you, even for the smallest of tasks.
4. Their body language speaks volumes - leaning in when you talk, finding excuses to touch your arm or shoulder.
5. They remember the little things about you, like your favorite coffee order or the book you mentioned wanting to read.
6. There's a subtle nervousness in their demeanor when they're around you, as if they're afraid of saying or doing the wrong thing.
7. They mirror your actions or adopt similar interests, trying to create a connection between the two of you.
8. They become more attentive and supportive, cheering you on in your endeavors and offering a listening ear when you need it most.
9. They express genuine concern for your well-being and happiness, going above and beyond to ensure you're okay.
10. Their friends might drop hints or tease them when you're around, indicating that they've confided in others about their feelings for you.
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1. They seem to light up whenever you enter the room, their eyes lingering on you a beat longer than necessary.
2. You catch them stealing glances at you when they think you're not looking, a shy smile playing on their lips.
3. They go out of their way to help you or be near you, even for the smallest of tasks.
4. Their body language speaks volumes - leaning in when you talk, finding excuses to touch your arm or shoulder.
5. They remember the little things about you, like your favorite coffee order or the book you mentioned wanting to read.
6. There's a subtle nervousness in their demeanor when they're around you, as if they're afraid of saying or doing the wrong thing.
7. They mirror your actions or adopt similar interests, trying to create a connection between the two of you.
8. They become more attentive and supportive, cheering you on in your endeavors and offering a listening ear when you need it most.
9. They express genuine concern for your well-being and happiness, going above and beyond to ensure you're okay.
10. Their friends might drop hints or tease them when you're around, indicating that they've confided in others about their feelings for you.
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ryanricks318
Wild instincts impulses o mine not in moods so exhaustive as fighting passionates o others o would survival rate increase if freeze o shutdoon so over stimulating meh mabye mine is to run sprint flee do i needs to stick rounds when theys moods so shifty o dat instance o satisfaction instantaneously gratification moment satisfaction next moment carries wits itty desires demands from mine illdeveloped eq skills issues n alls oot from comfort zone unfamiliar territory must treds so open to results consequences various still sensation tells meh so capable o survival alls the more lonesome bys dis process err side n progress furs alls possibly idfk feeling loads o mixed signals o ood sort also kinda eepy after dat stress dissipation session ugh wild instincts impulses wild ride o wild hyper illmaggotnation whrrrs dat focus o ours ugh these guessing games gits meh gud as ded wits mine luck n tricksy mind itty playful moods so highly hallucinations signals to delivery itty needs alls dat to not impose on alls the others mine tendency truely avoidance tatics n a sways we ago y'alls b dangerous mine system jus not as ded set as the popular crowds tysm nya sojourneys
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Wild instincts impulses o mine not in moods so exhaustive as fighting passionates o others o would survival rate increase if freeze o shutdoon so over stimulating meh mabye mine is to run sprint flee do i needs to stick rounds when theys moods so shifty o dat instance o satisfaction instantaneously gratification moment satisfaction next moment carries wits itty desires demands from mine illdeveloped eq skills issues n alls oot from comfort zone unfamiliar territory must treds so open to results consequences various still sensation tells meh so capable o survival alls the more lonesome bys dis process err side n progress furs alls possibly idfk feeling loads o mixed signals o ood sort also kinda eepy after dat stress dissipation session ugh wild instincts impulses wild ride o wild hyper illmaggotnation whrrrs dat focus o ours ugh these guessing games gits meh gud as ded wits mine luck n tricksy mind itty playful moods so highly hallucinations signals to delivery itty needs alls dat to not impose on alls the others mine tendency truely avoidance tatics n a sways we ago y'alls b dangerous mine system jus not as ded set as the popular crowds tysm nya sojourneys
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sleepy_owlie4547
watching after knowing he likes someone else, and hasnt moved on
i think he confessed recently a week before the exam date, his been hinting about how he was kind to her and she broke his heart on fb and well i guess i understand why he likes her, shes been his friend for 2 years na.
i know i dont have a chance, im not his type, im rowdy, playful, loud, touchy and unexperienced when it comes to love, im a kid in other peoples eyes but i keep having feelings, the way he looks when his concentrating, when his smilling and laughing, and how kind, thoughtful, and respectful he is but i also kind of like how cute he is when his mad as long as its not directed on me, and his random actions like petting my head or reasuring me just keeps my feelings for him alive, its been 8 months since i realized i had feelings for him but i know my feelings were slowy developing a year ago, i even said that he was my type to ny best friend before really realizing i liked him.
alot of my friends keep telling me to move on even myself, but its hard, whenever i see him i know my feelings are still there
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watching after knowing he likes someone else, and hasnt moved on
i think he confessed recently a week before the exam date, his been hinting about how he was kind to her and she broke his heart on fb and well i guess i understand why he likes her, shes been his friend for 2 years na.
i know i dont have a chance, im not his type, im rowdy, playful, loud, touchy and unexperienced when it comes to love, im a kid in other peoples eyes but i keep having feelings, the way he looks when his concentrating, when his smilling and laughing, and how kind, thoughtful, and respectful he is but i also kind of like how cute he is when his mad as long as its not directed on me, and his random actions like petting my head or reasuring me just keeps my feelings for him alive, its been 8 months since i realized i had feelings for him but i know my feelings were slowy developing a year ago, i even said that he was my type to ny best friend before really realizing i liked him.
alot of my friends keep telling me to move on even myself, but its hard, whenever i see him i know my feelings are still there
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setareh5888
I know someone with this signs. At first I thought they like me, there was mixed signals but I decided to came out of my comfort zone and start to talk to them more and do deep conversations, but at some point I felt like he sees me as nothing, he doesn't act aroundme as a friend nor lover. And I was like then what was those behaviors! Now that I see this video I found what's going on. He use metaphor, he seek info indirectly, he doesn't contact me out of school but in school he has body language toward me like seeking to say hi when he doesn't have to, wait for me or let me pass first always. makes jokes about having relationships with others. I know now what he is doing but like I overcome my crush toward him but why when he is still struggling, he didn't put step towards me
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I know someone with this signs. At first I thought they like me, there was mixed signals but I decided to came out of my comfort zone and start to talk to them more and do deep conversations, but at some point I felt like he sees me as nothing, he doesn't act aroundme as a friend nor lover. And I was like then what was those behaviors! Now that I see this video I found what's going on. He use metaphor, he seek info indirectly, he doesn't contact me out of school but in school he has body language toward me like seeking to say hi when he doesn't have to, wait for me or let me pass first always. makes jokes about having relationships with others. I know now what he is doing but like I overcome my crush toward him but why when he is still struggling, he didn't put step towards me
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eijil.
HIm and I have a very complicated friendship. He watches me and my details. He jokes with me and we push each other and laugh together, but the next day he ignores me completely. We always quarrel and do not correspond at all except on special occasions. Sometimes I say that the matter is over and that he no longer likes me, but the strange thing is that until now he still looks at me. He still follows all my details. He is very conflicted and tries to fight his feelings
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HIm and I have a very complicated friendship. He watches me and my details. He jokes with me and we push each other and laugh together, but the next day he ignores me completely. We always quarrel and do not correspond at all except on special occasions. Sometimes I say that the matter is over and that he no longer likes me, but the strange thing is that until now he still looks at me. He still follows all my details. He is very conflicted and tries to fight his feelings
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A55a551n
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1. They tend to avoid emotional intimacy 0: 24
2. They joke about potential relationships 1: 08
3. They use metaphorical language 1: 40
4. They might avoid direct contact 2: 42
5. They put a facade of confidence 3: 17
6. Obvious body cues 3: 57
7. They display hot and cold behaviour 4: 35
8. They seek information about you indirectly 5: 17
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late.
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Timestamps
1. They tend to avoid emotional intimacy 0: 24
2. They joke about potential relationships 1: 08
3. They use metaphorical language 1: 40
4. They might avoid direct contact 2: 42
5. They put a facade of confidence 3: 17
6. Obvious body cues 3: 57
7. They display hot and cold behaviour 4: 35
8. They seek information about you indirectly 5: 17
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late.
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rycoreco633
1. They tend to avoid emotional intimacy 0: 25
2. Surface level conversations 0: 50
3. They joke about potential relationships 1: 10
4. They use metaphorical language 1: 58
5. They might avoid direct contact 2: 43
6. They put up a facade of confidence 3: 18
7. Obvious body cues 3: 59
8. They display hot and cold behavior 4: 37
9. They seek information about you indirectly 5: 20
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1. They tend to avoid emotional intimacy 0: 25
2. Surface level conversations 0: 50
3. They joke about potential relationships 1: 10
4. They use metaphorical language 1: 58
5. They might avoid direct contact 2: 43
6. They put up a facade of confidence 3: 18
7. Obvious body cues 3: 59
8. They display hot and cold behavior 4: 37
9. They seek information about you indirectly 5: 20
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noobzito2
Timestamp!
-0: 24 They tend to avoid emotional intimacy
-0: 51 surface-level conversations
-1: 09 They joke about potential relationships
-1: 42 They use Methaphorical language
-2: 44 they might avoid direct contact
-3: 21 They put on a facade of confidence
-3: 58 obvious body cues
-4: 37 They display hot and cold behaviour
-5: 19 They seek information about you indirectly
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Timestamp!
-0: 24 They tend to avoid emotional intimacy
-0: 51 surface-level conversations
-1: 09 They joke about potential relationships
-1: 42 They use Methaphorical language
-2: 44 they might avoid direct contact
-3: 21 They put on a facade of confidence
-3: 58 obvious body cues
-4: 37 They display hot and cold behaviour
-5: 19 They seek information about you indirectly
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gracetwang6139
0: 25 they tend to avoid emotional intimacy
0: 49 surface-level conversations
1: 09 they joke about potential relationships
1: 42 they use metaphorical language
2: 43 they might avoid direct contact
3: 19 they put a facade of confidence
3: 58 obvious body cues
4: 37 they display hot and cold behaviour
5: 17 they seek information about you indirectly
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0: 25 they tend to avoid emotional intimacy
0: 49 surface-level conversations
1: 09 they joke about potential relationships
1: 42 they use metaphorical language
2: 43 they might avoid direct contact
3: 19 they put a facade of confidence
3: 58 obvious body cues
4: 37 they display hot and cold behaviour
5: 17 they seek information about you indirectly
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arlenebeck4005
Hello I would appreciate it if you could talk more about autism I have a cousin and a boyfriend who is autistic and they think I'm autistic how do you know if you are and how do autistic people deal with what people say and do to them. I would ask my boyfriend and my cousin about it but they are uncomfortable with talking about it so could you guys please talk about it.
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Hello I would appreciate it if you could talk more about autism I have a cousin and a boyfriend who is autistic and they think I'm autistic how do you know if you are and how do autistic people deal with what people say and do to them. I would ask my boyfriend and my cousin about it but they are uncomfortable with talking about it so could you guys please talk about it.
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Anita-vc8nb
Remember everyone, you deserve someone who is sure about you, knows your worth, and enhances your life. There can be a point in which this hot and cold behavior can be exhausting and make you feel bad, so take care of yourself, really analyze if you want to continue pursuing this person (if they make you feel this bad, and love yourself first.
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Remember everyone, you deserve someone who is sure about you, knows your worth, and enhances your life. There can be a point in which this hot and cold behavior can be exhausting and make you feel bad, so take care of yourself, really analyze if you want to continue pursuing this person (if they make you feel this bad, and love yourself first.
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kuroyuuep
I have a friend that I just recently noticed that they've been crushing on me for awhile now. I thought they liked me recently but it turns out that it's been more than a year. They know that I cannot reciprocate their feelings because they know that I'm Demiromantic. I feel so bad and it ended up making our relationship drift apart.
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I have a friend that I just recently noticed that they've been crushing on me for awhile now. I thought they liked me recently but it turns out that it's been more than a year. They know that I cannot reciprocate their feelings because they know that I'm Demiromantic. I feel so bad and it ended up making our relationship drift apart.
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kuroyuuep
I have a friend that I just recently noticed that they've been crushing on me for awhile now. I thought they liked me recently but it turns out that it's been more than a year. They know that I cannot reciprocate their feelings because they know that I'm AroAce. I feel so bad and it ended up making our relationship drift apart.
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I have a friend that I just recently noticed that they've been crushing on me for awhile now. I thought they liked me recently but it turns out that it's been more than a year. They know that I cannot reciprocate their feelings because they know that I'm AroAce. I feel so bad and it ended up making our relationship drift apart.
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dycedarg19
I found out I’m mostly this person. We’ve both been hurt by bad relationships, but I’ve developed some feelings. I want to think that they also have feelings, but we both do a good job of avoiding confessing. But who knows, maybe all this time I’m the only who has these feelings!
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I found out I’m mostly this person. We’ve both been hurt by bad relationships, but I’ve developed some feelings. I want to think that they also have feelings, but we both do a good job of avoiding confessing. But who knows, maybe all this time I’m the only who has these feelings!
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N192K001
Oh, d! This has been my playbook for pretty much most of my life, but this is the 1st time I've actually seen it actually laid-out in an explicit listing. (Others just thought I wasn't being honest with my emotions. No, I was fighting it. Duties come 1st) Still, good job, P2G!
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Oh, d! This has been my playbook for pretty much most of my life, but this is the 1st time I've actually seen it actually laid-out in an explicit listing. (Others just thought I wasn't being honest with my emotions. No, I was fighting it. Duties come 1st) Still, good job, P2G!
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psych2go
I watch these women on the internet play games and do stuff in their lives, and I like them. I don't know how I feel about the woman who showed me who they are. I know it's wrong for me to think of her the way I do because I'm married. I love spending time with her though.
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I watch these women on the internet play games and do stuff in their lives, and I like them. I don't know how I feel about the woman who showed me who they are. I know it's wrong for me to think of her the way I do because I'm married. I love spending time with her though.
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psych2go
The fact that this guy has been showing all of these signs for yearssssss is insane. At some point we have to be honest with ourselves and with the people we have interest in. The idea of forcing away emotions and feelings towards a person sounds like torture
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The fact that this guy has been showing all of these signs for yearssssss is insane. At some point we have to be honest with ourselves and with the people we have interest in. The idea of forcing away emotions and feelings towards a person sounds like torture
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whoisbriannab
Yeah. I'm in similar situation. I have shared my feelings. She says she doesn't feel the same but she exhibits all of these signs. Some more than others, but they are all there. To complicate things even more she's my bestie. So decoding becomes murky.
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Yeah. I'm in similar situation. I have shared my feelings. She says she doesn't feel the same but she exhibits all of these signs. Some more than others, but they are all there. To complicate things even more she's my bestie. So decoding becomes murky.
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MatthewYoink
Every time I click these videos and that beta soft voice dude is doing the narration, I just downvote and go to the next video. Where’s the soft voiced woman at That’s what I subbed to listen to, not some dude.
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Every time I click these videos and that beta soft voice dude is doing the narration, I just downvote and go to the next video. Where’s the soft voiced woman at That’s what I subbed to listen to, not some dude.
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