What Is Your Friendship LOVE LANGUAGE (QUIZ)
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Date: 2024-12-09
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psych2go
Well, to he honest. the friends i have are online friends, nd it's hard to tell, since we've never met only talked on texts, so for me those words of affirmation mean the most, nd when they take out even a little bit of time from their busy schedule to jist drop a hi, or asking how am i doing, nd when they couldn't be there. i try to reason myself telling that they've got a life too nd they might be busy, it's not like that they're leaving me but since it's an online friendship i always have some insecurity that what if they find someone nicer than me or better than me in person nd they, decide to end things up or leave me. i have a few friends in college, but we're more like acquaintances. than friends, they all have their friend circle, nd sometimes i don't feel like i fit in there. it's hard for me to adjust nd make friends, I've always preferred to be alone, coz somehow i didn't fit among people nd no matter how things are, i take out even a little bit of time. five minutes to check up on them nd sometimes i just kinda expect them, that they could do the same nd I know it's kind of selfish i gotta understand people are busy nd they don't get time. it's just i miss them.
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Well, to he honest. the friends i have are online friends, nd it's hard to tell, since we've never met only talked on texts, so for me those words of affirmation mean the most, nd when they take out even a little bit of time from their busy schedule to jist drop a hi, or asking how am i doing, nd when they couldn't be there. i try to reason myself telling that they've got a life too nd they might be busy, it's not like that they're leaving me but since it's an online friendship i always have some insecurity that what if they find someone nicer than me or better than me in person nd they, decide to end things up or leave me. i have a few friends in college, but we're more like acquaintances. than friends, they all have their friend circle, nd sometimes i don't feel like i fit in there. it's hard for me to adjust nd make friends, I've always preferred to be alone, coz somehow i didn't fit among people nd no matter how things are, i take out even a little bit of time. five minutes to check up on them nd sometimes i just kinda expect them, that they could do the same nd I know it's kind of selfish i gotta understand people are busy nd they don't get time. it's just i miss them.
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Cruel_Fool
I have a friend who’d I easily call my bestie. She got me flowers and said that men don’t usually receive them until they die and I was so shocked by this that I legitimately wanted to cry. It was incredibly heartfelt and everyday I’m a step closer to thinking about how much I don’t deserve anyone or anything and how I’ll die alone. I feel insecure about myself but I still have a wick of hope that maybe if someone is willing to go that far out of their way, that maybe I do have something to contribute to this world. I made an origami flower to represent and preserve the memory of the best moment I shared with them. They were my favorite flowers too. I just don’t know how I can return an experience like that back to someone like her. We’re not intoeach other fyi icyww. If any of you have any suggestions my appreciation would be high thanks for reading and I hope you one day feel this same feeling from someone or give it to another.
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I have a friend who’d I easily call my bestie. She got me flowers and said that men don’t usually receive them until they die and I was so shocked by this that I legitimately wanted to cry. It was incredibly heartfelt and everyday I’m a step closer to thinking about how much I don’t deserve anyone or anything and how I’ll die alone. I feel insecure about myself but I still have a wick of hope that maybe if someone is willing to go that far out of their way, that maybe I do have something to contribute to this world. I made an origami flower to represent and preserve the memory of the best moment I shared with them. They were my favorite flowers too. I just don’t know how I can return an experience like that back to someone like her. We’re not intoeach other fyi icyww. If any of you have any suggestions my appreciation would be high thanks for reading and I hope you one day feel this same feeling from someone or give it to another.
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nuurd. y
words of affirmation or gifts
B, D, C, A, B, E, D (in that order)
can confirm i do kind of rely on affirmation, so whenever my friends say something positive about me, i tend to rely on that. i also love helping them out with verbal attention and affection, like trying to convince them that they look amazing or they did really good.
as for gifts, im the one in the friend group who keeps all the important dates. every. single. date. i remember almost all my friends birthdays, my monthly/annual special relationship dates, and when my friends arent free to do something. when they cant remember, it makes me feel a little sad, but i cant blame them that much i guess, then they just brush it off like they dont care TwT
but yeah! thats mine!
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words of affirmation or gifts
B, D, C, A, B, E, D (in that order)
can confirm i do kind of rely on affirmation, so whenever my friends say something positive about me, i tend to rely on that. i also love helping them out with verbal attention and affection, like trying to convince them that they look amazing or they did really good.
as for gifts, im the one in the friend group who keeps all the important dates. every. single. date. i remember almost all my friends birthdays, my monthly/annual special relationship dates, and when my friends arent free to do something. when they cant remember, it makes me feel a little sad, but i cant blame them that much i guess, then they just brush it off like they dont care TwT
but yeah! thats mine!
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A55a551n
Timestamps
1. What's something a friend has done that made you feel really loved 0: 47
2. What would hurt you the most in a friendship 1: 20
3. How do you like to show your friends you care 1: 56
4. What would make you feel most special on your birthday 2: 33
5. How do you celebrate a friend's success 3: 04
6. When you're feeling down, how can your friends best cheer you up 3: 33
7. How do you know when your friendship is strong 4: 03
8. Mostly A's: quality time 4: 31
9. Mostly B's: words of affirmation 5: 07
10. Mostly C's: acts of service 5: 42
11. Mostly D's: gifts 6: 25
12. Mostly E's: physical touch 7: 17
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late.
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Timestamps
1. What's something a friend has done that made you feel really loved 0: 47
2. What would hurt you the most in a friendship 1: 20
3. How do you like to show your friends you care 1: 56
4. What would make you feel most special on your birthday 2: 33
5. How do you celebrate a friend's success 3: 04
6. When you're feeling down, how can your friends best cheer you up 3: 33
7. How do you know when your friendship is strong 4: 03
8. Mostly A's: quality time 4: 31
9. Mostly B's: words of affirmation 5: 07
10. Mostly C's: acts of service 5: 42
11. Mostly D's: gifts 6: 25
12. Mostly E's: physical touch 7: 17
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late.
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SlicedZucchini
1) A 2) N/A 3) A, D, C 4) A, B, D, C 5) A, B, D 6) A 7) A, C, D, B
for context I have been completely blind for seven years now, friendship is one of my greatest strengths that I have always had, prior to my complete blindness, I was more of an acts of service person with just as equal quality time, someone who was highly independent, reliable and trusted; my birthday is a couple days before Christmas so often it is forgotten and that is the time most people spend with their families so I understand that my birthday is not crucial in most of the people I know and their busy lives
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1) A 2) N/A 3) A, D, C 4) A, B, D, C 5) A, B, D 6) A 7) A, C, D, B
for context I have been completely blind for seven years now, friendship is one of my greatest strengths that I have always had, prior to my complete blindness, I was more of an acts of service person with just as equal quality time, someone who was highly independent, reliable and trusted; my birthday is a couple days before Christmas so often it is forgotten and that is the time most people spend with their families so I understand that my birthday is not crucial in most of the people I know and their busy lives
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TakahiroShinsaku
1 E, 2 guess B but hurt the most does not fit, as i do not have high expectations, also see the burdens of people around me, thankfulness is important though, 3 C/E, 4 C/E, 5 C/E, 6 E, 7 A.
1 A
1 B
3 C
0 D
5 E
Although physical Touch is high on me, if one does not want a hug i am ok with that aswell, same with a firm handshake, i like or trust those that give a firm one more, but its ok if its not even though i wonder why. Also helping eachother is important.
Guess i am not materialistic or i have everything i need already.
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1 E, 2 guess B but hurt the most does not fit, as i do not have high expectations, also see the burdens of people around me, thankfulness is important though, 3 C/E, 4 C/E, 5 C/E, 6 E, 7 A.
1 A
1 B
3 C
0 D
5 E
Although physical Touch is high on me, if one does not want a hug i am ok with that aswell, same with a firm handshake, i like or trust those that give a firm one more, but its ok if its not even though i wonder why. Also helping eachother is important.
Guess i am not materialistic or i have everything i need already.
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zUltra3D
even though i got 2 A and 3 D, I'd say both are applicable. I use the quality time as fuel for the gifts. It feels important to kinda encapsulate memories, thoughts and feelings into a simple gift such that, while to someone unrelated it may seem pretty insignificant, to the person who received it, it would remind them of like 6 things at once. Whether that's through subtle icons as indents in the surface, or really anything that feels appropriate to add. (I'm kinda cheating by using a 3D printer but I 3D model the gift so technically I'm making it)
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even though i got 2 A and 3 D, I'd say both are applicable. I use the quality time as fuel for the gifts. It feels important to kinda encapsulate memories, thoughts and feelings into a simple gift such that, while to someone unrelated it may seem pretty insignificant, to the person who received it, it would remind them of like 6 things at once. Whether that's through subtle icons as indents in the surface, or really anything that feels appropriate to add. (I'm kinda cheating by using a 3D printer but I 3D model the gift so technically I'm making it)
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raringrph1560
Mostly the As for me. My online friend and I have known each other for almost 3 years now, and I’ve come to know so much about her personal life and how hard it’s been.
At first, her trust for me was shaky at the start but over time, we started to talk more and more and develop a stronger bond. All she wants is to be heard and understood, and that’s what I’ve been doing.
I listen more than I talk, because she has a lot to say and it’s her way of letting out her frustrations.
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Mostly the As for me. My online friend and I have known each other for almost 3 years now, and I’ve come to know so much about her personal life and how hard it’s been.
At first, her trust for me was shaky at the start but over time, we started to talk more and more and develop a stronger bond. All she wants is to be heard and understood, and that’s what I’ve been doing.
I listen more than I talk, because she has a lot to say and it’s her way of letting out her frustrations.
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Rylocand
I honestly don't know. I feel like most apply to me. except the hug one but at the same time I want to be hugged and that my hand be held gently by my friend during tough times and while I give thoughtful gifts to my friends, mostly hand made ones, I haven't really received that much thoughtful gifts from my friends and when I do, I feel like it's nice, but nothing more. Sometimes I feel like the only reason we consider ourselves friends is because we hang out with each others
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I honestly don't know. I feel like most apply to me. except the hug one but at the same time I want to be hugged and that my hand be held gently by my friend during tough times and while I give thoughtful gifts to my friends, mostly hand made ones, I haven't really received that much thoughtful gifts from my friends and when I do, I feel like it's nice, but nothing more. Sometimes I feel like the only reason we consider ourselves friends is because we hang out with each others
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RWQFSFASXC-17BP
1: I don't know but when I was sick and skipped school for a while week, a girl I don't even know her name asked if I was okay and why was I absent. I was. flustered and embarrassed from the attention since it's the very first time a girl worries about me. It was amazing, but she has like. the entire school as her friend so we don't talk anymore, we share glace or something but it's just a bit too silent now. Either way, I still smile at the memory.
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1: I don't know but when I was sick and skipped school for a while week, a girl I don't even know her name asked if I was okay and why was I absent. I was. flustered and embarrassed from the attention since it's the very first time a girl worries about me. It was amazing, but she has like. the entire school as her friend so we don't talk anymore, we share glace or something but it's just a bit too silent now. Either way, I still smile at the memory.
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krystaljohnson746
A/B, B, B/C, B/D, B/C/D, A, A/B/C/D
I kind of adapt myself to what my friends need in a specific moment. I'm kind of like a mom to my friends, even when they're older. I pay attention to the tiniest details and will do anything for those that I love. I'm not really into physical touch because I have a lot of trauma and am working on healing, but I have a tendency to sacrifice this part of myself if someone needs a hug.
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A/B, B, B/C, B/D, B/C/D, A, A/B/C/D
I kind of adapt myself to what my friends need in a specific moment. I'm kind of like a mom to my friends, even when they're older. I pay attention to the tiniest details and will do anything for those that I love. I'm not really into physical touch because I have a lot of trauma and am working on healing, but I have a tendency to sacrifice this part of myself if someone needs a hug.
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LoudYapper
Most of these I didn't like, they didn't really in compass any of my friendships or ways I interact with friends. It's a bit too rigid, but I guess trying to put something as complex as a relationship between two people in just 5 categories would do that. I also got a tie between B, C and E although one of the C and B were because I couldn't choose my actual answer xd, so where does that leave me
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Most of these I didn't like, they didn't really in compass any of my friendships or ways I interact with friends. It's a bit too rigid, but I guess trying to put something as complex as a relationship between two people in just 5 categories would do that. I also got a tie between B, C and E although one of the C and B were because I couldn't choose my actual answer xd, so where does that leave me
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fior211
a happens to people the crowds choose\ b happens to people that hate each other\ c happens to people that been fooled because they create the conflict\ d happens to people that impress emotional distraction to material dogma\ e happens to people when the crowd says entertain them and they something ruined by love\ strange modes war on the senses but pleasure greater ruin
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a happens to people the crowds choose\ b happens to people that hate each other\ c happens to people that been fooled because they create the conflict\ d happens to people that impress emotional distraction to material dogma\ e happens to people when the crowd says entertain them and they something ruined by love\ strange modes war on the senses but pleasure greater ruin
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fior211
I question the situation and I consult my organs they tell me I have been paranoid of the situation but I know my organs they know something I do not know and they have designed love on the basis of distraction where is the balance where is the morality but the machines the watchers war on the senses against reason their science fails them here wormwood the ruins of love
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I question the situation and I consult my organs they tell me I have been paranoid of the situation but I know my organs they know something I do not know and they have designed love on the basis of distraction where is the balance where is the morality but the machines the watchers war on the senses against reason their science fails them here wormwood the ruins of love
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psych2go
Analysis,
1. Never
2. While All of these happen, I think it's E the most hurtful one that I frequently experience.
3. E and then C
4. It's D and then C. Normally, they're only parents and none else do this for me.
5. B and then E.
6. B or E. Somehow, none does.
7. A, B, C, E but no one does.
Thank you for the knowledge provided.
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Analysis,
1. Never
2. While All of these happen, I think it's E the most hurtful one that I frequently experience.
3. E and then C
4. It's D and then C. Normally, they're only parents and none else do this for me.
5. B and then E.
6. B or E. Somehow, none does.
7. A, B, C, E but no one does.
Thank you for the knowledge provided.
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Acertainauthor
(Randomly decided to start commenting) Well, guess who has no actual’ friends
But anyways, my love language for friends are acts of service, and gift giving because I want them to have a piece of me once I’m gone (though they may just forget about the stuff I gave them even if it’s specially designed like a poem, drawing, etc)
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(Randomly decided to start commenting) Well, guess who has no actual’ friends
But anyways, my love language for friends are acts of service, and gift giving because I want them to have a piece of me once I’m gone (though they may just forget about the stuff I gave them even if it’s specially designed like a poem, drawing, etc)
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Yolololol. 68
I got mostly A's and surprisingly it's true. I want to spend quality time with my friends as much as possible because it is what friends are for, you spend time with them, have fun, share your opinions about life and its experiences. Quality time is truly the best love language whether it is for lovers or just friends
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I got mostly A's and surprisingly it's true. I want to spend quality time with my friends as much as possible because it is what friends are for, you spend time with them, have fun, share your opinions about life and its experiences. Quality time is truly the best love language whether it is for lovers or just friends
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fior211
romantic relationships were something that the insects guide on the seas of folly the phones to parasites they war against the senses the epicurean and the exhibition what disgust no patience but they settle for the shallow dialect of mechanical exchange woe their science but the heart is nature
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romantic relationships were something that the insects guide on the seas of folly the phones to parasites they war against the senses the epicurean and the exhibition what disgust no patience but they settle for the shallow dialect of mechanical exchange woe their science but the heart is nature
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JennaTheFox277
E, C, E, D, B, A, B
Either an E or a B
What that means (probably) we like to encourage each other and exchange compliments regularly, we feel valued by each other. We also like to show physical affection toward each other and spend quality time together (physically)
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E, C, E, D, B, A, B
Either an E or a B
What that means (probably) we like to encourage each other and exchange compliments regularly, we feel valued by each other. We also like to show physical affection toward each other and spend quality time together (physically)
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MegaManNeo
I'm somewhere between A and B, love quality time and can easily spend hours upon hours with those I like, which is something I like to hear too, as well as hearing that they like me. However, I don't need to hear that all day long, just so much that I feel seen and welcome.
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I'm somewhere between A and B, love quality time and can easily spend hours upon hours with those I like, which is something I like to hear too, as well as hearing that they like me. However, I don't need to hear that all day long, just so much that I feel seen and welcome.
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