10 Ways To Tell if an Introvert Is Mad At You
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Weeb
Im the introvert and can confirm. If youve pissed me off, Im the most passive aggressive bastard youll ever have the displeasure of knowing. For example, yesterday, I was kicked out of the car on our driveway a few feet away. What they couldve done was: continue driving, maybe ask me when weve pulled in and my stuff was put down give me a chance to put my stuff down and then Ill do it. Or pull up near enough to the trash can for me to reach it, and I dont have to get up from my seat until we get to the designated parking spot, where Ill get out, and take it the rest of the way. Those two were way more acceptable to me than what they actually did. So I would get right in front of the car with the trash can and they were confined to whatever speed I deemed acceptable. Mostly tho, Id stop talking, do whatever I needed to do, and tune them out completely. If I need to be outside, I go, regardless of weather or not theyve finished. If its authority, Id listen with a blank-ass stare and periodically go mhm or okay or whatever response the convention calls for.
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Im the introvert and can confirm. If youve pissed me off, Im the most passive aggressive bastard youll ever have the displeasure of knowing. For example, yesterday, I was kicked out of the car on our driveway a few feet away. What they couldve done was: continue driving, maybe ask me when weve pulled in and my stuff was put down give me a chance to put my stuff down and then Ill do it. Or pull up near enough to the trash can for me to reach it, and I dont have to get up from my seat until we get to the designated parking spot, where Ill get out, and take it the rest of the way. Those two were way more acceptable to me than what they actually did. So I would get right in front of the car with the trash can and they were confined to whatever speed I deemed acceptable. Mostly tho, Id stop talking, do whatever I needed to do, and tune them out completely. If I need to be outside, I go, regardless of weather or not theyve finished. If its authority, Id listen with a blank-ass stare and periodically go mhm or okay or whatever response the convention calls for.
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Eugenija
I hide my emotions a lot.
My mom is a psychologist and she told me that since people can't read my expressions, they start to avoid me or distrust me becaus they don't know what Im up to.
I often use my cold stare when Im pissed at someone.
Few months ago I was pissed at my
, friend'' cuz she betrayed me.
The next day as I met her in school she tried to talk to me like nothing happened but I was so pissed I calmly said that I wanted to do nothing with her. And this went on for months. She tried to apologize and be friends again but I said no.
Eventually I felt bad for her cuz she was a chubby girl and no one liked her so I forgave her and we're friends again but I still look at her like a person ive never met. We never talk to meet up, she's just a person to when U need to work in a group and u just pick the person no one wanted
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I hide my emotions a lot.
My mom is a psychologist and she told me that since people can't read my expressions, they start to avoid me or distrust me becaus they don't know what Im up to.
I often use my cold stare when Im pissed at someone.
Few months ago I was pissed at my
, friend'' cuz she betrayed me.
The next day as I met her in school she tried to talk to me like nothing happened but I was so pissed I calmly said that I wanted to do nothing with her. And this went on for months. She tried to apologize and be friends again but I said no.
Eventually I felt bad for her cuz she was a chubby girl and no one liked her so I forgave her and we're friends again but I still look at her like a person ive never met. We never talk to meet up, she's just a person to when U need to work in a group and u just pick the person no one wanted
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cherrikku
This is heavily conflating introversion with passive aggression, which is not at all accurate. Passive aggression, assertiveness, and aggression relates to how someone handles conflict. That's not what extroversion and introversion are.
There are plenty of extroverted passive aggressive people out there, and plenty of introverted folks (those who recoup their energy via being alone, and who are drained by social interaction - regardless of how extroverted and social they might seem to the outside observer) who are capable of assertive and even aggressive behavior when conflict happens.
I really think videos like this are going a long way to spread misinformation about what introversion even is, especially when looking at the comments.
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This is heavily conflating introversion with passive aggression, which is not at all accurate. Passive aggression, assertiveness, and aggression relates to how someone handles conflict. That's not what extroversion and introversion are.
There are plenty of extroverted passive aggressive people out there, and plenty of introverted folks (those who recoup their energy via being alone, and who are drained by social interaction - regardless of how extroverted and social they might seem to the outside observer) who are capable of assertive and even aggressive behavior when conflict happens.
I really think videos like this are going a long way to spread misinformation about what introversion even is, especially when looking at the comments.
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Krister
Hahaha. As an introvert working in a small cornerpub-restaurant i can surely relate to some of the topics. Some people are so annoying, talking loud and allways too much. If an introvert says he feels shitty and turns his back on you. Dont bother him or her anymore, Because you dont care anyway. After all youre still goin to act like an idiot and belives you are gods shiny star on mother earth, you drunk shithead Ahhhh that felt good! Soo many of them. Think im in the wrong bransch. Alots of interaction, alcohol, loudspeakers, some thinks we are good friends. Any of you can easily understand my dilemma. And yes. The guests dogs are allways wellcome, and they allways got sevice and water before their humans.
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Hahaha. As an introvert working in a small cornerpub-restaurant i can surely relate to some of the topics. Some people are so annoying, talking loud and allways too much. If an introvert says he feels shitty and turns his back on you. Dont bother him or her anymore, Because you dont care anyway. After all youre still goin to act like an idiot and belives you are gods shiny star on mother earth, you drunk shithead Ahhhh that felt good! Soo many of them. Think im in the wrong bransch. Alots of interaction, alcohol, loudspeakers, some thinks we are good friends. Any of you can easily understand my dilemma. And yes. The guests dogs are allways wellcome, and they allways got sevice and water before their humans.
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Giannico
I want to be social with people, go out with my friends and all BUT as an introvert:
- Being with lot of people drains my energy
- I hope to have fun going out with them but i easily get bored if the topics arent particularly interesting or if we aint actually doing something
- Id need more amount of time with myself than with others but it happens to be the opposite cause society
The point is that when i have energies and Im getting bored in a social event Ill start socialising a lot also with people I dont know while other extroverted friends prefer to stay in our group instead of knowing new people; thats why cause doing that is challenging and interesting.
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I want to be social with people, go out with my friends and all BUT as an introvert:
- Being with lot of people drains my energy
- I hope to have fun going out with them but i easily get bored if the topics arent particularly interesting or if we aint actually doing something
- Id need more amount of time with myself than with others but it happens to be the opposite cause society
The point is that when i have energies and Im getting bored in a social event Ill start socialising a lot also with people I dont know while other extroverted friends prefer to stay in our group instead of knowing new people; thats why cause doing that is challenging and interesting.
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skvarty
1. The introvert responds in one word / 0: 51.
2. The introvert does not answer your calls / 1: 28.
3. The introvert pretends everything is okay / 1: 55.
4. The introvert blows up over small things / 2: 24.
5. The introvert refuses help / 2: 55.
6. Apathy / 3: 33.
7. The introvert retreats into his work / 4: 12.
8. The introvert wants to communicate only by text or email / 4: 45.
9. The introvert seems to treat your pets better than you / 5: 25.
10. The introvert wants to be alone / 5: 57.
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1. The introvert responds in one word / 0: 51.
2. The introvert does not answer your calls / 1: 28.
3. The introvert pretends everything is okay / 1: 55.
4. The introvert blows up over small things / 2: 24.
5. The introvert refuses help / 2: 55.
6. Apathy / 3: 33.
7. The introvert retreats into his work / 4: 12.
8. The introvert wants to communicate only by text or email / 4: 45.
9. The introvert seems to treat your pets better than you / 5: 25.
10. The introvert wants to be alone / 5: 57.
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Braeden
as an introvert I'd like to mention that most of these don't really apply(I'm too polite to ignore people unless I'm really angry and am not sure I could talk to them much without having an outburst. The ones that do apply apply all the time, unless I'm good friends I'd rather use text to communicate, and I do have a problem where I don't know how to communicate that I don't feel like interacting with anyone so I just either use one word answers to avoid in-person conversation or if it's online I just don't answer.
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as an introvert I'd like to mention that most of these don't really apply(I'm too polite to ignore people unless I'm really angry and am not sure I could talk to them much without having an outburst. The ones that do apply apply all the time, unless I'm good friends I'd rather use text to communicate, and I do have a problem where I don't know how to communicate that I don't feel like interacting with anyone so I just either use one word answers to avoid in-person conversation or if it's online I just don't answer.
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Haydenhoopla
1. They reply with one word answers
2. They don't answer your calls (silent treatment)
3. They pretend everything is fine (passive)
4. They blow up out of nowhere
5. They refuse help
6. Apathy
7. They retreat
8. They only communicate with text and emails (not in person)
9. They treat your pets better than you and give them more attention
10. ISOLATION (If you walk over while that person is in a group and they immediately leave or change their demeanor)
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1. They reply with one word answers
2. They don't answer your calls (silent treatment)
3. They pretend everything is fine (passive)
4. They blow up out of nowhere
5. They refuse help
6. Apathy
7. They retreat
8. They only communicate with text and emails (not in person)
9. They treat your pets better than you and give them more attention
10. ISOLATION (If you walk over while that person is in a group and they immediately leave or change their demeanor)
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Anoushka
0: 52 The introvert responds with one word.
1: 28 The introvert doesn't answer your calls.
1: 56 The introvert pretends everything's okay.
2: 25 The introvert blows up over small things.
2: 56 The introvert refuses help.
3: 35 Apathy
4: 13 The introvert retreats into their work.
4: 47 The introvert only wanna communicate by text/email.
5: 27 The introvert seems to treat your pets better than you.
5: 57 The introvert wanna be alone.
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0: 52 The introvert responds with one word.
1: 28 The introvert doesn't answer your calls.
1: 56 The introvert pretends everything's okay.
2: 25 The introvert blows up over small things.
2: 56 The introvert refuses help.
3: 35 Apathy
4: 13 The introvert retreats into their work.
4: 47 The introvert only wanna communicate by text/email.
5: 27 The introvert seems to treat your pets better than you.
5: 57 The introvert wanna be alone.
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education
Honestly, do introverts really consider themselves not enough to make happy their partners and they can break the relation because of that? I don't know what to tell to my bestie (her boyfriend recently left her. I know a lot of people say that stuff to avoid damage, but the introvert guy seemed to be honest. I am an ambivert married with another ambivert, so we agree on everything and I don't deal with this type of problems.
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Honestly, do introverts really consider themselves not enough to make happy their partners and they can break the relation because of that? I don't know what to tell to my bestie (her boyfriend recently left her. I know a lot of people say that stuff to avoid damage, but the introvert guy seemed to be honest. I am an ambivert married with another ambivert, so we agree on everything and I don't deal with this type of problems.
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VENOM
I am an introvert and the things I definetly hate:
Phone calls ( which I obviously avoid )
Sudden door surprises
People who speak loud
Over dramatic people
Parties
Little conversations
And so on.
Did you guys ever got frighten to open your door? thinking that someone unknown is knocking and your parents aren't home and you're so uncomfortable to talk
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I am an introvert and the things I definetly hate:
Phone calls ( which I obviously avoid )
Sudden door surprises
People who speak loud
Over dramatic people
Parties
Little conversations
And so on.
Did you guys ever got frighten to open your door? thinking that someone unknown is knocking and your parents aren't home and you're so uncomfortable to talk
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cutei
So does anyone know how to exit a conversation without actually having to say much? I don't want to be that asshole who leaves a person hanging but I'm so drained and exhausted that I want an exit as fast as possible but I don't want to be mean and leave the person wondering why I just left but I also can't form words it's been a vicious cycle for me how do I get out of this?
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So does anyone know how to exit a conversation without actually having to say much? I don't want to be that asshole who leaves a person hanging but I'm so drained and exhausted that I want an exit as fast as possible but I don't want to be mean and leave the person wondering why I just left but I also can't form words it's been a vicious cycle for me how do I get out of this?
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Lixon
I felt soo attacked by the first few, lots of memories coming into my mind. There's a very few people who could step over that line, and another thing of an introvert, they never forget. I remember for every occasion i was ticked. Also there's a few people i don't like. Most are either neutral, or good, but those that are in the bad area, they are there very fast.
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I felt soo attacked by the first few, lots of memories coming into my mind. There's a very few people who could step over that line, and another thing of an introvert, they never forget. I remember for every occasion i was ticked. Also there's a few people i don't like. Most are either neutral, or good, but those that are in the bad area, they are there very fast.
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Cobalt
As an introvert, if someone pisses me off, i usually just get over what happened in an hour or less just because i find arguing is a waste of time and energy. Unless what they did was severe enough to get to me to the point where i need more time to let it go. I usually try not to let things get to me so i try to brush it off.
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As an introvert, if someone pisses me off, i usually just get over what happened in an hour or less just because i find arguing is a waste of time and energy. Unless what they did was severe enough to get to me to the point where i need more time to let it go. I usually try not to let things get to me so i try to brush it off.
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Euan
I'm an introvert and another way is that when they see you they will seem a little mad for about 1/2 of a second before switching back. e. g. They are in a group of friends talking and are happy but when you come in they will seem mad or annoyed for about 1/2 a second before going back to what they were before.
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I'm an introvert and another way is that when they see you they will seem a little mad for about 1/2 of a second before switching back. e. g. They are in a group of friends talking and are happy but when you come in they will seem mad or annoyed for about 1/2 a second before going back to what they were before.
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Nieznany
Introvert code:
1. Dont look in peoples eyes
2. Dont answer any calls
3. If you see your friend while you are walking, cross the road or escape
4. If somebody want to meet you, never agree
5. Dont spend more than one hour with any people
Any more ideas?
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Introvert code:
1. Dont look in peoples eyes
2. Dont answer any calls
3. If you see your friend while you are walking, cross the road or escape
4. If somebody want to meet you, never agree
5. Dont spend more than one hour with any people
Any more ideas?
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Markela
I find that its necessary to be more assertive with others so that I can retreat back to my own World quickly. Honesty is better than passive-aggressiveness or just pure aggression. Confrontation doesn't bother me when it comes to establishing better boundaries
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I find that its necessary to be more assertive with others so that I can retreat back to my own World quickly. Honesty is better than passive-aggressiveness or just pure aggression. Confrontation doesn't bother me when it comes to establishing better boundaries
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Bu88leCat23
Omg I feel so called out. It's 1: 40 am and I'm trying not to die out loud and wake everyone
One bug expose I have is punctuation. I use periods when I'm depressed or pissed off. I'll also stop using emojies
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Omg I feel so called out. It's 1: 40 am and I'm trying not to die out loud and wake everyone
One bug expose I have is punctuation. I use periods when I'm depressed or pissed off. I'll also stop using emojies
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Timothy
Lol this is so true, i have to stop myself from putting up walls when me and my partner have arguments because even though i know my partner isn't trying to hurt me, my brain gets overly sensitive about stuff.
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Lol this is so true, i have to stop myself from putting up walls when me and my partner have arguments because even though i know my partner isn't trying to hurt me, my brain gets overly sensitive about stuff.
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Zendur
i definitely do these but most often its not cuz im angry at someone, it might be cuz im just low on energy and dont wanna deal with anything or anyone, most times its nothing personal towards them.
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i definitely do these but most often its not cuz im angry at someone, it might be cuz im just low on energy and dont wanna deal with anything or anyone, most times its nothing personal towards them.
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zombieowen
Some of these seem absolutely true and some seem way off base. This paints introverts as confident, even arrogant, but my understanding is that most of this behaviour comes from fear.
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Some of these seem absolutely true and some seem way off base. This paints introverts as confident, even arrogant, but my understanding is that most of this behaviour comes from fear.
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Dunia
I dont even like texting n always silence my phone because i dont want to be disturbed whenever i dont want to
But whenever i feel like to talk i will call a person to bother them
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I dont even like texting n always silence my phone because i dont want to be disturbed whenever i dont want to
But whenever i feel like to talk i will call a person to bother them
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Harmony
I show a LOT of these signs to my lil sister but were both introverted so idk if she knows these things or not and what they mean if she notices Im showing these signs towards her
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I show a LOT of these signs to my lil sister but were both introverted so idk if she knows these things or not and what they mean if she notices Im showing these signs towards her
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Cleridwen
I feel like this video is spreading a lot of misinformation, by confluding from potential signs that don't even apply to all introverts, that you've definitely ticked them off
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I feel like this video is spreading a lot of misinformation, by confluding from potential signs that don't even apply to all introverts, that you've definitely ticked them off
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Patrick
This is true. I don't want to scream at someone how much I hate them. Instead, I'll be mostly silent as my blood boils inside of me. They don't have any idea of this.
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This is true. I don't want to scream at someone how much I hate them. Instead, I'll be mostly silent as my blood boils inside of me. They don't have any idea of this.
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