7 Ways Alcoholic Parents Affect their Children
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First off, I had to understand that it was not okay, it was not fair to me, and I did not deserve what happened. Period. We were children. There's no justification, no buts and no what ifs because we were children, it was not our job to fix it and we were never the problem in an alcoholic environment, even if our parents said we were. Also, It's important to set boundaries with alcoholics. DO NOT LET THEM TREAT YOU BADLY BECAUSE THEY ARE FAMILY. DO NOT TAKE HITS FOR SOMETHING THAT IS NOT YOUR FAULT. Set boundaries. If you are an adult, you can keep the peace and love them from a distance. They are the reason you feel the need to distance yourself, its their fault. If they try to manipulate you stand strong on boundaries, express your emotions and make it clear you feel it's best if the relationship stays distant until something changes for the better.
Secondly, I had to try to understand my dad without it coming from a place of anger(for my sake, for my own healing, not his. Psychology says anger is a secondary emotion to sadness, and this is relevant in an alcoholic household. Many people feel deep sadness towards themselves and take it out on others because they are hurt in a way that they don't know how to cope with in a healthy manner. In my dad's case, I knew that he was deeply sad even though I only saw anger. This helped me cope for many reasons.
Thirdly, I learned that alcoholism physically impacts the brain after years of abusing it. People become emotionally negligent. In my dad's case he had been an alcoholic for 50 years. It wasn't that he didn't care enough to do better, it was just that he wasn't able to. He suppressed his emotions with alcohol for so long that he genuinely did not know how to process them and understand how to fix it and his brain is not the same as the average person. (this is an extreme case and you can't apply it to everyone.
Fourth, YOU CANNOT HELP SOMEONE THAT DOES NOT WANT TO HELP THEMSELVES. It is not your job to convince them to go to rehab, it is not your job to convince them to prioritize you over addiction, and it is NOT your job to convince your parent to care the same way that you do. They will get help if they decide they need help, if they don't decide they need help then again, boundaries. Don't subject yourself to abuse. The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over expecting a different result. Sometimes it is beyond our control. That's when you learn to heal yourself instead of trying to heal them. I'm 19 and I moved out of the house a year ago because of the alcohol/abuse. After I moved out my dad's health declined drastically because of his alcoholism. He is on his death bed still asking for alcohol. Sometimes they never want help. That's hard to come to terms with but it is possible, and sometimes easier to know what the future holds (again, that's just me. A lot of addicts do sober up fr. If I could go back in time I still would have moved out, I needed to heal.
Lastly, WE WILL BE OKAY. Humans are blessed with the ability to heal beyond measure. We may be struggling now, but we will heal, we will grow, we will be so strong as a result of this, and we are not as alone as we feel sometimes. Anything can heal, and we will end up just fine in the long run. We were born into a toxic cycle, but we can break it. We can show compassion and empathy where our parents lacked it. We can grow up and create a home filled with so much love that our children will have no idea what it's like to be around violence and chaos. We can raise children in the environment we deserved, and we can heal our inner child along the way. If you made it to the end of this I hope it helped you. Again, I'm just a 19 year old speaking from experience, not a therapist. I hope y'all heal. Peace, love, and light
Date: 2023-08-20
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Human.
I have alcoholic parents - my dad being the worse of the two, who recently has been becoming increasingly drunk throughout the day, mostly on the weekends (because he works at FedEx and he obviously, would not be able to be drunk on the weekdays because he has to drive. Although he does drink after work sometimes, it's mostly inconsistent. I don't have it that bad because usually, i'm just watching from the sidelines of situations, and i'm self-aware enough to make sense of all of it, and be mature about it.
My dad uses it as a coping mechanism for stress, which - not unexpectedly, makes it worse, and recently he's had to get a heart monitor due to the toll this stress was taking on his heart. From work, to my mom constantly putting pressure to start taking care of his parents who due to their ages, are starting to devolve into a state where they cannot care for themselves.
I can see why he's in his situation, but I don't feel too much sympathy - as he doesn't handle any of his problems responsibly, and acts emotionally more than from reason. He doesn't ever make any important moves to try to fix his life and situation. He hasn't gotten therapy. He has a bad knee that he refuses to go to the hospital for. And he lets himself rot away in the name of caring for the family.
I find it increasingly unfair that it comes on me to take the mental toll of watching my family tear apart, and my parents becoming a liability that I might have to care for one day. It drives me insane when he just goes on slurred rants in the living room at the top of his lungs, and starts even getting racist when watching football games. If this keeps up, i'm probably going to be the one that needs therapy
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I have alcoholic parents - my dad being the worse of the two, who recently has been becoming increasingly drunk throughout the day, mostly on the weekends (because he works at FedEx and he obviously, would not be able to be drunk on the weekdays because he has to drive. Although he does drink after work sometimes, it's mostly inconsistent. I don't have it that bad because usually, i'm just watching from the sidelines of situations, and i'm self-aware enough to make sense of all of it, and be mature about it.
My dad uses it as a coping mechanism for stress, which - not unexpectedly, makes it worse, and recently he's had to get a heart monitor due to the toll this stress was taking on his heart. From work, to my mom constantly putting pressure to start taking care of his parents who due to their ages, are starting to devolve into a state where they cannot care for themselves.
I can see why he's in his situation, but I don't feel too much sympathy - as he doesn't handle any of his problems responsibly, and acts emotionally more than from reason. He doesn't ever make any important moves to try to fix his life and situation. He hasn't gotten therapy. He has a bad knee that he refuses to go to the hospital for. And he lets himself rot away in the name of caring for the family.
I find it increasingly unfair that it comes on me to take the mental toll of watching my family tear apart, and my parents becoming a liability that I might have to care for one day. It drives me insane when he just goes on slurred rants in the living room at the top of his lungs, and starts even getting racist when watching football games. If this keeps up, i'm probably going to be the one that needs therapy
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raspberrywater
Hi, Im a preteen. Basically my mother has been an alcoholic my whole life. It has really affected my sister and I. Its honestly sad how we can relate to this. Sometimes, my mom would lash out at me for the littlest things, or for even no reason. She would even sometimes hit me or my sister. It can be really disappointing coming home and realizing that your mom is drunk. Furthermore, it can be humiliating to have your mom give your friends this impression, and it makes you feel like youre carrying a burden like its your fault. It just makes me feel really sad. Not to mention, she always uses my sister and I to get what she wants. For example, she will tell us to be really nice and act perfect around someone just so that that someone would give her something in return. I can be scared of her at times, even though I love her and I need to accept her wrongdoing. I look to my father and grandmother as moral support, and Im pleased to have people to fall back on. Though, at the same time, I feel that maybe Im not being understanding enough, and that maybe I should cut my mom some slack and help around the house more (which I probably should) Anyway, for all the people out there, I recommend reaching out to websites that allow you to speak to other kids your age who also deal with alcoholism or other issues in the family.
Love you all, and stay strong. We are in this together and are not alone.
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Hi, Im a preteen. Basically my mother has been an alcoholic my whole life. It has really affected my sister and I. Its honestly sad how we can relate to this. Sometimes, my mom would lash out at me for the littlest things, or for even no reason. She would even sometimes hit me or my sister. It can be really disappointing coming home and realizing that your mom is drunk. Furthermore, it can be humiliating to have your mom give your friends this impression, and it makes you feel like youre carrying a burden like its your fault. It just makes me feel really sad. Not to mention, she always uses my sister and I to get what she wants. For example, she will tell us to be really nice and act perfect around someone just so that that someone would give her something in return. I can be scared of her at times, even though I love her and I need to accept her wrongdoing. I look to my father and grandmother as moral support, and Im pleased to have people to fall back on. Though, at the same time, I feel that maybe Im not being understanding enough, and that maybe I should cut my mom some slack and help around the house more (which I probably should) Anyway, for all the people out there, I recommend reaching out to websites that allow you to speak to other kids your age who also deal with alcoholism or other issues in the family.
Love you all, and stay strong. We are in this together and are not alone.
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Kdrama
Here comes my story
I was just 3years old at tht time my both parents were there with me we used to live in mumbai and had good life but suddenly my mom left me saying she dont want me and after that my mother family left me saying i was girl so my father started to drink he left me in aunt's house but she used to scold whole day saying i was fault later my dad sent me to grandma's house but my father took poison so my grandma called him to village now we are three people i grew up with no mothers love and my dad says he loves me but he is alcohol addicted he is drinking whole day going to neighbours house and fighting with everyone i cant even go out cozz of my dad where my frnds are going out with their parents here im sitting in home whole day and watching my dad scolding us and crying whole night but no one understands me i got worst parents i thought to sucide but there's one little hope tht i may be happy when i get older its so hard for childrens who got parents issue
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Here comes my story
I was just 3years old at tht time my both parents were there with me we used to live in mumbai and had good life but suddenly my mom left me saying she dont want me and after that my mother family left me saying i was girl so my father started to drink he left me in aunt's house but she used to scold whole day saying i was fault later my dad sent me to grandma's house but my father took poison so my grandma called him to village now we are three people i grew up with no mothers love and my dad says he loves me but he is alcohol addicted he is drinking whole day going to neighbours house and fighting with everyone i cant even go out cozz of my dad where my frnds are going out with their parents here im sitting in home whole day and watching my dad scolding us and crying whole night but no one understands me i got worst parents i thought to sucide but there's one little hope tht i may be happy when i get older its so hard for childrens who got parents issue
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Zack
I turned 13 last month but my birthday wasn't fun my little sister's dad is an alcoholic I know because I see how much he drinks my dad reminded me that if he was bothering me or hurting her, I can text him and he'll pick me up or her dad can drive me home my sister's father is yelling at her 24/7 even if she makes small mistakes that are easy to fix spill a drink get yelled at doing school work get yelled at not getting changed fast enough get yelled at makes a cooking mistake get yelled at she used to cry a lot because of it now she says she's used to it which makes me and our mom very sad and my dad frustrated because he knows if he tries he can't do much about it. This man had a bad past with my mom and my dad Threated to take me away from my dad because apparently My father is an unfit parent and today I'm doing just fine to be honest my dad did more for me than my mother ever did I just wish my little sister can have a better childhood and not have to live in fear.
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I turned 13 last month but my birthday wasn't fun my little sister's dad is an alcoholic I know because I see how much he drinks my dad reminded me that if he was bothering me or hurting her, I can text him and he'll pick me up or her dad can drive me home my sister's father is yelling at her 24/7 even if she makes small mistakes that are easy to fix spill a drink get yelled at doing school work get yelled at not getting changed fast enough get yelled at makes a cooking mistake get yelled at she used to cry a lot because of it now she says she's used to it which makes me and our mom very sad and my dad frustrated because he knows if he tries he can't do much about it. This man had a bad past with my mom and my dad Threated to take me away from my dad because apparently My father is an unfit parent and today I'm doing just fine to be honest my dad did more for me than my mother ever did I just wish my little sister can have a better childhood and not have to live in fear.
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Jezzamine
my dad is an alcoholic, he drinks every single day without fail and it has gotten earlier and earlier into the day. sometimes even starting before afternoon- he gets drunk everyday and takes all his drunken emotion out on the rest of my family. he refuses to sleep, and often argues and shouts at us while we are trying to sleep. im afraid of who he is when he is drunk. i only ever like him when hes sober, its like a burst of hope, but it doesnt last long because soon enough he picks up a lager. the worst thing though, is when hes drunk around my friends. stumbling into my room with all my friends there and completely humiliating me. in that moment, i feel overwhelmingly ashamed to be related to such an irresponsible and unstable mess of a father. he needs help just as much as i do.
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my dad is an alcoholic, he drinks every single day without fail and it has gotten earlier and earlier into the day. sometimes even starting before afternoon- he gets drunk everyday and takes all his drunken emotion out on the rest of my family. he refuses to sleep, and often argues and shouts at us while we are trying to sleep. im afraid of who he is when he is drunk. i only ever like him when hes sober, its like a burst of hope, but it doesnt last long because soon enough he picks up a lager. the worst thing though, is when hes drunk around my friends. stumbling into my room with all my friends there and completely humiliating me. in that moment, i feel overwhelmingly ashamed to be related to such an irresponsible and unstable mess of a father. he needs help just as much as i do.
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psych2go
I can relate to a lot of this, my mom is an alcoholic. It hurts to know how much she affected me. She has been like that for as long as I can remember. My borther was very helpful he was kinda like my second dad. Ig he knew how she is cause I think when he was younger he also had he being an alcoholic, he is 10 yrs older than me so he moved out when he was 17, most likely cause he didnt want to be around my mom when she is drunk. My mom gets drunk every night on the phone with her friend (the friend is also really annoying). When I would go to my grandmother who is out of town my mom gets drunk with her every night too. She would say to her that she thinks I am a waste of time, useless, waste of gas to drive me to school, and wish that she would have never have me.
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I can relate to a lot of this, my mom is an alcoholic. It hurts to know how much she affected me. She has been like that for as long as I can remember. My borther was very helpful he was kinda like my second dad. Ig he knew how she is cause I think when he was younger he also had he being an alcoholic, he is 10 yrs older than me so he moved out when he was 17, most likely cause he didnt want to be around my mom when she is drunk. My mom gets drunk every night on the phone with her friend (the friend is also really annoying). When I would go to my grandmother who is out of town my mom gets drunk with her every night too. She would say to her that she thinks I am a waste of time, useless, waste of gas to drive me to school, and wish that she would have never have me.
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Mr
The words I'll be back from my mother also means she's going to go out and drink. Be prepared to deal with her all night.
And it makes me mad and upset that the money I worked for and stuff like that would either go to rent or to my mother who keeps leeching off of me for petty reasons and guilt-trip me into lending her some. That's why I planned to move out and I'm taking one of my brothers with me so I won't feel abandoned. Hell, I just turned 23 but I've been dealing with my mother who would go out and basically, manipulated me since I was 14. So. Each time I see an alcoholic beverage involved when stuff is going well, I always think about how bad it's going to be when it's all set and done.
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The words I'll be back from my mother also means she's going to go out and drink. Be prepared to deal with her all night.
And it makes me mad and upset that the money I worked for and stuff like that would either go to rent or to my mother who keeps leeching off of me for petty reasons and guilt-trip me into lending her some. That's why I planned to move out and I'm taking one of my brothers with me so I won't feel abandoned. Hell, I just turned 23 but I've been dealing with my mother who would go out and basically, manipulated me since I was 14. So. Each time I see an alcoholic beverage involved when stuff is going well, I always think about how bad it's going to be when it's all set and done.
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mb
My mom used to be an angry drunk. I have little to no memory of my childhood. Sadly I can only remember the bad right now. I remember my mom being drunk and she would disappear for a week or few days. We lived with my grandma on a reservation so it was terribly lonely. We'd move alot back and forth to the cities or rez. So much chaos but it felt like it all happened so fast. Is it possible to feel like you got whiplash from life? I still feel like a 4 year old as I'm 25 now. Life is terrifying but I am trying to find help for my mental health because this
trauma ends with me. This pain is disgusting and so tiresome. I don't wish childhood trauma on my worst enemy.
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My mom used to be an angry drunk. I have little to no memory of my childhood. Sadly I can only remember the bad right now. I remember my mom being drunk and she would disappear for a week or few days. We lived with my grandma on a reservation so it was terribly lonely. We'd move alot back and forth to the cities or rez. So much chaos but it felt like it all happened so fast. Is it possible to feel like you got whiplash from life? I still feel like a 4 year old as I'm 25 now. Life is terrifying but I am trying to find help for my mental health because this
trauma ends with me. This pain is disgusting and so tiresome. I don't wish childhood trauma on my worst enemy.
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education
it doesn't happen very often, but it's always my dad. he never gets mad at my brother, but it feels like he's always mad at me or mum, who shields me and my brother from it.
this time it was hard because i identify as enby, and when i'm being sassy, my parents refer to me as missy. i tried to correct him, then he went into a whole rant about he can't gender anything anymore (and kept misgendering sam smith: ( )
he is also an angry drunk, that usually turns into a sad drunk, and ik that he turns to alcohol becuz of stress, but it always makes me so sad and anxious when it happens, and i just wish it would stop
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it doesn't happen very often, but it's always my dad. he never gets mad at my brother, but it feels like he's always mad at me or mum, who shields me and my brother from it.
this time it was hard because i identify as enby, and when i'm being sassy, my parents refer to me as missy. i tried to correct him, then he went into a whole rant about he can't gender anything anymore (and kept misgendering sam smith: ( )
he is also an angry drunk, that usually turns into a sad drunk, and ik that he turns to alcohol becuz of stress, but it always makes me so sad and anxious when it happens, and i just wish it would stop
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Mushroomz
I know this video is old, but I cant relate to it enough. My mother was an alcoholic, however she wasnt abuse in the way where she physically harmed me. She would become distant, becoming almost nonfunctional after a mere hour after I got home from school. Id have to take of my younger sibling, and while she has since stopped these habits. some very, very toxic ones remain. I love her to death, but yknow some things you cant just forgive and forget. Messed me up a bit. Anyways, sorry for the rant, and thank you so much for this video, I dont see nearly enough videos touching on the impact of alcoholic parents.
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I know this video is old, but I cant relate to it enough. My mother was an alcoholic, however she wasnt abuse in the way where she physically harmed me. She would become distant, becoming almost nonfunctional after a mere hour after I got home from school. Id have to take of my younger sibling, and while she has since stopped these habits. some very, very toxic ones remain. I love her to death, but yknow some things you cant just forgive and forget. Messed me up a bit. Anyways, sorry for the rant, and thank you so much for this video, I dont see nearly enough videos touching on the impact of alcoholic parents.
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Kiyo.
My mom became a alcoholic because of her boyfriend and Im glad shes taking her meds is just that Im worried for her. And now my brother is always high and ADDICTED to it. Im always crying and sometimes (not often) i take a beer bottle and drink it because I dont understand how to deal with my brother or my breakdowns. Mom and dad isnt very present to my accomplishments like graduating to going to middle school, promotion, school concerts, etc. Im very stress because of my brother being high and my mom being a alcoholic
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My mom became a alcoholic because of her boyfriend and Im glad shes taking her meds is just that Im worried for her. And now my brother is always high and ADDICTED to it. Im always crying and sometimes (not often) i take a beer bottle and drink it because I dont understand how to deal with my brother or my breakdowns. Mom and dad isnt very present to my accomplishments like graduating to going to middle school, promotion, school concerts, etc. Im very stress because of my brother being high and my mom being a alcoholic
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kirs124
me as a child with an alcoholic mom it was very hard because when she werent affected by alcohol she was the nicest mom in the world and would do anything for her children but when you love someone it is so hard seeing them fall apart and a pattern i have noticed in my three other sibling that two of them tend to sheild all their emotions away and my other sibling is filled with emotion and cant event talk to of our mom beacuse of the pain and i feel bad for every person who has to go through this.
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me as a child with an alcoholic mom it was very hard because when she werent affected by alcohol she was the nicest mom in the world and would do anything for her children but when you love someone it is so hard seeing them fall apart and a pattern i have noticed in my three other sibling that two of them tend to sheild all their emotions away and my other sibling is filled with emotion and cant event talk to of our mom beacuse of the pain and i feel bad for every person who has to go through this.
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Naila
Sometimes, it's just hard to cope up. I'm my case it's my dad. It's really worse when you are financially dependant on him and jist want to him to see stop drinking atkeast for his own health''s sake. and all you can see is him wasting money and getting himself drunk and destroying his health.
I've tried speaking with him, hoping just hoping that he would stop drinking but everyday it's the same scenario. It's just mentally exhausting to me
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Sometimes, it's just hard to cope up. I'm my case it's my dad. It's really worse when you are financially dependant on him and jist want to him to see stop drinking atkeast for his own health''s sake. and all you can see is him wasting money and getting himself drunk and destroying his health.
I've tried speaking with him, hoping just hoping that he would stop drinking but everyday it's the same scenario. It's just mentally exhausting to me
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jesse
my dad has a liver disease tho he stopped drinking for 3 years but he's back at it again: ( it scares me so much he might die cause of ir and i cant even stop him from drinking I've tried everything. yet he comes home drunk every night i even confronted him many times but it doesn't work at all I've been giving him a silent treatment since 2 days. it breaks my heart i don't know what to do i wish someone could help me out of this: (
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my dad has a liver disease tho he stopped drinking for 3 years but he's back at it again: ( it scares me so much he might die cause of ir and i cant even stop him from drinking I've tried everything. yet he comes home drunk every night i even confronted him many times but it doesn't work at all I've been giving him a silent treatment since 2 days. it breaks my heart i don't know what to do i wish someone could help me out of this: (
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My dad was an alcoholic who always arrived in home from his job and he started to yelling to my mom at every single night he left away from home and later he arrived drunker just God know, he hadn't been letting us sleep at night and then he got trouble with his pancreas. He tried to be a different person, at last time I even saw him, he told me that he was about to get interned in a hospital.
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My dad was an alcoholic who always arrived in home from his job and he started to yelling to my mom at every single night he left away from home and later he arrived drunker just God know, he hadn't been letting us sleep at night and then he got trouble with his pancreas. He tried to be a different person, at last time I even saw him, he told me that he was about to get interned in a hospital.
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Nino
Thank you you just made my day better I cant believe I I also have a couple parents I am a child by the way and I am eight and two months girl in my school name is Lincoln school I was a very perfect son first of all I love you my grandma and then I got to USA and then I threw up there and then since I became it in two months I stick to my dads mom
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Thank you you just made my day better I cant believe I I also have a couple parents I am a child by the way and I am eight and two months girl in my school name is Lincoln school I was a very perfect son first of all I love you my grandma and then I got to USA and then I threw up there and then since I became it in two months I stick to my dads mom
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Woody
The worst about alcoholic parents is that you know theyll never fix their problem. I was left behind for alcohol when I was 11 and now Im 24. And I can tell you that after 13 years, my parents are nowhere near fixing their alcohol addiction, although their lives fall apart because of it. No, of course theres always other reasons than alcohol.
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The worst about alcoholic parents is that you know theyll never fix their problem. I was left behind for alcohol when I was 11 and now Im 24. And I can tell you that after 13 years, my parents are nowhere near fixing their alcohol addiction, although their lives fall apart because of it. No, of course theres always other reasons than alcohol.
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education
I have grown up to an adult but I am still struggling. I am independent and not with parents anymore. I am stil facing many problems. It's not just limited to childhood. I have began to feel that this burden will not go away with my death. I am in 30s and still situation hasn't improved a bit.
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I have grown up to an adult but I am still struggling. I am independent and not with parents anymore. I am stil facing many problems. It's not just limited to childhood. I have began to feel that this burden will not go away with my death. I am in 30s and still situation hasn't improved a bit.
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Zooey
My mom used to read some of a book, sing a song, and kiss me goodnight but a couple months after I turned like nine my mom went to the liquor store across the street and ever since then my mom has been flat out drunk by 7: 00 pm and my mom and dad fight at least 3 times per month.
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My mom used to read some of a book, sing a song, and kiss me goodnight but a couple months after I turned like nine my mom went to the liquor store across the street and ever since then my mom has been flat out drunk by 7: 00 pm and my mom and dad fight at least 3 times per month.
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Endo
My father drinks alochol I have no idea why but it's possibly because the loss of my mother and my brother which is why my grandmother, my uncles etc tried to warn me that my father has turned alocholic which causes my father to pass away this year
I still miss him: (
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My father drinks alochol I have no idea why but it's possibly because the loss of my mother and my brother which is why my grandmother, my uncles etc tried to warn me that my father has turned alocholic which causes my father to pass away this year
I still miss him: (
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charlotte
To this day and i live alone. i always got to have my bedroom door locked and if I hear a sound in the night while Im sleeping Ill automatically wake up with a racing heart thinking Im back in my childhood home with that parent. I would never wish this on anyone.
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To this day and i live alone. i always got to have my bedroom door locked and if I hear a sound in the night while Im sleeping Ill automatically wake up with a racing heart thinking Im back in my childhood home with that parent. I would never wish this on anyone.
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beautyintheskies
My wife and I are both adult children of dysfunctional families. My mother was an alcoholic and her mother was a compulsive hoarder. Strange that we were/are drawn to each other. Trust and communication have both been major issues in our relationship.
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My wife and I are both adult children of dysfunctional families. My mother was an alcoholic and her mother was a compulsive hoarder. Strange that we were/are drawn to each other. Trust and communication have both been major issues in our relationship.
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Vane
I grew up with an alcoholic mother, she drank alcohol even before i was born, she drinks already more than 30th years, she gets pretty mean and aggressive when shes drunk. i still live with her till today bit soon im gonna move out and break contact with her
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I grew up with an alcoholic mother, she drank alcohol even before i was born, she drinks already more than 30th years, she gets pretty mean and aggressive when shes drunk. i still live with her till today bit soon im gonna move out and break contact with her
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Ingrid
It is insane how accurate this is. My sister and I are everything the video describes. As adults we have each others back now. We dont allow our mother to play emotion mind games putting us against each other for pleasure. Sickness.
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It is insane how accurate this is. My sister and I are everything the video describes. As adults we have each others back now. We dont allow our mother to play emotion mind games putting us against each other for pleasure. Sickness.
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