6 Surprising Things People Find Unattractive
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Ella
I used to be really pessimistic and found it easier to complain about things when involved in conversations. I was like this until I was talking to someone one day and they spoke in the exact tone I did. I found the conversation so miserable, ironic as it sounds since I spoke like that too.
After that I started to avoid being so negative all the time and really engaged in conversations. Im not overly-positive when speaking now, but I avoid constant pessimism. I realised from a listeners perspective that its very draining to listen to and made the atmosphere uncomfortable.
Thankfully Im no longer like this and I try to keep the conversation interesting for me and the person Im speaking to.
edit: I doubt someone will read this comment but I felt like I should add in that I dont mind listening to someones problems or something thats bothering them, but persistent complaining and overall negativity about everything can be quite tiring.
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I used to be really pessimistic and found it easier to complain about things when involved in conversations. I was like this until I was talking to someone one day and they spoke in the exact tone I did. I found the conversation so miserable, ironic as it sounds since I spoke like that too.
After that I started to avoid being so negative all the time and really engaged in conversations. Im not overly-positive when speaking now, but I avoid constant pessimism. I realised from a listeners perspective that its very draining to listen to and made the atmosphere uncomfortable.
Thankfully Im no longer like this and I try to keep the conversation interesting for me and the person Im speaking to.
edit: I doubt someone will read this comment but I felt like I should add in that I dont mind listening to someones problems or something thats bothering them, but persistent complaining and overall negativity about everything can be quite tiring.
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Madelyn
Honestly most of these things I dont find rlly find unattractive other than constantly smelling bad, and narcississism. Like for most of them idrc, I honestly didnt people they least attractive when they are genuinely bad people, or are like just assholes in general.
Also I might be biased because all of these apply to me except smelling bad and having narcissistic personality disorder. but honestly I feel like a lot of people cant even control these things or are trying to change them. Like extreme social anxiety and major depression have been a pretty detrimental problem for me in the last year, I cant rlly help if I isolate myself from people because Im terrified of talking to them, even tho I want to. Idk. Its just rlly annoying
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Honestly most of these things I dont find rlly find unattractive other than constantly smelling bad, and narcississism. Like for most of them idrc, I honestly didnt people they least attractive when they are genuinely bad people, or are like just assholes in general.
Also I might be biased because all of these apply to me except smelling bad and having narcissistic personality disorder. but honestly I feel like a lot of people cant even control these things or are trying to change them. Like extreme social anxiety and major depression have been a pretty detrimental problem for me in the last year, I cant rlly help if I isolate myself from people because Im terrified of talking to them, even tho I want to. Idk. Its just rlly annoying
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Prime
I think sleeplessness continually will make you less attractive yes. However, sometimes therere times when youll have extra work which leads to reduced sleep time. We generally avoid interaction with individuals who are tired subconsciously, and its simply because we want those people to rest. In general I have respect with people who seems genuinely tired due to heavy workload and Ive seen people out of respect will prefer not to interact with tired people. Sometimes attractiveness preference may come from our preference of interaction but it doesnt translate well into meaning being tired makes you not attractive. Thats how I see it.
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I think sleeplessness continually will make you less attractive yes. However, sometimes therere times when youll have extra work which leads to reduced sleep time. We generally avoid interaction with individuals who are tired subconsciously, and its simply because we want those people to rest. In general I have respect with people who seems genuinely tired due to heavy workload and Ive seen people out of respect will prefer not to interact with tired people. Sometimes attractiveness preference may come from our preference of interaction but it doesnt translate well into meaning being tired makes you not attractive. Thats how I see it.
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Incept
I personally find people unattractive if they are:
+ Bad communicators. // Dry texters. Always have an excuse for not being there.
+ Cry babies or pick me. Constant need for attention from others.
+ Clingy af/ insecure/ whiney for no reason
+ Blames everyone else but themselves for their issues.
+ Doesn't listen.
+ Competes with you.
+ Feels like they are constantly lecturing, correcting or teaching you something.
Etc there would prolly be more, but this stuff just instantly makes me wanna ew.
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I personally find people unattractive if they are:
+ Bad communicators. // Dry texters. Always have an excuse for not being there.
+ Cry babies or pick me. Constant need for attention from others.
+ Clingy af/ insecure/ whiney for no reason
+ Blames everyone else but themselves for their issues.
+ Doesn't listen.
+ Competes with you.
+ Feels like they are constantly lecturing, correcting or teaching you something.
Etc there would prolly be more, but this stuff just instantly makes me wanna ew.
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Anna
Autistic perspective:
Attractive things: kindness, inclusivity, self-awareness, respect of disability boundaries, respect of physical boundaries, talking in short definite concise sentences.
Unattractive things: hate, violence, loud yelling, making loud noise, unwanted eye contact, unwanted physical contact, intense body smell, lack of self-awareness, talking in metaphors and long uncertain terms.
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Autistic perspective:
Attractive things: kindness, inclusivity, self-awareness, respect of disability boundaries, respect of physical boundaries, talking in short definite concise sentences.
Unattractive things: hate, violence, loud yelling, making loud noise, unwanted eye contact, unwanted physical contact, intense body smell, lack of self-awareness, talking in metaphors and long uncertain terms.
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Yooks
Constant negativity and self deprecation is really unattractive to me. It's so draining to have to play caretaker all of the time just for them to brush you off and fall back into woe is me talk.
Like everyone has bad days, and that's okay, but when every single conversation revolves around someone else's negativity all it does is make me want to be literally anywhere else.
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Constant negativity and self deprecation is really unattractive to me. It's so draining to have to play caretaker all of the time just for them to brush you off and fall back into woe is me talk.
Like everyone has bad days, and that's okay, but when every single conversation revolves around someone else's negativity all it does is make me want to be literally anywhere else.
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beeseggsy
1. not having a good sense of humour 0: 43
2. closed body language 1: 19
3. negativity 1: 42
4. sleep deprivation (not healthy and make your eyes look bad) 2: 06
5. narcissism 2: 31
6. strange body smells 2: 50
Remember not to take these too personally guys!
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1. not having a good sense of humour 0: 43
2. closed body language 1: 19
3. negativity 1: 42
4. sleep deprivation (not healthy and make your eyes look bad) 2: 06
5. narcissism 2: 31
6. strange body smells 2: 50
Remember not to take these too personally guys!
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Elizabeth
A big turnoff for me is lying, even if it's small things or to conceal secrets you don't want anyone knowing. There are ways to keep a secret without lying about it, be strait to the point and say I don't want to talk about it and I will respect you.
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A big turnoff for me is lying, even if it's small things or to conceal secrets you don't want anyone knowing. There are ways to keep a secret without lying about it, be strait to the point and say I don't want to talk about it and I will respect you.
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TSOF_TRINIUM
if people cant see past your flaws there one of 2 people hoes, or people who cant handle a actual relationship and set the bar too high cause there think their better than everyone but in reality their friends see them as the annoying one
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if people cant see past your flaws there one of 2 people hoes, or people who cant handle a actual relationship and set the bar too high cause there think their better than everyone but in reality their friends see them as the annoying one
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Kidd
I dont know about the dark circles one, there was a tik tok about how they can actually find slight dark circles really attractive and that mf went VIRALLL. So dont lose hope my fellow insomniacs!
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I dont know about the dark circles one, there was a tik tok about how they can actually find slight dark circles really attractive and that mf went VIRALLL. So dont lose hope my fellow insomniacs!
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MARS
I didnt even know I had closed body language till now
and Im not changing it because Im not emotionally available nor in the mood to make new relationship
Actually why am I here-
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I didnt even know I had closed body language till now
and Im not changing it because Im not emotionally available nor in the mood to make new relationship
Actually why am I here-
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Name
I crossed my arm when I'm mad or Uncomfortable and i willl not stop that lmao
I agree in 2: 31 he alway talk abt himself and i feel like I'm not even here or I'm here to hear him
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I crossed my arm when I'm mad or Uncomfortable and i willl not stop that lmao
I agree in 2: 31 he alway talk abt himself and i feel like I'm not even here or I'm here to hear him
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lavender
heres the list if you are impatient:
1. lack of humor
2. closed body language
3. negativity
4. sleep deprivation
5. narcissism
6. strange body smells
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heres the list if you are impatient:
1. lack of humor
2. closed body language
3. negativity
4. sleep deprivation
5. narcissism
6. strange body smells
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NosferasOW
Me who is 6ft tall,
Decent looking,
Normally positive,
Often joking,
has very good hygiene,
Is caring and nice to everyone
And is still single: C
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Me who is 6ft tall,
Decent looking,
Normally positive,
Often joking,
has very good hygiene,
Is caring and nice to everyone
And is still single: C
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Cherryl3ee
Pych2go: And these are the thing that makes you unattractive blahblah
Me: well, Im just going to sayNo wonder why in still single. Who said life was easy? :/
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Pych2go: And these are the thing that makes you unattractive blahblah
Me: well, Im just going to sayNo wonder why in still single. Who said life was easy? :/
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Crimson
People with sleep deprivation makes them less attractive
Me who simps for L Lawliet: PSHH THIS GUY? THIS WEIRD DETECTIVE? YEAH HES NOT ATTRACTIVE O-O
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People with sleep deprivation makes them less attractive
Me who simps for L Lawliet: PSHH THIS GUY? THIS WEIRD DETECTIVE? YEAH HES NOT ATTRACTIVE O-O
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psych2go
I'm not good on showing my personality with other people that I don't know but if u knew me I can probably make u laugh even if your upset
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I'm not good on showing my personality with other people that I don't know but if u knew me I can probably make u laugh even if your upset
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Nikki
I'm just browsing through the comments and I can't help but think that yeap, everyone on the internet is sleep deprived. Including myself.
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I'm just browsing through the comments and I can't help but think that yeap, everyone on the internet is sleep deprived. Including myself.
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DrestonJClaw
Attraction is subjective. While some of these are generally true, they should still be taken with a grain of salt.
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Attraction is subjective. While some of these are generally true, they should still be taken with a grain of salt.
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Heather
Well too bad I will stay up late and study until I get my certificate. It not my problem if no one likes how I look.
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Well too bad I will stay up late and study until I get my certificate. It not my problem if no one likes how I look.
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Aina
lol i'm seeing this video at 4 am. and you are telling me i wont look atractive because of my sleep depravation. ok (-)
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lol i'm seeing this video at 4 am. and you are telling me i wont look atractive because of my sleep depravation. ok (-)
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Tiki
Sleep deprivation makes you seem less attractive
Me and my man staying up until 4 am every night for months on end
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Sleep deprivation makes you seem less attractive
Me and my man staying up until 4 am every night for months on end
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education
negativity is a huge one oh my gosh when they complain about and criticize everything it's so annoying and tiring
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negativity is a huge one oh my gosh when they complain about and criticize everything it's so annoying and tiring
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tycholorenzo
Man I aint even trying to be negative I can just sit and vibe and people will constantly ask me if Im okay
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Man I aint even trying to be negative I can just sit and vibe and people will constantly ask me if Im okay
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sunsetsilliest
Am I the only one who finds being an asshole unattractive? The MHA community doesnt have to answer btw
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Am I the only one who finds being an asshole unattractive? The MHA community doesnt have to answer btw
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