8 Behaviors That Ruin Relationships
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Date: 2023-08-20
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greylizard
I had a relationship that started out really really well. After a couple of months, he started to criticize the way I did things. I criticized him back for not helping me do much. He disappeared and slept all day and would only be awake at night. I had to take care of 90% of responsibilities and felt like a bad person when I asked him for help, because of how he reacted when I did. When I tried to snuggle in bed with him, he said I hogged the bed. I would sleep on the couch so I didn't disturb his rest. After a few years of this, I did become really passive aggressive. We were miserable and I was insanely lonely all the time. All day I would look at the bedroom door like a dog, hoping he would get up. I finally broke up with him. He was diagnosed with autism and ADHD. We're good friends, I care about him very much, but I'll never forget the years of loneliness and depression, and what drove me to be passive aggressive and critical of him. Autism is a hard thing to deal with for the person who has it, but it has a huge impact on the lives of people closest to them, until we learn that we don't have the right to expect anything of them.
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I had a relationship that started out really really well. After a couple of months, he started to criticize the way I did things. I criticized him back for not helping me do much. He disappeared and slept all day and would only be awake at night. I had to take care of 90% of responsibilities and felt like a bad person when I asked him for help, because of how he reacted when I did. When I tried to snuggle in bed with him, he said I hogged the bed. I would sleep on the couch so I didn't disturb his rest. After a few years of this, I did become really passive aggressive. We were miserable and I was insanely lonely all the time. All day I would look at the bedroom door like a dog, hoping he would get up. I finally broke up with him. He was diagnosed with autism and ADHD. We're good friends, I care about him very much, but I'll never forget the years of loneliness and depression, and what drove me to be passive aggressive and critical of him. Autism is a hard thing to deal with for the person who has it, but it has a huge impact on the lives of people closest to them, until we learn that we don't have the right to expect anything of them.
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education
Can some gave me an advice well I've been relationship with for 3 years now and I'm not really a jealous type person but one time I open his acc and saw he is chatting with someone I know it's wrong but I read their conversations and they look cheerful and happy I told myself okay maybe they are just friends so I just let it go and after months I open his account they are still chatting again and now it has a nickname it also pain me when they always chat until 1 am while me he will chat me to tell that he is goingt o sleep but when I open his acc I saw that they are still chatting together it also pain me since I always wait for him but I just keep letting go and understand him until I burst out and tell him that I'm jealous but he told me it was nothing they are just friends and he pitty her because he doesn't have friends after telling him that he told me for me to stop overthinking he will stop chatting her part of me felt guilty because I feel I upset him and I regret telling him because I feel like it will making him uncomfortable and now we're in silent mode I don't know what to do
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Can some gave me an advice well I've been relationship with for 3 years now and I'm not really a jealous type person but one time I open his acc and saw he is chatting with someone I know it's wrong but I read their conversations and they look cheerful and happy I told myself okay maybe they are just friends so I just let it go and after months I open his account they are still chatting again and now it has a nickname it also pain me when they always chat until 1 am while me he will chat me to tell that he is goingt o sleep but when I open his acc I saw that they are still chatting together it also pain me since I always wait for him but I just keep letting go and understand him until I burst out and tell him that I'm jealous but he told me it was nothing they are just friends and he pitty her because he doesn't have friends after telling him that he told me for me to stop overthinking he will stop chatting her part of me felt guilty because I feel I upset him and I regret telling him because I feel like it will making him uncomfortable and now we're in silent mode I don't know what to do
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the360guy
Number 4 is a lie about lying.
I lied to a chick I really really wanted to be with. Despite her have 2 kids already. and I dont. and it sucks that because videos say this. Makes lying bigger than it is, an in. What is being lied about. My example is i was between jobs. I left old one, and was getting into a better one. I had money in the bank. So while I was getting into the new one. I didn't work. I had money to spare to take that time. And during that I met this chick. And the meat and potatoes is this, I told her I worked still at my last job. Which I didnt. And her and I would go out and I felt meh about it honestly. This wasn't my girlfriend. Getting to know her. And I don't care to inform anyone of my status of money or stuff like that unless I'm with someone. So she finds out and you can guess how that goes. But when I tried to explain compared me to ex BF. And it's like wow. I lied because I said I didn't have a job but then assumed instead of talking to me. Hooked up with guy who lied about everything.
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Number 4 is a lie about lying.
I lied to a chick I really really wanted to be with. Despite her have 2 kids already. and I dont. and it sucks that because videos say this. Makes lying bigger than it is, an in. What is being lied about. My example is i was between jobs. I left old one, and was getting into a better one. I had money in the bank. So while I was getting into the new one. I didn't work. I had money to spare to take that time. And during that I met this chick. And the meat and potatoes is this, I told her I worked still at my last job. Which I didnt. And her and I would go out and I felt meh about it honestly. This wasn't my girlfriend. Getting to know her. And I don't care to inform anyone of my status of money or stuff like that unless I'm with someone. So she finds out and you can guess how that goes. But when I tried to explain compared me to ex BF. And it's like wow. I lied because I said I didn't have a job but then assumed instead of talking to me. Hooked up with guy who lied about everything.
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Indrid
A girlfriend used, betrayed, and painfully abandoned me after she took all, she could from me. She admitted that she was never in love with me and I was just her next pathetic introvert in line for her to use. I would have to say that behavior, and what she said, ruined the relationship. However, that is not all. She ruined all future relationships for me, both amicable and amorous. I have trusted nobody since she told me she never loved me on that calm summer's afternoon. If one has no way to tell honest and genuine people from the fake girlfriends and false friends, it is highly advisable to avoid all interpersonal, social, interactions. This is what I have done. Now, it is near impossible for me to suffer emotion at all. Most emotions are caused by humans. I have had no fiends nor girlfriend since the 8th of August 2000 at 18: 34.
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A girlfriend used, betrayed, and painfully abandoned me after she took all, she could from me. She admitted that she was never in love with me and I was just her next pathetic introvert in line for her to use. I would have to say that behavior, and what she said, ruined the relationship. However, that is not all. She ruined all future relationships for me, both amicable and amorous. I have trusted nobody since she told me she never loved me on that calm summer's afternoon. If one has no way to tell honest and genuine people from the fake girlfriends and false friends, it is highly advisable to avoid all interpersonal, social, interactions. This is what I have done. Now, it is near impossible for me to suffer emotion at all. Most emotions are caused by humans. I have had no fiends nor girlfriend since the 8th of August 2000 at 18: 34.
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jncyj
I was waiting in line at a burger place, the girl in front of me was holding hands with her boyfriend while he was ordering his food. She looked over her shoulder back at me. I looked at her for 3 seconds, then she looked back straight ahead. few seconds later she looks back at me over her shoulder and smiled at me. I looked at her hand she was still holding hands with her boyfriend as he was giving his order. I looked back at her she looked at me 3 seconds then turn back straight ahead. 1st lok no smile, 2nd look smiled. 3rd time she looked at me over her shoulder i shruged my shoulders, she did the same with a smile. They both turn around and walk away with the food. She looked at me smiled then looked down, all the time holding her boyfriend's hand? Did she like me? Why did she do that if she has a boyfriend?
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I was waiting in line at a burger place, the girl in front of me was holding hands with her boyfriend while he was ordering his food. She looked over her shoulder back at me. I looked at her for 3 seconds, then she looked back straight ahead. few seconds later she looks back at me over her shoulder and smiled at me. I looked at her hand she was still holding hands with her boyfriend as he was giving his order. I looked back at her she looked at me 3 seconds then turn back straight ahead. 1st lok no smile, 2nd look smiled. 3rd time she looked at me over her shoulder i shruged my shoulders, she did the same with a smile. They both turn around and walk away with the food. She looked at me smiled then looked down, all the time holding her boyfriend's hand? Did she like me? Why did she do that if she has a boyfriend?
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Alvaro
I am me and you are you,
Im not in this world to meet your expectations and,
You are not in this world to fulfill mine.
Youre you and Im me.
If at any time or at any point we meet,
and we agree, its beautiful.
Otherwise, we have little to do together.
Youre you and Im me.
Lack of love for myself,
when in the attempt to please you I betray myself.
Lack of love for you,
when I try to make you the way I want you to be.
Instead of accepting you for who you really are.
Youre you and Im me.
Fritz Perls
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I am me and you are you,
Im not in this world to meet your expectations and,
You are not in this world to fulfill mine.
Youre you and Im me.
If at any time or at any point we meet,
and we agree, its beautiful.
Otherwise, we have little to do together.
Youre you and Im me.
Lack of love for myself,
when in the attempt to please you I betray myself.
Lack of love for you,
when I try to make you the way I want you to be.
Instead of accepting you for who you really are.
Youre you and Im me.
Fritz Perls
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GLADYS
I just broke up with my bf today and the problem was that there were some things I didn't like him talking about and that really hurt him. I've learn that listening is a skill and even though i may not have anything to talk about. I'll just bring up funny topics and this is a great opportunity to focus on my goals and dreams. do everything I ever wanted. learn from my mistakes coz we tend to blame the other person whereas we don't take time to fix find out our own problem when we're in a relationship
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I just broke up with my bf today and the problem was that there were some things I didn't like him talking about and that really hurt him. I've learn that listening is a skill and even though i may not have anything to talk about. I'll just bring up funny topics and this is a great opportunity to focus on my goals and dreams. do everything I ever wanted. learn from my mistakes coz we tend to blame the other person whereas we don't take time to fix find out our own problem when we're in a relationship
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Mbi
I and my boyfriend decided about 2wks ago to go on a 2 months break from our relationship, things were really going sideways and all attempts to talk it through failed tremendously. on watching this vid I can relate to having about 6 of these characteristics and can point 4 which he has. I feel so down cuz I don't think its ever gonna work out between us, I really love him and miss him so much, but each time we meet or talk its like walking on eggshells else the bomb will explode
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I and my boyfriend decided about 2wks ago to go on a 2 months break from our relationship, things were really going sideways and all attempts to talk it through failed tremendously. on watching this vid I can relate to having about 6 of these characteristics and can point 4 which he has. I feel so down cuz I don't think its ever gonna work out between us, I really love him and miss him so much, but each time we meet or talk its like walking on eggshells else the bomb will explode
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Jeans
this is basic stuff. A lot of people in relationships, like myself, are victims of childhood abuse, and therefore, they can't help the way they deal with their partners; they are re-enacting their childhood home, no matter how bad it was. As much as I wanted to let my husband love me, a part in me couldn't allow it, always making me as unattractive as possible to him in order to keep him away. This kind of tragic life-management is going on everywhere.
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this is basic stuff. A lot of people in relationships, like myself, are victims of childhood abuse, and therefore, they can't help the way they deal with their partners; they are re-enacting their childhood home, no matter how bad it was. As much as I wanted to let my husband love me, a part in me couldn't allow it, always making me as unattractive as possible to him in order to keep him away. This kind of tragic life-management is going on everywhere.
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Travis
My ex didn't allow me to eat with her dinner plates. She bought me paper plates because I wasn't worth the effort doing dishes. Also I had to bring my own dinner. She didnt share what she made. Also when she came over for dinner she made me pay her to bring ingradients over.
I also couldnt keep my birthday cake. She cut me a small slice and sent me home.
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My ex didn't allow me to eat with her dinner plates. She bought me paper plates because I wasn't worth the effort doing dishes. Also I had to bring my own dinner. She didnt share what she made. Also when she came over for dinner she made me pay her to bring ingradients over.
I also couldnt keep my birthday cake. She cut me a small slice and sent me home.
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neoz
nr4 is the exact problem, she was joking and cussing me out and calling me things, i never spoke up about how i felt about that in fear of hurting her, then she said something that was wayy too much for me and i got mad at her well well there was that girl gone. :( oh wait yeah she basically just ran away not from the fight but after the fight: /
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nr4 is the exact problem, she was joking and cussing me out and calling me things, i never spoke up about how i felt about that in fear of hurting her, then she said something that was wayy too much for me and i got mad at her well well there was that girl gone. :( oh wait yeah she basically just ran away not from the fight but after the fight: /
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Mari
I might be guilty of the last point. I am a pretty reserved person and generally don't like to cuddle out in public. My partner on the other hand really enjoyed it. I felt suffocated by the amount of PDA expected from me, so I went to talk it out with him and take things slower. We broke up. I still question myself about it. Was I wrong?
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I might be guilty of the last point. I am a pretty reserved person and generally don't like to cuddle out in public. My partner on the other hand really enjoyed it. I felt suffocated by the amount of PDA expected from me, so I went to talk it out with him and take things slower. We broke up. I still question myself about it. Was I wrong?
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Ty
Yes. I'm guilty of not showing emotional lover reasons that my opinion isn't validated or matters is when my partner ignores my feelings yet does opposite of what I say or ask there fore ignores it making me feel unimportant and wat I feel say think is doesn't matter two I walk away or run away from fighting arguing
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Yes. I'm guilty of not showing emotional lover reasons that my opinion isn't validated or matters is when my partner ignores my feelings yet does opposite of what I say or ask there fore ignores it making me feel unimportant and wat I feel say think is doesn't matter two I walk away or run away from fighting arguing
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Brian
MGTOWMen Going Their Own Way is the life that Im living now. I dont care if I ever have another relationship with a woman. My last girlfriend treated me so bad that I just dont want to be in a relationship. Maybe that will change at some point in the future, but for now I am enjoying being without someone.
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MGTOWMen Going Their Own Way is the life that Im living now. I dont care if I ever have another relationship with a woman. My last girlfriend treated me so bad that I just dont want to be in a relationship. Maybe that will change at some point in the future, but for now I am enjoying being without someone.
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Belinda
I've been trying to fool myself about his feelings for me for the majority if not all of our relationship. I can't believe the mess I made. I should of been strong and wise enough to avoid what we ended up with. A very unloving situation. It's not even a relationship. It's ridiculous.
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I've been trying to fool myself about his feelings for me for the majority if not all of our relationship. I can't believe the mess I made. I should of been strong and wise enough to avoid what we ended up with. A very unloving situation. It's not even a relationship. It's ridiculous.
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Paul
Being joined at the Hip is scary. Screaming and yelling doesn't work either. Taking the relationship for granted is deadly. Bad personal hygiene includes doing things that should be done in private. Loosing intimacy by too much nudity or turning into a unhealthy stinky slob.
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Being joined at the Hip is scary. Screaming and yelling doesn't work either. Taking the relationship for granted is deadly. Bad personal hygiene includes doing things that should be done in private. Loosing intimacy by too much nudity or turning into a unhealthy stinky slob.
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Kimberly
I'm not trying to be dominate over my partner; just expected more from him as a father & a partner. My dad set some of the high standards as I was growing up. And so far. Well he does get some brownie points on our sons side. I can just snooze whenever I want! .
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I'm not trying to be dominate over my partner; just expected more from him as a father & a partner. My dad set some of the high standards as I was growing up. And so far. Well he does get some brownie points on our sons side. I can just snooze whenever I want! .
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Rhonda
I don't care how many, background checks you do single men covering up for their spouse is cruel, downright dirty, and this seems to go on and on, men don't care! They don't care how many people they trample on, furthermore, how many hearts they have broken.
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I don't care how many, background checks you do single men covering up for their spouse is cruel, downright dirty, and this seems to go on and on, men don't care! They don't care how many people they trample on, furthermore, how many hearts they have broken.
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education
All the bad things u give me n treat me can ruin so do not buy blame on me when u are the one who spoilt all. qe need to bear own responsibility
Be aware of what u done to others n don't blame people for what their response after u done something bad.
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All the bad things u give me n treat me can ruin so do not buy blame on me when u are the one who spoilt all. qe need to bear own responsibility
Be aware of what u done to others n don't blame people for what their response after u done something bad.
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Ann
Everyone of them apply to our marital relationship! Am absolutely disconnected and miserable. I recently realized I married to a Narcissist Man and I know he's not going to change because he's is still seeking his Narcissistic Mom approval and he's 64 yrs. old
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Everyone of them apply to our marital relationship! Am absolutely disconnected and miserable. I recently realized I married to a Narcissist Man and I know he's not going to change because he's is still seeking his Narcissistic Mom approval and he's 64 yrs. old
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charles
Isnt that the new normal amongst relationships now? That everybody is treated as mind readers and are expendable? Everybody has a want but nobody wants to put in the action to make it happen when it comes to relationships. Its pathetic.
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Isnt that the new normal amongst relationships now? That everybody is treated as mind readers and are expendable? Everybody has a want but nobody wants to put in the action to make it happen when it comes to relationships. Its pathetic.
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Rodrigo
No wonder why my last relationship failed. We did all these 8 things constantly. Number 7 was her favourite. If you start dating someone and you notice this (number 7) turning to a regular behaviour, do yourself a favour and run!
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No wonder why my last relationship failed. We did all these 8 things constantly. Number 7 was her favourite. If you start dating someone and you notice this (number 7) turning to a regular behaviour, do yourself a favour and run!
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Julius
Psych2Go Thank you for this video. I never realized how controlling and toxic i became with my boyfriend. We already made up, but i think i should say i was sorry to him personally.
Once again, Thank you for this realization
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Psych2Go Thank you for this video. I never realized how controlling and toxic i became with my boyfriend. We already made up, but i think i should say i was sorry to him personally.
Once again, Thank you for this realization
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brainiac
Such as just be a man, women are crazy demands just rich guys, talls, pretty even most of the women are medians they wanna top guys! Those top guys take young and beautiful girls and women became older and alone!
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Such as just be a man, women are crazy demands just rich guys, talls, pretty even most of the women are medians they wanna top guys! Those top guys take young and beautiful girls and women became older and alone!
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Dm
Thank you so much for the help sir ALI BABA SPELL CASTER through face boom you have done a wonderful job for bring my relationship back to a sweet and romantic relationship am so happy sir.
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Thank you so much for the help sir ALI BABA SPELL CASTER through face boom you have done a wonderful job for bring my relationship back to a sweet and romantic relationship am so happy sir.
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