8 Things That Make Your Soul Ache
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Date: 2023-08-20
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i have been depressed with suicidal thoughts all my life, raised traumatized and abused.
My secret is not big, but being asperger my rep is bad enough already to keep it quiet.
Raised destroyed, never believing in a tomorrow, lived stuck in the family bubble for a life which has burst. Do not understand social things or non-aspie society.
My one successful group joined went bad when a covert narcissist joined and ruined my rep. Had one pal there who the narc turned against me. Never have any friends, they think my aspergers is weird.
Always tired, mostly of life. i am nothing and a charity case for my diagnoses.
Aspies bend our brains trying to live beside you non-aspies, and never any understanding returned. My brain is wired differently but i am still human.
Never understood because you non-aspies ostrasize us, leave us living totally alone and laugh at us.
Disorganized with long-term major clinical depression, anxieties and PTSD. Can't keep my place straight.
In youth was always told what potential i had with my IQ, but what good is it when i don't know how to live.
Am not enough and alone always, although i am socially acceptable --- always the weird one.
At an ignored 61 years old 2021, i will die a lost cause. Life is cruel.
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i have been depressed with suicidal thoughts all my life, raised traumatized and abused.
My secret is not big, but being asperger my rep is bad enough already to keep it quiet.
Raised destroyed, never believing in a tomorrow, lived stuck in the family bubble for a life which has burst. Do not understand social things or non-aspie society.
My one successful group joined went bad when a covert narcissist joined and ruined my rep. Had one pal there who the narc turned against me. Never have any friends, they think my aspergers is weird.
Always tired, mostly of life. i am nothing and a charity case for my diagnoses.
Aspies bend our brains trying to live beside you non-aspies, and never any understanding returned. My brain is wired differently but i am still human.
Never understood because you non-aspies ostrasize us, leave us living totally alone and laugh at us.
Disorganized with long-term major clinical depression, anxieties and PTSD. Can't keep my place straight.
In youth was always told what potential i had with my IQ, but what good is it when i don't know how to live.
Am not enough and alone always, although i am socially acceptable --- always the weird one.
At an ignored 61 years old 2021, i will die a lost cause. Life is cruel.
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Kenji
Rejection from a person you geniually love, not a crush but someone you have been in love for more than just a few months is terrible. You literally have to cut out a chunk of your heart, a big part of your life, a total series of memorys and we have to deal with emotional trauma. we also know when this person isnt good for us in a certain way because of their flaws are, but you know its true love when not everything isnt perfect. you love them truly despite of their scars and flaws and to accept the fact that they dont want to be with us or just as a friend or something else makes us so frustrated because our effort after all wasnt enough. And even if we would have moved the mount everest for them, it was never enough. It is not always just the attraction but the sheer amount of effort, time, love and affection we showed towards these people that are causing this suffering within us in the end. We feel fooled and even when we knew that they might love another person, we still hope they recognize us as a worthy partner even if the chances are lower then low and then when your hope gets shattered into pieces you hit emotional rockbottom. but from this point the only things left is wisdom, a lesson, a scar deep in your heart and a way to move on
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Rejection from a person you geniually love, not a crush but someone you have been in love for more than just a few months is terrible. You literally have to cut out a chunk of your heart, a big part of your life, a total series of memorys and we have to deal with emotional trauma. we also know when this person isnt good for us in a certain way because of their flaws are, but you know its true love when not everything isnt perfect. you love them truly despite of their scars and flaws and to accept the fact that they dont want to be with us or just as a friend or something else makes us so frustrated because our effort after all wasnt enough. And even if we would have moved the mount everest for them, it was never enough. It is not always just the attraction but the sheer amount of effort, time, love and affection we showed towards these people that are causing this suffering within us in the end. We feel fooled and even when we knew that they might love another person, we still hope they recognize us as a worthy partner even if the chances are lower then low and then when your hope gets shattered into pieces you hit emotional rockbottom. but from this point the only things left is wisdom, a lesson, a scar deep in your heart and a way to move on
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Bjrn
In an earlier comment here, it was said that the depressed heart of the person got better by hearing the voice of the narrator in the video, in that case as a joke.
In my case, it's actually no joke. The voice is soulful, comforting in a good way, and in a forgiving way.
Through these videos and with my therapist, I have finally managed to find some answers to what has caused all the difficulties in my life, with depression, low self-esteem, suicidal thoughts, difficulty in being in a relationship and so on.
Through these videos I have learned that I am HSP and C-PTSD, and that the collision between these also creates its own problems.
Thank you for good and enlightening videos, explained with such a good voice.
Now it remains to be seen if there is a way forward, out to the rest of my life.
Greetings from a 55 year old man in Norway.
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In an earlier comment here, it was said that the depressed heart of the person got better by hearing the voice of the narrator in the video, in that case as a joke.
In my case, it's actually no joke. The voice is soulful, comforting in a good way, and in a forgiving way.
Through these videos and with my therapist, I have finally managed to find some answers to what has caused all the difficulties in my life, with depression, low self-esteem, suicidal thoughts, difficulty in being in a relationship and so on.
Through these videos I have learned that I am HSP and C-PTSD, and that the collision between these also creates its own problems.
Thank you for good and enlightening videos, explained with such a good voice.
Now it remains to be seen if there is a way forward, out to the rest of my life.
Greetings from a 55 year old man in Norway.
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Gene
At time's the ache is enough to wreck any amount of attempt's to recover. That is a horrible residence. A place where we have not gotten to alone or by our own advisement's. The emptiness is like being on the planet alone. To ask for assistance is a laundry list of reference's that people are not familiar with and are unable to comprehend. Mine has been a arduous trek. The most disturbing portion has been the amount of people that are emotional cannibal's eating the life away from their victim's. When it's looked at, we are at a grave disadvantage to recover our bearing's. Again Thank You all at Psych2go.
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At time's the ache is enough to wreck any amount of attempt's to recover. That is a horrible residence. A place where we have not gotten to alone or by our own advisement's. The emptiness is like being on the planet alone. To ask for assistance is a laundry list of reference's that people are not familiar with and are unable to comprehend. Mine has been a arduous trek. The most disturbing portion has been the amount of people that are emotional cannibal's eating the life away from their victim's. When it's looked at, we are at a grave disadvantage to recover our bearing's. Again Thank You all at Psych2go.
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Alumno
the problem for me is. i been hiding for so long my relationship with my boyfriend (like 2 years, in September we are going to be together for 3 years. My parents don't let me stay with him, and I feel so bad for hiding to them. But also, I can't imagine my life without him, he is the love of my life, I won't loose him only for a childish acttitude from my parents. They already live their life, and I want to spend my life with that boy, even If the situation turns difficult, I know that relationship worth it. I won't give up, but it make me feel bad sometimes.
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the problem for me is. i been hiding for so long my relationship with my boyfriend (like 2 years, in September we are going to be together for 3 years. My parents don't let me stay with him, and I feel so bad for hiding to them. But also, I can't imagine my life without him, he is the love of my life, I won't loose him only for a childish acttitude from my parents. They already live their life, and I want to spend my life with that boy, even If the situation turns difficult, I know that relationship worth it. I won't give up, but it make me feel bad sometimes.
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Sarah
Everything I do comes down to not being good enough. As a child and teen I brainwashed myself based off of circumstances or events (verbal, and emotional abuse) that I am worthless. Now as an adult trying to convince myself that I have value takes a lot of energy. So even though this video wasnt made just for me- its nice to hear someone else say Im enough. Excuse me as I sob and write to my therapist.
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Everything I do comes down to not being good enough. As a child and teen I brainwashed myself based off of circumstances or events (verbal, and emotional abuse) that I am worthless. Now as an adult trying to convince myself that I have value takes a lot of energy. So even though this video wasnt made just for me- its nice to hear someone else say Im enough. Excuse me as I sob and write to my therapist.
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jen
I knew that living in a messy house isnt healthy 4 me. My parents house is small and very cluttered, and so is the place i reside with my younger brother til i move. I live in my bedroom, and that isnt healthy either just to avoid seeing their mess. I may meditate and take walks in the park, but somedays its still s steuggle dealing with the living arrangements til i move. Thank god its in 3 months.
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I knew that living in a messy house isnt healthy 4 me. My parents house is small and very cluttered, and so is the place i reside with my younger brother til i move. I live in my bedroom, and that isnt healthy either just to avoid seeing their mess. I may meditate and take walks in the park, but somedays its still s steuggle dealing with the living arrangements til i move. Thank god its in 3 months.
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Lana
My soul aches because even when I try to get myself out of this mf depression and plan to see my friends to nourish my life a little bit, my amazing parents eventually start fighting (as if theyve ever stopped) and they force me to cancel it and guess what Im back being depressed and sad and stuck in this mf house.
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My soul aches because even when I try to get myself out of this mf depression and plan to see my friends to nourish my life a little bit, my amazing parents eventually start fighting (as if theyve ever stopped) and they force me to cancel it and guess what Im back being depressed and sad and stuck in this mf house.
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Aggelos
it's not only the truth of what you're saying, it's not only the meaning of it and the help you're giving us. it is also the calm and the sound of the voice we hear. we can not thank you enough psych2go, thank you Amanda. thank you all!
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it's not only the truth of what you're saying, it's not only the meaning of it and the help you're giving us. it is also the calm and the sound of the voice we hear. we can not thank you enough psych2go, thank you Amanda. thank you all!
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Thanh
May I ask one question: What is the true cause of pain behind being misunderstood that makes our souls hurt? Because it reminds us that we are not loved by the others? We are not good enough? :3)
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May I ask one question: What is the true cause of pain behind being misunderstood that makes our souls hurt? Because it reminds us that we are not loved by the others? We are not good enough? :3)
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QnQ
I Did Almost Gave Up A Long Time Ago.
But With The Little Few Of Hope Left Within My Soul.
I Just Need To Listen To One Of Them.
Start All Over Again, And Keep Trying.
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QnQ
I Did Almost Gave Up A Long Time Ago.
But With The Little Few Of Hope Left Within My Soul.
I Just Need To Listen To One Of Them.
Start All Over Again, And Keep Trying.
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Taron
I feel like that I've been in all of these situations at some points of life, this video is a great starting point to analyse one's situation if you feel empty. I like it, thank you!
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I feel like that I've been in all of these situations at some points of life, this video is a great starting point to analyse one's situation if you feel empty. I like it, thank you!
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LadyVader1138
1 and 5 comboed hard not to long ago. Keeping the fact that I'm trans a secret and pretending to be a man was just a special kind of Hell. Being out has helped a lot.
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1 and 5 comboed hard not to long ago. Keeping the fact that I'm trans a secret and pretending to be a man was just a special kind of Hell. Being out has helped a lot.
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Sammy
Me: Like what if you're suffering or has suffered from all of these? Geez its no wonder im such a depressive soul
Disorganized environment on the back: You loser
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Me: Like what if you're suffering or has suffered from all of these? Geez its no wonder im such a depressive soul
Disorganized environment on the back: You loser
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Ikram
keeping dark secrets such as lies or gossip is bad for your soul
me being a professional liar and actor: Ohhh, so that's the reason why I feel this way.
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keeping dark secrets such as lies or gossip is bad for your soul
me being a professional liar and actor: Ohhh, so that's the reason why I feel this way.
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Mihai
I recently missed my online final exam and failed a uni course. Ive been feeling the burden of the last type of soul ache all day. It really tears you up
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I recently missed my online final exam and failed a uni course. Ive been feeling the burden of the last type of soul ache all day. It really tears you up
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Innerheart
1, 4, 5, 6, 8 got my soul aching. Also not having someone by my side to connect with comfortably and having lost an important personal emotion.
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1, 4, 5, 6, 8 got my soul aching. Also not having someone by my side to connect with comfortably and having lost an important personal emotion.
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Littalwabbit
Does anyone else relate to EVERY single burden listed in practically EVERY video.
It's like, where do I even begin. laughs in crying
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Does anyone else relate to EVERY single burden listed in practically EVERY video.
It's like, where do I even begin. laughs in crying
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PHOENIX-ART-STUDIO
This is even harder for me to put up with as I'm an atheist. I feel that once I die I'll go underground only to be forgotten
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This is even harder for me to put up with as I'm an atheist. I feel that once I die I'll go underground only to be forgotten
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Vendel
Going through most of my teenage years with all 8 of these things present, I can say that every day I felt like life was hell on earth
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Going through most of my teenage years with all 8 of these things present, I can say that every day I felt like life was hell on earth
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-JacksonFanFamily-
Omfg I was just typing a giant comment and I accidentally just deleted it- now I dont wanna retype it alll back out lmaoo
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Omfg I was just typing a giant comment and I accidentally just deleted it- now I dont wanna retype it alll back out lmaoo
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MangoDaBean
I was brought here after not being able to finish an anime for months and began to notice a physical aching in my soul. Owie
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I was brought here after not being able to finish an anime for months and began to notice a physical aching in my soul. Owie
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Rosemary
I had to keep people from knowing what my family was doing to me; now my parents are dead but it's so hard to say anything.
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I had to keep people from knowing what my family was doing to me; now my parents are dead but it's so hard to say anything.
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Carolyn
Wasted potential primarily, with some influence from having to keep dark secrets and lacking confidence and self-assurance.
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Wasted potential primarily, with some influence from having to keep dark secrets and lacking confidence and self-assurance.
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Aditi
I feel that ache even when someone else seems to be hurting, so I exhaust myself trying to comfort them. Am I wrong?
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I feel that ache even when someone else seems to be hurting, so I exhaust myself trying to comfort them. Am I wrong?
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