6 Signs Someone is Secretly Insecure
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Dragondiana8
There is one more insecurity I noticed 'cause of my friend. I noticed that my friend, althought she doesn't like crowds and is not going to big events often and don't have that many friends and is shy. when she is in a new situation with people she doesn't know then she gets a feature and then she is like cheerful, chipper and full of beans and jabbers a lot, even in a conversation she has no traffic with it and no idea about it and even says some things where I'm like omg, no in my head when she suddendly exaggerates with conjectures, prejudgments and other things, which aren't that necessary. So this was one situation back in the last year. But I noticed it generally at her that she can be really extremly communicative with people she doesn't know, even though she isn't that confident in front of new people. So really the opposite.
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There is one more insecurity I noticed 'cause of my friend. I noticed that my friend, althought she doesn't like crowds and is not going to big events often and don't have that many friends and is shy. when she is in a new situation with people she doesn't know then she gets a feature and then she is like cheerful, chipper and full of beans and jabbers a lot, even in a conversation she has no traffic with it and no idea about it and even says some things where I'm like omg, no in my head when she suddendly exaggerates with conjectures, prejudgments and other things, which aren't that necessary. So this was one situation back in the last year. But I noticed it generally at her that she can be really extremly communicative with people she doesn't know, even though she isn't that confident in front of new people. So really the opposite.
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Prince
Insecure people cant be in position of leadership. I dont know why NY thinks this manipilative hierarchy works, because it doesn't. Youre just attracting more insecure workers who need the leaders help. Insecure leaders LOVE this, they want to feel needed.
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You want a strong leader, to attract strong people. Bahama Breeze #5 in the nation for food quality, speed, and SALES. OUR entire line was STRONG. And you know how we maintained that? By complimenting strengths. Being VOCAL with our training and expectations and weeding out the kitchen by TALENT, not by politicks. Im done trying to rekindle my kitchen flame. Im going to show you how its done. Remember I said it hermano.
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Insecure people cant be in position of leadership. I dont know why NY thinks this manipilative hierarchy works, because it doesn't. Youre just attracting more insecure workers who need the leaders help. Insecure leaders LOVE this, they want to feel needed.
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You want a strong leader, to attract strong people. Bahama Breeze #5 in the nation for food quality, speed, and SALES. OUR entire line was STRONG. And you know how we maintained that? By complimenting strengths. Being VOCAL with our training and expectations and weeding out the kitchen by TALENT, not by politicks. Im done trying to rekindle my kitchen flame. Im going to show you how its done. Remember I said it hermano.
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Anika
I always felt ugly abt my smile my face my teeth i always looked at other girls in my class they look pretty and i feel like i dont and it hurts to see all these pretty girls in tt looking good while i look like a booger im not even smart yk im just a nothing i have whole different world i survive through this imagination like i have this rich pretty life where i fall in love have kids and have money and famous all those good stuff but it hits me that this is the real world not my silly imagination but bc of it im still breathing ive done like 4 or 3 suicide attempts but i thought of my family first and ofc no one was there for me cuz they think a smiling face means a smiling heart
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I always felt ugly abt my smile my face my teeth i always looked at other girls in my class they look pretty and i feel like i dont and it hurts to see all these pretty girls in tt looking good while i look like a booger im not even smart yk im just a nothing i have whole different world i survive through this imagination like i have this rich pretty life where i fall in love have kids and have money and famous all those good stuff but it hits me that this is the real world not my silly imagination but bc of it im still breathing ive done like 4 or 3 suicide attempts but i thought of my family first and ofc no one was there for me cuz they think a smiling face means a smiling heart
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randomishation
How to overcome these traits:
1. Avoid self-comparison because everyone is unique in their own way.
2. YOU are your only competition, be better than the best you have ever been.
3. Learn to accept criticisms healthily as a way to improve yourself because YOU CAN.
4. Love yourself just as who you are, if you love yourself 20% and somebody gives you 30% that's not even half. You need to love you 100% and the rest will carry on.
5. You won't get a brighter life by blowing other people's candles. LET'S NOT GOSSIP IT'S UNHEALTHY.
6. Strive for greatness but at the same time, be humble. Keep your head held high, but your feet glued on the ground.
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How to overcome these traits:
1. Avoid self-comparison because everyone is unique in their own way.
2. YOU are your only competition, be better than the best you have ever been.
3. Learn to accept criticisms healthily as a way to improve yourself because YOU CAN.
4. Love yourself just as who you are, if you love yourself 20% and somebody gives you 30% that's not even half. You need to love you 100% and the rest will carry on.
5. You won't get a brighter life by blowing other people's candles. LET'S NOT GOSSIP IT'S UNHEALTHY.
6. Strive for greatness but at the same time, be humble. Keep your head held high, but your feet glued on the ground.
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education
Can you tell me what happen to me
_ I kinda like lost memory like people name or
face and it hard for me to memorize like before
_ I hate being with many group of people or I will be overthinking or uncomfortable
_ I always stay at bed because it make me feel comfortable but still overthinking
_ I feel upsetting over everything
_ I get angry fast and then cry
_ I want to be alone but scared to be alone
_ want to hurt myself idk everythings I see knife or go somewhere that I can jump
_I lost motivation fast
_ always tired
_stress
Tell me what wrong with me and I want to fixed it I cant hide it anymore.
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Can you tell me what happen to me
_ I kinda like lost memory like people name or
face and it hard for me to memorize like before
_ I hate being with many group of people or I will be overthinking or uncomfortable
_ I always stay at bed because it make me feel comfortable but still overthinking
_ I feel upsetting over everything
_ I get angry fast and then cry
_ I want to be alone but scared to be alone
_ want to hurt myself idk everythings I see knife or go somewhere that I can jump
_I lost motivation fast
_ always tired
_stress
Tell me what wrong with me and I want to fixed it I cant hide it anymore.
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Vidya
Out of all of these, the one and only sign that I show is degrading myself and I don't even do it because I seek other people's compliments. I shit on myself in the form of jokes simply because that's where my taste in humour lies. When you try to make jokes about other people there's always the chance that they're hurt by it rather than actually laughing at the joke which is understandable. So by making yourself the butt of the joke, not only are you getting humour out of it but there will never be the chance of hurting anyone else which is great.
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Out of all of these, the one and only sign that I show is degrading myself and I don't even do it because I seek other people's compliments. I shit on myself in the form of jokes simply because that's where my taste in humour lies. When you try to make jokes about other people there's always the chance that they're hurt by it rather than actually laughing at the joke which is understandable. So by making yourself the butt of the joke, not only are you getting humour out of it but there will never be the chance of hurting anyone else which is great.
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eleanor
I have question, I perfectly know that I have been insecure about myself since a very long time ago. But insecurity sometimes remind me to not be arrogant and keep trying so I can improve my ability. Because once I confident about myself then I will lose my focus, doing things wrong, etc. So then, what should I do? I know insecurities are bad but I'm afraid that I can't change it anymore since I depends to it so much to improve
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I have question, I perfectly know that I have been insecure about myself since a very long time ago. But insecurity sometimes remind me to not be arrogant and keep trying so I can improve my ability. Because once I confident about myself then I will lose my focus, doing things wrong, etc. So then, what should I do? I know insecurities are bad but I'm afraid that I can't change it anymore since I depends to it so much to improve
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Sleepy
I basically have all of these signs, almost exactly. Apart from spreading rumors/talking bad about others behind their back, thats other peoples job not mine. But I always feel terrible at the end of the day when I feel I went too harsh and dont know how to apologize for it or if it even was insensitive. I act like this in school, loving to boast and put down others (jokingly, I hope they dont take it seriously.
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I basically have all of these signs, almost exactly. Apart from spreading rumors/talking bad about others behind their back, thats other peoples job not mine. But I always feel terrible at the end of the day when I feel I went too harsh and dont know how to apologize for it or if it even was insensitive. I act like this in school, loving to boast and put down others (jokingly, I hope they dont take it seriously.
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education
Me: Has insecurities
My brain: It's life, get used to it
Me: Realizes I have depression
My brain: Are you an emo or something?
Me: Cuts myself
My brain: Other people's cuts are deeper.
Me: Attempts suicide
My brain: You wasted so much money for the medical bills.
Me: Considers suicide again
My brain: Everyone will cry and you will be the reason.
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Me: Has insecurities
My brain: It's life, get used to it
Me: Realizes I have depression
My brain: Are you an emo or something?
Me: Cuts myself
My brain: Other people's cuts are deeper.
Me: Attempts suicide
My brain: You wasted so much money for the medical bills.
Me: Considers suicide again
My brain: Everyone will cry and you will be the reason.
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SimplySamaya
I was always wondering and looking for a term for people that constantly have to 1up you on everything you say; now I know theyre called narcissistic listeners. Thank god lol. I cant stannnnnnnnd people that do this to me, its like dude take what Im saying into consideration and stop making everything you say seem like it has more weight than what I say.
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I was always wondering and looking for a term for people that constantly have to 1up you on everything you say; now I know theyre called narcissistic listeners. Thank god lol. I cant stannnnnnnnd people that do this to me, its like dude take what Im saying into consideration and stop making everything you say seem like it has more weight than what I say.
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Maria
Hi! I have a question: When you know that someone is secretly insecure and they have all of these signs, how do I as a friend help them overcome that? Is it possible? I have tried being there for them, complimenting them, loving them unconditionally, but it doesn't seem to change anything or make them feel better about themselves in any way. Any advice? :)
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Hi! I have a question: When you know that someone is secretly insecure and they have all of these signs, how do I as a friend help them overcome that? Is it possible? I have tried being there for them, complimenting them, loving them unconditionally, but it doesn't seem to change anything or make them feel better about themselves in any way. Any advice? :)
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Tanavi
Yes, I am having insecurities, low self esteem. But it's due to my condition of upbringing, my surroundings. I am not directly responsible for my insecurities. then also, why m facing this? Why m not getting rid of my insecurities?
Please share the video on How to get secured personality and How to get high self esteem.
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Yes, I am having insecurities, low self esteem. But it's due to my condition of upbringing, my surroundings. I am not directly responsible for my insecurities. then also, why m facing this? Why m not getting rid of my insecurities?
Please share the video on How to get secured personality and How to get high self esteem.
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_crossiants_
I just want to say that I love the fact that the animator represents an insecure person as a cactus.
It does well to capture how defensive an insecure individual can be, and as one being insecure I hate to admit that I become defensive even in the littlest things.
Overall, wonderful video as always
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I just want to say that I love the fact that the animator represents an insecure person as a cactus.
It does well to capture how defensive an insecure individual can be, and as one being insecure I hate to admit that I become defensive even in the littlest things.
Overall, wonderful video as always
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Kim
Am I the only one who feels worthless compared to other people, but you secretly release thats just your mind fooling myself? Why do I always talk myself down, why do I have such a low self-esteem and why do I hate myself if I do one thing wrong (especially if I get the feeling I disappointed other people?
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Am I the only one who feels worthless compared to other people, but you secretly release thats just your mind fooling myself? Why do I always talk myself down, why do I have such a low self-esteem and why do I hate myself if I do one thing wrong (especially if I get the feeling I disappointed other people?
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Leopoldo
(On my dad's account) Hello! I am a 10 year old girl and well I do have insecurity and I don't know how to make them go away. What is bothering me is that I think I am fat, ugly, not smart because I think that I can never be like other girls. But I will stay happy: )
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(On my dad's account) Hello! I am a 10 year old girl and well I do have insecurity and I don't know how to make them go away. What is bothering me is that I think I am fat, ugly, not smart because I think that I can never be like other girls. But I will stay happy: )
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Trisha
I encountered some of them, and I understand, but sometimes it's really annoying. I remember she tell me I look ugly wearing cap lol, but still I accept and Love her because she's my sis hehe, praying that she overcome it, and those people around her. Love YOU sis!
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I encountered some of them, and I understand, but sometimes it's really annoying. I remember she tell me I look ugly wearing cap lol, but still I accept and Love her because she's my sis hehe, praying that she overcome it, and those people around her. Love YOU sis!
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Andrew
When I look at the bad lists, I think, oh shit, all of these apply to me.
When I look at the good lists, I think, thanks for getting my hopes up. I meet the first two and none of the rest.
Who else just can't win?
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When I look at the bad lists, I think, oh shit, all of these apply to me.
When I look at the good lists, I think, thanks for getting my hopes up. I meet the first two and none of the rest.
Who else just can't win?
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legit thats a good strategy
you ask someone about something, they give you critisism, and then you simply answer with no
no one can one up that one, just like how no one can deflect the emerald splash
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legit thats a good strategy
you ask someone about something, they give you critisism, and then you simply answer with no
no one can one up that one, just like how no one can deflect the emerald splash
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legit thats a good strategy
you ask someone about something, they give you critisism, and then you simply answer with no
no one can one up that one, just like how no one can deflect the emerald splash
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legit thats a good strategy
you ask someone about something, they give you critisism, and then you simply answer with no
no one can one up that one, just like how no one can deflect the emerald splash
reply
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legit thats a good strategy
you ask someone about something, they give you critisism, and then you simply answer with no
no one can one up that one, just like how no one can deflect the emerald splash
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legit thats a good strategy
you ask someone about something, they give you critisism, and then you simply answer with no
no one can one up that one, just like how no one can deflect the emerald splash
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Olive
Im anoyed because I think Im insecure and Im just a kind person I hope. I dont look like this things at all. I dont know why im searching for a confirm but yeah now im sad ( and yeah my English is bad)
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Im anoyed because I think Im insecure and Im just a kind person I hope. I dont look like this things at all. I dont know why im searching for a confirm but yeah now im sad ( and yeah my English is bad)
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Huki
About degrading oneself in front of others. Instead of being attention seeking or elaborate defense mechanisms, an insecure person can simply be sharing how they feel about themselves.
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About degrading oneself in front of others. Instead of being attention seeking or elaborate defense mechanisms, an insecure person can simply be sharing how they feel about themselves.
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Kimberly
Thanks so much for this. Narcissistic Listening is what Ive endured from a few key people in my life. Its great finally knowing that it actually has a NAME! Thanks Psych2Go!
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Thanks so much for this. Narcissistic Listening is what Ive endured from a few key people in my life. Its great finally knowing that it actually has a NAME! Thanks Psych2Go!
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Brenda
I had issues with insecurities. Im proud now I have only one of five. Im a people pleaser but I genuinely like to help others, so I dont know it applies. Thanks for the info
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I had issues with insecurities. Im proud now I have only one of five. Im a people pleaser but I genuinely like to help others, so I dont know it applies. Thanks for the info
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LT
My crush distances himself because he says im like his personal mirror and he sees the sides of himself he doesnt like even though I say nothing bad about him at all.
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My crush distances himself because he says im like his personal mirror and he sees the sides of himself he doesnt like even though I say nothing bad about him at all.
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