7 Early Signs of a Toxic Relationship
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Scv1r
Ngl, this really is relatable to me. me and my partner werent always like this. But, being honest he would ask me so multiple questions what have i been doing, he would expect everything i say is a lie idrk but it gave me a headache for the pass 1-2 months i ended up stop crying even i feel so much pain in my chest, i cant seem to let a single tear out. everytime we fight its like his doi ng this blocking and unblocking its like i got used to this daily thing everyday loving eachother to fights and accusations if i ever go with a boy. It breaks my heart that he thinks this way, i get it, he overthinks alot. I do as well, but this is really unhealthy. Mistakes happen alot in life and we learn from them but I didnt repeat the same thing over and over again. I got tired of him bringing up the past mistakes, i also started to careless and show less emotions to him. It seems like i give everything to this relationship and so much effort. But i only ended up getting hurt, its fine with me i got used to his attitude but he does deserve to know how exactly how i feel. He cant control what im doing neither what i feel. :) we just reach 2 months yesterday. but, its his choice to trust me or not. Ive always stayed loyal to him and i tell him how my day goes etc. the feeling of having trust issues, its ight it still takes time to trust someone.
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Ngl, this really is relatable to me. me and my partner werent always like this. But, being honest he would ask me so multiple questions what have i been doing, he would expect everything i say is a lie idrk but it gave me a headache for the pass 1-2 months i ended up stop crying even i feel so much pain in my chest, i cant seem to let a single tear out. everytime we fight its like his doi ng this blocking and unblocking its like i got used to this daily thing everyday loving eachother to fights and accusations if i ever go with a boy. It breaks my heart that he thinks this way, i get it, he overthinks alot. I do as well, but this is really unhealthy. Mistakes happen alot in life and we learn from them but I didnt repeat the same thing over and over again. I got tired of him bringing up the past mistakes, i also started to careless and show less emotions to him. It seems like i give everything to this relationship and so much effort. But i only ended up getting hurt, its fine with me i got used to his attitude but he does deserve to know how exactly how i feel. He cant control what im doing neither what i feel. :) we just reach 2 months yesterday. but, its his choice to trust me or not. Ive always stayed loyal to him and i tell him how my day goes etc. the feeling of having trust issues, its ight it still takes time to trust someone.
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Franky_a_92
My sister brought in this guy a few months ago to live in with us and our parents due to a time in need. Unfortunately, theyre relationship is everything listed here. Now to make matters worse, he disrespected me the other day by telling me in an uncalled for authoritive tone that if I knew his friend was going to be over in front of my friends because of his insecurity of having other guys over when my sister is home, despite my family already knowing who my friends are. Reason he was also pissed was due to his buddy staying over that same night and thinking my friends werent going to leave and intrude when I already talked to both my sister and friends that they would leave on time. On my part I shouldve communicated better and texted my parents that I had guests that day (even though I usually dont, but her brute boyfriend also didnt let the owners of the house (our parents) properly know his friend would be staying the night and be all confrontational like this, hes only been here 4 months(after him and my sister said their stay would be 3-4 months temporary. No one is on my side at home, and I dont know what to do or how truly wrong I might be in dealing with this. Anyone have any thoughts?
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My sister brought in this guy a few months ago to live in with us and our parents due to a time in need. Unfortunately, theyre relationship is everything listed here. Now to make matters worse, he disrespected me the other day by telling me in an uncalled for authoritive tone that if I knew his friend was going to be over in front of my friends because of his insecurity of having other guys over when my sister is home, despite my family already knowing who my friends are. Reason he was also pissed was due to his buddy staying over that same night and thinking my friends werent going to leave and intrude when I already talked to both my sister and friends that they would leave on time. On my part I shouldve communicated better and texted my parents that I had guests that day (even though I usually dont, but her brute boyfriend also didnt let the owners of the house (our parents) properly know his friend would be staying the night and be all confrontational like this, hes only been here 4 months(after him and my sister said their stay would be 3-4 months temporary. No one is on my side at home, and I dont know what to do or how truly wrong I might be in dealing with this. Anyone have any thoughts?
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Lurickea
My last relationship my current boyfriend snatched me out of was about to turn into a toxic one. After I broke up with my ex I wanted to go back to being friends with him but he kept contacting me and told me how bad he was doing and that he wanted to end his life because of the break up. Thats when I realised Id have to block him. I was crying what it feels like all the time in that relationship and nothing ever really seemed to change when I communicated my needs. Now with my current boyfriend my mental health has improved by a lot and I actually learned some coping mechanisms from him that actually help me.
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My last relationship my current boyfriend snatched me out of was about to turn into a toxic one. After I broke up with my ex I wanted to go back to being friends with him but he kept contacting me and told me how bad he was doing and that he wanted to end his life because of the break up. Thats when I realised Id have to block him. I was crying what it feels like all the time in that relationship and nothing ever really seemed to change when I communicated my needs. Now with my current boyfriend my mental health has improved by a lot and I actually learned some coping mechanisms from him that actually help me.
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Chip
The hardest thing I had to learn; was to look past their words (lies) and notice their actions and patterns. Same fights, same results for years. if not longer. Non-verbal communication is way more important by actions, effort and doings than by words which have no meaning behind them. The worst of it though. is when they don't tell you that the marriage/friendship is over. Making you have to figure it out for yourself that they have given up on you. I have stopped looking for validation from others and learned that I am good enough for myself.
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The hardest thing I had to learn; was to look past their words (lies) and notice their actions and patterns. Same fights, same results for years. if not longer. Non-verbal communication is way more important by actions, effort and doings than by words which have no meaning behind them. The worst of it though. is when they don't tell you that the marriage/friendship is over. Making you have to figure it out for yourself that they have given up on you. I have stopped looking for validation from others and learned that I am good enough for myself.
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Reverse
I used to trust my girlfriend until I found her staring at other guys for too long, even rubbing her lips while doing that, I expected her sincere self to take the responsibility and apologize, but she chose to lie and argue, with this repeatedly happening, I became more aggressive as she was always ignoring the topic, never saying sorry, even cut calls on my face and just left me in my darkest times. Finally broke free from her, after 1 and a half years of torture, crying and self harm, she never loved me all the love yous were just. lies.
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I used to trust my girlfriend until I found her staring at other guys for too long, even rubbing her lips while doing that, I expected her sincere self to take the responsibility and apologize, but she chose to lie and argue, with this repeatedly happening, I became more aggressive as she was always ignoring the topic, never saying sorry, even cut calls on my face and just left me in my darkest times. Finally broke free from her, after 1 and a half years of torture, crying and self harm, she never loved me all the love yous were just. lies.
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Drm-Rose
Yeah, I'm trying to see if my relationship is toxic or needs some improvement. I usually put in more effort by talking more, communicating more, and if I don't speak up we usually don't talk. Additionally there was one time where we were talking and I mentioned how I brung(spelling) them to my parents and they said quote, How is that my problem? And it kinda hurt how they didn't care about something important to me, even though they want me to meet their parents. So I'm going to see if talking with them will work, if not I might end it.
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Yeah, I'm trying to see if my relationship is toxic or needs some improvement. I usually put in more effort by talking more, communicating more, and if I don't speak up we usually don't talk. Additionally there was one time where we were talking and I mentioned how I brung(spelling) them to my parents and they said quote, How is that my problem? And it kinda hurt how they didn't care about something important to me, even though they want me to meet their parents. So I'm going to see if talking with them will work, if not I might end it.
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Ra
I wish I couldve seen something like this when I was in my first relationship. I was with him for 2years and he did all of these and I hung on because I never knew that what he was doing wasnt normal. Without realizing it, that toxic relationship really damaged my confidence, self esteem, and trust. It took me a few years to undo the damage done but even now some of it still affects me. I really hope these help others out there, especially people in their first relationships, so that they know what to look out for.
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I wish I couldve seen something like this when I was in my first relationship. I was with him for 2years and he did all of these and I hung on because I never knew that what he was doing wasnt normal. Without realizing it, that toxic relationship really damaged my confidence, self esteem, and trust. It took me a few years to undo the damage done but even now some of it still affects me. I really hope these help others out there, especially people in their first relationships, so that they know what to look out for.
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jenna
i am 100% the toxic one, but i want to leave so bad. this isnt me and never has been, i think i just dont like him anymore and im trying to ruin it to get away. but thats horrible and i shouldnt put him through this, i dont know what to do. its not even that he does anything wrong, i just do not enjoy him as a person anymore, we dont work, so i turn mean. this cant keep going like this, its hurting both of us, and this is not me.
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i am 100% the toxic one, but i want to leave so bad. this isnt me and never has been, i think i just dont like him anymore and im trying to ruin it to get away. but thats horrible and i shouldnt put him through this, i dont know what to do. its not even that he does anything wrong, i just do not enjoy him as a person anymore, we dont work, so i turn mean. this cant keep going like this, its hurting both of us, and this is not me.
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education
my previous girlfriend showed all these signs. luckily I've noticed earlier and immediately left her (without even telling her I'm full of her) coz I wanted her to realize that she was still too immature. Speaking of which, she even kept on pinning her immaturity on me on which she tells me I'm hurrying too much and that everytime I wanted simple attention from her she'd just laugh at me.
Never again
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my previous girlfriend showed all these signs. luckily I've noticed earlier and immediately left her (without even telling her I'm full of her) coz I wanted her to realize that she was still too immature. Speaking of which, she even kept on pinning her immaturity on me on which she tells me I'm hurrying too much and that everytime I wanted simple attention from her she'd just laugh at me.
Never again
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Chloe
Sometimes it's hard to be honest. Some people need to feel safe to be honest. If they've had bad things happen to them in their childhood when they were honest they tend to withdraw from relationships and find it hard being honest. And if you don't let your partner feel safe from judgement or criticism or being physically/verbally attacked when they want to be honest, they can't be honest.
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Sometimes it's hard to be honest. Some people need to feel safe to be honest. If they've had bad things happen to them in their childhood when they were honest they tend to withdraw from relationships and find it hard being honest. And if you don't let your partner feel safe from judgement or criticism or being physically/verbally attacked when they want to be honest, they can't be honest.
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Gala
I have to say thank you for your videos. I know I will always be the toxic one in a relationship, but you posting these videos helps me try to be a better person for the people I love. It also makes it easier to find my flaws and try to fix them so that I can't hurt people that love or hate me back.
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I have to say thank you for your videos. I know I will always be the toxic one in a relationship, but you posting these videos helps me try to be a better person for the people I love. It also makes it easier to find my flaws and try to fix them so that I can't hurt people that love or hate me back.
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AlmT
Got the urge to send this to my ex who seemed to think I created all our issues yet he displayed almost every one of these traits. 11. 5 years. To think I started believing him is madness. I am a good person who loved hard and he took that for granted.
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Got the urge to send this to my ex who seemed to think I created all our issues yet he displayed almost every one of these traits. 11. 5 years. To think I started believing him is madness. I am a good person who loved hard and he took that for granted.
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King
I was in toxic relationship before with Cindy McClendon she didn't care about me nor my needs. I was nice& everything she chatting on me alot lately it's annoying I need new healing girlfriend for me thank you psych2go I love y'all video it help me.
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I was in toxic relationship before with Cindy McClendon she didn't care about me nor my needs. I was nice& everything she chatting on me alot lately it's annoying I need new healing girlfriend for me thank you psych2go I love y'all video it help me.
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Heather
The constant use of 4 letters words is a no no. I know who is capable of that. Now don't compare me to that individual. The individual does not communicate. Accuses people of cheating. Monitors my phone. Make up stories of infidelity.
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The constant use of 4 letters words is a no no. I know who is capable of that. Now don't compare me to that individual. The individual does not communicate. Accuses people of cheating. Monitors my phone. Make up stories of infidelity.
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sebastian
Currently recovering from a toxic relation which involved jealous and controlling behavior
Relationship lasted a year and 6 months and after a 2 months she is now with someone else which to me was a gut punch to say the least
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Currently recovering from a toxic relation which involved jealous and controlling behavior
Relationship lasted a year and 6 months and after a 2 months she is now with someone else which to me was a gut punch to say the least
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Alessandro
is it considered toxic when you need to ask for cuddles also those intimate ones? can it be considered unhealthy feeling ugly for the partner? am I the toxic one in the relationship because I need a lot of attention?
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is it considered toxic when you need to ask for cuddles also those intimate ones? can it be considered unhealthy feeling ugly for the partner? am I the toxic one in the relationship because I need a lot of attention?
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Tan
Yeah Exhausting to convince & encourage another to commit to mutual level-not on same page, diff values, diff life stages
Move on, move on, find happiness both with others Life is so very short on this Earth planet
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Yeah Exhausting to convince & encourage another to commit to mutual level-not on same page, diff values, diff life stages
Move on, move on, find happiness both with others Life is so very short on this Earth planet
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SG
When you're scared to click on a video because you think it's going to be talking about you, only to click on it and realize it was talking about all the people you're still hung up on instead. Hurray for closure!
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When you're scared to click on a video because you think it's going to be talking about you, only to click on it and realize it was talking about all the people you're still hung up on instead. Hurray for closure!
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Emmawow12
This was me, with my onlive ex dc (discord) bf
btw im so disappointed for not dumping him earlyer (ps i dumped him on feb 12 2021 i think)
ps he does most of the sighs in the video btw good video btw!
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This was me, with my onlive ex dc (discord) bf
btw im so disappointed for not dumping him earlyer (ps i dumped him on feb 12 2021 i think)
ps he does most of the sighs in the video btw good video btw!
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Techpriest
good to know i dodged a bullet by not getting super involved with my ex who is (and still is to my knowledge. I don't ask since it isn't my business anymore) unmedicated for her mental disorder.
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good to know i dodged a bullet by not getting super involved with my ex who is (and still is to my knowledge. I don't ask since it isn't my business anymore) unmedicated for her mental disorder.
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victrola2007
If your partner insists on having a 50 million + people interview trashing and slandering your family, cuts you off iid-sentence or touches your hand to signal 'Stop talking' during recording.
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If your partner insists on having a 50 million + people interview trashing and slandering your family, cuts you off iid-sentence or touches your hand to signal 'Stop talking' during recording.
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Hannah
1. You give up on your needs because they just don't care.
2. Hostile communication.
3. You put in all the work.
4. They're jealous
5. Resentment
6. Controlling
7. Dishonesty
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1. You give up on your needs because they just don't care.
2. Hostile communication.
3. You put in all the work.
4. They're jealous
5. Resentment
6. Controlling
7. Dishonesty
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belle
My girl really deserve someone, I am the one that destroy our relationship and to make it toxic, because I don't know I feel so num and I think my deppression are getting worst everyday.
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My girl really deserve someone, I am the one that destroy our relationship and to make it toxic, because I don't know I feel so num and I think my deppression are getting worst everyday.
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noah6785
u forgot to put that they always want to spend a unhealthy amount of time with u and if u dont they get upset or mad at u. It happened to me today and idk if i wanna stay with him
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u forgot to put that they always want to spend a unhealthy amount of time with u and if u dont they get upset or mad at u. It happened to me today and idk if i wanna stay with him
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BIWBIWBIW
This is my feelings when I was with my ex but I still doubt myself sometimes maybe its me who make all the mistakes. Its been months but I still cant move on. Sad but true.
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This is my feelings when I was with my ex but I still doubt myself sometimes maybe its me who make all the mistakes. Its been months but I still cant move on. Sad but true.
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