Do You Have These 6 Attractive Habits?
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Date: 2023-08-20
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6 Habits To Make Others Like You Instantly
0: 27 1. Spend time with them
The familiarity principle we get attracted to the people we see regularly
0: 51 2. You own your flaws
The pratfall effect committing small mistakes humanizes you - making you more attractive
1: 29 3. Mirror them!
Copying another person's mannerisms can make you more likable
2: 08 4. Be generous with your compliments
Compliments makes other feel appreciated
Spontaneous trait transference the way you describe others is how they see you as well
2: 52 5. Emphasize your shared values
The similarity attraction effect the natural gravitation of people towards others who shares similar qualities
3: 24 6. Tell them something personal
Personal things gets you closer each other
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6 Habits To Make Others Like You Instantly
0: 27 1. Spend time with them
The familiarity principle we get attracted to the people we see regularly
0: 51 2. You own your flaws
The pratfall effect committing small mistakes humanizes you - making you more attractive
1: 29 3. Mirror them!
Copying another person's mannerisms can make you more likable
2: 08 4. Be generous with your compliments
Compliments makes other feel appreciated
Spontaneous trait transference the way you describe others is how they see you as well
2: 52 5. Emphasize your shared values
The similarity attraction effect the natural gravitation of people towards others who shares similar qualities
3: 24 6. Tell them something personal
Personal things gets you closer each other
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jelyan
you don't have to be liked everyone. someone may not like you, but it's not always about you, sometimes, it just doesn't work out, while sometimes, they just don't like you for being you, and that's alright! you shouldn't change yourself for someone else just to be accepted or liked, especially if you know you're not doing anything wrong. however, sometimes, they may not like you because you're hurting someone without realizing it. hurting someone unintentionally might happen from time to time, may it be emotionally or physically, but if it happens all the time, then it's possible that it's just your character, and it's you who needs to change and/or improve something in your character or behavior.
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you don't have to be liked everyone. someone may not like you, but it's not always about you, sometimes, it just doesn't work out, while sometimes, they just don't like you for being you, and that's alright! you shouldn't change yourself for someone else just to be accepted or liked, especially if you know you're not doing anything wrong. however, sometimes, they may not like you because you're hurting someone without realizing it. hurting someone unintentionally might happen from time to time, may it be emotionally or physically, but if it happens all the time, then it's possible that it's just your character, and it's you who needs to change and/or improve something in your character or behavior.
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Lee
Gott any tips for making friends with people people who don't always make the effort to talk, or are shy, but still wanna be friends? My teacher told me one of my classmates is non binary, and I am too. My teacher said they where lonely and I know why, they're scary. They are taller than most and they don't ever Raise their hand. But they are such a nice person.
What are some good convo starters? How do I make them feel comfortable around me?
My old friend told me they where jealous of how I attract people like a magnet with my warm energy, so I know how to approach them.
Got any tips?
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Gott any tips for making friends with people people who don't always make the effort to talk, or are shy, but still wanna be friends? My teacher told me one of my classmates is non binary, and I am too. My teacher said they where lonely and I know why, they're scary. They are taller than most and they don't ever Raise their hand. But they are such a nice person.
What are some good convo starters? How do I make them feel comfortable around me?
My old friend told me they where jealous of how I attract people like a magnet with my warm energy, so I know how to approach them.
Got any tips?
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Akanksha
What makes other like / be attracted to someone:
1. Familiarity principle: find ways to spend time
2. Own your flaws (little mistakes we make make us more endearing. but this works more when we are otherwise perceived as greatly attractive or aspirational)
3. Mirror them and their little traits / actions (when its natural very subtle then most effective)
4. Compliment / speak of positives in others (trait transference)
5. Emphasise shared values / qualities (when happens naturally is best)
6. Go beyond small talk to more intimate topics
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What makes other like / be attracted to someone:
1. Familiarity principle: find ways to spend time
2. Own your flaws (little mistakes we make make us more endearing. but this works more when we are otherwise perceived as greatly attractive or aspirational)
3. Mirror them and their little traits / actions (when its natural very subtle then most effective)
4. Compliment / speak of positives in others (trait transference)
5. Emphasise shared values / qualities (when happens naturally is best)
6. Go beyond small talk to more intimate topics
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Cherry
Body language is something I struggle with so much; it doesn't come naturally to me. Even if I like someone very much I have to mentally work to turn myself towards them, make eye contact and sit up straight (I have autism so I'm not always comfortable with eye contact or people I don't know well being close to me or showing affection,
but that just means I am putting effort into our friendship!
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Body language is something I struggle with so much; it doesn't come naturally to me. Even if I like someone very much I have to mentally work to turn myself towards them, make eye contact and sit up straight (I have autism so I'm not always comfortable with eye contact or people I don't know well being close to me or showing affection,
but that just means I am putting effort into our friendship!
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Dylan
I dont wanna be a Karen or anything but let me share my opinion. Why cant you just be yourself? Who cares if some girls dont like who you are, if they dont then they dont. One day a girl will like you for who you are. Dont change yourself just to become likable. You should want change yourself to become the person you want to become not to be someone your not.
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I dont wanna be a Karen or anything but let me share my opinion. Why cant you just be yourself? Who cares if some girls dont like who you are, if they dont then they dont. One day a girl will like you for who you are. Dont change yourself just to become likable. You should want change yourself to become the person you want to become not to be someone your not.
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cameron
Something I noticed about me mirroring other people is that I seem to do it unconsciously. For example, if Ive gotten really close to a friend who talks in a certain way/style, I accidentally start to talk exactly like that and my family and friends who know that specific person seem to notice
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Something I noticed about me mirroring other people is that I seem to do it unconsciously. For example, if Ive gotten really close to a friend who talks in a certain way/style, I accidentally start to talk exactly like that and my family and friends who know that specific person seem to notice
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Wendy
Evidence shows that I'm pretty likable. It's helpful to know what I'm doing correctly so I can continue to foster those behaviors, though my primary reason for doing them is not because I want people to like me. Thanks for the reinforcement!
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Evidence shows that I'm pretty likable. It's helpful to know what I'm doing correctly so I can continue to foster those behaviors, though my primary reason for doing them is not because I want people to like me. Thanks for the reinforcement!
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Sulli's
6 habit to make other like you
1. Spend time with them.
2. You own your flaws
3. Mirror them
4. Be generous with your compliment
5. Emphasize your shared values
6. Tell them something personal.
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6 habit to make other like you
1. Spend time with them.
2. You own your flaws
3. Mirror them
4. Be generous with your compliment
5. Emphasize your shared values
6. Tell them something personal.
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James
Amazing advice, as always!
Now, there's just the matter of overcoming my own social awkwardness.
Also, don't be too friendly with a complete stranger too fast. You might creep them out.
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Amazing advice, as always!
Now, there's just the matter of overcoming my own social awkwardness.
Also, don't be too friendly with a complete stranger too fast. You might creep them out.
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Sis
I. have quite Many of this ones.
But It's hironico since I still stand in the same boat of being alone the most time.
Aight, I guess I still have to wait to know the right people.
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I. have quite Many of this ones.
But It's hironico since I still stand in the same boat of being alone the most time.
Aight, I guess I still have to wait to know the right people.
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education
I'm leaning towards form over function for my new relationship I've tried to love people for who they are but I got burned again sad not really cause now I can be nice to myself
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I'm leaning towards form over function for my new relationship I've tried to love people for who they are but I got burned again sad not really cause now I can be nice to myself
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emilia-tann!
Whenever someone gives me a compliment about my looks, i always say whats wrong? is my hair messy? something on my face? does my clothes look weird? am i too fat?
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Whenever someone gives me a compliment about my looks, i always say whats wrong? is my hair messy? something on my face? does my clothes look weird? am i too fat?
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MEGS480
Even though my crush is looking at me, Im still being silly and dancing weird even though hes looking. I usually dont notice anyone when I talk to my friends
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Even though my crush is looking at me, Im still being silly and dancing weird even though hes looking. I usually dont notice anyone when I talk to my friends
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hey
Mistakes makes it fun for the other person to laugh with you, making it a new conversation topic, like, 3: 00 is that headphone in his neck or in his shoulders?
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Mistakes makes it fun for the other person to laugh with you, making it a new conversation topic, like, 3: 00 is that headphone in his neck or in his shoulders?
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synk_vize
So were not going to talk about in the beginning how on the bored the shapes on the bottom right were the exact order that the squid game shapes are in
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So were not going to talk about in the beginning how on the bored the shapes on the bottom right were the exact order that the squid game shapes are in
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jh
Awwee, another wonderful video. This is super applicable towards my life's current events. Love ya guys
The year from 2020 has helped my vision
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Awwee, another wonderful video. This is super applicable towards my life's current events. Love ya guys
The year from 2020 has helped my vision
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VIVAAN
Mirror them
Me who gets nervous talking to her in front of my friends: h-h-h-h-h-h-h-h-h-h-hello? M-my n-n-name is J-J-Jamal?
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Mirror them
Me who gets nervous talking to her in front of my friends: h-h-h-h-h-h-h-h-h-h-hello? M-my n-n-name is J-J-Jamal?
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ryujins
Ask classmates if they wanna hangout after school.
Me, a socially awkward introvert who overthinks every little thing: No.
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Ask classmates if they wanna hangout after school.
Me, a socially awkward introvert who overthinks every little thing: No.
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Phyllis
Can you do one on how to make people instantly dislike you because I don't like people and I prefer they leave me alone
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Can you do one on how to make people instantly dislike you because I don't like people and I prefer they leave me alone
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DreamToon
Praying that everyone falls asleep quickly and has a peaceful sleep. Hope you all wake up happy and well rested
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Praying that everyone falls asleep quickly and has a peaceful sleep. Hope you all wake up happy and well rested
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Galaxy
Mirror them! Me who's ADHD and already does that with all my friends: I am 5 parallel universes AHEAD OF YOU
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Mirror them! Me who's ADHD and already does that with all my friends: I am 5 parallel universes AHEAD OF YOU
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rainy
Practicing self control over your use of language can help you gain better control over your thoughts also
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Practicing self control over your use of language can help you gain better control over your thoughts also
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