8 Reasons You've Never Dated Anyone Before
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And I just keep living my life focused on the hobbies that give me so much joy.
I know I am not normal, but at least I accept myself.
Date: 2023-08-20
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Navya
I'm 22 years old, never dated anyone, never kissed or even held hands with a guy. I've been down for dating for 4 years now. The worst part is that I am conventionally attractive so I'm asked often. I do not lead people on and am straight forward with my answers. And it's always for casual hookups and stuff. It always makes me feel like all I am is my face. Like I'm good enough to be messed with but not actually be with. I feel like I've missed out on so much. I've always wanted my 1st kiss to be someone I actually like but I've been waiting for too long. Maybe I should give in to the hook up culture even though I hate it?
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I'm 22 years old, never dated anyone, never kissed or even held hands with a guy. I've been down for dating for 4 years now. The worst part is that I am conventionally attractive so I'm asked often. I do not lead people on and am straight forward with my answers. And it's always for casual hookups and stuff. It always makes me feel like all I am is my face. Like I'm good enough to be messed with but not actually be with. I feel like I've missed out on so much. I've always wanted my 1st kiss to be someone I actually like but I've been waiting for too long. Maybe I should give in to the hook up culture even though I hate it?
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Sukram28
This year I'm becoming 25 years old without ever being in a relationship. When I was in Kindergarden I thought the first time about being in a relationship and since then I always wanted to be in one. There are many nights when I doubt something about myself. The only thing that really helped was dancing alone at night. I wouldn't say that one of the 8 reasons really fits right. When I meet someone I like, I can say with certainty that she has already a boyfriend. It's like you've just been too slow in life.
Sorry for the text. I do not normally write such things. Just had the feeling I had to write this here.
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This year I'm becoming 25 years old without ever being in a relationship. When I was in Kindergarden I thought the first time about being in a relationship and since then I always wanted to be in one. There are many nights when I doubt something about myself. The only thing that really helped was dancing alone at night. I wouldn't say that one of the 8 reasons really fits right. When I meet someone I like, I can say with certainty that she has already a boyfriend. It's like you've just been too slow in life.
Sorry for the text. I do not normally write such things. Just had the feeling I had to write this here.
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Fabellion
honestly, the idea of someone getting to know me that closely is just kind of scary. i had a girlfriend for a while during + after highschool, but we only ever had an open relationship and were super casual about our dating life, so thats what i got comfortable with. ive gone long enough without being interested in someone that im even kinda doubting any past crushes and am wondering if im on the aromantic spectrum somewhere despite wanting to eventually be in a relationship; ;
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honestly, the idea of someone getting to know me that closely is just kind of scary. i had a girlfriend for a while during + after highschool, but we only ever had an open relationship and were super casual about our dating life, so thats what i got comfortable with. ive gone long enough without being interested in someone that im even kinda doubting any past crushes and am wondering if im on the aromantic spectrum somewhere despite wanting to eventually be in a relationship; ;
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Mirage
im 18, only fell for 2 girls, i never could admit to the first one, i was afraid, the 2nd i forced myself to tell her and just ended heartbroken because she never gave me a chance: ( it depressed me to my breaking point because i felt really close with the 2nd one, wed known each other for a year, i told her in the first couple months of knowing her, she rejected me but we'd continue talking and getting closer and closer but ultimately, i was never good enough i guess
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im 18, only fell for 2 girls, i never could admit to the first one, i was afraid, the 2nd i forced myself to tell her and just ended heartbroken because she never gave me a chance: ( it depressed me to my breaking point because i felt really close with the 2nd one, wed known each other for a year, i told her in the first couple months of knowing her, she rejected me but we'd continue talking and getting closer and closer but ultimately, i was never good enough i guess
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Moreli
What about those that just dont care? Its always the time will come and sooner or later you will find someone or even one day youll be ready but Im halfway into my 20's and I still havent experienced any attraction to anyone or the want to be in a relationship, but others are always pressuring me or wondering why. I just dont care enough? And maybe I never will? Thats ok too, not egeryone needs to find a partner to be happy in life.
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What about those that just dont care? Its always the time will come and sooner or later you will find someone or even one day youll be ready but Im halfway into my 20's and I still havent experienced any attraction to anyone or the want to be in a relationship, but others are always pressuring me or wondering why. I just dont care enough? And maybe I never will? Thats ok too, not egeryone needs to find a partner to be happy in life.
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Hunta
Im currently 18 and I have never dated anyone before, and I dont plan to do so any time in the future. I feel happy to be single because it makes me feel strong, independent, loved by many, and I dont have to worry about all the crap that comes from people who date. The only thing I have to ever worry about is people who want me to meet females even though I am already happy enough with my life.
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Im currently 18 and I have never dated anyone before, and I dont plan to do so any time in the future. I feel happy to be single because it makes me feel strong, independent, loved by many, and I dont have to worry about all the crap that comes from people who date. The only thing I have to ever worry about is people who want me to meet females even though I am already happy enough with my life.
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HailAnts
Flirting is not a positive thing. It is not a compliment. It is an inappropriate rude intrusive insulting activity which of course will garner a mocking or hurtful response.
Even though I know that isn't true, I feel it deeply thru to the very core of my being. Always have. I am inherently flawed in my very consciousness, and cannot support even the idea of me being in a relationship.
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Flirting is not a positive thing. It is not a compliment. It is an inappropriate rude intrusive insulting activity which of course will garner a mocking or hurtful response.
Even though I know that isn't true, I feel it deeply thru to the very core of my being. Always have. I am inherently flawed in my very consciousness, and cannot support even the idea of me being in a relationship.
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Gabriela
Just 8?
1 I am ugly
2 I am black
3 I am tall
4 I am shy, and not the cute type
5 I have anxiety
6 I have depression
7 I am a nerd, but also really dumb
8 I don't like normal people stuff, like partying
Bonus:
my body is a weird shape
Nothing I can offer is something a man wouldn't get from a white blonde pretty girl.
I am a virgin
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Just 8?
1 I am ugly
2 I am black
3 I am tall
4 I am shy, and not the cute type
5 I have anxiety
6 I have depression
7 I am a nerd, but also really dumb
8 I don't like normal people stuff, like partying
Bonus:
my body is a weird shape
Nothing I can offer is something a man wouldn't get from a white blonde pretty girl.
I am a virgin
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Cat
Lol idk why I even come to these videos I already know why I am 18 and single. I have high standards yet low self esteem, like I want to date someone smart and attractive yet I feel like at the same time I could not get a man like that. The same with why I have zero friends. Idk whats wrong with me I need therapy but its expensive. Also I have horrible social skills so.
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Lol idk why I even come to these videos I already know why I am 18 and single. I have high standards yet low self esteem, like I want to date someone smart and attractive yet I feel like at the same time I could not get a man like that. The same with why I have zero friends. Idk whats wrong with me I need therapy but its expensive. Also I have horrible social skills so.
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Monaural
Do you want to have relationships that last and last? GO FOR FRIENDSHIP AND STOP THERE. Romance opens a door no one wants to acknowledge; conflict, fights, pressure, tension. That person you couldnt stay away from becomessurprise surprisethe person you cant wait to get away from. Think Im joking? Just sit down with most any divorced person. Youll be enlightened.
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Do you want to have relationships that last and last? GO FOR FRIENDSHIP AND STOP THERE. Romance opens a door no one wants to acknowledge; conflict, fights, pressure, tension. That person you couldnt stay away from becomessurprise surprisethe person you cant wait to get away from. Think Im joking? Just sit down with most any divorced person. Youll be enlightened.
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Elena
Ngl its cause most ppl dont want relationship they only want meaningless hookups I want a life long partner Ive never dated anyone because no one has ever offered to date me or told me they liked me then like I said I want someone that will be with me forever and not just say it act like it plus I dont like cusual hookups its weird idk them they dont know me
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Ngl its cause most ppl dont want relationship they only want meaningless hookups I want a life long partner Ive never dated anyone because no one has ever offered to date me or told me they liked me then like I said I want someone that will be with me forever and not just say it act like it plus I dont like cusual hookups its weird idk them they dont know me
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Viktor
This is kind of unrealistic. There's a huge barrier to entry in the dating scene that is incredibly focused on appearances and social standing.
Dating is not easy and a myriad of factors need to line up to even have a shot.
I would say this video is best for children in middle and high school but this isn't going to work in real life.
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This is kind of unrealistic. There's a huge barrier to entry in the dating scene that is incredibly focused on appearances and social standing.
Dating is not easy and a myriad of factors need to line up to even have a shot.
I would say this video is best for children in middle and high school but this isn't going to work in real life.
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SJ
Sometimes when I watch these videos I kinda think theyre pop psych and dont necessarily hold merit, but this video really helped me. It made me feel normal and like Im not alone. It helped me understand why Im so alone. Im 25 and no one Ive ever liked, even a little bit, has liked me back. But maybe Im not doomed to be alone forever.
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Sometimes when I watch these videos I kinda think theyre pop psych and dont necessarily hold merit, but this video really helped me. It made me feel normal and like Im not alone. It helped me understand why Im so alone. Im 25 and no one Ive ever liked, even a little bit, has liked me back. But maybe Im not doomed to be alone forever.
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Gaming
Tbh, the reason I never dated bc I'm a freshman in high school, and I'm introverted. And I'm working on what I need to work on and what I need to worried about, so ofc I bot focus on dating but at some point I have to have some dating experience, and I working on myself and learning more about myself so, I'll date till I'm ready.
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Tbh, the reason I never dated bc I'm a freshman in high school, and I'm introverted. And I'm working on what I need to work on and what I need to worried about, so ofc I bot focus on dating but at some point I have to have some dating experience, and I working on myself and learning more about myself so, I'll date till I'm ready.
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TheMarrification
The trouble is, after so long without getting your needs met, so much intense bitterness and resentment has built up, that it makes being nice to a potential new significant other nearly impossible. I think Paul Simon said it well: the nearer your destination, the more you're slip-sliding away.
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The trouble is, after so long without getting your needs met, so much intense bitterness and resentment has built up, that it makes being nice to a potential new significant other nearly impossible. I think Paul Simon said it well: the nearer your destination, the more you're slip-sliding away.
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Nezumi-sama
All of those options seem to fit me. Or maybe none of them do. I don't really know. Can the reason I haven't dated be so complex that it's unknowable?
Also, how do I know who to even attempt to be interested in? Like, what if I don't know? What if I don't even know which gender I'm attracted to?
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All of those options seem to fit me. Or maybe none of them do. I don't really know. Can the reason I haven't dated be so complex that it's unknowable?
Also, how do I know who to even attempt to be interested in? Like, what if I don't know? What if I don't even know which gender I'm attracted to?
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Zrex99
I am 52 and never been in a relationship. I have been diagnosed with Aspergers Syndrome and regarded as an INTJ.
The inability to relate to others has been a demoralized issue for myself. There's never having a girlfriend and then never being able to relate to people.
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I am 52 and never been in a relationship. I have been diagnosed with Aspergers Syndrome and regarded as an INTJ.
The inability to relate to others has been a demoralized issue for myself. There's never having a girlfriend and then never being able to relate to people.
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Daw
I just don't know how to meet people. Join a group or do activities out of home isn't really helpful advice because honestly stuff like that isn't appealing to me and I don't like interacting with strangers. It honestly feels a bit hopeless for me
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I just don't know how to meet people. Join a group or do activities out of home isn't really helpful advice because honestly stuff like that isn't appealing to me and I don't like interacting with strangers. It honestly feels a bit hopeless for me
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Ying
Almost all these are in my checklist. The vulnerability part and self love hit me so hard especially. I find it difficult to open up and be out there vulnerable when I'm still learning to love myself. I'm actually a coward about falling in love.
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Almost all these are in my checklist. The vulnerability part and self love hit me so hard especially. I find it difficult to open up and be out there vulnerable when I'm still learning to love myself. I'm actually a coward about falling in love.
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Leslie
28 and never dated, kissed, etc. I'm a late bloomer and never really cared. But now it's just getting to me. It feels awful and I guess I just have to get used to the fact that no one wants me. It's hard, but love may just not be for me.
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28 and never dated, kissed, etc. I'm a late bloomer and never really cared. But now it's just getting to me. It feels awful and I guess I just have to get used to the fact that no one wants me. It's hard, but love may just not be for me.
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No
I'm divorced and 50. I look miserable all of the time and I always avoid women because I know if I ever get close to them I will destroy their lives. I am useless and being single is the only realistic choice. No Serial Killer.
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I'm divorced and 50. I look miserable all of the time and I always avoid women because I know if I ever get close to them I will destroy their lives. I am useless and being single is the only realistic choice. No Serial Killer.
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Jeff
I'm 50 years old, a virgin, and never been in a serious relationship before. There are a lot of things wrong with me. I am a complete loser and can't see why any woman would want anything to do with me in the first place.
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I'm 50 years old, a virgin, and never been in a serious relationship before. There are a lot of things wrong with me. I am a complete loser and can't see why any woman would want anything to do with me in the first place.
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silversleeper
Im 30 and never dated before. Never let anyone tell you theres something wrong with you just because you arent in a relationship when they think you should be. Ive never once regretted the way I live my life.
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Im 30 and never dated before. Never let anyone tell you theres something wrong with you just because you arent in a relationship when they think you should be. Ive never once regretted the way I live my life.
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adam
i've been way too scared too date after someone dated me just for nudes i didn't even release at the time bc i was so young but now im too scared and i think someone would just date me to use me
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i've been way too scared too date after someone dated me just for nudes i didn't even release at the time bc i was so young but now im too scared and i think someone would just date me to use me
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