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Watch This Video If You Feel Broken

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Feeling broken? The feeling of being overwhelmed by work, the feeling when life deals you blow after blow and it doesnt seem like things will ever get better. The feeling that youll never reach your goals, no matter how hard you try, and that everyone can see and is focused on your faults and failings. But when all seems hopeless, what can you do to change this? What can you keep in mind so you can keep going and be prepared for when this next happens? It can be a long, hard road that leads out of dark times, but I promise it will be worth it. The path out can be found
Date: 2023-08-20

Comments and reviews: 25


The worst part of any life problem is when you are faced within a limbo. I am currently in one right now with nothing but hope which I can see can pull me out of my problem. However, with every life problem, there is always an important lesson you yourself can learn. Things happen for a reason and it is evident why we must go through it. However, life always puts us through the test but never kills us, there is always a way out. For instance, I learned a lot about the number 1 though my current difficult moment. Before, I used to say, oh its just one mistake, one mistake wont hurt, but here I am today understanding that 1 is not just 1, it can mean everything. Just as how thin the line between life and death is. 1 mistake is able to turn the entire course of your life around. However, there is always a spec of hope somewhere in there. I am sure many others due to being older and having more life experience, surely have felt more painful and stressful moments than me and probably had smaller chances of fixing errors and having a shorter limbo state. In my short life, most likely this is the biggest block I have faced in my life and my current state in the limbo phase reflects that clearly. I did learn my lesson from this mistake but as still in limbo, there is a small hope that that 1 can be nullified and I can move on from this experience and hard test, that life bestowed upon me, as a better person and with renowned self-confidence. The lesson I got from the number 1 is something that I will carry with me forever no matter what the outcome of my problem will be at the end of limbo. Life always gives you opportunities, first so many and it is your choice whether to fix yourself or not. If you continue ignoring them, life will make you realize your mistake in the hardest way imaginable and gives you a reality check directly in the thing which you want the most. Limbo usually occurs from here. But just remember that life stresses you out, punishes you, makes you suffer, but doesnt strangle you. If you find your resolve and truly understand where your faults are at, doesnt matter if it was recent or years ago, it might just give you another chance. We are human after all, we make mistakes.
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Anyone just feel that feeling where your not happy not sad nor mad or miss the feeling of feeling just rather a constant emotion of idk how to explain it but like a feeling of spacing out thinking in deeply not caring about anything not talking focusing less on fun and rather on gitng things done. then git that slight feeling of emotion again and miss it for a spilt second is that being broken? I'm thinking about forcing these emotions on myself witch u have to be in the beginning state of this prossce to where you can force your self to make u feel something all the time. such as forcing your self to be happy overly happy such a fake happy u feel so good inside letting people brake u down, shame u and then agreeing with them and changing what u did just feeling so happy. the person who I changed for was so much differt after I acted as they clearly wanted and i loved it. but I chouldnt fake it any longer the feeling stopped after they said I talk to much while telling them to rest doing my best to be happy. to listen to pretend when it's never enough. they told me they wanted to play their game after ignoring me for half of the day and I felt fine in my state of fake happyenis I kept talking about how I wanted them to rest after(like a nap)bc they sleep half of the day and they said I prevent them from sleeping to git better from being sick. i said after they play their game to sleep a litte then they can talk to me I did this to try and show I care and to show love. then they got mad at me and said bc of me they didn't wanna play anymore. I can' lt decide if this is healthy but almost to the point where eather forcing happiness or forcing brake down? I only wrote this comment as a vent ig I feel rather less stressed and this non feeling feeling no longer feels as heavy im so happy to git that off my chest.
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Hello world - just some advice from a guy who has been broken and stepped on etc. It's important to treat others well but i've learned to set boundaries, don't tell everyone everything. Self preservation is key. Don't compare yourself to everyone. The world is tough and it seems the more you are a manipulative arsehole, the more you succeed. Most of the really decent people are at the bottom or middle, just doing their thing. My experience is to go back to the core, work on your strengths and try to get back out there. Slowly, if you have to - remember if you cant run then walk, if you cant walk then crawl, just please dont give up! isolating and dwelling on stuff will only make it worse, keep active, keep breathing, keep talking to people you know. If you dont know many people, hell talk to me! alot of sensitive, decent people suffer the most as we are more reactive to things, try not take everything personally. Just breath and take it day by day. You WILL get there, don't think you won't. Surround yourself with positive people or people you can trust, don't tell them everything just start with a general conversation and go from there. I wish all you beautiful people out there the best, in my opinion there is something after we die so try not to worry too much, sit back, enjoy the view and let it roll. Get out of your head and listen more to your heart, the storm will pass. Good luck.
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Crashed the vehicle I have had since 1996 and love dearly. My house was destroyed by fire. My amazingly good paying job is closed due to coronavirus. The hotel I am staying does not allow my wolves to stay so I am paying a really expensive wildlife refuge to house them. Everything in house was destroyed. I can not repair my vehicle to run right because the house is considered too dangerous to enter so I can not use my tools. My second vehicle is still in the attached garage and was caved in my smoldering debris falling on the roof. I must drive under freeway speeds to keep violent shaking from taking place. Cycles of heavy rain, then hard freezes, and heavy rain assure the house is saturated with water and ice. My clothing I am wearing stinks; though, I wash them every night on an antique washboard I had in the back porch. The insurance company is a joke. It provided a hotel room but say tells me my home, if repairable, will be unloveable for half a, year or more. They will not simply give me a down-payment for a different house. On the back porch I found an immaculate, white, length of rope. For fun, I tied a noose. Now, I am starting to feel the noose is sounding very, very, inviting to use. The length of rope is rather long. A long drop hanging would snap a neck instantly. Nobody would even miss me. Happy new year.
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I feel alone and worthless. I'm no one's first choice, not even my mom. My sister is better than me in everything, has more money, has loads of friends, and now, the only thing that made me special was my artistic skills, but now out of nowhere she says she's a writer (she was never really creative until now, she's like 33) made a blog, a kinda known blogger's page published one of her texts (they publish many people, but she and everyone around her made it a big deal) everyone is praising her now, and I've been kinda forgotten. Nothing really makes me special. I have almost no friends. My mom prefers my sister. I'm really good in visual arts but no one really cares. My mom used to be kinda proud of the artworks I did, but now with this new thing with my sister, that has taken all of her attention. I just don't know what to do. I know this sounds petty and childish, but I really feel awful. I feel so alone and worthless, I don't want to feel like this.
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I've been depressed and broken for years now.
It started around the age of 12. When I first started dating. I went through multiple break ups throughout the 1st year. I started chasing down people I knew I couldn't have, my friend who was legal (18+) was one of them.
I felt so sad and lonely, I let it consume me.
The stress led to self harm, criticizing myself, wishing I was dead. Those things have messed me up. I don't know if i'll ever recover. I don't like asking for help from people I know. I used to go on chat rooms and find random people, and we'd talk for hours. I'd talk about my favorite animals, show them my art. But I stopped doing that.
I feel more broken now than I did before.
I've lost interest in my hobbies, art, animals. I find self care harder too. I forget to remove my makeup, or am too tired to. I have insomnia, and i have trouble eating. I don't know what to do except hope I can fix myself.

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I hope you can see that there are people in you life that care about you, you might even be surprised by the people who real care. If you don't hear or read it from anyone else today, I love you and things will get better!
If you are ever feeling broken or down, look to the people in your life; family, friends, acquaintances, or even strangers, you never know who will take the time, but sometimes just saying that you need help is enough to start moving the right direction.
For me it took me telling a person that I thought wouldn't stop me, but they did, and they got me the help I needed. I gained the tools during that time in my life that have helped me get where I could live and cope with depression and a simple bad day or week. There is pain is still in my life and past that can pull me back down into despair, but I now know how to express my feelings in a better way and have people that I trust who will pick me back up.

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Hi ummm, i need help and dont know where else to go lol. I dont really have a support system at all. But this seems like a safe place. I just really need some advice.
I have way too many thoughts of hurting myself. Im very scared for my safety. I tell myself that i would never kms, but sometimes (especially around my period) all i want to do is die.
Ive never cut myself or physically damaged myself to feel better but i often dig my nails into my skin or hit myself on the back of the head until my vision is blurry when im very upset.
I have no one to talk to and alot going on. I dont want to hurt myself but the temptation of cutting my skin is driving me insane. I just want some sort of release. I dont have any hobbies or ways to express my anger and emotions. So i just keep pushing stuff further and i want to stop. If anybody has advice or anything to say at all, please help. Im really scared.

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These videos seem to be for people who work office jobs or are stay at home moms.
I wonder when I will find peace in my heart. I've done everything. But nothing is working. Nothing at all. And I can't even afford to spend any time with a therapist nor the money. The people in my life are always gone and doing their lives and here I am. I'm afraid of everything. I'm afraid of not pleasing people and while people say I shouldn't or I should be myself, it's not easy to just do something especially when current circumstances dictate otherwise. I definitely don't think life was meant for me and I was probably an accident. Considering the fact that my parents struggled because of having me, abused for many years and I can't even remember the last time I ever had anyone be genuine about loving me without needing anything from me.

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I got rejected by the one i love, she is the most important person in my life and she is the only person i really care about, but now every time i see her with her best friend i feel dead and i want to cry but the tear dont fall, every person i know say that i need to stop seeing her because if i keep doing it i will just get hurt, but im scared as hell, im scared that i will lose her, and the tought of my life without her make me sick, but if i keep going like im doing now i never gonna get out of this problem, so i seriously dont know what to do.
i just wish that one of my friend come to me and say that i will be fine, that everything will be ok. but the truth is that i dont have anyone that really care about me.
i feel so alone, i just hope that i will be fine.

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Definitely needed this. I've been nervous and scared before, but thanks to the pandemic and sudden life changes at the end of 2021, I find myself in survival mode and on medication and right now, each day is an unknown of how hard the struggle will be. I'm grateful I started a mental health journey a while ago so I have some tools and decent mindset to combat the anxiety and anxiety attacks, but it's hard not to feel a little broken when things are really on a good path but your brain still acts like tigers constantly want to eat you, which leaves you struggling most days.
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I got a new job, a bit after I split with my first partner of 2 years, from things out of our control, then a doctor told me I have asthma. The last few weeks have been a blur. I've felt so sad, all the time. I don't enjoy much of anything anymore. I'm afraid and feel so alone. I've never had a breakup, the reason wasn't something either of us could control, and we were really happy together. I went my whole life without meeting someone like her. I'm terrified it'll be a lifetime without meeting someone like her again. I'm so tired.
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As someone who has struggled with many suicide attempts and depression in the past, I just want to let those who are struggling know that there is hope, and you CAN get through this. Even if you don't see a way out, there is hope, and you are special and unique. Don't throw away the beautiful gift of life. It can be painful, beautiful, and scary, and we have to ride the rollercoaster of emotions at all times, but you CAN get through this. I hope you have a wonderful day, or that you can have a better one tomorrow. You are loved!
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I feel broken. I am facing an unavoidable situation that could possibly be life changing (and not in a good way. I feel so hopeless in facing it. I want to run away as far from it as I can. But I cannot. It's coming no matter how hard I wish it wasn't. So all I can do is accept it and hope for the best. If not, then accept the outcome and try to move on one day at a time. When life throws shit at you it may stick to you for a while I guess. All I can do is accept it and ask for help from wherever I can. Peace.
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Being present is HUGE. I often find myself catatonic with worrying about the future. My therapist recommended to focus on the moment. Focus on what is currently happening. And to just take one day at a time. It has made a big difference. Instead of worrying about whats at the end, I just focus on taking each step to get there. Much less overwhelming. Im not perfect and still worry from time to time but then I remember to focus on the present and it helps calm me
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Goals, Hopes and Dreams are just that. Dreams. The average person will not achieve anything substantial or meet their aspirations and thats ok. Best thing to do is just roll with the punches, stop comparing yourself to others, learn to be thankful and content with who and where you are in life. work on yourself. Spend as much time with the people you love and care about. Forget about the social hype, it wont mend anything. Just live life in the moment
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I needed this video, and Im so thankful for this account. The last few months havent been easy and I have a sense of dread about whether a certain decision I want to make is the right one. I have so much fear about what comes after it that I feel paralysed, and the thought of hurting someone else makes me feel sick. I hope I can find some courage and clarity from somewhere, but in the meantime this video brought me some peace.
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The statement your emotions are experiences are valid really. REALLY stands out to me. My family thinks that the nearest vending machine is way more important than me. My siblings anyway. They all act like I do not matter when I talk about my stuff. But they later imply (even say) oh, we're concerned about you & how you should be doing things that others have done and what you HAVE done isn't important. Toxic. Whatever.
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I guess I finally have a word for it
broken
I never really knew what it was I was feeling. It just gets worse, especially when it's just you in your own thoughts all the time, it puts you in a dark place. It sucks that depression and suicide, or just mental health in general, is such a sensitive topic that no one really likes to talk about. I wish it wasnt. Maybe then it wouldn't have gotten as bad as it did

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Cute video, but I think a lot of our unhappiness stems from unrealilistic expectations. For the bulk of history most people lived hard lives although those details are left out of our education. Then there's the rule of diminishing returns, where chasing happiness or satisfaction just gets more difficult the more you succeed. We're all broken, but that's okay.
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Well I bury my problems, I had tried to make a digital journal. All that did was cause more regrets then it did help, opening up to my friends doesn't make me feel any better either. I don't know what to do about it anymore, and I'm scared. I'm scared that I dug myself a hole that I won't be able to get out of.
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I broked from. my 3 best friend today without any reason. I feel this Sh. t again and again and agian. I cant escape from this feeling entire my life. I feel. this again and these videos cant helping me. What i have to do i dont want feel this anymore. I am always being and feelimg alone and feel this sh. t
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The reason why I feel broken is:
Not that i feel i can't reach my goals, but bcoz I don't find myself willing to have any goals at all
I don't even feel like getting help and I'm in a state of acceptance of my condition and I'm just resistant to any change in my life
I couldn't care less

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3: 40 Social Media is not your reality, I'm so happy that I didn't have it and still do not want young people to use it as a reality for their lives, to measure what they think is another's filtered photo shopped
Reality it is not an easy thing for the developing mind to espire to obtain.

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I've been stuck in the past. Unable to learn from mistakes. Always blamed anything else. Took no responsibility for my actions.
Now I get: my friends and family are there to help me. Nature is my second home. Anything in life is a lessons if you are willing to recognize it.

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