8 Signs Your Relationship Will Last Forever
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Date: 2023-08-20
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EEF
TW: self harm
Me and my boyfriend both have depression and Im proud to say that I am getting a lot better, he and my therapist have helped with that. Him on the other hand, well he cuts and drinks and hes really tried to stop and he was doing well for a little while but just recently he caved in and said to me that he doesnt think he can stop. I keep telling him that he needs professional help, that its ok to ask for help, and that he deserves to be happy, but he always gets mad when I even mention a therapist and he always says that he doesnt deserve that kind of help. I try to be cheery around him because I want to be a good influence and it worked a little bit. I know its gone to far for to long and I know that I need to tell someone but at the same time, hes mentioned have fights with his parents and cutting afterwards so I dont want to tell his parents because I dont know what theyre like. I dont know what to do. I would much rather him be alive to hate me than him be dead and me hating him, myself and regretting what I didnt do. You might be thinking why would I hate him? If he ever killed himself then that means he gave up. He would have given up on himself, me, and everything and everyone else around him. He loves me and I love him, but as much as I hate to say I dont think I could ever forgive something like that. I dont know what to do. I want to tell someone who can really help him but Im afraid hed hate me afterwards but like I said before I would rather him be alive to hate me. All I want is for him to be happy so we can have a healthy relationship. And I mentioned that he drinks, now I just want to make it clear he does not abuse me in any way in fact he is one of the most sweetest people I know. If anyone has any advice please feel free to share.
I also want to add that me and him have most of these in the video
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TW: self harm
Me and my boyfriend both have depression and Im proud to say that I am getting a lot better, he and my therapist have helped with that. Him on the other hand, well he cuts and drinks and hes really tried to stop and he was doing well for a little while but just recently he caved in and said to me that he doesnt think he can stop. I keep telling him that he needs professional help, that its ok to ask for help, and that he deserves to be happy, but he always gets mad when I even mention a therapist and he always says that he doesnt deserve that kind of help. I try to be cheery around him because I want to be a good influence and it worked a little bit. I know its gone to far for to long and I know that I need to tell someone but at the same time, hes mentioned have fights with his parents and cutting afterwards so I dont want to tell his parents because I dont know what theyre like. I dont know what to do. I would much rather him be alive to hate me than him be dead and me hating him, myself and regretting what I didnt do. You might be thinking why would I hate him? If he ever killed himself then that means he gave up. He would have given up on himself, me, and everything and everyone else around him. He loves me and I love him, but as much as I hate to say I dont think I could ever forgive something like that. I dont know what to do. I want to tell someone who can really help him but Im afraid hed hate me afterwards but like I said before I would rather him be alive to hate me. All I want is for him to be happy so we can have a healthy relationship. And I mentioned that he drinks, now I just want to make it clear he does not abuse me in any way in fact he is one of the most sweetest people I know. If anyone has any advice please feel free to share.
I also want to add that me and him have most of these in the video
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Jade
Me and my boyfriend have fight but they've never been really bad cause we try to work through it
While my boyfriend doesn't really care about what we do together, I make sure he's ok with whatever we're doing. And he does the same. And we tend to agree on most everything
When it comes to that the only time I think in I, is really I want to make him happy today. Or I want to spend time with if he's free.
I trust him whole heartedly and I don't ever want to do anything to break his trust. We've been through a lot together and I believe it's made us stronger.
He accepts me for me and I accept him as he is. I can never stop telling him how wonderful he is.
Like I said before we agree on a lot of things and are very open minded when talking to each other about things.
If I want to do something and he doesn't feel comfortable we don't do it( unless he's being a jerk then it's a bit justified, and vice versa. And he's already sacrificed so much for me, and I've kinda done the same.
He's made me feel so much happier and has been there for me through so much. I feel at ease with him and safe. He helped me accept myself more then I used to. I hope I do the same for and I intend to make sure I do
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Me and my boyfriend have fight but they've never been really bad cause we try to work through it
While my boyfriend doesn't really care about what we do together, I make sure he's ok with whatever we're doing. And he does the same. And we tend to agree on most everything
When it comes to that the only time I think in I, is really I want to make him happy today. Or I want to spend time with if he's free.
I trust him whole heartedly and I don't ever want to do anything to break his trust. We've been through a lot together and I believe it's made us stronger.
He accepts me for me and I accept him as he is. I can never stop telling him how wonderful he is.
Like I said before we agree on a lot of things and are very open minded when talking to each other about things.
If I want to do something and he doesn't feel comfortable we don't do it( unless he's being a jerk then it's a bit justified, and vice versa. And he's already sacrificed so much for me, and I've kinda done the same.
He's made me feel so much happier and has been there for me through so much. I feel at ease with him and safe. He helped me accept myself more then I used to. I hope I do the same for and I intend to make sure I do
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Qoom
i kinda have a problem right now, and im wondering if anyone can help,
i really messed up in my relationship and my girlfriend is really mad at me with good reason.
i was really selfish and told a couple of my friends about some of the private stuff that we have done.
i dont know why i did it, but it was really messed up and i regret it with all my heart.
shes really mad at me and im not sure how to make up for it.
should i let her cool off or do something to make things better?
please help me if you know what to do or have expirienced the same thing.
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i kinda have a problem right now, and im wondering if anyone can help,
i really messed up in my relationship and my girlfriend is really mad at me with good reason.
i was really selfish and told a couple of my friends about some of the private stuff that we have done.
i dont know why i did it, but it was really messed up and i regret it with all my heart.
shes really mad at me and im not sure how to make up for it.
should i let her cool off or do something to make things better?
please help me if you know what to do or have expirienced the same thing.
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Sea2Sky
Recently met someone whom we have everything except 1 and 4. Only because we haven't really had much conflict yet. Also we both have trust issues, so 4 is going to take some time. I've always been a list person, and these 8 signs in the past would've meant missing those two I would've written the person off. Maturing more currently, I realize that these things will develop over time as well. If they don't that's a whole different sign; ) and hopefully another video for further self-reflection. Thank you psych2go
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Recently met someone whom we have everything except 1 and 4. Only because we haven't really had much conflict yet. Also we both have trust issues, so 4 is going to take some time. I've always been a list person, and these 8 signs in the past would've meant missing those two I would've written the person off. Maturing more currently, I realize that these things will develop over time as well. If they don't that's a whole different sign; ) and hopefully another video for further self-reflection. Thank you psych2go
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Wendy
For Point 2: My partner and I have a clear dom/sub dynamic and have from the very beginning. Nothing kinky, just that he's a natural dominant and I'm a natural submissive, and we know this about each other. That said, he consistently asks my thoughts, feelings, and opinions about things (and if he doesn't, I feel free to tell him, and considers them when making decisions, and I try to do the same for him. It's the most balanced relationship I've ever had! because we understand and respect each other at all times.
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For Point 2: My partner and I have a clear dom/sub dynamic and have from the very beginning. Nothing kinky, just that he's a natural dominant and I'm a natural submissive, and we know this about each other. That said, he consistently asks my thoughts, feelings, and opinions about things (and if he doesn't, I feel free to tell him, and considers them when making decisions, and I try to do the same for him. It's the most balanced relationship I've ever had! because we understand and respect each other at all times.
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Grunnen
Just a random rant but I feel like my amazing partner matches all of the criteria, he's such a good person, but I'm not quite sure about myself. I can be quite stubborn and hard to talk to at times. He's also kind of quiet and reserved while I'm more on the dominant and outspoken side. I feel like being with him makes me really happy but I'm not sure if its the same case with him. But as far as sacrifices go I'm willing to do anything for him, really.
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Just a random rant but I feel like my amazing partner matches all of the criteria, he's such a good person, but I'm not quite sure about myself. I can be quite stubborn and hard to talk to at times. He's also kind of quiet and reserved while I'm more on the dominant and outspoken side. I feel like being with him makes me really happy but I'm not sure if its the same case with him. But as far as sacrifices go I'm willing to do anything for him, really.
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Rebeka
I belived him and while I had a really sad year after a funeral of a close family member, he found someone else to talk with and he fell for her. He wanted to leave me at a time when I started to feel better again. From that time I'm negative all the time, I don't believe in happiness. I don't believe in love. I feel better. I'm alone now, but I still don't believe in a happy life. Because always comes something to deal with, always.
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I belived him and while I had a really sad year after a funeral of a close family member, he found someone else to talk with and he fell for her. He wanted to leave me at a time when I started to feel better again. From that time I'm negative all the time, I don't believe in happiness. I don't believe in love. I feel better. I'm alone now, but I still don't believe in a happy life. Because always comes something to deal with, always.
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ZipJ
I watched this a month ago thinking, yea this is us. Little did I know it would end cause of the distance + her mental health. -.
It's so fing hard cause it ended 2 days ago but we both can't stop saying ily etc. She's been feeling bad now for 8 years (since she was 10. done bad stuff. but this year has been better, she reached 5 months without anything.
Now we're both here crying more than ever. -.
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I watched this a month ago thinking, yea this is us. Little did I know it would end cause of the distance + her mental health. -.
It's so fing hard cause it ended 2 days ago but we both can't stop saying ily etc. She's been feeling bad now for 8 years (since she was 10. done bad stuff. but this year has been better, she reached 5 months without anything.
Now we're both here crying more than ever. -.
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sharla
My boyfriend and I go through each others phones just for fun. He is an introvert, so I never have to worry about him seeing other girls.
He had other girls wanted to go out with him, but he turned them down for me. Every Saturday night he is on the computer playing video games with our friends. I know who he plays with all the time. I don't need to worry bout anything
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My boyfriend and I go through each others phones just for fun. He is an introvert, so I never have to worry about him seeing other girls.
He had other girls wanted to go out with him, but he turned them down for me. Every Saturday night he is on the computer playing video games with our friends. I know who he plays with all the time. I don't need to worry bout anything
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Pippy
Me and my partner share all of these. We were good friends for 3 years before we started dating. With all my other relationships, there was no build up of true friendship and all those relationships did not end well or last. Ive never been this happy. Please try to go for those you really build a connection with because its so rewarding in the end.
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Me and my partner share all of these. We were good friends for 3 years before we started dating. With all my other relationships, there was no build up of true friendship and all those relationships did not end well or last. Ive never been this happy. Please try to go for those you really build a connection with because its so rewarding in the end.
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snivygirl
Number 4 i track (with consent of course) where my bf is when he drives home. He always send his live location when he is on the road. So i know where he is and when he is expected to be home. Its not that i don't trust him. Its just because i don't want him getting into trouble for driving and texting and because he has a long drive to home.
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Number 4 i track (with consent of course) where my bf is when he drives home. He always send his live location when he is on the road. So i know where he is and when he is expected to be home. Its not that i don't trust him. Its just because i don't want him getting into trouble for driving and texting and because he has a long drive to home.
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ItzAugwa
Awww oh my god this made me so happy! Im currently in a LDR and have been in it for about 4 months, but this really does fit everything in our relationship and Im already very confident itll never end, and that its definitely very very special. Thank you psych, this definitely gave me a mood boost, as always
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Awww oh my god this made me so happy! Im currently in a LDR and have been in it for about 4 months, but this really does fit everything in our relationship and Im already very confident itll never end, and that its definitely very very special. Thank you psych, this definitely gave me a mood boost, as always
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Cosmo
I've been with my partner for a few months and we were already best friends before then, but watching this got me much more confident than I already was. She's helped me so much in the short time we've been together and I know she's gonna stay for a long time, whether our partnership is romantic, or platonic
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I've been with my partner for a few months and we were already best friends before then, but watching this got me much more confident than I already was. She's helped me so much in the short time we've been together and I know she's gonna stay for a long time, whether our partnership is romantic, or platonic
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Marta
I recently got into a relationship with my best friend and it matches all of these signs. I've never been happier, I've grown so much as a person lately and i love who I am around him. Feels like we have known each other since forever. Think i found my soulmate
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I recently got into a relationship with my best friend and it matches all of these signs. I've never been happier, I've grown so much as a person lately and i love who I am around him. Feels like we have known each other since forever. Think i found my soulmate
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Bradley
Relationships at this point seem like a dream especially the ones that last forever. I haven't always had the best luck at fulfilling my dreams and part of me kind of wants to give up because it doesn't seem like I'll ever find that forever love
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Relationships at this point seem like a dream especially the ones that last forever. I haven't always had the best luck at fulfilling my dreams and part of me kind of wants to give up because it doesn't seem like I'll ever find that forever love
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Natavia
I say we and us but he dont and wr get feels to have to have each other pw on social media and we never ever see eye to eye at things the only thing I say is good is that I can be my self in anything but everything seems not good at all
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I say we and us but he dont and wr get feels to have to have each other pw on social media and we never ever see eye to eye at things the only thing I say is good is that I can be my self in anything but everything seems not good at all
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Ella
What your relationship just started and you have a bad thoughts about yourself and your scared to tell them about your darker self (like sh) I never been in an relationship so I don't really know.
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What your relationship just started and you have a bad thoughts about yourself and your scared to tell them about your darker self (like sh) I never been in an relationship so I don't really know.
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SenaSong212
I know Ill be with my boyfriend forever were planning to get married soon and I couldnt be happier! Thank you for the video! We have all of these and it definitely makes me very happy
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I know Ill be with my boyfriend forever were planning to get married soon and I couldnt be happier! Thank you for the video! We have all of these and it definitely makes me very happy
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Kaito
With a certain man, I think I meet the criteria for 1, 2, a little of 3, some of 5, and we believe 8. Some of the tricky ones, we dont meet, but hes also thousands of miles away from me
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With a certain man, I think I meet the criteria for 1, 2, a little of 3, some of 5, and we believe 8. Some of the tricky ones, we dont meet, but hes also thousands of miles away from me
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bwerjdgfyhd
Don't judge a relationship by its problems. All relationships have their problems. Judge a relationship based on how the couple solve their problems.
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Don't judge a relationship by its problems. All relationships have their problems. Judge a relationship based on how the couple solve their problems.
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hengheng
i had all of these signs in my past friendship, but now they are disappointed in me bc i got rlly offended cuz i was sensitive just cuz they said 'stfu
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i had all of these signs in my past friendship, but now they are disappointed in me bc i got rlly offended cuz i was sensitive just cuz they said 'stfu
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Zhiyu
its only been 5 months together with him and honestly I felt like it would end in just 2-3 months but I feel like it defo gonna last longer than expected
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its only been 5 months together with him and honestly I felt like it would end in just 2-3 months but I feel like it defo gonna last longer than expected
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Harman
Ah yes another psych2go love related video I may have 0 relationships no crushes but you already know I am prepared when I think the time is right
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Ah yes another psych2go love related video I may have 0 relationships no crushes but you already know I am prepared when I think the time is right
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Anttjuan
Me and my gf just watched this together & we failed every point except possibly the sharing values one. She thinks we do but Im not too sure.
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Me and my gf just watched this together & we failed every point except possibly the sharing values one. She thinks we do but Im not too sure.
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afterglow
it makes me so happy that Im finally in a healthy relationship: ( this man is the love of my life I so wanna be with him till I die honestly
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it makes me so happy that Im finally in a healthy relationship: ( this man is the love of my life I so wanna be with him till I die honestly
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