What Your Dating Profile Says About You
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Date: 2024-09-13
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smoothcriminal2142
haven't tried online dating in around a decade but from what i remember:
first pictures was just me in my room in my favorite chair. second picture was from around 3 years prior and picked it because, while the chair was different, i was in the same room wearing the same shirt and i just found that funny. then a picture with me and my poodle Bo because that pup was like a little brother to me and then a few pictures of dumb shit i pulled off in video games.
i eventually put my visual disability front and center since it was an immediate turn off in prior attempts and i just wanted to save everyone's time by getting it out of the way. doesn't bother me if people see being unable to drive as a deal breaker, but i hated when everything went well just for that to throw a wrench into things. of course then i ran into the problem of making it seem like my disability was part of my identity but eh, lesser of two evils.
took a similar approach with the rest of it with the better to say too much than too little. mindset. probably was overwhelming for some but i just liked the idea of getting everything out in the open from the start. it worked kinda well in the short term but then found my next partner on dead by daylight of all things and so shut it down. not with them any longer but got less than zero interest in getting back into dating apps.
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haven't tried online dating in around a decade but from what i remember:
first pictures was just me in my room in my favorite chair. second picture was from around 3 years prior and picked it because, while the chair was different, i was in the same room wearing the same shirt and i just found that funny. then a picture with me and my poodle Bo because that pup was like a little brother to me and then a few pictures of dumb shit i pulled off in video games.
i eventually put my visual disability front and center since it was an immediate turn off in prior attempts and i just wanted to save everyone's time by getting it out of the way. doesn't bother me if people see being unable to drive as a deal breaker, but i hated when everything went well just for that to throw a wrench into things. of course then i ran into the problem of making it seem like my disability was part of my identity but eh, lesser of two evils.
took a similar approach with the rest of it with the better to say too much than too little. mindset. probably was overwhelming for some but i just liked the idea of getting everything out in the open from the start. it worked kinda well in the short term but then found my next partner on dead by daylight of all things and so shut it down. not with them any longer but got less than zero interest in getting back into dating apps.
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psych2go
1. I smile with many people but crying from the inside. Sometimes my smile is also awkward because of this.
2. I'm neutral to animals. I've no specific love or hate. What makes my inner person always damage my reputation by the facts that I don't agree with For example, I hate to see others suffer but I enjoy Happy Tree Friends and horror movies while hating cartoons like Itchy and Scratchy so much. I meant. What's wrong with me Who am I
3. I think I'm so complicated to be understood from outside Am I passive-aggressive or something
4. It's hard for me to be sincere if I'm being honest cause Ah. I'm mentally unstable.
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6. I've often said that I'm mentally unstable to who I meet as a friend always and yeah I think that won't benefit me.
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1. I smile with many people but crying from the inside. Sometimes my smile is also awkward because of this.
2. I'm neutral to animals. I've no specific love or hate. What makes my inner person always damage my reputation by the facts that I don't agree with For example, I hate to see others suffer but I enjoy Happy Tree Friends and horror movies while hating cartoons like Itchy and Scratchy so much. I meant. What's wrong with me Who am I
3. I think I'm so complicated to be understood from outside Am I passive-aggressive or something
4. It's hard for me to be sincere if I'm being honest cause Ah. I'm mentally unstable.
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6. I've often said that I'm mentally unstable to who I meet as a friend always and yeah I think that won't benefit me.
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violaisreallycool
I had a very fortunate situation on Hinge, one of the largest apps. It’s completely up to who you want to attract, how you set yourself apart, and how you can select your images and writings to reflect that. I was able to find a partner of a year from about 2-3 weeks of using that app as a cis-male. I tried to be as unapologetically myself and it paid off because that person who sees that and wants to be part of that recognizes the authenticity. Ultimately it was a positive experience because I knew what I wanted from it: a way to unambiguously search for a partner in a setting that allows me to meet so many more people than normally possible. Using it for that, it can be hugely beneficial!
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I had a very fortunate situation on Hinge, one of the largest apps. It’s completely up to who you want to attract, how you set yourself apart, and how you can select your images and writings to reflect that. I was able to find a partner of a year from about 2-3 weeks of using that app as a cis-male. I tried to be as unapologetically myself and it paid off because that person who sees that and wants to be part of that recognizes the authenticity. Ultimately it was a positive experience because I knew what I wanted from it: a way to unambiguously search for a partner in a setting that allows me to meet so many more people than normally possible. Using it for that, it can be hugely beneficial!
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kinzakugaming976
I tried a dating app before, it was a horrible experience that made me feel like absolute garbage. I put the genuine me forward and sent out countless likes, trying to start conversations. After 2 months I got zero likes back or responses to the likes I sent out. It ruined the progress I made on my self-image and self confidence.
TLDR Dating apps are the worst and no one wants to give people a shot. They all want their 10/10 perfect match and will ignore everyone else that doesn't their ideal image.
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I tried a dating app before, it was a horrible experience that made me feel like absolute garbage. I put the genuine me forward and sent out countless likes, trying to start conversations. After 2 months I got zero likes back or responses to the likes I sent out. It ruined the progress I made on my self-image and self confidence.
TLDR Dating apps are the worst and no one wants to give people a shot. They all want their 10/10 perfect match and will ignore everyone else that doesn't their ideal image.
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Rose_Butterfly98
Idk why I'm watching this one, I don't have one lols
Or maybe I do. Some people I used to be friends with made one to prove that I'm not that ugly it got like 0 matches. I overheard them discussing it while they thought I was still in the toilet. I have no idea what's on it but seeing as they always needed my help with their relationships or even texting whoever they liked, I doubt they knew what they were doing. Trying to prove me wrong is futile.
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Idk why I'm watching this one, I don't have one lols
Or maybe I do. Some people I used to be friends with made one to prove that I'm not that ugly it got like 0 matches. I overheard them discussing it while they thought I was still in the toilet. I have no idea what's on it but seeing as they always needed my help with their relationships or even texting whoever they liked, I doubt they knew what they were doing. Trying to prove me wrong is futile.
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davids2096
Everyone is always trying to size each other up to see if they may have the upper hand! It's unfortunate we have to act like this to survive! We should be more trusting, compassionate and caring, but it's too bad reality won't permit that because we may leave ourselves vulnerable to a plethora of different types of aggression from others! Maybe one day soon we'll be in a better place! Take care!
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Everyone is always trying to size each other up to see if they may have the upper hand! It's unfortunate we have to act like this to survive! We should be more trusting, compassionate and caring, but it's too bad reality won't permit that because we may leave ourselves vulnerable to a plethora of different types of aggression from others! Maybe one day soon we'll be in a better place! Take care!
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t. kersten7695
this video is a very sincere attempt to be helpful with such a difficult topic. but according to some people this entire online dating seems to be very in vain right now. it appers as if the online dating has become more like a stage for peoples hollowness and vanity to thrive; just a place where some people just seem to pick their next partners like some thing from an online shop.
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this video is a very sincere attempt to be helpful with such a difficult topic. but according to some people this entire online dating seems to be very in vain right now. it appers as if the online dating has become more like a stage for peoples hollowness and vanity to thrive; just a place where some people just seem to pick their next partners like some thing from an online shop.
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psych2go
I've tried online dating before and it's always a wet fart of a failure. I've gotten like 5 matches over the many many times I've tried dating apps and when I do get a match its ether from an obviously fake profile or my social anxiety does it's thing and I fail to have a conversation. Sucks so I gave up. As social anxiety doesn't let me try in real life so no dice I guess.
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I've tried online dating before and it's always a wet fart of a failure. I've gotten like 5 matches over the many many times I've tried dating apps and when I do get a match its ether from an obviously fake profile or my social anxiety does it's thing and I fail to have a conversation. Sucks so I gave up. As social anxiety doesn't let me try in real life so no dice I guess.
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ArtairMcKinley
When I used to use chat and dating sites, I’d upload photos of me travelling, relaxing at coffee shops, plants, art I’ve drawn, and restaurants I’ve visited. My bio details all of my interests and what I’m looking for but done very concisely. Keep it cute and classy with a little bit of spice is my personal motto, LOL.
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When I used to use chat and dating sites, I’d upload photos of me travelling, relaxing at coffee shops, plants, art I’ve drawn, and restaurants I’ve visited. My bio details all of my interests and what I’m looking for but done very concisely. Keep it cute and classy with a little bit of spice is my personal motto, LOL.
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kuroko_7380
Be yourself, be honest but only show the good, interesting stuff
But I want to inform others that I have mood swings and depressive phases and have no idea what I'm doing or how to love someone beforehand. How do I do that without scaring them away
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Be yourself, be honest but only show the good, interesting stuff
But I want to inform others that I have mood swings and depressive phases and have no idea what I'm doing or how to love someone beforehand. How do I do that without scaring them away
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m0Ray79
Not for schizoids and introverts. We mostly don't use those apps.
And when we use them, yes, we go into details and checklists. There's no way for us to interact with uncomfortable people. It's better to filter them out before we start.
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Not for schizoids and introverts. We mostly don't use those apps.
And when we use them, yes, we go into details and checklists. There's no way for us to interact with uncomfortable people. It's better to filter them out before we start.
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AngelMessUp
My strategy used to be this normal! After a lot of years in reality though, I'm more like if we hate the same stuff you can message me. I will also check your background to see if you're an ahole or has been to jail. Let's have fun!
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My strategy used to be this normal! After a lot of years in reality though, I'm more like if we hate the same stuff you can message me. I will also check your background to see if you're an ahole or has been to jail. Let's have fun!
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psych2go
Can you talk about something else please I just need something different as you have been covering these topics for like, 6 months now. Start talking about literally anything else please. I would be much happier. Anybody else like this
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Can you talk about something else please I just need something different as you have been covering these topics for like, 6 months now. Start talking about literally anything else please. I would be much happier. Anybody else like this
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HeldIntegral
If youre a girl using apps to find dates, dont be surprised when you get pumped and dumped. No one gives a fuc who u are. Seriously.
If youre a man doing the same thing, the girls think you're a 3. Proceed with caution
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If youre a girl using apps to find dates, dont be surprised when you get pumped and dumped. No one gives a fuc who u are. Seriously.
If youre a man doing the same thing, the girls think you're a 3. Proceed with caution
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A55a551n
Timestamps
1. What your photos says 0: 25
2. What your bio says 2: 13
3. Be honest and sincere 3: 15
4. Avoid cliches 3: 36
5. Keep it light 4: 09
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day.
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Timestamps
1. What your photos says 0: 25
2. What your bio says 2: 13
3. Be honest and sincere 3: 15
4. Avoid cliches 3: 36
5. Keep it light 4: 09
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day.
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JustAViewer44
I'm never posting myself in one of those sites.
It's already bad enough to be this ugly, and being rejected irl hurts.
Why would I do it again just to go through the same but by many more people
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I'm never posting myself in one of those sites.
It's already bad enough to be this ugly, and being rejected irl hurts.
Why would I do it again just to go through the same but by many more people
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anna. augustinova
I don't use dating apps anymore (I found my love, but apparently my dating profile told people what I wanted it to even through the less apparent things according to this video, so that's nice. :)
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I don't use dating apps anymore (I found my love, but apparently my dating profile told people what I wanted it to even through the less apparent things according to this video, so that's nice. :)
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eljoel89
Number one tip. Don't put any dead animals on your first picture. Doesn't matter if it's a hunting/fishing trip. No one wants to see a dead animal when they pull up your profile.
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Number one tip. Don't put any dead animals on your first picture. Doesn't matter if it's a hunting/fishing trip. No one wants to see a dead animal when they pull up your profile.
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palmiccz
The point is that all the photos are made to create the impression.
It's not authentic.
So your photos just says how you WANT others to see you. Everybody knows it.
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The point is that all the photos are made to create the impression.
It's not authentic.
So your photos just says how you WANT others to see you. Everybody knows it.
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psych2go
Dont waste your time. They are all shopping for a sugar daddy or support for their kids. Bettter off meeting somemone at college work or place of worship.
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Dont waste your time. They are all shopping for a sugar daddy or support for their kids. Bettter off meeting somemone at college work or place of worship.
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