Top 10 Signs She's a BAD Friend
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Date: 2023-11-20
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Gabbie
I've recently been dealing with a friendship situation. I have a friend but I'm not sure if they're actually my friend. I just don't feel the same way about them as I used to. If I'm being completly honest with myself I feel like they've always just kind of been hateful and rude to me. Sure every once in a while she would say something nice to me but it was kind of rare. When that happend it would usually be like in a group or something. Whem I first started hanging out with them I thought that they were pretty nice and cool. Wich half of that is not really true. I don't wanna say that I've made a mistake becoming friends with them but what else can I say? I don't really think I benefited from this relationship. If anything that person has just made me into a much hard shelled and assertive person. Some of that is good but I feel that maybe I'm not as nice as I used to be. At the beginning of our relationship I felt like I was really kind twoards her but she was never really nice back. She was just always brutally honest and judgmental. I also noticed that she wasn't a very polite person. Now some of that may due to the fact that my parents raised me to have good mammers and respect people but I guess not everyone is raised that way. I don't want to blame my friend's parents for their behavior but it seems that she's never been taught manners. I noticed that when I would meet their father he always seemed to be mad or on edge. He was also not that polite. I remember not to long ago he asked me in a very demanding tone to take a picture of him with my friend so I did but apparently the lightning wasn't good so I had to take another one. After I took the second picture I gave the camera back and he said good enough. Is it just me or wasn't he supposed to say thanks? I guess that's why my friend doesn't have commen manners. My friends mother on the othet hand is very sweet and kind. I can say this because she bought me breakfast before. I noticed that one time my friend's mom said something to my friend and my friend yelled hatefully back. It was kind of unnecessary. In my opinion you should be respectful to your mother and be polite towards her. Speaking of being polite, not to long ago a bunch of friends and I went to an ice cream shop. We went inside and my friend that I've been mentioning throughout this whole story doesn't hold the door open for me and it slams in my face. And I say Thanks a lot! I've noticed that they actually like NEVER hold the door open. Maybe I'm being a little too judgemental about that but seriously holding doors open for people is just commen curtisy. So when my friend kept being rude I just decided to not be nice to her anymore and give them a taste of their own medicine. But I regret doing this so much now because it's done nothing for me or my friend. It just resulted in me being a much more hateful person and me and my friend being mean twoards each other. Things just keep getting worse and worse and I feel miserable in the situation I'm in. I don't know what to do. Every time I try to start a conversation the never really engage. Speaking of one of my other friends told me that my friend told them that THEY were the one always trying to start a conversation. I feel that this is very untrue because I'm usually the first one to text them. At this point I say why keep trying? But then I think about all the consequences of not being their friend. Like what if things get awkward between us and this affects our group hangouts. Speaking of our group none of my other friends seem to be having the same problem as me with that same friend. Another consequence is that I don't know how to tell them that I don't want to be their friend. I'm not sure about of they feel the same way or if I'm just overreacting this whole thingm it's just so stressful for me and I really just don't know what to do.
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I've recently been dealing with a friendship situation. I have a friend but I'm not sure if they're actually my friend. I just don't feel the same way about them as I used to. If I'm being completly honest with myself I feel like they've always just kind of been hateful and rude to me. Sure every once in a while she would say something nice to me but it was kind of rare. When that happend it would usually be like in a group or something. Whem I first started hanging out with them I thought that they were pretty nice and cool. Wich half of that is not really true. I don't wanna say that I've made a mistake becoming friends with them but what else can I say? I don't really think I benefited from this relationship. If anything that person has just made me into a much hard shelled and assertive person. Some of that is good but I feel that maybe I'm not as nice as I used to be. At the beginning of our relationship I felt like I was really kind twoards her but she was never really nice back. She was just always brutally honest and judgmental. I also noticed that she wasn't a very polite person. Now some of that may due to the fact that my parents raised me to have good mammers and respect people but I guess not everyone is raised that way. I don't want to blame my friend's parents for their behavior but it seems that she's never been taught manners. I noticed that when I would meet their father he always seemed to be mad or on edge. He was also not that polite. I remember not to long ago he asked me in a very demanding tone to take a picture of him with my friend so I did but apparently the lightning wasn't good so I had to take another one. After I took the second picture I gave the camera back and he said good enough. Is it just me or wasn't he supposed to say thanks? I guess that's why my friend doesn't have commen manners. My friends mother on the othet hand is very sweet and kind. I can say this because she bought me breakfast before. I noticed that one time my friend's mom said something to my friend and my friend yelled hatefully back. It was kind of unnecessary. In my opinion you should be respectful to your mother and be polite towards her. Speaking of being polite, not to long ago a bunch of friends and I went to an ice cream shop. We went inside and my friend that I've been mentioning throughout this whole story doesn't hold the door open for me and it slams in my face. And I say Thanks a lot! I've noticed that they actually like NEVER hold the door open. Maybe I'm being a little too judgemental about that but seriously holding doors open for people is just commen curtisy. So when my friend kept being rude I just decided to not be nice to her anymore and give them a taste of their own medicine. But I regret doing this so much now because it's done nothing for me or my friend. It just resulted in me being a much more hateful person and me and my friend being mean twoards each other. Things just keep getting worse and worse and I feel miserable in the situation I'm in. I don't know what to do. Every time I try to start a conversation the never really engage. Speaking of one of my other friends told me that my friend told them that THEY were the one always trying to start a conversation. I feel that this is very untrue because I'm usually the first one to text them. At this point I say why keep trying? But then I think about all the consequences of not being their friend. Like what if things get awkward between us and this affects our group hangouts. Speaking of our group none of my other friends seem to be having the same problem as me with that same friend. Another consequence is that I don't know how to tell them that I don't want to be their friend. I'm not sure about of they feel the same way or if I'm just overreacting this whole thingm it's just so stressful for me and I really just don't know what to do.
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Joi
My best friend never admits when shes wrong, never owns up to her mistakes that shes made with me or how shes treated me. Its very frustrating. And she does the bailing thing too. Every time Ive asked to hang out this summer shes always had some excuse to say no. She doesnt reciprocate or make me feel important in her life anymore. I also got a ticket from my grandma to go see Hamilton and she was so jealous about it and told me not to send her any pictures or tell her about it. She couldnt even just be happy and tell me to enjoy it. She also hasnt introduced me to her bf who shes been dating for 7 months now. Its like Im not important enough to her to do so. And I honestly feel like she doesnt appreciate how good of a friend Ive been to her. She wasnt even there for me when my grandfather passed away. Ive tried talked to her about how I felt before, but nothing has changed so far. Weve been best friends for 7 years and were 21 now, and Ive felt that she and her sisters were like sisters to me, but maybe I really need to re-evaluate this friendship and maybe shell realize how toxic shes been to me. A true best friend wouldnt treat me like this.
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My best friend never admits when shes wrong, never owns up to her mistakes that shes made with me or how shes treated me. Its very frustrating. And she does the bailing thing too. Every time Ive asked to hang out this summer shes always had some excuse to say no. She doesnt reciprocate or make me feel important in her life anymore. I also got a ticket from my grandma to go see Hamilton and she was so jealous about it and told me not to send her any pictures or tell her about it. She couldnt even just be happy and tell me to enjoy it. She also hasnt introduced me to her bf who shes been dating for 7 months now. Its like Im not important enough to her to do so. And I honestly feel like she doesnt appreciate how good of a friend Ive been to her. She wasnt even there for me when my grandfather passed away. Ive tried talked to her about how I felt before, but nothing has changed so far. Weve been best friends for 7 years and were 21 now, and Ive felt that she and her sisters were like sisters to me, but maybe I really need to re-evaluate this friendship and maybe shell realize how toxic shes been to me. A true best friend wouldnt treat me like this.
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Cassie
This friend of mine since middle school ( haven't heard from her since Thanksgiving day of 2015 ) would always bail on me every single time we made plans to hang out, it got so bad that I stopped making plans with her since she was so occupied with other things. She also told me two very important things that when I brought them up in our senior year of high school, she says that she didn't even remember telling me those things but they were fresh in my mind. At the end of our freshman year of high school, as we were heading in after p. e, an older student said that Amber ( the friend ) was going to end our friendship for absolutely no reason. When I asked her about it, she said that she was going to but decided not to because if she did, then I wouldn't have any friends. It still hurts to this day.
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This friend of mine since middle school ( haven't heard from her since Thanksgiving day of 2015 ) would always bail on me every single time we made plans to hang out, it got so bad that I stopped making plans with her since she was so occupied with other things. She also told me two very important things that when I brought them up in our senior year of high school, she says that she didn't even remember telling me those things but they were fresh in my mind. At the end of our freshman year of high school, as we were heading in after p. e, an older student said that Amber ( the friend ) was going to end our friendship for absolutely no reason. When I asked her about it, she said that she was going to but decided not to because if she did, then I wouldn't have any friends. It still hurts to this day.
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Shimmering
My best friend absconded with my husband and his new wife, feeding him all kinds of lies and secrets, even though neither he nor new wife had ever been decent to her. I was friends with her for 16 years, she was maid of honor at my wedding but she tossed me aside like an ugly gift when she heard my husband was marrying one of my best friends after I learned he had been cheating on me. She helped him and refused to talk to me. Soooo weird. I had always been there for her, but I guess she didn't want to be troubled by my problems. Very sad. No one else but me would listen to her about her lover in DC except me. I was very nonjudgmental - guess she went running to those who were. Who weren't actually. Really makes me think twice about trusting people, you know?
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My best friend absconded with my husband and his new wife, feeding him all kinds of lies and secrets, even though neither he nor new wife had ever been decent to her. I was friends with her for 16 years, she was maid of honor at my wedding but she tossed me aside like an ugly gift when she heard my husband was marrying one of my best friends after I learned he had been cheating on me. She helped him and refused to talk to me. Soooo weird. I had always been there for her, but I guess she didn't want to be troubled by my problems. Very sad. No one else but me would listen to her about her lover in DC except me. I was very nonjudgmental - guess she went running to those who were. Who weren't actually. Really makes me think twice about trusting people, you know?
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Holly
I had a friend, best friend actually, who was quite toxic. They always needed attention and got mad when they didn't have it. They complained about not having any friends. But they lost interest in what was going on in my life. We had a falling out then got together again a few months later. Big mistake. I found out I was acting like them. That's when I decided to cut them off. We haven't spoken since and I'm better off this way.
She also suffered a lot mentally but is still around. Even tho she was toxic to everyone, I am happy that she is at least okay.
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I had a friend, best friend actually, who was quite toxic. They always needed attention and got mad when they didn't have it. They complained about not having any friends. But they lost interest in what was going on in my life. We had a falling out then got together again a few months later. Big mistake. I found out I was acting like them. That's when I decided to cut them off. We haven't spoken since and I'm better off this way.
She also suffered a lot mentally but is still around. Even tho she was toxic to everyone, I am happy that she is at least okay.
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Eric
It's because girls see social links in a strategic fashion. Females don't make friends with someone because you get along and have common interests, but rather because they view it as a step to further their standing. So they become friends with people they hate, have nothing in common with, ect. because that person will help with you becoming more popular, or give an inside track for a promotion, ect.
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It's because girls see social links in a strategic fashion. Females don't make friends with someone because you get along and have common interests, but rather because they view it as a step to further their standing. So they become friends with people they hate, have nothing in common with, ect. because that person will help with you becoming more popular, or give an inside track for a promotion, ect.
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Ayenate
PAUSE, I'm sorry, but a crush is different from an S. O. If your friend and this guy have genuine chemistry and like eachother you should step aside. If he doesn't like you why spoil their happiness. Especially if you've never really talked to the guy. And pro tip, if your friend tells you other people's secrets that's a big tip off that she won't keep yours.
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PAUSE, I'm sorry, but a crush is different from an S. O. If your friend and this guy have genuine chemistry and like eachother you should step aside. If he doesn't like you why spoil their happiness. Especially if you've never really talked to the guy. And pro tip, if your friend tells you other people's secrets that's a big tip off that she won't keep yours.
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msmojo
Now I know it has nothing to do with this video but how did you find mean girls?
I can't find anything about it I always wanted to watch it but I couldn't find it
they were always lyrics not the movie so do you know where can I find it?
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Now I know it has nothing to do with this video but how did you find mean girls?
I can't find anything about it I always wanted to watch it but I couldn't find it
they were always lyrics not the movie so do you know where can I find it?
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lauren
This is why I'm very picky when it comes to making friends I don't need someone talking smack behind my back and just flat out disrespecting me when I would give the very shirt off my back to a friend that really needed it
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This is why I'm very picky when it comes to making friends I don't need someone talking smack behind my back and just flat out disrespecting me when I would give the very shirt off my back to a friend that really needed it
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Cameron
One you guys missed: When they always tell you that people are talking trash about you. Why do people feel comfortable talking bad about me around you, you're supposed to stick up for me even when I'm not around!
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One you guys missed: When they always tell you that people are talking trash about you. Why do people feel comfortable talking bad about me around you, you're supposed to stick up for me even when I'm not around!
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Stephanie
my bad friend. Everytime I have money or candy some stuff she takes them from me. Make me to move my seat for a girl I've never met before and then made me throw her trash away. What d I get nothing.
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my bad friend. Everytime I have money or candy some stuff she takes them from me. Make me to move my seat for a girl I've never met before and then made me throw her trash away. What d I get nothing.
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Duygu
Almost all of the friends I had in 5 years are like this. I cut almost all of them like a month ago and now I seeinh this video. This was a good reminder of what I did and why I did it. Thanks mojo!
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Almost all of the friends I had in 5 years are like this. I cut almost all of them like a month ago and now I seeinh this video. This was a good reminder of what I did and why I did it. Thanks mojo!
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oooh19
it's even worse when friends bully friends! and the hypocrisy like what's ok for them is unacceptable for you. you should be more considerate (though we all have selfish moments)
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it's even worse when friends bully friends! and the hypocrisy like what's ok for them is unacceptable for you. you should be more considerate (though we all have selfish moments)
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Ana
I am number seven. But there is a reason to it. I HAVE STRICT PARENTS and my friends make plans to go out almost every day of the week, when I am aloud to go out once or twice a week
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I am number seven. But there is a reason to it. I HAVE STRICT PARENTS and my friends make plans to go out almost every day of the week, when I am aloud to go out once or twice a week
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Tee
I have a friend that always makes everything about her. She could care less about my problems. I'm always there for her but she isn't for me. Thanks for making this vid!
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I have a friend that always makes everything about her. She could care less about my problems. I'm always there for her but she isn't for me. Thanks for making this vid!
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Vulpixfairy
You'll know your true friends once you're into adulthood. People change and sometimes friendships that were forged in childhood aren't the same anymore.
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You'll know your true friends once you're into adulthood. People change and sometimes friendships that were forged in childhood aren't the same anymore.
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Sarah
My family is bad friend because they call me that they want something and when I ask a friend and family they don't want to come in the house or comeover
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My family is bad friend because they call me that they want something and when I ask a friend and family they don't want to come in the house or comeover
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KanekoXLiamB
Story of my life! And it's not just girl friends either. I have more male friends than female and sometimes male friends do something like this.
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Story of my life! And it's not just girl friends either. I have more male friends than female and sometimes male friends do something like this.
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Covenfan1234
Honestly i think its better when they say things to your face instead of behind your back, at least they are being honest about who they are
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Honestly i think its better when they say things to your face instead of behind your back, at least they are being honest about who they are
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Ciru
Am doing a test on my friends just discovered not all that glitters is gold. So i act needy to see how much she can handle me.
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Am doing a test on my friends just discovered not all that glitters is gold. So i act needy to see how much she can handle me.
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alex
Regina was a GREAT FRIEND but Cady went after Aaron. You don't woo your friend's ex. That's like the first rule of feminism.
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Regina was a GREAT FRIEND but Cady went after Aaron. You don't woo your friend's ex. That's like the first rule of feminism.
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Haven
A crush doesn't mean you have a claim on that person. If you dont do anything about it after a year then, it's fair game.
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A crush doesn't mean you have a claim on that person. If you dont do anything about it after a year then, it's fair game.
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Endergirl
This was me everyday at school. They listed everything that my ex friend was to me (most of the time at school)
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This was me everyday at school. They listed everything that my ex friend was to me (most of the time at school)
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Baby
Good friends can be people who have done these mistakes in the past, realize that, and try to fix their mistakes
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Good friends can be people who have done these mistakes in the past, realize that, and try to fix their mistakes
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Melissa
EVERYONE I know is like this, that's why I give all of them the cold shoulder, so I can be alone in peace.
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EVERYONE I know is like this, that's why I give all of them the cold shoulder, so I can be alone in peace.
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hina
I don't like talking on my phone. I prefer texts or just talking in person. Does that make me a bad friend?
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I don't like talking on my phone. I prefer texts or just talking in person. Does that make me a bad friend?
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Ruth
I am so HERE for the drama in the comments section - heck yeah, call out those crappy friends of yours!
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I am so HERE for the drama in the comments section - heck yeah, call out those crappy friends of yours!
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