20 Things I Learned in my 20s - Blogilates
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Ever since I graduated high school, I have been trying to find the right path (as most of us are. I tried two different Majors before I decided college wasn't right for me. The past few years I had always liked playing with makeup, skincare, etc. so I decided to try beauty school to be an Esthetician. I soon realized this kind of work completely revolved around working with people, and I have always been an introverted, shy person so this caused me a lot of distress. There were times I wanted to quit, but I had quit everything else I started so I pushed myself to finish school anyways, because I didn't want to disappoint my family who seemed so happy for me that I found something I loved, or so they thought. I had known for a while that this career was not going to suit me. I also noticed my passion for makeup, beauty has dwindled down to almost nothing, I find myself moving on to other interests. I sucked it up and acted like I enjoyed myself, when really I got almost overwhelmed with anxiety every time I had a client. I've got my first job out of school and have only been working there for 3 days, but every morning before work I feel sick from how anxious I am. I know this isn't the right job for me but it's only been a few days, and I feel like people will just think I'm being over dramatic if I quit now. Also I am so afraid of disappointing my family, they have no idea that I'm not happy. I would love to hear anyone's input, I am so lost and afraid. Thank you.
Date: 2022-04-28
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kstjshin
Good grief. A person makes a comment about how surprised they are that Cassey's 30 years old and everyone starts jumping on them saying defensively (and a bit aggressively in some people's cases) that 30 isn't old. Except does anyone remember growing up and thinking 30 is older than dirt and 50 is, like, ancient grandparent age? lol It's perspective and it's always changing. I thought 30 was old until I turned 30 and realized I could rock my world better than I could in my 20s. Now I'm 35 and get a bit uncomfortable when I think about turning 40, but I know that when the time comes, I won't think I'm old at all. It's all perspective. Nobody should be grousing about someone else's point of view because we've all thought it or will think it at some time or another.
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Good grief. A person makes a comment about how surprised they are that Cassey's 30 years old and everyone starts jumping on them saying defensively (and a bit aggressively in some people's cases) that 30 isn't old. Except does anyone remember growing up and thinking 30 is older than dirt and 50 is, like, ancient grandparent age? lol It's perspective and it's always changing. I thought 30 was old until I turned 30 and realized I could rock my world better than I could in my 20s. Now I'm 35 and get a bit uncomfortable when I think about turning 40, but I know that when the time comes, I won't think I'm old at all. It's all perspective. Nobody should be grousing about someone else's point of view because we've all thought it or will think it at some time or another.
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radical
hey, Cassey, I really need to thank u for somethings. im in teakwando and im tge type of girl who gets in fight every once in awhile. u' i used to super weak, almost anorexic n ate mostly junk food. when i started to work out, i didnt eat well or drink enough water n fell terribly ill often but all of that changed when i started watching u. i saw my self get stronger, healthier and better at fighting. u rlly are my hero! i hope u have a wonderful life and thank you! (also dont let nyone say pilates are too easy. thats just a liad of bull)
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hey, Cassey, I really need to thank u for somethings. im in teakwando and im tge type of girl who gets in fight every once in awhile. u' i used to super weak, almost anorexic n ate mostly junk food. when i started to work out, i didnt eat well or drink enough water n fell terribly ill often but all of that changed when i started watching u. i saw my self get stronger, healthier and better at fighting. u rlly are my hero! i hope u have a wonderful life and thank you! (also dont let nyone say pilates are too easy. thats just a liad of bull)
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Reem
I usually don't take the time to write a comment, but this is an exception. I just turned 20 it's been almost a month now but although you may feel young there is so much pain you have to fight. I just learned that no matter how you will end up, always keep fighting for yourself and love you unconditionally. Then work on growing your relationships with your parents and friends. It's all about communication that is why you have to understand yourself to feel other people.
Enjoy your life more, pain is okay!
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I usually don't take the time to write a comment, but this is an exception. I just turned 20 it's been almost a month now but although you may feel young there is so much pain you have to fight. I just learned that no matter how you will end up, always keep fighting for yourself and love you unconditionally. Then work on growing your relationships with your parents and friends. It's all about communication that is why you have to understand yourself to feel other people.
Enjoy your life more, pain is okay!
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Brownie
Omg Cassey you look so much younger! You looked amazing like always and your mum is so cute!
I just want to thank you for your motivation everytime when I felt uncomfortable or sad about something and for reminding me what it means to live. Now I am working out with you for 1 year and I am not regreting any second! I love you so so so much! You are like my best friend or bigger sister lol! Don't change and take care!
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Omg Cassey you look so much younger! You looked amazing like always and your mum is so cute!
I just want to thank you for your motivation everytime when I felt uncomfortable or sad about something and for reminding me what it means to live. Now I am working out with you for 1 year and I am not regreting any second! I love you so so so much! You are like my best friend or bigger sister lol! Don't change and take care!
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Katherine
The quotes in this video were everything I needed. :) I'm 23 right now, and I'm just not starting to try to get more into having a healthier routine and actually doing the things I need to do to not only help my own health and reach my own goals, but also help build healthier relationships, and learn to say the things I need to say, and do what I need to do to help them reach their potential too where I can.
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The quotes in this video were everything I needed. :) I'm 23 right now, and I'm just not starting to try to get more into having a healthier routine and actually doing the things I need to do to not only help my own health and reach my own goals, but also help build healthier relationships, and learn to say the things I need to say, and do what I need to do to help them reach their potential too where I can.
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tess
Hi Cassey, I loved this video by the way and I just wanted to ask a question. I haven't been doing any exercise since the start of the year( I know thats pretty bad but i had holidays and jumping back into school and friends) but i use to do piit28. Should i go back into that or start with the monthly planner then go in to piit? Because I don't know if its alright. Thanks Cassey xxx
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Hi Cassey, I loved this video by the way and I just wanted to ask a question. I haven't been doing any exercise since the start of the year( I know thats pretty bad but i had holidays and jumping back into school and friends) but i use to do piit28. Should i go back into that or start with the monthly planner then go in to piit? Because I don't know if its alright. Thanks Cassey xxx
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Shu
Hey Cassey, I just want to thank you for everything you've done until now. Whenever I feel down and need a little pick me up, I know that I can always count on you. (It's a perennial thing) Just know that whenever YOU feel down, please don't forget that you've helped another person feel the best they can. Never lose that smile. I love you!
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Hey Cassey, I just want to thank you for everything you've done until now. Whenever I feel down and need a little pick me up, I know that I can always count on you. (It's a perennial thing) Just know that whenever YOU feel down, please don't forget that you've helped another person feel the best they can. Never lose that smile. I love you!
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Sarah
That last one really spoke to me right now. I'm 22 and my parents just divorced and it's put a new perspective on who they are to me and you're reminding me to be not so harsh in my judgements. Being an adult does seem to bring this to light though since judgement is easier once we're not children living with them anymore
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That last one really spoke to me right now. I'm 22 and my parents just divorced and it's put a new perspective on who they are to me and you're reminding me to be not so harsh in my judgements. Being an adult does seem to bring this to light though since judgement is easier once we're not children living with them anymore
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sport
Thank You Cassey! You have changed my life. I used to be one of those girls who wanted skinny legs and a thin body. But you and your videos taught me how to love myself and now I am so happy with my life and my body and your videos! You have changed me and I can't thank you enough. (:
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Thank You Cassey! You have changed my life. I used to be one of those girls who wanted skinny legs and a thin body. But you and your videos taught me how to love myself and now I am so happy with my life and my body and your videos! You have changed me and I can't thank you enough. (:
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