Shane Dawson's Sociopath Search, Getting Divorced, Will Smith & Let's Talk About Justin Schneider.
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Date: 2019-11-01
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PatriarchMorgan
Please everyone do research on this company before taking anyones word (including mine) about this company at face value (BetterHelp) that has been known to fake reviews, filter out any negative reviews by making people send their reviews of the site and their professional therapist to the company to make sure no negative ones make it on to BetterHelps site, Charging people huge amounts of money upfront (no it's no cheap, charge people that money without providing any actual therapy, while providing no refunds, and not even making sure all of their licensed and professional therapist are actually licensed and qualified to be giving any advice to depressed people or anyone for that matter. and literally rejecting people who they deem too depressed, go to their site and check out their Privacy Policies, and Term and Conditions, it's really horrible that some YouTubers, promote this site without doing any proper research on how this company actually operates. or worse promote it knowing how horrible of a site and company it is.
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Please everyone do research on this company before taking anyones word (including mine) about this company at face value (BetterHelp) that has been known to fake reviews, filter out any negative reviews by making people send their reviews of the site and their professional therapist to the company to make sure no negative ones make it on to BetterHelps site, Charging people huge amounts of money upfront (no it's no cheap, charge people that money without providing any actual therapy, while providing no refunds, and not even making sure all of their licensed and professional therapist are actually licensed and qualified to be giving any advice to depressed people or anyone for that matter. and literally rejecting people who they deem too depressed, go to their site and check out their Privacy Policies, and Term and Conditions, it's really horrible that some YouTubers, promote this site without doing any proper research on how this company actually operates. or worse promote it knowing how horrible of a site and company it is.
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KairiKeyblade30
I don't think I ever want to get married. It just seems like it makes things more complicated. I feel like if I love someone enough to want to spend my life with them, I'm perfectly capable of doing that without being married to them. I couldn't care less if people don't see it as a real relationship. That being said I'm SO glad people these days are taking the time to get their life a bit more sorted and stable before getting married. I feel like if you are going to do it, you shouldn't rush into it. It's not a race You're not on a clock There's nothing wrong with taking time to really get to know a person and find out if you're actually compatible or not. You're going to potentially save yourself some heartache later by being completely honest with yourself and them. If you're not ready, don't do it. If you don't think you'll work together, don't do it. It's really pretty simple. It is not a relationship band-aid and shouldn't be treated as such.
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I don't think I ever want to get married. It just seems like it makes things more complicated. I feel like if I love someone enough to want to spend my life with them, I'm perfectly capable of doing that without being married to them. I couldn't care less if people don't see it as a real relationship. That being said I'm SO glad people these days are taking the time to get their life a bit more sorted and stable before getting married. I feel like if you are going to do it, you shouldn't rush into it. It's not a race You're not on a clock There's nothing wrong with taking time to really get to know a person and find out if you're actually compatible or not. You're going to potentially save yourself some heartache later by being completely honest with yourself and them. If you're not ready, don't do it. If you don't think you'll work together, don't do it. It's really pretty simple. It is not a relationship band-aid and shouldn't be treated as such.
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hferiante
The Science of Evil: On Empathy and the Origins of Cruelty by Simon Baron-Cohen breaks down the various parts of the brain that play a roll in empathy and appropriate social/emotional response. He and his team are the ones responsible for some of the best research and diagnostic methods used for the diagnosis of those capable of a psych/sociopathic lack of empathy. Its breaking down the 1-5 EQ scale literally changed my life and how I see most of my life up to this point (and that was just the first 30 pages. In the book they try to change the diagnosis from Evil to Empathy-erosion as it allows for a better understanding for what makes people capable of viewing and treating others like objects, and allows for greater nuance/differentiation between sociopaths and other far less threatening diagnoses that share common un-empathetic traits but few of those that lead to violence against others.
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The Science of Evil: On Empathy and the Origins of Cruelty by Simon Baron-Cohen breaks down the various parts of the brain that play a roll in empathy and appropriate social/emotional response. He and his team are the ones responsible for some of the best research and diagnostic methods used for the diagnosis of those capable of a psych/sociopathic lack of empathy. Its breaking down the 1-5 EQ scale literally changed my life and how I see most of my life up to this point (and that was just the first 30 pages. In the book they try to change the diagnosis from Evil to Empathy-erosion as it allows for a better understanding for what makes people capable of viewing and treating others like objects, and allows for greater nuance/differentiation between sociopaths and other far less threatening diagnoses that share common un-empathetic traits but few of those that lead to violence against others.
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daemn42
Speaker and educator Jackson Katz points out that part of the core of the problem with violence against women and women's issues paint women as perpetual victims of crimes with no perpetrators. Men (the usual perpetrators) are entirely removed from the equation. Why don't we regularly say Violence committed by men or men's violence issues? We talk about how many women were raped last year, not about how many men raped women. We talk about how many girls in a school district were harassed last year, not about how many boys harassed girls. We talk about how many teenage girls in the state of Vermont got pregnant last year, rather than how many men and boys impregnated teenage girls. We as a society are stuck in the passive voice which allows men to just tune out women's issues, and a man like Justin Schneider gets to be cast as a victim himself.
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Speaker and educator Jackson Katz points out that part of the core of the problem with violence against women and women's issues paint women as perpetual victims of crimes with no perpetrators. Men (the usual perpetrators) are entirely removed from the equation. Why don't we regularly say Violence committed by men or men's violence issues? We talk about how many women were raped last year, not about how many men raped women. We talk about how many girls in a school district were harassed last year, not about how many boys harassed girls. We talk about how many teenage girls in the state of Vermont got pregnant last year, rather than how many men and boys impregnated teenage girls. We as a society are stuck in the passive voice which allows men to just tune out women's issues, and a man like Justin Schneider gets to be cast as a victim himself.
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Al Bitney
That last story is for sure a big reason why people don't come forward. This also scares me (granted i listen to way too many true crime podcasts) but like that sounds like escalation. Like have your kinks, do them with people who consent that is totally fine. This sounds like someone who either has had this kink for a while and finally let it out, or someone didn't want to aqueous to that and he went out and found someone. This is exactly the kind of person who re-offends I hope that he does get the help he needs and is watched closely enough that he doesn't for the sake of the people in his community. But this is straight up some serial killer shit
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That last story is for sure a big reason why people don't come forward. This also scares me (granted i listen to way too many true crime podcasts) but like that sounds like escalation. Like have your kinks, do them with people who consent that is totally fine. This sounds like someone who either has had this kink for a while and finally let it out, or someone didn't want to aqueous to that and he went out and found someone. This is exactly the kind of person who re-offends I hope that he does get the help he needs and is watched closely enough that he doesn't for the sake of the people in his community. But this is straight up some serial killer shit
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Danielle Jaeger
Ive been married for just over a year now and we waited until our late 20s to tie the knot. We really like it so far, but there have been our fair share of adjustments. I think if we had found each other sooner and gotten married younger, it would have been more difficult and may not have gone as well. We both have the patience and previous knowledge to see how best to deal with new situations. We also both have a little more money, so it makes things like traveling and cohabitation more pleasant because we can choose comfort upgrades when they make sense instead of always needing to be frugal or not even going anywhere at all.
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Ive been married for just over a year now and we waited until our late 20s to tie the knot. We really like it so far, but there have been our fair share of adjustments. I think if we had found each other sooner and gotten married younger, it would have been more difficult and may not have gone as well. We both have the patience and previous knowledge to see how best to deal with new situations. We also both have a little more money, so it makes things like traveling and cohabitation more pleasant because we can choose comfort upgrades when they make sense instead of always needing to be frugal or not even going anywhere at all.
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Lisa -
I got engaged at the age of 19. We couldn't really afford to get married so it was a long engagement and in those years we grew up into completely different people and ended up breaking it off. Getting married young would have been a TERRIBLE idea. Now I'm in a very committed relationship and we have a kid and another on the way and we are old and stable and happy and are thinking about possibly getting married but honestly it isn't the biggest thing in our minds But I think the most important thing is being sure of this person before you get married. And then staying married by getting counselling: ) There's no shame in getting help.
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I got engaged at the age of 19. We couldn't really afford to get married so it was a long engagement and in those years we grew up into completely different people and ended up breaking it off. Getting married young would have been a TERRIBLE idea. Now I'm in a very committed relationship and we have a kid and another on the way and we are old and stable and happy and are thinking about possibly getting married but honestly it isn't the biggest thing in our minds But I think the most important thing is being sure of this person before you get married. And then staying married by getting counselling: ) There's no shame in getting help.
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Lala Sloney
i think the only reason to get married is if you and your partner trullllllyyyyy are wanting to just call that person proudly your wife or husband- not needing a legal document to prove it, and not needing to make it a social status thing, or filling a void because it's expected. when it's only true intention is to lovingly proudly be husband and wife, husband and husband, wife and wife, etc. then marriage is good/correct and beautiful. or you know if you're just trying to make better of the system, where you get health ben to yknow live your best life. I get that truly. sad it has to be a thing though.
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i think the only reason to get married is if you and your partner trullllllyyyyy are wanting to just call that person proudly your wife or husband- not needing a legal document to prove it, and not needing to make it a social status thing, or filling a void because it's expected. when it's only true intention is to lovingly proudly be husband and wife, husband and husband, wife and wife, etc. then marriage is good/correct and beautiful. or you know if you're just trying to make better of the system, where you get health ben to yknow live your best life. I get that truly. sad it has to be a thing though.
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Jaida Blizard
As someone who was the child of two people not who were not married (still living together, but with an on and off again relationship) and someone who's mother is now married (after dating for under a year) I never gave the idea of marriage a chance. I'm 20 now, never dated, and honestly I don't think I'll ever marry. I've had so many family members and family friends get divorced, or have marital issues. I think a lot of millenials/gen xers are not getting married/divorced as much because we didn't see a lot of happy marriages and are either abstaining from marriage or waiting for the right one.
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As someone who was the child of two people not who were not married (still living together, but with an on and off again relationship) and someone who's mother is now married (after dating for under a year) I never gave the idea of marriage a chance. I'm 20 now, never dated, and honestly I don't think I'll ever marry. I've had so many family members and family friends get divorced, or have marital issues. I think a lot of millenials/gen xers are not getting married/divorced as much because we didn't see a lot of happy marriages and are either abstaining from marriage or waiting for the right one.
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