10 Behaviors That Keep You Single
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Just
NGL, was in a kinda sorta but not really relationship with someone online for the past 1. 5 years and they pretty much hit all of these to a T.
It's almost kinda scary how accurate it all is. Should I just not take her back this time if she changes her mind again? Because I'll be honest, I feel like my heart was just being toyed with at this point. I know she has her trauma and issues to deal with, but on top of always complaining about them to me without fixing anything and always having a issue with my ideals when I'm even putting them aside at time to prioritize her well being, I felt like I was just a temporary out to feel better after her last two break ups (polyamorus, so I was there during both. Like she can't stand the idea of being single at all and keeps jumping to new relationships before the next break up starts.
Even had me wondering if me not being abusive was something she just wasn't used to even. I just don't know anymore really, maybe some people just want to only be miserable these days? I don't get it. Might avoid romance with people for a while after that, I mean we weren't even official but still felt like I was being used emotionally and I rather someone whos able to be there for me too.
Don't normally post on these videos but eh. Might as well.
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NGL, was in a kinda sorta but not really relationship with someone online for the past 1. 5 years and they pretty much hit all of these to a T.
It's almost kinda scary how accurate it all is. Should I just not take her back this time if she changes her mind again? Because I'll be honest, I feel like my heart was just being toyed with at this point. I know she has her trauma and issues to deal with, but on top of always complaining about them to me without fixing anything and always having a issue with my ideals when I'm even putting them aside at time to prioritize her well being, I felt like I was just a temporary out to feel better after her last two break ups (polyamorus, so I was there during both. Like she can't stand the idea of being single at all and keeps jumping to new relationships before the next break up starts.
Even had me wondering if me not being abusive was something she just wasn't used to even. I just don't know anymore really, maybe some people just want to only be miserable these days? I don't get it. Might avoid romance with people for a while after that, I mean we weren't even official but still felt like I was being used emotionally and I rather someone whos able to be there for me too.
Don't normally post on these videos but eh. Might as well.
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jaye
I have severe trust issues and jealously in relationships, oddly not others success, just relationships. I am currently dating a guy and he understands I get jealous easily, sometimes he makes jokes about dating other girls, I understand it's a joke but I tell him I take it seriously and sometimes even get genuine panic attacks when he mentions it. He thinks I'm just joking because I laugh awkwardly but that is definitely not the case. He doesn't know I am highly sensitive to those who I dearly love and I take everything they say to heart, even things that hurt me. I mess around with friends often and I am never serious with them, sometimes even insensitive, impulsive and reckless without knowing well. Though with him, I'm much more different, he doesn't know that I truly feel hurt when he does this, I never tell him because he views me and my friends view me as a strong headed person who doesn't get hurt and rarely feels any offence. I cannot ruin my reputation of that because I don't want to be viewed as a pssy.
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I have severe trust issues and jealously in relationships, oddly not others success, just relationships. I am currently dating a guy and he understands I get jealous easily, sometimes he makes jokes about dating other girls, I understand it's a joke but I tell him I take it seriously and sometimes even get genuine panic attacks when he mentions it. He thinks I'm just joking because I laugh awkwardly but that is definitely not the case. He doesn't know I am highly sensitive to those who I dearly love and I take everything they say to heart, even things that hurt me. I mess around with friends often and I am never serious with them, sometimes even insensitive, impulsive and reckless without knowing well. Though with him, I'm much more different, he doesn't know that I truly feel hurt when he does this, I never tell him because he views me and my friends view me as a strong headed person who doesn't get hurt and rarely feels any offence. I cannot ruin my reputation of that because I don't want to be viewed as a pssy.
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kenz
I dont feel. And before you start replying emo or something the like, just read along. For every past relationship Ive had, I havent felt a single thing towards anyone, not even towards close friends, family, not a single feeling. This might sound weird but not a feeling in a romantic way before you start attacking me. The thing is, Im supposed to feel love, comfort, and stuff. But- I just dont. So I seek people, I pick people who could potentially prove to me that someone out there has to make me feel, but it never ever happens. I always say yes or ask them because I feel bad or maybe hope they could change something. Theres one specific person thats different. I dated my best friend but I never liked them. They asked me and since I cared about them, I said yeah, or I was supposed to care about them. Anyways, that lasted like 2 months. but oh well. Getting to the point now. My end conclusion, until proved incorrect, I cannot feel.
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I dont feel. And before you start replying emo or something the like, just read along. For every past relationship Ive had, I havent felt a single thing towards anyone, not even towards close friends, family, not a single feeling. This might sound weird but not a feeling in a romantic way before you start attacking me. The thing is, Im supposed to feel love, comfort, and stuff. But- I just dont. So I seek people, I pick people who could potentially prove to me that someone out there has to make me feel, but it never ever happens. I always say yes or ask them because I feel bad or maybe hope they could change something. Theres one specific person thats different. I dated my best friend but I never liked them. They asked me and since I cared about them, I said yeah, or I was supposed to care about them. Anyways, that lasted like 2 months. but oh well. Getting to the point now. My end conclusion, until proved incorrect, I cannot feel.
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Chris
After being single for three years and recently I've been talking to someone that seems to be the saying in 2023 and I've met up twice now with her and honestly I'm so scared of being hurt again and I'm okay to say that as a man. As men we are not meant to say things like that really, but I am. I really like her and I'm enjoying it for the meeting up and talking as its said now. I'm hopeful that one day hopefully soon I can be loved again and actually loving someone in my life. Hopefully this is my time to shine. Be kind to yourself people, be honest and know that your self worth is a thing.
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After being single for three years and recently I've been talking to someone that seems to be the saying in 2023 and I've met up twice now with her and honestly I'm so scared of being hurt again and I'm okay to say that as a man. As men we are not meant to say things like that really, but I am. I really like her and I'm enjoying it for the meeting up and talking as its said now. I'm hopeful that one day hopefully soon I can be loved again and actually loving someone in my life. Hopefully this is my time to shine. Be kind to yourself people, be honest and know that your self worth is a thing.
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Animetsy
Reason of being single
1. Having male friends more than female friends. I find hard to find my type.
2. When I get crush they are not single or rejects me badly which makes me loose interest in love.
3. Trust issues that they would turn out like my narcissict father
4. Due to my 1st rejection when I was in school I've faced social anxiety, humiliation and embracement. where I don't have courage to tell I like that guy.
5. Super strict papa who rages even if I've a guy friends. relationship is like miles. (Fact I didn't told him that I've guy friends)
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Reason of being single
1. Having male friends more than female friends. I find hard to find my type.
2. When I get crush they are not single or rejects me badly which makes me loose interest in love.
3. Trust issues that they would turn out like my narcissict father
4. Due to my 1st rejection when I was in school I've faced social anxiety, humiliation and embracement. where I don't have courage to tell I like that guy.
5. Super strict papa who rages even if I've a guy friends. relationship is like miles. (Fact I didn't told him that I've guy friends)
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education
Well, the truth is, I don't know what I'm doing wrong. I am perhaps setting my standards too high. But, even then, at some point, I met a person who seemed ideal. Available, beautiful, liking more or less the same things, great personality. I really don't know why I just gave up on her. I didn't even try anything. I did keep in touch. However, it seems at some point I just abandoned the idea.
It's like I want to be in a relationship. But, since I don't know how to approach someone, I fear to screw up, and I give up. All just to try to avoid making a mistake.
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Well, the truth is, I don't know what I'm doing wrong. I am perhaps setting my standards too high. But, even then, at some point, I met a person who seemed ideal. Available, beautiful, liking more or less the same things, great personality. I really don't know why I just gave up on her. I didn't even try anything. I did keep in touch. However, it seems at some point I just abandoned the idea.
It's like I want to be in a relationship. But, since I don't know how to approach someone, I fear to screw up, and I give up. All just to try to avoid making a mistake.
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Logan
1. Not willing to get hurt
2. Have low energy
3. Cynical about love
4. Believe all relationships are for is for you to get manipulated
5. Don't want everything taken from me
6. Don't want to risk putting another person thro pain especially when ik exactly what that is.
7. Poor self image. Even if someone says the opposite, they still wouldn't feel like they're enough.
8. Don't have a lot of money
9. Too many mental illnesses
10. Life is hard, and inviting more ppl just make it harder.
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1. Not willing to get hurt
2. Have low energy
3. Cynical about love
4. Believe all relationships are for is for you to get manipulated
5. Don't want everything taken from me
6. Don't want to risk putting another person thro pain especially when ik exactly what that is.
7. Poor self image. Even if someone says the opposite, they still wouldn't feel like they're enough.
8. Don't have a lot of money
9. Too many mental illnesses
10. Life is hard, and inviting more ppl just make it harder.
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Big
I dont know how or where Id even find or meet anyone I can really click with anymore. I dont even know where to begin, theres literally no one around to shoot my shot with in sight. Not even online dating apps could help me find the right person. I wish people would talk more about this particular struggle, because its one thing to struggle to shoot your shot, but its another to have no shots to shoot. Though then again I guess its not like everyone particularly struggle to relate to most people.
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I dont know how or where Id even find or meet anyone I can really click with anymore. I dont even know where to begin, theres literally no one around to shoot my shot with in sight. Not even online dating apps could help me find the right person. I wish people would talk more about this particular struggle, because its one thing to struggle to shoot your shot, but its another to have no shots to shoot. Though then again I guess its not like everyone particularly struggle to relate to most people.
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realwetter_yt
or number 11 u wanna keep ful mind control number 12 u scared for opinions of others/friends
number 13 they flirt on u whit special mathoths and u study love psychology and u cant take it that your weak to these tricks and u tink u have been be played or used
and at last number 14 u have an friend that dous not understand love and is an introver and outistic and getting more freedom for yourself makes him feel more lonly and letting it to learn new person is extreamly hard
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or number 11 u wanna keep ful mind control number 12 u scared for opinions of others/friends
number 13 they flirt on u whit special mathoths and u study love psychology and u cant take it that your weak to these tricks and u tink u have been be played or used
and at last number 14 u have an friend that dous not understand love and is an introver and outistic and getting more freedom for yourself makes him feel more lonly and letting it to learn new person is extreamly hard
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That_randomsimmer
I still don't know if any these apply to me. I'm still figuring out who I am, and I often have my own insecurities where I wonder if I'm pretty enough, if I'm too much, and if everyone has their own cruel agenda when they approach me. I constantly have to remind myself, not all people are bad, beauty is subjective, some people may think I'm pretty and some may not, and that's normal. I have to remind myself the lessons I learn about myself.
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I still don't know if any these apply to me. I'm still figuring out who I am, and I often have my own insecurities where I wonder if I'm pretty enough, if I'm too much, and if everyone has their own cruel agenda when they approach me. I constantly have to remind myself, not all people are bad, beauty is subjective, some people may think I'm pretty and some may not, and that's normal. I have to remind myself the lessons I learn about myself.
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Formula
Hows your life?
1. I dont have one
2. My only options are too ugly, old or too young or too far away
3. Im not hunky looking and while they say looks arent everything, I dont care because hunky looks at least get peoples attention
4. My job schedule doesnt let me go out when everyone else is being social
5. I have nothing in common with anybody
6. Nobody is interested in me no matter what I do
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Hows your life?
1. I dont have one
2. My only options are too ugly, old or too young or too far away
3. Im not hunky looking and while they say looks arent everything, I dont care because hunky looks at least get peoples attention
4. My job schedule doesnt let me go out when everyone else is being social
5. I have nothing in common with anybody
6. Nobody is interested in me no matter what I do
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Anthony
May we ask you a personal question? How is your love life?
Me: currently its so deep down the shitter that Ive come to expect disappointment and the fact that no woman will ever love me back or see me as anything more than a list of criteria I havent met. And to mercilessly scorn myself at the slightest hint I might be catching feelings. How about you?
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May we ask you a personal question? How is your love life?
Me: currently its so deep down the shitter that Ive come to expect disappointment and the fact that no woman will ever love me back or see me as anything more than a list of criteria I havent met. And to mercilessly scorn myself at the slightest hint I might be catching feelings. How about you?
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T260G
The only thing thats a flat out lie in this video is you wont lose your independence. Not only do you lose independence, but you lose your life. You lose freedom. All
Of you are too much if selfish animals to love anything, yet you persist to live in lies.
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The only thing thats a flat out lie in this video is you wont lose your independence. Not only do you lose independence, but you lose your life. You lose freedom. All
Of you are too much if selfish animals to love anything, yet you persist to live in lies.
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Storm
I know the reason why I'm single
1. Incredibly depressed
2. Cynical
3. Trust issues
4. Trauma
5. Low self esteem
6. Issues with empathy
Honestly just wanted to vent lol, maybe I should see a therapist but revert back to sections 3 & 4
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I know the reason why I'm single
1. Incredibly depressed
2. Cynical
3. Trust issues
4. Trauma
5. Low self esteem
6. Issues with empathy
Honestly just wanted to vent lol, maybe I should see a therapist but revert back to sections 3 & 4
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Markk
I don't think I'm afraid of being in a relationship, just wary of it. Same way one is not afraid of sticking their hand in a blender. Ive seen what love has done to people close to me and I don't want that to happen to me.
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I don't think I'm afraid of being in a relationship, just wary of it. Same way one is not afraid of sticking their hand in a blender. Ive seen what love has done to people close to me and I don't want that to happen to me.
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Louise
My ex girlfriend cheated on me and it has ruined all my subsequent relationships. I cant trust anyone now and Ive treated all girlfriends since as if theyre my ex, as if Im just waiting for them to cheat on me.
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My ex girlfriend cheated on me and it has ruined all my subsequent relationships. I cant trust anyone now and Ive treated all girlfriends since as if theyre my ex, as if Im just waiting for them to cheat on me.
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Steve
hmm I matched with all but one of those. No wonder I'm single. It's ok. I'm 54, too late anyway. But I can at least learn to like or love myself from now on and embrace singledom. It's a new reality.
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hmm I matched with all but one of those. No wonder I'm single. It's ok. I'm 54, too late anyway. But I can at least learn to like or love myself from now on and embrace singledom. It's a new reality.
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Story
I've been hurt so many times that I just don't believe in love like I think that all girls are the same I just don't understand so i just put my heart on ice bc ik they is going to hurt me,
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I've been hurt so many times that I just don't believe in love like I think that all girls are the same I just don't understand so i just put my heart on ice bc ik they is going to hurt me,
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FromMyWindow118
I've been told that my lack of self confidence is ehat turns them away. The more they're turned away and the more I'm told I'm not confident enough, the worse it gets.
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I've been told that my lack of self confidence is ehat turns them away. The more they're turned away and the more I'm told I'm not confident enough, the worse it gets.
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Lisa
Apparently, if you expect someone to wish a happy birthday when it is your birthday, you're asking too much. Like it so hard to write a 2 word test, happy birthday. Lol.
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Apparently, if you expect someone to wish a happy birthday when it is your birthday, you're asking too much. Like it so hard to write a 2 word test, happy birthday. Lol.
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pepperr
I find that, instead of finding a love life, im trying to find a social life lol. I want to find the right partner, i want to keep fonding the right friends
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I find that, instead of finding a love life, im trying to find a social life lol. I want to find the right partner, i want to keep fonding the right friends
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Comic
Personally I just want someone who loves me for me and not the things I have but I have Disabilities and can't live alone so I know that'll never happen
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Personally I just want someone who loves me for me and not the things I have but I have Disabilities and can't live alone so I know that'll never happen
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unknown2023
As a 19-year-old, being single is good, at least for me, tho
If anyone is suffering from being single i hope you find true happiness much love
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As a 19-year-old, being single is good, at least for me, tho
If anyone is suffering from being single i hope you find true happiness much love
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Nxmesiss
no uh. i think it's cuz i've had over 81 fictional crushes (counted on fingers) in the past year.
don't ask what i'm doing with my life.
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no uh. i think it's cuz i've had over 81 fictional crushes (counted on fingers) in the past year.
don't ask what i'm doing with my life.
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education
me being single is cuz they treat me like I'm special but finding out they love someone else so I got hurt and I give up on love already
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me being single is cuz they treat me like I'm special but finding out they love someone else so I got hurt and I give up on love already
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