8 Early Signs Someone's Going To Ghost You
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Menacetosociety
So I was friends with this girl I had a crush on. We used to talk all the time in school and text each other almost every day. When I found out she had a boyfriend, I was so hurt that I couldnt bring myself to communicate with her anymore. I ignored her in school and ignored her texts. I eventually got over it (mostly) and continued talking to her. However it was a lot less than before. I didnt talk to her as much in school mostly because I was still embarrassed to talk to her, and we didnt text nearly as much. Eventually we just stopped talking to each other outright both in school and through texting. On one hand I am sad I did this because I loved talking to her and it would always brighten up my day, but on the other hand, keeping my distance from her is helping me get over my crush on her, and I dont think it ended up hurting her. She already had tons of friends in school and out and its not like I was her best friend or something. She told me to never ghost her again, but she never looked upset and never said she was upset when I was gone, so I dont think it really affected her. Of course, I could be wrong, but thats just the vibe I get. Sometimes I want to text her but Im always embarrassed to and I dont know what to say, so I dont. Our relationship feels like a lost cause, and Im both happy and sad about it. I just hope it never affected her.
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So I was friends with this girl I had a crush on. We used to talk all the time in school and text each other almost every day. When I found out she had a boyfriend, I was so hurt that I couldnt bring myself to communicate with her anymore. I ignored her in school and ignored her texts. I eventually got over it (mostly) and continued talking to her. However it was a lot less than before. I didnt talk to her as much in school mostly because I was still embarrassed to talk to her, and we didnt text nearly as much. Eventually we just stopped talking to each other outright both in school and through texting. On one hand I am sad I did this because I loved talking to her and it would always brighten up my day, but on the other hand, keeping my distance from her is helping me get over my crush on her, and I dont think it ended up hurting her. She already had tons of friends in school and out and its not like I was her best friend or something. She told me to never ghost her again, but she never looked upset and never said she was upset when I was gone, so I dont think it really affected her. Of course, I could be wrong, but thats just the vibe I get. Sometimes I want to text her but Im always embarrassed to and I dont know what to say, so I dont. Our relationship feels like a lost cause, and Im both happy and sad about it. I just hope it never affected her.
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StabbyCat
My best friend has always been disorganized, and up until recently Ive been using that to sort ofexplain things away.
But recently its been like Im the only one that ever really contributes to actually doing things together
Its always me.
Ill ask if they want to hang out and theyll ALWAYS and I mean ALWAYS respond with Id love to which usually gives me high hopes. But then when I tell them Im free, they say cool or something like that, and dont give me any kind of response.
And then when I ask them(after waiting for a bit because I dont wanna nag at them or seem annoying) something almost always comes up.
Last time I asked if they wanted to hang out after I was done doing volunteer work, and they said that they didnt feel like doing any more work after their shift. I then explained that it would be after my shift is over, and no work would be involvedand they just didnt respond. I ended up going with the girl I have a thing for at the moment, but stillit kinda hurt to have that done by my literal BEST friend.
They do the majority of these things, and its been hard realizing this JUST now.
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My best friend has always been disorganized, and up until recently Ive been using that to sort ofexplain things away.
But recently its been like Im the only one that ever really contributes to actually doing things together
Its always me.
Ill ask if they want to hang out and theyll ALWAYS and I mean ALWAYS respond with Id love to which usually gives me high hopes. But then when I tell them Im free, they say cool or something like that, and dont give me any kind of response.
And then when I ask them(after waiting for a bit because I dont wanna nag at them or seem annoying) something almost always comes up.
Last time I asked if they wanted to hang out after I was done doing volunteer work, and they said that they didnt feel like doing any more work after their shift. I then explained that it would be after my shift is over, and no work would be involvedand they just didnt respond. I ended up going with the girl I have a thing for at the moment, but stillit kinda hurt to have that done by my literal BEST friend.
They do the majority of these things, and its been hard realizing this JUST now.
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Janin
A good friend broke off contact from one day to the other without a reason or try to explain what the reason is. My best friend and i was friend with this Person and we try to reach out to the Person with Text messages three times and the Person read the message, but ignored us. my best friend and i decided not to run after this person because they didn't even take the opportunity to notice our messages and explain to us why they were just hiding without saying anything. We have given her three opportunities to report, if she does not report it ourselves, we will not do it again. Chasing after someone who no longer wants to be your friends and ending the friendship in this way is a waste of time, not worth run after that person. the people who want to be friends with someone run towards you and don't run away from you.
the whole thing goes on until today. it's a total of 8 months. and what do we learn from it, it's ghosting
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A good friend broke off contact from one day to the other without a reason or try to explain what the reason is. My best friend and i was friend with this Person and we try to reach out to the Person with Text messages three times and the Person read the message, but ignored us. my best friend and i decided not to run after this person because they didn't even take the opportunity to notice our messages and explain to us why they were just hiding without saying anything. We have given her three opportunities to report, if she does not report it ourselves, we will not do it again. Chasing after someone who no longer wants to be your friends and ending the friendship in this way is a waste of time, not worth run after that person. the people who want to be friends with someone run towards you and don't run away from you.
the whole thing goes on until today. it's a total of 8 months. and what do we learn from it, it's ghosting
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Kawaii
i need to stop ghosting my online friends every time we dont talk for a few days, i just get so nervous like i felt like i did something wrong for them to not talk to me for a while. i have lost very good friends because of this, i was very upset while doing it because i was the one breaking it off. i also blocked them because we got to the point of the friendship where its not that exciting to talk to eachother that much, we already learned so much about eachother and talked about everything basically. our convos were dry and boring, we didnt put anymore effort anymore. I recently ghosted a great friend of mine and I just regret ghosting her because me and her had such great times talking and its all because of my weird feelings and thoughts that separated me and my online friends.
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i need to stop ghosting my online friends every time we dont talk for a few days, i just get so nervous like i felt like i did something wrong for them to not talk to me for a while. i have lost very good friends because of this, i was very upset while doing it because i was the one breaking it off. i also blocked them because we got to the point of the friendship where its not that exciting to talk to eachother that much, we already learned so much about eachother and talked about everything basically. our convos were dry and boring, we didnt put anymore effort anymore. I recently ghosted a great friend of mine and I just regret ghosting her because me and her had such great times talking and its all because of my weird feelings and thoughts that separated me and my online friends.
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Gerrit
None of these videos consider that you may ghost people to end a toxic relationship. I wouldnt be alive today if I had kept contact with my abusive family or the toxic people I had allowed into my life. Its absolutely arrogant for these commenters to pretend that ghosting is not ever okay, and to categorize all people who ghost as monsters without thinking about how messed up the person who got ghosted may have been treating that person. YOU DO NOT OWE AN ABUSER A RESPONSE. YOU DO NOT OWE AN ABUSER AN EXPLANATION. YOU DONT OWE THEM YOUR GUILT FOR THEIR LACK OF CLOSURE.
You do owe it to yourself to create the best life you can. If that means that someones feelings get hurt along the way because they were part of the problem and needed to be dropped, then so be it.
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None of these videos consider that you may ghost people to end a toxic relationship. I wouldnt be alive today if I had kept contact with my abusive family or the toxic people I had allowed into my life. Its absolutely arrogant for these commenters to pretend that ghosting is not ever okay, and to categorize all people who ghost as monsters without thinking about how messed up the person who got ghosted may have been treating that person. YOU DO NOT OWE AN ABUSER A RESPONSE. YOU DO NOT OWE AN ABUSER AN EXPLANATION. YOU DONT OWE THEM YOUR GUILT FOR THEIR LACK OF CLOSURE.
You do owe it to yourself to create the best life you can. If that means that someones feelings get hurt along the way because they were part of the problem and needed to be dropped, then so be it.
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Animetsy
Ghosting doesn't mean when that person ignores you once or only few times. to know who is ghosting exactly see the social media chats having repeating pattern of not replying and just seeing the message. if this pattern occurs more than 20 times then it's ghosting. this always worked for me and blocked these ppl out of my life. oh you can also check the same pattern for the call. And for face to face talks, observe that person how he/she is with others and compare it with yourself. if that person as mentioned in video gives only brief responses and this keeps on repeating where they are so talkative with many people. but less talkative only with you then 100% consider this as ghosting.
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Ghosting doesn't mean when that person ignores you once or only few times. to know who is ghosting exactly see the social media chats having repeating pattern of not replying and just seeing the message. if this pattern occurs more than 20 times then it's ghosting. this always worked for me and blocked these ppl out of my life. oh you can also check the same pattern for the call. And for face to face talks, observe that person how he/she is with others and compare it with yourself. if that person as mentioned in video gives only brief responses and this keeps on repeating where they are so talkative with many people. but less talkative only with you then 100% consider this as ghosting.
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Jazzy
But why is ghosting even such a negative concept? Ah. Because of technology. Why are we tying our energy to people who dont respond to us over phone or text?
Back then people got ghosted more in real life and they probably just moved on. They may have been hurt but we have to realize No one is OBLIGATED to speak to you, continue a relationship with you, or even tell you WHY they stopped talking to you.
Life and the universe is just straight up telling us: They aint for you fam Youll get someone else that belongs in your life and give you the things you need.
I think all of us should begin lowering our expectations of humans. Well be happier for it.
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But why is ghosting even such a negative concept? Ah. Because of technology. Why are we tying our energy to people who dont respond to us over phone or text?
Back then people got ghosted more in real life and they probably just moved on. They may have been hurt but we have to realize No one is OBLIGATED to speak to you, continue a relationship with you, or even tell you WHY they stopped talking to you.
Life and the universe is just straight up telling us: They aint for you fam Youll get someone else that belongs in your life and give you the things you need.
I think all of us should begin lowering our expectations of humans. Well be happier for it.
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Khansa
Solution to all this is: stop giving people in your life importance and treat everyone the same as you would with anyone you meet. You will receive minimal pain when they leave you because they weren't that important to begin with. Give all the love and healthy importance to yourself instead. work on your growth and improvement. Volunteer in hospitals, care homes, food banks, farms and give back to the community as a whole! live a meaningful life by reading more and reflecting on the beauties of life. Leave people where they belong and keep moving ahead! heal the inner child in you and resolve any trauma bonds that are within
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Solution to all this is: stop giving people in your life importance and treat everyone the same as you would with anyone you meet. You will receive minimal pain when they leave you because they weren't that important to begin with. Give all the love and healthy importance to yourself instead. work on your growth and improvement. Volunteer in hospitals, care homes, food banks, farms and give back to the community as a whole! live a meaningful life by reading more and reflecting on the beauties of life. Leave people where they belong and keep moving ahead! heal the inner child in you and resolve any trauma bonds that are within
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Zelrius
Im pretty sure Im depressed (I havent went to doctor to get diagnosed but Im lazy to) and I have other stuff going on, and I tend to have strong urge to ghost people. I also have a boyfriend and it sucks so bad because hes also going through stuff but rn I feel like I want to ghost ppl bc of me just literally being so depressed and I feel like I dont want to have to do anything with anybody or anything around me. Just kinda like I want to be in my room and thats it. No contact. And I cant help it. It sucks to get ghosted yea but now that Im in that situation I can see why people want to ghost.
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Im pretty sure Im depressed (I havent went to doctor to get diagnosed but Im lazy to) and I have other stuff going on, and I tend to have strong urge to ghost people. I also have a boyfriend and it sucks so bad because hes also going through stuff but rn I feel like I want to ghost ppl bc of me just literally being so depressed and I feel like I dont want to have to do anything with anybody or anything around me. Just kinda like I want to be in my room and thats it. No contact. And I cant help it. It sucks to get ghosted yea but now that Im in that situation I can see why people want to ghost.
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Maxine
Sorry, this is a RANT! My best friend of nearly 10 years has stopped contacting me out of nowhere. The last time she contacted me was because something scary happened to her and she needed to talk to someone about it. She told me I'm her best friend and that I'm always there for her, and I texted her about 4 months ago and she has never responded. I think she is invested in her life away from me and doesn't care about our relationship, unless she needs someone to comfort her.
No one deserves to be ghosted. It is selfish and disrespectful (unless there is a really good reason.
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Sorry, this is a RANT! My best friend of nearly 10 years has stopped contacting me out of nowhere. The last time she contacted me was because something scary happened to her and she needed to talk to someone about it. She told me I'm her best friend and that I'm always there for her, and I texted her about 4 months ago and she has never responded. I think she is invested in her life away from me and doesn't care about our relationship, unless she needs someone to comfort her.
No one deserves to be ghosted. It is selfish and disrespectful (unless there is a really good reason.
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Desiree
soo i just want to vent about this guy ive known less than a month even.
- at first things were rushed because i wanted to ensure a sense of emotion connection(stability)
- we made out, i he introduced me to his parents, brothers, grandmother, and i was invited to his house to hang out
- its been two days since ive heard from him & his last text was an emoji spam
and im trying not to feen but im not sure if he just needs a break from me or if i shouldn't care
- we just happened to have had been texting every day i think i want reassurance
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soo i just want to vent about this guy ive known less than a month even.
- at first things were rushed because i wanted to ensure a sense of emotion connection(stability)
- we made out, i he introduced me to his parents, brothers, grandmother, and i was invited to his house to hang out
- its been two days since ive heard from him & his last text was an emoji spam
and im trying not to feen but im not sure if he just needs a break from me or if i shouldn't care
- we just happened to have had been texting every day i think i want reassurance
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productive
I started isolating myself from my online friends, cause my life is pretty messed up right now (breakup, family issue etc, I need some alone time to fix stuffs, and I have this guilt of not giving enough, so I took a step back until I feel myself again.
It doesn't take much effort to ask and check up on the people who ghost you, and I'm sure if the person cares about the friendship as much as you do they would probably explain the reason.
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I started isolating myself from my online friends, cause my life is pretty messed up right now (breakup, family issue etc, I need some alone time to fix stuffs, and I have this guilt of not giving enough, so I took a step back until I feel myself again.
It doesn't take much effort to ask and check up on the people who ghost you, and I'm sure if the person cares about the friendship as much as you do they would probably explain the reason.
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Retired
Texting is NOT conversation and if people are really interested in you, they make a point of spending time with you and SPEAKING with you. If that's not possible, then phone conversation is the next best thing. Texting is ruining society in the sense that no one knows how to socialize and/or communicate. The fact that this video is so focused on texting is evidence of that decline. Texting is NOT for conversation. adult or not.
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Texting is NOT conversation and if people are really interested in you, they make a point of spending time with you and SPEAKING with you. If that's not possible, then phone conversation is the next best thing. Texting is ruining society in the sense that no one knows how to socialize and/or communicate. The fact that this video is so focused on texting is evidence of that decline. Texting is NOT for conversation. adult or not.
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Twinkle. toesies
This happened to me lately, a guy told me he had a crush on me, we constantly played and recently we hung out less. He texted me less and wouldnt respond to me even if I texted him 5 seconds after he texted me. He would leave me for hours and respond to me after and it repeats nonstop. It really sucks. I feel like he should just get to the point and stuff like that, ghosting someone is just the shitiest thing to do
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This happened to me lately, a guy told me he had a crush on me, we constantly played and recently we hung out less. He texted me less and wouldnt respond to me even if I texted him 5 seconds after he texted me. He would leave me for hours and respond to me after and it repeats nonstop. It really sucks. I feel like he should just get to the point and stuff like that, ghosting someone is just the shitiest thing to do
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education
Please young and not so young please learn about narcissism. Little Shamon, Quin Hollidat, Les Carter and R. C. Blake's are a few of the best that can give you insight into a very troubled friendship or romantic relationship. Not really relationship but what is actually only an INTERACTON. BEWARE. LEARN. We all have certain narcissistic traits but those that are extreme and are constant is something to be aware of.
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Please young and not so young please learn about narcissism. Little Shamon, Quin Hollidat, Les Carter and R. C. Blake's are a few of the best that can give you insight into a very troubled friendship or romantic relationship. Not really relationship but what is actually only an INTERACTON. BEWARE. LEARN. We all have certain narcissistic traits but those that are extreme and are constant is something to be aware of.
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Mugs
During college I met a friend, tbh I never liked her that much but she kinda forced the friendship, then one day she sent a message and said Im very ill, I said whats wrong bad tha was the last contact, I asked others they said she is fine and dandy, I really dont give a shit but if youre not interested in friendship why be fake and disappear I really dont get their logic
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During college I met a friend, tbh I never liked her that much but she kinda forced the friendship, then one day she sent a message and said Im very ill, I said whats wrong bad tha was the last contact, I asked others they said she is fine and dandy, I really dont give a shit but if youre not interested in friendship why be fake and disappear I really dont get their logic
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Isabella
i was recently ghosted by 3 month ex. he said he just wanted to be friends. he said that he was busy all the time with work when we used to catch up during the day cause he works at night. and he used to leave me on read. so i felt like something was wrong and i asked him and he said lets just be friends but hes still ghosting me. its such a cruel thing to do!
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i was recently ghosted by 3 month ex. he said he just wanted to be friends. he said that he was busy all the time with work when we used to catch up during the day cause he works at night. and he used to leave me on read. so i felt like something was wrong and i asked him and he said lets just be friends but hes still ghosting me. its such a cruel thing to do!
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Sally
Thanks I'm getting the sign with this one word cold reply poor grammar n texting style stuffs, the person even acted as third party replying to me and now after many pondering, played in the hot n cold and heartaches, I finally just deleted the no. and done. Ghost before getting ghosted. This video came at very right time.
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Thanks I'm getting the sign with this one word cold reply poor grammar n texting style stuffs, the person even acted as third party replying to me and now after many pondering, played in the hot n cold and heartaches, I finally just deleted the no. and done. Ghost before getting ghosted. This video came at very right time.
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Mike
Just don't waste your time and energy on people who don't invest equally. Move on with your life.
If people dumped you, it means you're no longer of value for them. It doesn't mean you're bad, it's just the roads of live have split, and nothing unites you.
There are no lasting friends, only lasting mutual interests
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Just don't waste your time and energy on people who don't invest equally. Move on with your life.
If people dumped you, it means you're no longer of value for them. It doesn't mean you're bad, it's just the roads of live have split, and nothing unites you.
There are no lasting friends, only lasting mutual interests
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Adam
Poor grammar and spelling? I'm profoundly dyslexic and will make lots of spelling errors. Additionally, thanks to autocorrect, I will sometimes substitute one word for another. This can be hilarious. If you introduce me to new words, this is likely to happen. Don't make spelling issues, an issue as it were.
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Poor grammar and spelling? I'm profoundly dyslexic and will make lots of spelling errors. Additionally, thanks to autocorrect, I will sometimes substitute one word for another. This can be hilarious. If you introduce me to new words, this is likely to happen. Don't make spelling issues, an issue as it were.
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PsychologyWizard
1) Their texts are brief
2)Just emoji responses
3)You always reach out
4)Poor grammar and spelling
5)They're always busy and cancel plans
6)Something doesn't feel right
7)You haven't been on an actual date
8)Aren't introducing you to friends/family
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1) Their texts are brief
2)Just emoji responses
3)You always reach out
4)Poor grammar and spelling
5)They're always busy and cancel plans
6)Something doesn't feel right
7)You haven't been on an actual date
8)Aren't introducing you to friends/family
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Pinki333x
I kept being told you were too nice of a girl. I didnt want to hurt you.
Well now Im emotionally unavailable and dont wanna open up cause when I do Im met with ghosting and that damn phrase again. you were too nice of a girl. I didnt want to hurt you.
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I kept being told you were too nice of a girl. I didnt want to hurt you.
Well now Im emotionally unavailable and dont wanna open up cause when I do Im met with ghosting and that damn phrase again. you were too nice of a girl. I didnt want to hurt you.
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Chirstal
feeling so sad that I have been dating this guy who is in my sch knowing for 3 years and he has been ghosting me is this a sign of a break up? I dont really understand? can someone explain this to me? or he is not even my real friend anymore? ;-;
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feeling so sad that I have been dating this guy who is in my sch knowing for 3 years and he has been ghosting me is this a sign of a break up? I dont really understand? can someone explain this to me? or he is not even my real friend anymore? ;-;
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Nicoletta
Some people are just so draining and negative, or pushy and annoying. I think it is worst if I say the truth than ghosting or saying always that Im busy hoping they take the hint. There is nothing personal, sometimes just not a good match
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Some people are just so draining and negative, or pushy and annoying. I think it is worst if I say the truth than ghosting or saying always that Im busy hoping they take the hint. There is nothing personal, sometimes just not a good match
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Nojus
I been ghosted so many times by almost every girl i meet. So much that i just stoped dating and texting girls because im just tired of it. And i hate crying myself to sleep because of it.
But i hope it will be okay. I will just move on
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I been ghosted so many times by almost every girl i meet. So much that i just stoped dating and texting girls because im just tired of it. And i hate crying myself to sleep because of it.
But i hope it will be okay. I will just move on
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