8 Toxic Behaviors That Kill Relationships
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Date: 2023-08-20
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I know this video was posted a while ago, but if you could help me that'd be great.
I'm currently in my first relationship and we're about a month and a half in. This guy, let's call him Dylan, and I started off as friends then became more. During this time he had been telling to to take a few steps back from his friend, let's call him Jim. Just to be clear, I have no feelings for Jim and we really just talk here and there, but Dylan thinks that Jim is flirting with me because according to him, Jim laughs more around me. Dylan tells me that he is right because he's known Jim for over three years while I met him just recently. Dylan has been jealous of Jim for a while and it keeps popping up as a constant problem. A little bit ago they had a talk and from what I've heard Dylan yelled at Jim about backing off and said a lot of curses. He brought up small details about the little interactions I've had with Jim to support his case on how Jim is flirting with me. I'm not sure what to do or if this relationship is turning toxic. My friends have been telling me that the relationship is a bit toxic, but I can't tell if it is or not because this is my first one. Dylan typically hangs out with a lot more girls than I do guys, but I've never said anything about it. Am I in the wrong here? Can anyone give me some advice on what to do?
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I know this video was posted a while ago, but if you could help me that'd be great.
I'm currently in my first relationship and we're about a month and a half in. This guy, let's call him Dylan, and I started off as friends then became more. During this time he had been telling to to take a few steps back from his friend, let's call him Jim. Just to be clear, I have no feelings for Jim and we really just talk here and there, but Dylan thinks that Jim is flirting with me because according to him, Jim laughs more around me. Dylan tells me that he is right because he's known Jim for over three years while I met him just recently. Dylan has been jealous of Jim for a while and it keeps popping up as a constant problem. A little bit ago they had a talk and from what I've heard Dylan yelled at Jim about backing off and said a lot of curses. He brought up small details about the little interactions I've had with Jim to support his case on how Jim is flirting with me. I'm not sure what to do or if this relationship is turning toxic. My friends have been telling me that the relationship is a bit toxic, but I can't tell if it is or not because this is my first one. Dylan typically hangs out with a lot more girls than I do guys, but I've never said anything about it. Am I in the wrong here? Can anyone give me some advice on what to do?
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TGAnimeGirl3461
I honestly feel like me and my ex-partner were both toxic to each other in a few ways. My partner holds onto grudges longer than anyone I know, and his domineering and intimidating personality always kept me in a state of intense stress and anxiety. In my case, I promised to be loyal to my ex-partner when we got back together after a short breakup and then ended up breaking up with him again a few days later because I didn't feel comfortable, safe, or happy in said relationship. I also lied to my ex-partner about my love for him due to my fear of him wanting to hurt me if things went south between us. In the end, I ended up cursing him out through text and blocking his number. I wish I could just move on from this whole thing and work on bettering myself, but my ex-partner and I are both part of a bigger friend group, which means that I can't truly escape from him without potentially losing my other friends. I've been scared and severely anxious for the past few days, and I'm just hoping that I can find a way to get through this. Anyways, thank you so much for making this video, Psych2Go. It really helped me figure out where I went wrong.
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I honestly feel like me and my ex-partner were both toxic to each other in a few ways. My partner holds onto grudges longer than anyone I know, and his domineering and intimidating personality always kept me in a state of intense stress and anxiety. In my case, I promised to be loyal to my ex-partner when we got back together after a short breakup and then ended up breaking up with him again a few days later because I didn't feel comfortable, safe, or happy in said relationship. I also lied to my ex-partner about my love for him due to my fear of him wanting to hurt me if things went south between us. In the end, I ended up cursing him out through text and blocking his number. I wish I could just move on from this whole thing and work on bettering myself, but my ex-partner and I are both part of a bigger friend group, which means that I can't truly escape from him without potentially losing my other friends. I've been scared and severely anxious for the past few days, and I'm just hoping that I can find a way to get through this. Anyways, thank you so much for making this video, Psych2Go. It really helped me figure out where I went wrong.
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Cornelia
I love my partner and we have always said we want to have a future together, we have fun and he is amazing when we spend time together however every time I go back to school (we have a distance relationship and we only meet on the weekends) he becomes distant and rarely answer me or read my messages even when I really need him, he only calls late at night. Right now he is in between work so he have a lot of free time I would still want a daily update however it feels like he just ignores all my question and when I want to talk about something he doesn't give input and it feels like he isn't listening. I know he wouldn't cheat on me but I'm still insecure that he doesn't love me because if he did then I feel like he would want to talk to me more often. I have really tried talking to him about how I feel lonely when our communication is off but he really isn't responding to it and I feel like he prioritize everything but me. I don't know what to do I really want our relationship to work. Anyone having any ideas?
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I love my partner and we have always said we want to have a future together, we have fun and he is amazing when we spend time together however every time I go back to school (we have a distance relationship and we only meet on the weekends) he becomes distant and rarely answer me or read my messages even when I really need him, he only calls late at night. Right now he is in between work so he have a lot of free time I would still want a daily update however it feels like he just ignores all my question and when I want to talk about something he doesn't give input and it feels like he isn't listening. I know he wouldn't cheat on me but I'm still insecure that he doesn't love me because if he did then I feel like he would want to talk to me more often. I have really tried talking to him about how I feel lonely when our communication is off but he really isn't responding to it and I feel like he prioritize everything but me. I don't know what to do I really want our relationship to work. Anyone having any ideas?
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Sunil
I was doubted my partener when she is talking with her classmate, i dont like that bcos she was so true to me, and i made a condition to her like she must not be close with onother guy, but she takes abut her classmate boy everytime and she got attached with him. that think i cant really able to accept that so said plz stop dont talk with him or we will break up after saying this i dono nothing, what to do next but she was crying after i said like this and its make me so bad bcos she wants to be nice with evrey everyone ne in her class, and she have no frnds in clg, she always say i was alone at clg and it makes me sad, it is happen becos of my possessive and jealous and she decide to not talk with anyother guy in her clg, but she was feeling abt the guy whom she wanted to be her frnd.
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I was doubted my partener when she is talking with her classmate, i dont like that bcos she was so true to me, and i made a condition to her like she must not be close with onother guy, but she takes abut her classmate boy everytime and she got attached with him. that think i cant really able to accept that so said plz stop dont talk with him or we will break up after saying this i dono nothing, what to do next but she was crying after i said like this and its make me so bad bcos she wants to be nice with evrey everyone ne in her class, and she have no frnds in clg, she always say i was alone at clg and it makes me sad, it is happen becos of my possessive and jealous and she decide to not talk with anyother guy in her clg, but she was feeling abt the guy whom she wanted to be her frnd.
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TotallyNotJay
So I made a metaphor about Toxic Relationships.
And here is the Toxic Waste Foundry. Don't fall into the pool of Toxic waste or you will melt, and don't stand around it, or you will get cancer and die on a hospital bed.
The metaphor is that You don't want to be in a Toxic Relationship or your mental state will melt. and You do not want to be near toxic people because they can shape how you think.
Probably not good, but uhh. What do I know, Im just some guy who draws monsters at 3AM and screams like a banshee while playing Roblox.
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So I made a metaphor about Toxic Relationships.
And here is the Toxic Waste Foundry. Don't fall into the pool of Toxic waste or you will melt, and don't stand around it, or you will get cancer and die on a hospital bed.
The metaphor is that You don't want to be in a Toxic Relationship or your mental state will melt. and You do not want to be near toxic people because they can shape how you think.
Probably not good, but uhh. What do I know, Im just some guy who draws monsters at 3AM and screams like a banshee while playing Roblox.
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JuniorsVlogs
im single. i wanted to take a break so we can both work on outselves. but i am toxic. and i didnt know that. so my own toxicity and opinions got in the way of us being together. i felt like things werent meant to be or werent go well for us. but i was just jealous, didnt communicate well, and my partner didnt really communicate well either, i had a lack of support, my insecurities and control u
issues got in the way of eachother, and i would gaslight when i felt wrong.
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im single. i wanted to take a break so we can both work on outselves. but i am toxic. and i didnt know that. so my own toxicity and opinions got in the way of us being together. i felt like things werent meant to be or werent go well for us. but i was just jealous, didnt communicate well, and my partner didnt really communicate well either, i had a lack of support, my insecurities and control u
issues got in the way of eachother, and i would gaslight when i felt wrong.
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Conrad
In my last relationship, common mental health issues caused me to feel unhappy, and my subconsciousness decided to start erasing feelings. I did address this problem with her multiple times, but she never did anything about it. Since i have a history with mental health, i understood why. I kept trying to motivate her but alas, i failed to do so. After 10 months of waiting i received depression and decided to call it and break up. I hope she takes care of herself for i can't
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In my last relationship, common mental health issues caused me to feel unhappy, and my subconsciousness decided to start erasing feelings. I did address this problem with her multiple times, but she never did anything about it. Since i have a history with mental health, i understood why. I kept trying to motivate her but alas, i failed to do so. After 10 months of waiting i received depression and decided to call it and break up. I hope she takes care of herself for i can't
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Cherry's
My ex definitely did some of these. Plot twist my ex broke up with me. Kinda glad, I was going crazy trying to keep that relationship afloat. Realized it was a bad relationship when I felt I always had to compete for his love. Mfw he literally told me at one point that he felt I wasn't competing enough for his love -. -
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My ex definitely did some of these. Plot twist my ex broke up with me. Kinda glad, I was going crazy trying to keep that relationship afloat. Realized it was a bad relationship when I felt I always had to compete for his love. Mfw he literally told me at one point that he felt I wasn't competing enough for his love -. -
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Jay
Im watching this after being cheated on and honestly I truly didnt see how toxic he was because I was so in love with him I didnt realize that some of the stuff he did was so completely wrong and I had no one to talk to because I was so in denial he did it. I still have to give all his stuff back but it all hurts
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Im watching this after being cheated on and honestly I truly didnt see how toxic he was because I was so in love with him I didnt realize that some of the stuff he did was so completely wrong and I had no one to talk to because I was so in denial he did it. I still have to give all his stuff back but it all hurts
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Adam
That's so funny even if I try to communicate or even try to talk to my partner I get yelled at b that put down or they just don't want to hear it for it will ruin their day just open up how I feel or anyting I will mess up your day somehow that does all I want is communication and communication
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That's so funny even if I try to communicate or even try to talk to my partner I get yelled at b that put down or they just don't want to hear it for it will ruin their day just open up how I feel or anyting I will mess up your day somehow that does all I want is communication and communication
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JoAnna
Both of us turned toxic. He was jealous and held grudges, i was dishonest, then he was dishonest, and any communication from then on was blame and shame and stonewalling. It sucks because i love him so much even though he trained me to feel bad about myself for every little thing.
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Both of us turned toxic. He was jealous and held grudges, i was dishonest, then he was dishonest, and any communication from then on was blame and shame and stonewalling. It sucks because i love him so much even though he trained me to feel bad about myself for every little thing.
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Bloody
Me and my girl have been dating for a while now but now if I do something wrong or say something I didn't mean. She takes her hand and squeezes my side and I have a week body so it hurts really bad and I don't know what to do now. I ask her to stop please but she doesn't
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Me and my girl have been dating for a while now but now if I do something wrong or say something I didn't mean. She takes her hand and squeezes my side and I have a week body so it hurts really bad and I don't know what to do now. I ask her to stop please but she doesn't
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How
This is weird to tell but. in fourth grade (not to long ago) I had a girlfriend. She would separate me and my friend from first grade because he was a bad influence I thought that was normal. Like I know me and him cause trouble but your not my mom like bruh.
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This is weird to tell but. in fourth grade (not to long ago) I had a girlfriend. She would separate me and my friend from first grade because he was a bad influence I thought that was normal. Like I know me and him cause trouble but your not my mom like bruh.
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K. J.
Awnser to the last two questions of the video: All of the abouve. And: I tried but my partner can't talk normaly with me about anything concerning feelings. He either gets angry or plays the victim. We cannot just sit down and have a serious conversation.
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Awnser to the last two questions of the video: All of the abouve. And: I tried but my partner can't talk normaly with me about anything concerning feelings. He either gets angry or plays the victim. We cannot just sit down and have a serious conversation.
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Aaila
i just broke up with my first true love and, it was cause i'm toxic and manipulative without knowing it. so now im trying to make myself a better person.
i feel absolutely terrible about how my actions hurt my loved one. If i could heal him i would.
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i just broke up with my first true love and, it was cause i'm toxic and manipulative without knowing it. so now im trying to make myself a better person.
i feel absolutely terrible about how my actions hurt my loved one. If i could heal him i would.
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Amanda
What if you don't have a support system? My family is not my safe people at all and friends have never been truly supportive or dependable. On my own and have been for awhile. Rather be alone than surrounded by people who want to see you fall.
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What if you don't have a support system? My family is not my safe people at all and friends have never been truly supportive or dependable. On my own and have been for awhile. Rather be alone than surrounded by people who want to see you fall.
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Bianca
What about when they tell you to stop talking to an ex, block them? Even though youve been friends with benefits only, (the ex) and it was mutual ending it? Yet still being friends and were friends before becoming FWB?
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What about when they tell you to stop talking to an ex, block them? Even though youve been friends with benefits only, (the ex) and it was mutual ending it? Yet still being friends and were friends before becoming FWB?
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Gennaro
I agree. and that s why. gasloghting me so much and not just that. some people are not willing to learn it s too easy to proyect and blame others instead of taking their own responsibilities and lack of support
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I agree. and that s why. gasloghting me so much and not just that. some people are not willing to learn it s too easy to proyect and blame others instead of taking their own responsibilities and lack of support
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Elijah
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Elijah
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Elijah
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Tim
I have a question, when my girlfriend looks at herself in the mirror and says something among the lines of: ew, im ugly etc. and I say stop saying that you're not. Is that considered as toxicity?
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I have a question, when my girlfriend looks at herself in the mirror and says something among the lines of: ew, im ugly etc. and I say stop saying that you're not. Is that considered as toxicity?
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Zayn_Takashi
My friend says toxic to me and then she broke the promise that I promise to her that to do it but I guess she didn't keep the promise.
Who else has friends like mine?
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My friend says toxic to me and then she broke the promise that I promise to her that to do it but I guess she didn't keep the promise.
Who else has friends like mine?
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Latoya
i was heart broken not until i was recommended to Dr Danja The Spell Caster who helped me restore my relationship i can't still believe it that we are now together again.
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i was heart broken not until i was recommended to Dr Danja The Spell Caster who helped me restore my relationship i can't still believe it that we are now together again.
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Latoya
i was heart broken not until i was recommended to Dr Danja The Spell Caster who helped me restore my relationship i can't still believe it that we are now together again.
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i was heart broken not until i was recommended to Dr Danja The Spell Caster who helped me restore my relationship i can't still believe it that we are now together again.
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