7 Signs Someone is Secretly In Love With You
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Date: 2023-08-20
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vir
i told my crush's cousin i wanted to ask her out because she was curious and her cousin told my crush. later that day she said she just wanted to be friends. now it's awkward and it doesn't even seem like she wants to be my friend because she leaves me on read most of the time, barely talks to me when we see each other in person, and always talks about things with our friend that i don't understand because they're jokes they have with each other since they've known each other for a long time.
now she's inviting another guy to the group who she's complimented a lot and constantly talking about. we were trying to set up our friend with him because she's liked him, but it feels more like a replacement and she might like him too. on top of that, she said she wanted to work on herself when she said she just wanted to be friends and this was only a few weeks ago. i think it takes a lot longer to effectively work on yourself.
all i'm saying here is that i feel trapped and i don't know what to do. if i leave, i'm the bad guy, but if i stay i'm just going to keep getting hurt. i doubt many people are going to read all of this, but if anyone does, do you have any advice for how i can stop worrying and either leave the group without seeming like a bad person, or stay and not think about anything that goes on?
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i told my crush's cousin i wanted to ask her out because she was curious and her cousin told my crush. later that day she said she just wanted to be friends. now it's awkward and it doesn't even seem like she wants to be my friend because she leaves me on read most of the time, barely talks to me when we see each other in person, and always talks about things with our friend that i don't understand because they're jokes they have with each other since they've known each other for a long time.
now she's inviting another guy to the group who she's complimented a lot and constantly talking about. we were trying to set up our friend with him because she's liked him, but it feels more like a replacement and she might like him too. on top of that, she said she wanted to work on herself when she said she just wanted to be friends and this was only a few weeks ago. i think it takes a lot longer to effectively work on yourself.
all i'm saying here is that i feel trapped and i don't know what to do. if i leave, i'm the bad guy, but if i stay i'm just going to keep getting hurt. i doubt many people are going to read all of this, but if anyone does, do you have any advice for how i can stop worrying and either leave the group without seeming like a bad person, or stay and not think about anything that goes on?
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Brigette
I had my crush come over my house and he played a video game while I watched. The nice thing was, he was super close me, like literally our knees were touching for a little while and he was like leaning to the side closer to me. He had his knees folded together leaning towards me and I was in a similar position. I dont think he couldve been closer with it being considered full on cuddling. I love him so much, and I dont mean because hes cute. I truly love him for him. The scary part is I dont know if he feels the same way as me. I dont know if he like likes me. like if he has a crush on me too. He obviously likes me as a, carbon based life form as he puts it lol, but I dont know if likes me as anything else.
Either way, we were like that for a long time and Im so happy he got close and comfortable with me.
I really want to go back again, I want to be near him, I want to touch him again. that sounds creepy lol
I really want to hold his hand or give him hug or kinda cuddle up next to him. even if we just sat the same way again. Sad thing is he doesnt do this stuff around other people.
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I had my crush come over my house and he played a video game while I watched. The nice thing was, he was super close me, like literally our knees were touching for a little while and he was like leaning to the side closer to me. He had his knees folded together leaning towards me and I was in a similar position. I dont think he couldve been closer with it being considered full on cuddling. I love him so much, and I dont mean because hes cute. I truly love him for him. The scary part is I dont know if he feels the same way as me. I dont know if he like likes me. like if he has a crush on me too. He obviously likes me as a, carbon based life form as he puts it lol, but I dont know if likes me as anything else.
Either way, we were like that for a long time and Im so happy he got close and comfortable with me.
I really want to go back again, I want to be near him, I want to touch him again. that sounds creepy lol
I really want to hold his hand or give him hug or kinda cuddle up next to him. even if we just sat the same way again. Sad thing is he doesnt do this stuff around other people.
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DuckyBoi
Hello fellow psych2goers, I have a question about a possible sign if it is. I have a crush that is also a friend, I'm wandering if she likes me as well, but the possible sigm is: at the movies with family on both sides she asks to sit between my sister and I, the thing I'm wandering about is she put her cup in the left cup holder (the side I was sitting in) after asking if it ok, THEN she (instead of picking up her drink as normal) bends over and takes a sip of her drink while keeping the drink in the holder. That is what I'm wandering about. My sister said that it was nothing so don't think about it because she bends down to drink like that even in restaurants, but I just can't get it out of my head. That was in April 4th 2022. More recently however, I finally asked her if she would like to play a game with me and without hesitation said sure but I mostly play Minecraft, and also agreed on the day if she and her family has nothing planned.
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Hello fellow psych2goers, I have a question about a possible sign if it is. I have a crush that is also a friend, I'm wandering if she likes me as well, but the possible sigm is: at the movies with family on both sides she asks to sit between my sister and I, the thing I'm wandering about is she put her cup in the left cup holder (the side I was sitting in) after asking if it ok, THEN she (instead of picking up her drink as normal) bends over and takes a sip of her drink while keeping the drink in the holder. That is what I'm wandering about. My sister said that it was nothing so don't think about it because she bends down to drink like that even in restaurants, but I just can't get it out of my head. That was in April 4th 2022. More recently however, I finally asked her if she would like to play a game with me and without hesitation said sure but I mostly play Minecraft, and also agreed on the day if she and her family has nothing planned.
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Valkyrie3420
Running into them (Idk, they know where I generally go to during lunch so they can find me there)
Defending (I never got into arguments with anyone around my crush so they have never had to do that-)
Fascinated (I'm very unsure, ngl)
Physically affectionate (The amount of head pats and the hugs I've gotten, I cannot count)
Attentive (Yes)
Remembering little things (Omg they somehow remembered I had a bird and that his name is Sky and I don't bring my bird up a lot)
Reaching out (I mean they called me during lunch if they wanted me to sit with them with people we both didn't know, and last week)
Funny thing is that both my cousin's friend and I like the same person, and my cousin knew my crush from middle school (they are a grade apart; I'm older than my cousin.
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Running into them (Idk, they know where I generally go to during lunch so they can find me there)
Defending (I never got into arguments with anyone around my crush so they have never had to do that-)
Fascinated (I'm very unsure, ngl)
Physically affectionate (The amount of head pats and the hugs I've gotten, I cannot count)
Attentive (Yes)
Remembering little things (Omg they somehow remembered I had a bird and that his name is Sky and I don't bring my bird up a lot)
Reaching out (I mean they called me during lunch if they wanted me to sit with them with people we both didn't know, and last week)
Funny thing is that both my cousin's friend and I like the same person, and my cousin knew my crush from middle school (they are a grade apart; I'm older than my cousin.
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MaudeKalinin
I feel exposed. Last year I noticed a guy on the train. He wore a long black coat, long blonde hair and a melancholic look. I knew he was a metal head. Months passed and like 3 weeks ago I ran into him at school and I said, excuse me, I'v e wanted to tell you for a long time that you have a really beautiful face. He smiled and said you too. Ever since he trys to make eye contact and smiles at me, but thats it, I honestly think hes to shy to talk to me. He has such a beautiful and extraordinary face, I love it. Sad eyes, but when he smiles, they shine. anyway. I noticed that he wears slipknot shoes and I am impressed. I was right about him being a metal head, we have the same taste in music.
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I feel exposed. Last year I noticed a guy on the train. He wore a long black coat, long blonde hair and a melancholic look. I knew he was a metal head. Months passed and like 3 weeks ago I ran into him at school and I said, excuse me, I'v e wanted to tell you for a long time that you have a really beautiful face. He smiled and said you too. Ever since he trys to make eye contact and smiles at me, but thats it, I honestly think hes to shy to talk to me. He has such a beautiful and extraordinary face, I love it. Sad eyes, but when he smiles, they shine. anyway. I noticed that he wears slipknot shoes and I am impressed. I was right about him being a metal head, we have the same taste in music.
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HP
If I have a crush on someone, I would not stalk and I would not physically touch my crush without their consent. The 2 things you listed cannot be classified as secretly in love. If you are going to list things that is secretly loving someone, it has to sound like a secret. Not expose. For example, stalking. I don't think a it is wise to stalk because it leads to being creepy. As for physical part, why getting all touchy. If I want to hide my feelings, I would not act too entitled in the 1st place.
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If I have a crush on someone, I would not stalk and I would not physically touch my crush without their consent. The 2 things you listed cannot be classified as secretly in love. If you are going to list things that is secretly loving someone, it has to sound like a secret. Not expose. For example, stalking. I don't think a it is wise to stalk because it leads to being creepy. As for physical part, why getting all touchy. If I want to hide my feelings, I would not act too entitled in the 1st place.
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Maeumi
Signs he's giving me:
- strong mutual eye contact
- smiles around me a lot
- whenever we switch classrooms, he always sits on my seat
- I often see him anywhere around in school
- idk there's times i notice he's admiring) me, not being too assuming, but he's done it too many times
- he also remembers little things I told him months ago
all these signs are giving me butterflies but the thing is he's already in a relationship (_)
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Signs he's giving me:
- strong mutual eye contact
- smiles around me a lot
- whenever we switch classrooms, he always sits on my seat
- I often see him anywhere around in school
- idk there's times i notice he's admiring) me, not being too assuming, but he's done it too many times
- he also remembers little things I told him months ago
all these signs are giving me butterflies but the thing is he's already in a relationship (_)
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Selma
Hes been playing with my hair, hes been sitting on my lap in the bus, hes been lying in my arms, he held my arms one time, he laughs with me more than with other people, we have plenty of inside jokes and he wanted us to sing together on karaoke in School ( which we did ) etc etc. but according to some people he have talked to he doesnt have feelings for me? I cant piece this togetherPlease help me!
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Hes been playing with my hair, hes been sitting on my lap in the bus, hes been lying in my arms, he held my arms one time, he laughs with me more than with other people, we have plenty of inside jokes and he wanted us to sing together on karaoke in School ( which we did ) etc etc. but according to some people he have talked to he doesnt have feelings for me? I cant piece this togetherPlease help me!
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Min
well this video actually made me realize that no one actually loves or like me. No one have ever done a single thing for me through the list. It is hurtful. These days i have realized that I might have showed people that i adore them but none of any have appreciate anything i have don't for them. It hurts. I guess I am not that lovable as I thought I was?
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well this video actually made me realize that no one actually loves or like me. No one have ever done a single thing for me through the list. It is hurtful. These days i have realized that I might have showed people that i adore them but none of any have appreciate anything i have don't for them. It hurts. I guess I am not that lovable as I thought I was?
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Mei
Do people usually ask another person what is your biggest dream, when was the happiest moment of your life? (We are not very close friends and I dont usually ask such questions even to the closest friends)
Or are they normal questions for people to ask?
Because this girl gives me so much mixed signals I am confused so much
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Do people usually ask another person what is your biggest dream, when was the happiest moment of your life? (We are not very close friends and I dont usually ask such questions even to the closest friends)
Or are they normal questions for people to ask?
Because this girl gives me so much mixed signals I am confused so much
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Ibrahim
A girl in my school who cares for me and bumps into me all the time and her name is Melissa, she would sit near me and looks at me when I am writing thats weird because I don't feel the same way my crush is Sally she looks at me and acts weirdly when I am around I so all the signs
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A girl in my school who cares for me and bumps into me all the time and her name is Melissa, she would sit near me and looks at me when I am writing thats weird because I don't feel the same way my crush is Sally she looks at me and acts weirdly when I am around I so all the signs
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Dillon
i had a crush an im a opin person and i told and he said no and i hear him say to my freind i hate her she is ugly and my freind said ok i wont tell her u said that then i was crying all day! but you know what is weird he did some of the things you put in this vid! sooo what!
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i had a crush an im a opin person and i told and he said no and i hear him say to my freind i hate her she is ugly and my freind said ok i wont tell her u said that then i was crying all day! but you know what is weird he did some of the things you put in this vid! sooo what!
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Kk78
this is an alt account so if anyone that i know sees this comment they wouldnt now it was me but the most important memory that i had with the person that i love is when we played chess together for the first time
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this is an alt account so if anyone that i know sees this comment they wouldnt now it was me but the most important memory that i had with the person that i love is when we played chess together for the first time
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Mr. Bobbydog
What happen if someone directly say I love you directly because that has happened to me my crush said I love you and I was like in my mind we have just met for 2 weeks I didnt expect him to say it to me
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What happen if someone directly say I love you directly because that has happened to me my crush said I love you and I was like in my mind we have just met for 2 weeks I didnt expect him to say it to me
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Deepti
I was reminded by someone after watching this video. If God give me ONE LAST TIME, I'll go and shower him with hints that I love you. More than yesterday but less than tomorrow
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I was reminded by someone after watching this video. If God give me ONE LAST TIME, I'll go and shower him with hints that I love you. More than yesterday but less than tomorrow
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alik
What if you're not living in the same city/state
Is there a video about that? (A lot of this advice is about actually spending time with them on the daily)
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What if you're not living in the same city/state
Is there a video about that? (A lot of this advice is about actually spending time with them on the daily)
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Janitha
Actually, I am the one who does it. Cause my crush is shy, pervert type person. He even gets bullied by my own best friends. I would stop my friends.
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Actually, I am the one who does it. Cause my crush is shy, pervert type person. He even gets bullied by my own best friends. I would stop my friends.
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Serah
Nope, nobody is in love with me. And Im fine with that. Ive been hurt way too many times and I get that sinking feeling. I hope I never feel it again.
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Nope, nobody is in love with me. And Im fine with that. Ive been hurt way too many times and I get that sinking feeling. I hope I never feel it again.
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brainfart22
I already know that no one is in love with me, I'm here to see if I'm in love with one of my coworkers and just don't realize it. I might be
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I already know that no one is in love with me, I'm here to see if I'm in love with one of my coworkers and just don't realize it. I might be
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Laurlxnbunny
This is expectations cause my guy is as dense and oblivious as Ash Ketchum. Hes always like, Im confused, ;0; how can you be!
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This is expectations cause my guy is as dense and oblivious as Ash Ketchum. Hes always like, Im confused, ;0; how can you be!
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Rebecca
The one I always do is pettin hair but I did not notice this one is like romantic love however I am only be nice to them.
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The one I always do is pettin hair but I did not notice this one is like romantic love however I am only be nice to them.
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psych2go
Watching multiple times of this kind of contents, it always making me realize that no one was really inlove with me.
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Watching multiple times of this kind of contents, it always making me realize that no one was really inlove with me.
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Nim
Me, watching this while also texting my partner the most romantic shit and recieving the same in return: hmmm yes, I see.
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Me, watching this while also texting my partner the most romantic shit and recieving the same in return: hmmm yes, I see.
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Heather
I am not so sure. I don't hear from anyone these days. I feel bad now. I guy said hello and I barely answered him.
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I am not so sure. I don't hear from anyone these days. I feel bad now. I guy said hello and I barely answered him.
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lmlo
Right now i guess i feel something for my friend and i hope she dont understand anything. I watch this video for it.
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Right now i guess i feel something for my friend and i hope she dont understand anything. I watch this video for it.
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